FabSwingers.com forum: Help

By *lox OP Man
over a year ago

fawdon

Why it is so difficult just have chat with some woman have a coffe o drink and play togheter??

I’m sure I have something wrong ??

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

Because having a chat, having a drink and playing are 3 very different things and there should be no assumption that any one will lead to another.

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford

"Because having a chat, having a drink and playing are 3 very different things and there should be no assumption that any one will lead to another."

Quite! You might spill your latte all over Miss Scarlet in the drawing room, and she'd never be the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why it is so difficult just have chat with some woman have a coffe o drink and play togheter??

I’m sure I have something wrong ?? "

A coffee or drink would imply a social meet rather than sex in most instances.

A social goes a long way in deciding whether there could or would be anything else going forwards.

Just relax and go for a drink/coffee and get to know the person first……… And never assume that said drink will lead to sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It could be your approach ?

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By *orksRockerMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Another of these threads.. It could be, and brace yourself here that may not have dawned on you, that the ratio of men to ladies here vastly reduces those chances!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

It could be the array of lady things in the background

I’ve always fancied trying one of those hair gadgets!

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By *lox OP Man
over a year ago

fawdon

Probably

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By *achel SmythTV/TS
over a year ago

Farnborough

Bless ya x

As others have said, this place is completely full of men, and please forgive here, many of whom think that just because they are here, have a right to meet people, etc, etc…believe me here, I know a bloke quite well!!

Having spoken to a number of single women who list in here, as soon as you register, your inbox literally overflows with emails, requests suggestions, demands. So to put this in a commercial parlance, suggest you are ‘competing’ in a very saturated market, and as any product does on the market, you will need to stand out, or be different to get take up!

Good luck on journey x

R xx

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By *lox OP Man
over a year ago

fawdon

Good point

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

OP..you've been here for over a year; what have you been doing all this time?!

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By *lox OP Man
over a year ago

fawdon

I gave up for few months and now I’m back on fab

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Sounds like you expect a chat to lead to sex . Unfortunately this is an assumption that a lot make on here and why I no longer do chats on here with people as I'm not meeting anyone new for the foreseeable future. I got fed up of saying how I am not meeting at present and then agreeing to just chat only to be hassled a few messages in to meet because we chatted. I just can't be bothered at present with having to constantly say no so easier not to chat to anyone new.

Maybe op lessen your expectations and just chat and see how it goes.If it leads to a social do not expect that as a green light for sex either.

And it's more difficult for me on here but in saying that plenty of men have luck on here.

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By *lox OP Man
over a year ago

fawdon

I don’t expect sex at all what I expect is have a social chat and enjoy the company ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t expect sex at all what I expect is have a social chat and enjoy the company ??"

Go to a social gathering in the new year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try Nora, she’ll do anyone for free x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Try Nora, she’ll do anyone for free x "

Not true but if you give her a bueno, she’ll blow your penis at the back of her Ford fiesta

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

"Why it is so difficult just have chat with some woman have a coffe o drink and play togheter??

I’m sure I have something wrong ?? "

May not be you she could be doll.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Start shagging men like the rest of em’?

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

"Try Nora, she’ll do anyone for free x

Not true but if you give her a bueno, she’ll blow your penis at the back of her Ford fiesta "

You'll be in the boot if you're not careful...

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Offer to bring the dog when you go for coffee, winner...

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Your a nice looking guy. Send decent messages to profiles your compatible with or go to socials. There are a lot advertised in the meet and social section

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