FabSwingers.com forum: I can’t get no, satisfaction.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do you always feel like the sex was worth the effort, or is that what a ‘quickly’ is for?

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

Sex is a partnership a coming together of two peoples minds and bodies if it works out well what can be better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I make sure it's worth the effort when I have it

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Sometimes it’s ago to just give without needing to receive anything, or vice versa, if that’s what you both agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes I wish I hadn't bothered shaving if that's what you mean.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sometimes I wish I hadn't bothered shaving if that's what you mean."

Kinda.

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By *ubcdverykinkyMan
over a year ago

Bourne lincs

Not had sex in over a yr. Am single but guess being 61 and sub bi put s people off

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

MADERIA Wherever I lay my hat

I'm a firm believer that you get out what you put in .... but there have been occasions when I wish I hadn't bothered and done the job myself!

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

There have been a couple of times where I've made a proper effort and they're clearly

a)fucked out so now I won't have sex with anyone if that could be the case.

b) deciding they just want me to give them oral sex all night. Which is fine if it's hot and we'd discussed it. Makes me feel like rent-a-mouth otherwise so I ended up not staying over even though planned.

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"Do you always feel like the sex was worth the effort, or is that what a ‘quickly’ is for? "

A quickie isn’t when you can’t be bothered with the effort, it’s when you’ve been turning each other on with messages over the last few days, building anticipation until it can’t get any higher.

When you finally meet there’s no time for anything except doing what you’ve talked about for so long. It’s an almost animal instinct that you both have and you both need that orgasm right now. Who’s even got time to find a bedroom?

A quickie can definitely be worth it, and afterwards, you can do things a little slower

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm a firm believer that you get out what you put in .... but there have been occasions when I wish I hadn't bothered and done the job myself!"

I’m a firm believer that they get out what I put in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Effort? You mean shaving my legs

nah! Definitely not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you always feel like the sex was worth the effort, or is that what a ‘quickly’ is for?

A quickie can definitely be worth it, and afterwards, you can do things a little slower "

Fuck yeah!!!

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

If it's not fun. Then stop.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If it's not fun. Then stop."

If it’s not fun,

Make

Fun!

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Na just a bonus it was a joy getting to know them also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

99% of times it's worth the effort. One couple I met really weren't worth the effort and it's an awful feeling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they make me feel like it wasn’t worth the effort they don’t get a repate meet

I don’t do quick fuck and go due to the length off time it takes me to get ready

Only time I do them

If it’s a club or social event whare I am all ready ready

Or if I am comeing off the back off another meet and I am still ready ie seconds

But always make them aware it’s seconds and leave the choice in they hands if they want that or not

Other wise it takes me day and hafe to get ready

So they better be ready to put in 3-4 hours effort

There’s no shame in brakes and chit chat inbween rounds

When I say 3-4 hour what I really mean is like a hour and hafe off sex and like hour and hafe for brakes and such bween rounds

I don’t expect people to bang on me for 3-4 hours straight I just mean no splat and run out the door

Rounds only

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you always feel like the sex was worth the effort, or is that what a ‘quickly’ is for? "

I don't know? If you enjoy it, it doesn't feel like an effort in the moment though ?

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Have you tried?

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

I definitely think it’s worth the effort. Especially when it’s been a long time in the planning

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By *ove2pleaseseukMan
over a year ago

Hastings

"Sometimes I wish I hadn't bothered shaving if that's what you mean."

Lol lol lol ?? ?? same give a nice massarge and she fals asleep it's like bitter sweet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try to make it worth my while myself. I get so few chances I refuse to give in to having a bad time!

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By *ove2pleaseseukMan
over a year ago

Hastings

I'd like to think you get out what you put in (no not like that). But maybe your expecting porn when in real life its not. Forplay is the key please and tease slow and lots of kissing not just on the mouth. Except less and give more. Think of them not you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarely meet so when I do I go all out to please him

As the saying goes it takes two baby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometimes I wish I hadn't bothered shaving if that's what you mean."

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

Surly it should be mutually satisfying, not one sided, or am I being deluded

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By *inkForLifeCouple
over a year ago

North Shields

I (male) love sexual stuff, but I don't have a huge interest in intercourse. I enjoy it when it happens but it's not something I need to be content.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Surly it should be mutually satisfying, not one sided, or am I being deluded"

Of course, but you can’t force it. Sometimes it just doesn’t go the way you planned.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

If I'm hot, sweaty and breathless, it was worth it.

If I'm left wondering what just happened, not so much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just set fire to a parked car on your way home from an unsatisfying meet. Hide and watch the fire brigade arrive whilst you masturbate. That’ll do it…

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I've had situations in the past where the sex hasn't been worth the effort even of pushing my knickers to one side and I should've just stayed home with my rabbit.

Hasn't happened in a good long time now. If I'm putting effort in I will make damn sure it's worthwhile!

