FabSwingers.com forum: What comes naturally to you?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

And what doesn't?

Could be a manual or social skill. Whatever hops to one's mind

What comes naturally to me?

Sarcasm I believe. In runs in my genes.

What doesn't?

Trust. People who get close to me need to make a lot of effort. Bless them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

*it runs..

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By *ovingSussexLifeMan
over a year ago

West Sussex

Restoring furniture

DIY

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Affinity with animals. Human ones excepted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wingmanning apparently.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Befriending children. I just love them. Grovelling about on the floor, reading stories, role playing, I love how their minds work and how they can surprise you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Restoring furniture

DIY

Amazing skill. I'd love to learn upcycling ! Plan for my 50s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Naturally

Humour,wit,charm,sarcasm

What doesn't:

Flirting

Walking in heels

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

And what doesn't come naturally to you? I should have not asked 2 questions in one thread..

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

"Naturally

Humour,wit,charm,sarcasm

What doesn't:

Flirting

Walking in heels "

You're good at flirting...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Befriending children. I just love them. Grovelling about on the floor, reading stories, role playing, I love how their minds work and how they can surprise you."

Are you a teacher?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Optimism

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Affinity with animals. Human ones excepted.

Haha that's so fitting for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Painting and decorating x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Wingmanning apparently. "

We all could do with a skilled wingman or woman. Priceless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being a sarcastic gent

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Befriending children. I just love them. Grovelling about on the floor, reading stories, role playing, I love how their minds work and how they can surprise you."

Ahh. That made me smile. Yes kids make wonderful friends. I had a snowball fight this morning with a cute 3 year old daughter of a friend.

love when they giggle at you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Naturally

Humour,wit,charm,sarcasm

What doesn't:

Flirting

Walking in heels "

The top ones outweigh the bottom ones I believe

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By *aCaiMan
over a year ago

Telford

"And what doesn't?

Could be a manual or social skill. Whatever hops to one's mind

What comes naturally to me?

Sarcasm I believe. In runs in my genes.

What doesn't?

Trust. People who get close to me need to make a lot of effort. Bless them.

T. "

Wit

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Optimism "

That is so much like my partner. Envious of that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being sarcastic and witty runs in my family

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Painting and decorating x"

Kudos

how often do you redecorate your place ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ability to trust people and they let me down big time

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Being a sarcastic gent "

That's "my" boy

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"And what doesn't?

Could be a manual or social skill. Whatever hops to one's mind

What comes naturally to me?

Sarcasm I believe. In runs in my genes.

What doesn't?

Trust. People who get close to me need to make a lot of effort. Bless them.

Wit"

And mastering answers on the postcard

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

" Being sarcastic and witty runs in my family"

Are we related ?

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"Naturally

Humour,wit,charm,sarcasm

What doesn't:

Flirting

Walking in heels

The top ones outweigh the bottom ones I believe

There's Sarcasm and then there's Dreamy .. Whole new level

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My ability to trust people and they let me down big time

Maybe thinking of ones natural abilities can make us also think of how to protect them and put them to good use. There are definitely people out there who crave being trusted and won't abuse that emotional investment of yours. If you had a fair share of the ones who took advantage of that maybe it's time to work on boundaries, the fence to protect your lovely ability to trust.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Naturally

Humour,wit,charm,sarcasm

What doesn't:

Flirting

Walking in heels

The top ones outweigh the bottom ones I believe

There's Sarcasm and then there's Dreamy .. Whole new level

Better talk about yourself not just jump on Dreamy! Hold on. That actually sounded complimentary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m good with my tools, and enjoy using them, there’s no puns here, I’m a boring engineer and feel like I was born to do it

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By *aCaiMan
over a year ago

Telford

"Wit

And mastering answers on the postcard

What’s a postcard?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Breathing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Befriending children. I just love them. Grovelling about on the floor, reading stories, role playing, I love how their minds work and how they can surprise you."

I’ll let you read me Arabian knights at bed time. It’s only 960 pages red

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Wit

And mastering answers on the postcard

What’s a postcard?

As in giving short, compact answer. I like it

don't worry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Flirting sometimes I’m just trying to be friendly and don’t realise I’m doing it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Breathing"

Oh come on. That doesn't require thoughtful action!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’m good with my tools, and enjoy using them, there’s no puns here, I’m a boring engineer and feel like I was born to do it "

I am not sure if I would call engineering boring. Whatever the skill. Seems more like a job for very curious and meticulous person.

great manual skills are rare too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Naturally

Humour,wit,charm,sarcasm

What doesn't:

Flirting

Walking in heels

You're good at flirting...

Haven't even started with you yet....

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By *aCaiMan
over a year ago

Telford

"Flirting sometimes I’m just trying to be friendly and don’t realise I’m doing it. "

Flirt with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Being sarcastic and witty runs in my family

Are we related ?

I did wonder that to

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Flirting sometimes I’m just trying to be friendly and don’t realise I’m doing it. "

I do wonder sometimes if flirting can be "taught"?

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

"Naturally

Humour,wit,charm,sarcasm

What doesn't:

Flirting

Walking in heels

You're good at flirting...

Haven't even started with you yet....

Promises, promises...

