FabSwingers.com forum: pleasing the woman

By *ilverfox for you OP Man
over a year ago

Hull

why dont guys just ask the woman ? just say how can i please you !! what makes you feel good !! instead of guessing ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always. I have my own agenda but I'm always interested in what works for a woman. They are not all the same..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Far too easy!

I’d much rather fumble around for the clitoris for 45 minutes before ejaculating all over myself…

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath

"why dont guys just ask the woman ? just say how can i please you !! what makes you feel good !! instead of guessing ?"

Hey wait one minute there fella..! Speke for yourself but some of us actually do. And listen hold conversations too.

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

"Far too easy!

I’d much rather fumble around for the clitoris for 45 minutes before ejaculating all over myself…"

Pahaha that made me laugh

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Because it's bonus points if you get it right without having to ask. Plus a lovely surprise if you do

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Most men are pretty clued in to what turns women on and what to do.I prefer to go with the flow at a meet and it is always easy to say if you aren't enjoying something or if they are missing the spot as such. As long as they aren't crossing any boundaries that have been mentioned beforehand that is personally what I prefer .Rather than a conversation about what I want to happen that would be very off putting for me personally and would put me off meeting someone if I felt I had to tell them what to do in order for them to know .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because it’s rude for her to talk with her mouth full. PM open to ventriloquist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I'm having to give step by step instructions I'd rather just plug in the wand.

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

Go through all the basics - they generally work it out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If by guessing you mean having no interest then guilty

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By *nselfishpleaserMan
over a year ago

kent

I like to find out beforehand what a woman likes and how she likes it then adapt my style to suit. Every woman is different, what works for some won't for others.

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath

"If I'm having to give step by step instructions I'd rather just plug in the wand. "

Ok I’ll switch the power back on shall I

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"why dont guys just ask the woman ? just say how can i please you !! what makes you feel good !! instead of guessing ?"

Because their purpose in life is to please me, however I want to use them.

They get their enjoyment by being used!

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By *inAndTonic21Couple
over a year ago

Merseyside

Most men I have experienced are good at pleasing women however most random message say I can make you squirt - does that please me?! Doesn’t intrigue me in the slightest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most men I have experienced are good at pleasing women however most random message say I can make you squirt - does that please me?! Doesn’t intrigue me in the slightest "

Sorry about that. I’m better in person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"why dont guys just ask the woman ? just say how can i please you !! what makes you feel good !! instead of guessing ?"

I actually don't like to be asked like that. It's like compiling a to do list.

Different I'd he is doing something and asks do I like it but don't ask me up front what I want to be done. Just get in about me like a dog eating beetroot, ill soon let him know if I don't like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"why dont guys just ask the woman ? just say how can i please you !! what makes you feel good !! instead of guessing ?"

Oh fuck. Can you imagine the list they would hand you?

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By *avanagh DuboisMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Every lady has a different route map. Communication is vital in one off or long term. Mood, self image, time of year all play a part

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

i must be meeting the right guys then op ?? because i cant remember the last crap shag i had ..mind you my selection process is tip top and id be pissed off if a guy kept stopping and asking ..i state my no nos via the messaging make it clear what im looking for and what they are looking for as 50% is about me the other 50% is him and man i like to please as much as being pleased

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Give her the credit card never fails

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it has to form part of the conversation in the beginning doesnt it so you have a vague idea of where to go or not. That way you can be a bit more organic about it in the bedroom and explore without the constant need for asking or getting your hands slapped away.

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By *arkcrystalMan
over a year ago

Bristol

I just read the haynes instructions manual

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