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Only on a couple of occasions I've thought it wasn't worth it so I'm putting that on them

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By *weetiepie99Woman
over a year ago

cardiff

I really don't think sex is 'effort', really shouldn't it be 'effortless', hot, sexy, sweaty deliciousness. I also do believe if its rubbish its down to both of you, not one of you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve been in situations where I’ve thought I’d have been better just staying in the house and not bothering and other times where the sexual chemistry just wasn’t the same when meeting up which is unfortunate but no one’s fault.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes it's just ok and other times it's fanfuckingtasticly mind blowingly good.

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By *ove2pleaseseukMan
over a year ago

Hastings

I think some guys think of sec like a porn film 2 hours of hot funking in every hole etc just expect to much then find it disappointing when it's not like that. To much Internet porn.. Building to high expectations.

Bit like hearing about a fantastic film but when you go and you see it you think what was all the hype about.

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By *hippy57Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford

Now as considered a olden lol,I find the build up and sensual foreplay much more erotic than the actual fucking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's never worth it but for some reason I keep hoping that next time it will be. Ever the optimist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think some guys think of sec like a porn film 2 hours of hot funking in every hole etc just expect to much then find it disappointing when it's not like that. To much Internet porn.. Building to high expectations.

Bit like hearing about a fantastic film but when you go and you see it you think what was all the hype about."

Not exactly most don’t expect two hours off straight banging

But a splat and run isn’t on the cards

There’s no shame in 5-10 minutes brakes to re load and go for rounds 2-3-4-5-6

Most guys can be ready in 15 minutes shower clean clothes on out the door

Woman are expected to shave from head to toe

There’s hour or 2 and needs to be done the night before

Then we got a outfit to pick out that in its self can take 2-4 hours depending

They try on about 8-9 different outfits before deciding on outfit 3

Next you got prep for the kind off sex ie if anal maybe on the cards you need to not eat after a serton time and clean out so no miss haps happen

That’s all the night before

The day off the meet

We have to time getting ready and make up

You don’t want to be come in to make up falling off faces and sweat patches on dress and such

now if I we hadn’t all that to do

And guys were fine in turning up with no slap on

Hairy legs ass and under arms and such

And my pjs or lounge ware on like joggers and a te shirt

Then buy all means splat and run

But when they expect a serton level off effort we expect a serton level off effort back

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By *bonybucksMan
over a year ago

High Wycombe

It’s always worth it

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Bit like hearing about a fantastic film but when you go and you see it you think what was all the hype about."

Have you not had a 2 hour long sex session? It's definitely not uncommon buddy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit like hearing about a fantastic film but when you go and you see it you think what was all the hype about.

Have you not had a 2 hour long sex session? It's definitely not uncommon buddy

I get what he's saying though! 2 hours of just putting things in holes sounds hellish.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Bit like hearing about a fantastic film but when you go and you see it you think what was all the hype about.

Have you not had a 2 hour long sex session? It's definitely not uncommon buddy

I get what he's saying though! 2 hours of just putting things in holes sounds hellish. "

What's sort of things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit like hearing about a fantastic film but when you go and you see it you think what was all the hype about.

Have you not had a 2 hour long sex session? It's definitely not uncommon buddy

I get what he's saying though! 2 hours of just putting things in holes sounds hellish.

What's sort of things

I'm guessing boy porn star bits in girl porn star bits

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Bit like hearing about a fantastic film but when you go and you see it you think what was all the hype about.

Have you not had a 2 hour long sex session? It's definitely not uncommon buddy

I get what he's saying though! 2 hours of just putting things in holes sounds hellish.

What's sort of things

I'm guessing boy porn star bits in girl porn star bits

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Well that's ok then because I thought you were talking about an extreme version of the film Hostel or something

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit like hearing about a fantastic film but when you go and you see it you think what was all the hype about.

Have you not had a 2 hour long sex session? It's definitely not uncommon buddy

I get what he's saying though! 2 hours of just putting things in holes sounds hellish.

What's sort of things

I'm guessing boy porn star bits in girl porn star bits

Well that's ok then because I thought you were talking about an extreme version of the film Hostel or something

Well now I'm intrigued as I haven't seen that! I'm guessing it's at least more interesting than in, out, shake it all about porn antics

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Bit like hearing about a fantastic film but when you go and you see it you think what was all the hype about.

Have you not had a 2 hour long sex session? It's definitely not uncommon buddy

I get what he's saying though! 2 hours of just putting things in holes sounds hellish.

What's sort of things

I'm guessing boy porn star bits in girl porn star bits

Well that's ok then because I thought you were talking about an extreme version of the film Hostel or something

Well now I'm intrigued as I haven't seen that! I'm guessing it's at least more interesting than in, out, shake it all about porn antics

Yeah nobody wants to waste time with all the sex stuff, that would be awful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit like hearing about a fantastic film but when you go and you see it you think what was all the hype about.

Have you not had a 2 hour long sex session? It's definitely not uncommon buddy

I get what he's saying though! 2 hours of just putting things in holes sounds hellish.

What's sort of things

I'm guessing boy porn star bits in girl porn star bits

Well that's ok then because I thought you were talking about an extreme version of the film Hostel or something

Well now I'm intrigued as I haven't seen that! I'm guessing it's at least more interesting than in, out, shake it all about porn antics

Yeah nobody wants to waste time with all the sex stuff, that would be awful "

I know, right? Bleurgh

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