FabSwingers.com forum: An indecent introduction

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What happened to genuine, nice people who can string 3 words together and have a decent conversation.

Why do we always seem to get the three word hello's and a picture of a dick with come all around it.

Are there men on here trying to see how many blocks they can get?

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

We're here

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"We're here

Does that count as three words ?

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

Honest answer, probably because your filters need to be tuned up a lil' bit...

But I'm not gonna post that because I just fell in love with your book display and want only good things for you dudes

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"We're here

Does that count as three words ?"

No dick pics though

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

There's plenty of them about, I've not really had many 3 words and a dick pic messages even when uploading the latest video.

So maybe if your box is cocksaturated, look at what you're doing that might make it so? I've noticed over the years that different bios alter the sort of messages I receive. If it's very irksome, why not block single men from messaging you and take control of your own search? It's a way of being more in control of what you actually want, rather than waiting for ultimately disappointing interactions.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Why moan about messages you receive when you can use your filters to solve the problem.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We did start off on here chatting to single men but it got so bad we changed our profile to what it is now.

There are good, genuine men out there we do enjoy a conversation with but there are also a lot spoiling it for others and making people like us block all single male messages (which we don't want to do).

We will just ignore and block such people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi, what you in to

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By *rtyIanMan
over a year ago

Gateway to the Beacons

"Why moan about messages you receive when you can use your filters to solve the problem. "

They are meaning about the type nog the fact that they get messages

Not sure the filters block dick pics and one line messages, maybe that could be a feature like on other apps that you only accept messages over a certain length

Then you’d just get the copy and pasters

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"What happened to genuine, nice people who can string 3 words together and have a decent conversation.

Why do we always seem to get the three word hello's and a picture of a dick with come all around it.

Are there men on here trying to see how many blocks they can get?"

Save yourself time.

Block incoming messages and be proactive. That way you'll never receive an unsolicited dick pic and you'll only be engaging with people who interest you.

There's plenty of great single male profiles out there if you look.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get blocked without sending that stuff. Go figure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't be fooled by the 'genuine' ones who can string a sentence together either, they are just as likely to turn out to be dicks. This is why I prefer to meet people in person from the get go at clubs, cuts the crap.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

I often find myself caught in the Fab vapour between those who can handle a conversation and those who can only handle a cock. Unfortunately the two competencies rarely go together on here.

We live in sad times.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

"Why moan about messages you receive when you can use your filters to solve the problem.

They are meaning about the type nog the fact that they get messages

Not sure the filters block dick pics and one line messages, maybe that could be a feature like on other apps that you only accept messages over a certain length

Then you’d just get the copy and pasters "

Then you block incoming messages from men and search yourself .If a chat doesn't suit you can stop the chat. Pretty simple really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you search the forum this has been asked and answered so many times.

It's the couple version of why won't women reply to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get all strange when I try sending the first message, I start with good intentions then my head goes blank

I don't know what to write so don't bother

Mrs C

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

OP's I feel your pain.

I'm getting fed up with women & couples sending one word messages & a picture of a lemon drizzle cake

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