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By *vd1987 OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Now im happy to meet people. I also dont take offence if im not someone's cup of tea or if someone doesn't reply as we all know a lot if people of here get loads of messages.

But...... why do "couples" where only they man ever speaks and the "partner" never speaks untill the meet think we are being fooled?

Happy fabbing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure the answer to your question but life was a lot simpler the days you could just grab a dvd from your local blockbuster.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Because some people are taken in by it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They’re so transparent, I like to string the guy along for a bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure what you mean by “think we are being fooled”

When I’ve met couples I have often only spoken to the male half leading up to meeting, him doing the “admin” dealing with messages and finding suitable guys…

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

I do all the talking on here because she is too busy chained to the kitchen sink doing housework.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do all the talking on here because she is too busy chained to the kitchen sink doing housework."

Good man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know couples where only the guy deals with sorting the meets.

Think of all that pussy you've missed out on op.

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By *UFSWoman
over a year ago

belfast

Is this one of those threads where the desperate man only wants to talk to the female half of the couple?

Those couples probably have you sussed out

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Loads of couples ask for a woman to woman chat before any meet goes ahead. Why should it be any different for a single guy?

Any man who asks for advice on this subject is told there is no woman and men posting on 'behalf of their partner ' are frequently accused of not actually having one. I think the op is perfectly valid

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By *hromosexualsCouple
over a year ago

Near Abercynon

How do you know which one of us you are talking to? Very occasionally a guy will ask, but not very often.

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

When we first came on here Niki was really keen and would WhatsApp with guys, but we soon learnt that they were mostly time wasting wankers.

After one particular idiot, she won't get involved on here at all, if we get a message from a guy I think she'll like I show her his pic and profile, if it's a yes I arrange a social ASAP, I don't indulge in wank chat whatsoever - if that doesn't suit someone that's okay, we all have our own way to use the site.

K

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By *vd1987 OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Wow some are are harsh lol.

To be clear I have no issue with the guy arranging meets or starting the convo.

My issue is when they say the woman won't talk at all until the meet itself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow some are are harsh lol.

To be clear I have no issue with the guy arranging meets or starting the convo.

My issue is when they say the woman won't talk at all until the meet itself "

Yeah it's likely just a man wanking.

I always offer a phone chat to prove I'm real and exist. Never had a no show. Had some great fun.

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By *rnypairCouple
over a year ago

south Yorkshire

I do a lot of the typing on here when we are messaging other people but the mrs is always present and has most of the input in what goes in the message unless I’m arranging something that is a surprise for her.

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By *rcadian110Couple
over a year ago

Barnsley

Jason is the only one who chats here and does admin because Rhiannon hates technology and social media of all kinds. I make that clear as soon as people chat with us. We do however jump on a video call to prove we are who we say we are and have enough verifications to show we are genuine. Why assume that you are being fooled? I know there are fakes on here but there are also a lot of busy or shy people too. Their history should count for something right?

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

Feel quite modern now

I don’t let Mr do anything

He knows his place

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester


"Feel quite modern now

I don’t let Mr do anything

He knows his place "

*except squidge my right boob

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Feel quite modern now

I don’t let Mr do anything

He knows his place "

Oh same

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By *lym4realCouple
over a year ago

plymouth

Well Mr4 does the so called admin bit on here and keeps Mrs4 fully informed and the decision to meet anyone is 100% her decision and her's alone ?? as due to past experiences as soon as 80% odd of "Males" found out it was her ...cue ..what colour are your panties...wanna see me wank ....wanna meet now ....here's me knob ...i'm so hard ...can you watch we wank over your pictures ...i'm about to ...and then some really deeply offensive comments ?? if she replied NO ?? xxx

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By *vd1987 OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Hmm again it's not an issue if someone is shy lol.

Im as easy going as you get. Suppose what I should of started with was I would only meet someone with either a quick phone call or video chat first (then if they want a social first too then thats fine also)

I think it's one wanting to avoid a phone call or video call are the issue

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Just make your own rules that wprk for your preferences. We're not mutually compatible with most other people, so just do your best, having realistic expectations

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester


"Wow some are are harsh lol.

To be clear I have no issue with the guy arranging meets or starting the convo.

My issue is when they say the woman won't talk at all until the meet itself "

I just simply always require a video chat with couples for a few minutes where both of them are present , any failure to do this and I just say goodbye enjoy wanking to my pics on profile .

I am very blunt with people on this part as simply I distrust most people on this site are not what they are say are ..

Not really going to get upset over missing out on a meet with strangers tbh as there is always another person/peoples to meet later anyway

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By *ady CurvaceousWoman
over a year ago

Kent

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By *ady CurvaceousWoman
over a year ago

Kent

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By *ady CurvaceousWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"Now im happy to meet people. I also dont take offence if im not someone's cup of tea or if someone doesn't reply as we all know a lot if people of here get loads of messages.

But...... why do "couples" where only they man ever speaks and the "partner" never speaks untill the meet think we are being fooled?

Happy fabbing!"

To be fair, the male half uses our couples profile and "filters" messages and I join any chats that seem interesting. If I'm chatting to a guy on this solo profile who I'm interested in, I often send them to the couples profile to have a chat with him.

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By *istyPeaksCouple
over a year ago

braintree

You’re lucky if I ever stop doing the talking

Mrs

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By *aughty Couple ABCCouple
over a year ago

West Bromwich

I do all the admin and most of the messaging as I'm the one that plays and has to have the final say in who joins us. Hubby will message a few, he thinks I might be interested in

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By *anilla-sinCouple
over a year ago

lancs

dont understand the issue....

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By *oft-and-gentle123Couple
over a year ago

thurrock

Speaking for ourselves, I (female) do all the admin and the male NEVER asks about my husband they talk dirty and pushy there is your answer.

Thanks for not sending us a message saves me the time blocking another single male.

Get over yourself single men are 10 a penny you haven't done yourself any favours with this post.

Happy hunting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Speaking for ourselves, I (female) do all the admin and the male NEVER asks about my husband they talk dirty and pushy there is your answer.

Thanks for not sending us a message saves me the time blocking another single male.

Get over yourself single men are 10 a penny you haven't done yourself any favours with this post.

Happy hunting "

Couples like you are what men should avoid!!!

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By *vd1987 OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester

I agree with the above post specially as some people are seriously high and mighty and just assume people want them lol

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By *vd1987 OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"Speaking for ourselves, I (female) do all the admin and the male NEVER asks about my husband they talk dirty and pushy there is your answer.

Thanks for not sending us a message saves me the time blocking another single male.

Get over yourself single men are 10 a penny you haven't done yourself any favours with this post.

Happy hunting "

And also why would you assume id want to message you lmao

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