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By *yorks4couples OP   Man
over a year ago

doncaster

As above get chatting and as soon as it comes to the crunch poof they’re gone. Any tips on spotting the dreamers earlier would be appreciated x

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville


"As above get chatting and as soon as it comes to the crunch poof they’re gone. Any tips on spotting the dreamers earlier would be appreciated x"

Hi OP, there are many threads about this. However, in a nutshell..

-Manage your expectations.

-Manage your profile.

-Manage your attitudes and opinions.

Good luck.

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"As above get chatting and as soon as it comes to the crunch poof they’re gone. Any tips on spotting the dreamers earlier would be appreciated x

Hi OP, there are many threads about this. However, in a nutshell..

-Manage your expectations.

-Manage your profile.

-Manage your attitudes and opinions.

Good luck. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Coming from the guy that started a thread two weeks ago saying people is up their own ass for not replying, unfortunately I’d say you digged yourself a big hole that you’re going to have to work hard to get out.

Manage your expectations and check your attitude, might be the case of people being put off and not wanting to continue chatting.

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"Coming from the guy that started a thread two weeks ago saying people is up their own ass for not replying, unfortunately I’d say you digged yourself a big hole that you’re going to have to work hard to get out.

Manage your expectations and check your attitude, might be the case of people being put off and not wanting to continue chatting.

"

The green arrow is a wonderful tool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Coming from the guy that started a thread two weeks ago saying people is up their own ass for not replying, unfortunately I’d say you digged yourself a big hole that you’re going to have to work hard to get out.

Manage your expectations and check your attitude, might be the case of people being put off and not wanting to continue chatting.

The green arrow is a wonderful tool "

Truly is, isn’t it?

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By *yorks4couples OP   Man
over a year ago

doncaster


"Coming from the guy that started a thread two weeks ago saying people is up their own ass for not replying, unfortunately I’d say you digged yourself a big hole that you’re going to have to work hard to get out.

Manage your expectations and check your attitude, might be the case of people being put off and not wanting to continue chatting.

Jesus more of s bitter cherry id say. Sorry if i offended you.

"

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford


"Coming from the guy that started a thread two weeks ago saying people is up their own ass for not replying, unfortunately I’d say you digged yourself a big hole that you’re going to have to work hard to get out.

Manage your expectations and check your attitude, might be the case of people being put off and not wanting to continue chatting.

Jesus more of s bitter cherry id say. Sorry if i offended you.

"

As charming as an outbreak of Ebola in an orphanage.

Why oh why are the women not flocking?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a lot of profiles are not looking to meet necessarily.. The trick is sorting the wheat from the chaff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No offence taken whatsoever from any of the posts, just telling you as it is, which doesn’t make me bitter, just honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

PS: me not sugarcoating things for you, doesn’t mean I’m not sweet, I’m not sweet towards you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Coming from the guy that started a thread two weeks ago saying people is up their own ass for not replying, unfortunately I’d say you digged yourself a big hole that you’re going to have to work hard to get out.

Manage your expectations and check your attitude, might be the case of people being put off and not wanting to continue chatting.

Jesus more of s bitter cherry id say. Sorry if i offended you.

As charming as an outbreak of Ebola in an orphanage.

Why oh why are the women not flocking?"

One will wonder

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By *mber and FireCouple
over a year ago

Carmarthenshire


"Coming from the guy that started a thread two weeks ago saying people is up their own ass for not replying, unfortunately I’d say you digged yourself a big hole that you’re going to have to work hard to get out.

Manage your expectations and check your attitude, might be the case of people being put off and not wanting to continue chatting.

Jesus more of s bitter cherry id say. Sorry if i offended you.

"

Yeah, that's why you aren't getting meets mate. With an attitude like that, good luck

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke


"PS: me not sugarcoating things for you, doesn’t mean I’m not sweet, I’m not sweet towards you. "

It was just as well I didn’t comment Cherry. And if you want advice OP the rough with the smooth is the phrase I would use. Good luck with your fab career

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"PS: me not sugarcoating things for you, doesn’t mean I’m not sweet, I’m not sweet towards you.

It was just as well I didn’t comment Cherry. And if you want advice OP the rough with the smooth is the phrase I would use. Good luck with your fab career "

As grandma used to say: don’t ask things you don’t want to know the answers of

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

The curse of the green arrow strikes again!

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke


"PS: me not sugarcoating things for you, doesn’t mean I’m not sweet, I’m not sweet towards you.

It was just as well I didn’t comment Cherry. And if you want advice OP the rough with the smooth is the phrase I would use. Good luck with your fab career

As grandma used to say: don’t ask things you don’t want to know the answers of "

My Nan used to say… you can’t polish a turd but you can roll it in glitter. Pretty much applies here too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"PS: me not sugarcoating things for you, doesn’t mean I’m not sweet, I’m not sweet towards you.

It was just as well I didn’t comment Cherry. And if you want advice OP the rough with the smooth is the phrase I would use. Good luck with your fab career

As grandma used to say: don’t ask things you don’t want to know the answers of

My Nan used to say… you can’t polish a turd but you can roll it in glitter. Pretty much applies here too "

Your Nan was a woman after my own heart

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're dealing with live people. And people are full of dreams. Let them have them.

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By *yorks4couples OP   Man
over a year ago

doncaster


"Coming from the guy that started a thread two weeks ago saying people is up their own ass for not replying, unfortunately I’d say you digged yourself a big hole that you’re going to have to work hard to get out.

Manage your expectations and check your attitude, might be the case of people being put off and not wanting to continue chatting.

Jesus more of s bitter cherry id say. Sorry if i offended you.

As charming as an outbreak of Ebola in an orphanage.

Why oh why are the women not flocking?"

They are to spray venom.?? where im from its ok to make a negative comment seeking a positive outcome/advice. Not insulted anyone as such just wanting positivity rather than salty comments. If you have took my post the wrong way maybe its your perception iv not been rude whatsoever.

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By *yorks4couples OP   Man
over a year ago

doncaster


"I think a lot of profiles are not looking to meet necessarily.. The trick is sorting the wheat from the chaff"

Thankyou x

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By *yorks4couples OP   Man
over a year ago

doncaster


"You're dealing with live people. And people are full of dreams. Let them have them. "

Slowly gathering that. If you fancy it why not go for it thats what i dont get?? X

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