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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

By a guy I thought liked me,his lack of response when I added him as a friend should have told me

I really need to start learning how to read signals

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why on earth would he do that??

I cant imagine you're the sort to come on too strong.

Its one thing to not be interested or lose interest. But to then block for no reason?

Think of it as a lucky escape.

There are plenty of others who definitely do like you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"By a guy I thought liked me,his lack of response when I added him as a friend should have told me

I really need to start learning how to read signals"

Welcome to fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s easy to fain interest in messages, when it comes to actually meeting another story, it’s likely you were getting close to that point and instead of being a decent human and telling you he wasn’t that interested he took the easy route

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happens I'm afraid.

Could be for any number of reasons but i wouldn't dwell on it.

You can't control what overs do on here.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"By a guy I thought liked me,his lack of response when I added him as a friend should have told me

I really need to start learning how to read signals"

It's not you, you must have chatted to add him as a friend, if he then randomly blocked you I'd say lucky escape, I'm sure there's lots of men who would be happy to meet with you, don't let the one get you down.

Mrs x

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By *ryandseeMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

It also happens the other way around . They send a friends request and before you even accept or have chance to respond, they block. It's just how it is I am afraid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happens on here all the time. People block for all different reasons, just forget about it and move on

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

My rule of thumb these days is to only have people that I have actually met in person on my friends list. Guys will try all sorts of ways to see your more private photos.

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By *S chanel demarTV/TS
over a year ago

peterborough

Two sides to every story.......just saying.....

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

People often advise women to block if they're no longer interested. I suspect he wasn't sure how to tell you so took that route.

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

Surely you have been on here long enough over the years to have had this happen before and I am sure you will have done it to a few....

Or are you White Knight hunting?

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Next!

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I don't mind a block, at least I know where I stand and things aren't left hanging!

Trying to understand someone else's reasons for blocking is a fool's game though, better to let it rest as "he had his reasons, even if I don't know what they are".

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Surely you have been on here long enough over the years

Ato have had this happen before and I am sure you will have done it to a few....

Or are you White Knight hunting? "

I've never blocked someone I've got on with

As for a white Knight on fab? Nope

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why on earth would he do that??

I cant imagine you're the sort to come on too strong.

Its one thing to not be interested or lose interest. But to then block for no reason?

Think of it as a lucky escape.

There are plenty of others who definitely do like you.

"

Your right I rarely sent a first message never mind a friend request

And thank you x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks everyone, I just needed to get it off my chest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't mind a block, at least I know where I stand and things aren't left hanging!

Trying to understand someone else's reasons for blocking is a fool's game though, better to let it rest as "he had his reasons, even if I don't know what they are". "

So true....so true

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire


"Thanks everyone, I just needed to get it off my chest

"

Nice chest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks everyone, I just needed to get it off my chest

"

I fully support the women of fab getting as much off their chest as possible

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"By a guy I thought liked me,his lack of response when I added him as a friend should have told me

I really need to start learning how to read signals"

Never be quick to add, its always nicer to see how the conversation goes no matter how long then probably meet before adding. It's a sensible move. I personally wouldn't worry about it keep smiling x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thanks everyone, I just needed to get it off my chest

Nice chest "

Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"By a guy I thought liked me,his lack of response when I added him as a friend should have told me

I really need to start learning how to read signals

Never be quick to add, its always nicer to see how the conversation goes no matter how long then probably meet before adding. It's a sensible move. I personally wouldn't worry about it keep smiling x"

That is very good advice, thanks x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thanks everyone, I just needed to get it off my chest

I fully support the women of fab getting as much off their chest as possible "

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By *iggingMan
over a year ago

Oldham


"Thanks everyone, I just needed to get it off my chest

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I wouldn't block you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thanks everyone, I just needed to get it off my chest

I wouldn't block you "

Thanks

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By *ld StrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Telford

Same reason they give to the men that ask this in forums, because they can and it’s their choice so put it behind you and move on.

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton


"By a guy I thought liked me,his lack of response when I added him as a friend should have told me

I really need to start learning how to read signals"

I had the same from a woman was cahatting for ages then friend request then she blocked me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if people block us we basically couldn't give a shit lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Same reason they give to the men that ask this in forums, because they can and it’s their choice so put it behind you and move on. "

Yes I see men getting this advice as well, it is their right to block, just move on there's nothing you can do about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always make sure I block them back, so if they one day decide to unblock me they can't see my profile as I've blocked them..... petty i know but it helps keep them away from your inbox in future

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Some good advice cheers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is what gets me the most pissed off on here im really trying my best to meet women on here if real life and not getting shown time of day but theres guy who do and just mess about or blank women on here

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

It's probably a fake profile and wasn't really a single guy, but a single woman

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

I click on profiles and find I'm blocked. No idea why, as I've never interacted with them. Plenty more of us boob ogglers around

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"This is what gets me the most pissed off on here im really trying my best to meet women on here if real life and not getting shown time of day but theres guy who do and just mess about or blank women on here"

Keep the faith. It does happen. Persevere

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By *amieLDN22Man
over a year ago

London

Welcome to life as a single guy on here.

Only been here a short time and already I've been blocked more times than a rugby player on his way to the try zone.

Winked at someone (blocked); greeted someone too gleefully (blocked); Forgot to attach photos (blocked). Left a lady on read bc I was at work (blocked); didn't respond quick enough (blocked); too local and blocked. Not local enough (double blocked).

Someone was shocked that I was slightly rich in melanin (very clear on my profile) and I was blocked quicker than you can open a condom with your teeth. I'm getting blocked by people I haven't even messaged. Some people even think you're stealing their content and they blocked you.

Whatever the reason it doesn't matter. Ever since that block button was created fingers have been pointing and pressing with relish. If he blocked you bc he couldn't be arsed to meet then he's done you a favour. Move on and on to the next i say.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Welcome to life as a single guy on here.

Only been here a short time and already I've been blocked more times than a rugby player on his way to the try zone.

Winked at someone (blocked); greeted someone too gleefully (blocked); Forgot to attach photos (blocked). Left a lady on read bc I was at work (blocked); didn't respond quick enough (blocked); too local and blocked. Not local enough (double blocked).

Someone was shocked that I was slightly rich in melanin (very clear on my profile) and I was blocked quicker than you can open a condom with your teeth. I'm getting blocked by people I haven't even messaged. Some people even think you're stealing their content and they blocked you.

Whatever the reason it doesn't matter. Ever since that block button was created fingers have been pointing and pressing with relish. If he blocked you bc he couldn't be arsed to meet then he's done you a favour. Move on and on to the next i say. "

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