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By *aCaiMan
over a year ago

Telford

"Wit

And mastering answers on the postcard

What’s a postcard?

As in giving short, compact answer. I like it

don't worry. "

I went for the double glad you enjoyed it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Wit

And mastering answers on the postcard

What’s a postcard?

As in giving short, compact answer. I like it

don't worry.

I went for the double glad you enjoyed it

Hat-trick!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cynacism. Give me one topic and I'll tell you why it's the worst thing in the world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Befriending children. I just love them. Grovelling about on the floor, reading stories, role playing, I love how their minds work and how they can surprise you."

Would you like to borrow a 4 year old?

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

Smiling

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Wit

And mastering answers on the postcard

What’s a postcard?

A small card people would send through the post, often With a picture on the front and a short message on the back

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Being sarcastic but also being loving and empathetic comes naturally to me.

Hate and violence and being able to switch my mind of does not come naturally to me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Wit

And mastering answers on the postcard

What’s a postcard?

A small card people would send through the post, often With a picture on the front and a short message on the back "

It didn't get so bad they are forgotten now did it? Please say no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wit

And mastering answers on the postcard

What’s a postcard?

A small card people would send through the post, often With a picture on the front and a short message on the back "

So it’s like a back to front meme “wish you were here ”

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

"Cynacism. Give me one topic and I'll tell you why it's the worst thing in the world

Coffee?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Smiling

Handy. Saves me tickling.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Cynacism. Give me one topic and I'll tell you why it's the worst thing in the world

I give you Murphy's Laws.

Make a thread!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Being sarcastic but also being loving and empathetic comes naturally to me.

Hate and violence and being able to switch my mind of does not come naturally to me. "

Well rounded then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cynacism. Give me one topic and I'll tell you why it's the worst thing in the world

I knew there was a reason I liked you, can we bitch over our hatred of things sometime?, not chocolate orange though please

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Naturally? Being trusting and giving people the benefit of the doubt.

Not naturally? Being cynical and thinking the worst of people. Also making coffee. I'm shit at it.

Mrs TMN x

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By *rMonkeyMan
over a year ago

Somewhere

Calculus, applied maths, pure maths, just makes sense to me. Never revised for a single maths exam through school or either of my degrees and always got 95% plus and finished very quickly. 2 hour calculus paper I finished in 40 minutes, most didn't finish it.

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

" Being sarcastic and witty runs in my family

Are we related ?

I did wonder that to

Checking my family tree also!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Creativity and diy

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Sarcasm... Honestly, I just can't help myself.

Patience/tolerance... Definitely not one of my virtues

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cynacism. Give me one topic and I'll tell you why it's the worst thing in the world

Coffee?

Dark history of being cultivated off sl@ve labour and even now the instant stuff you drink are from cheap low quality beans where farmers are getting shafted on the price, even for coffee beans on the higher scale. But it's convenient so we put up with it and see it as a them problem.

Taking emotion out of opinions comes naturally too

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"Being sarcastic but also being loving and empathetic comes naturally to me.

Hate and violence and being able to switch my mind of does not come naturally to me.

Well rounded then

I'm about 75% of the whole package I reckon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cynacism. Give me one topic and I'll tell you why it's the worst thing in the world

I give you Murphy's Laws.

Make a thread!

Oh God, my head hurts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cynacism. Give me one topic and I'll tell you why it's the worst thing in the world

Coffee?

Taking emotion out of opinions comes naturally too

Isn't that pretty much the same story for every bit of disposable consumerism society engages in?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Cynacism. Give me one topic and I'll tell you why it's the worst thing in the world

I give you Murphy's Laws.

Make a thread!

Oh God, my head hurts

That comes naturally to me too

Giving people migraine

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"Sarcasm... Honestly, I just can't help myself.

Patience/tolerance... Definitely not one of my virtues"

I bet you're a delight untangling Christmas lights

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pushing people away and road rage lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Cynacism. Give me one topic and I'll tell you why it's the worst thing in the world

I knew there was a reason I liked you, can we bitch over our hatred of things sometime?, not chocolate orange though please

Awww bless, but chocolate orange is the first thing in the firing line. Just cover your ears, it'll be over soon

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Calculus, applied maths, pure maths, just makes sense to me. Never revised for a single maths exam through school or either of my degrees and always got 95% plus and finished very quickly. 2 hour calculus paper I finished in 40 minutes, most didn't finish it."

Very impressive! It's lovely to have it easy with an important subject such as Maths.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cynacism. Give me one topic and I'll tell you why it's the worst thing in the world

Coffee?

Taking emotion out of opinions comes naturally too

Isn't that pretty much the same story for every bit of disposable consumerism society engages in? "

There you go! Now you're getting it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bending over ha ha

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By *istyPeaksCouple
over a year ago

braintree

Naturally

Flirting

Sarcasm/wit

Empathy

Not natural

Reading signals of someone flirting back

Accepting compliments (I am working hard on this)

Switching off

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Naturally? Being trusting and giving people the benefit of the doubt.

Not naturally? Being cynical and thinking the worst of people. Also making coffee. I'm shit at it.

Mrs TMN x"

I chuckled. I always try to avoid making tea for others for similar reasons.. the way I drink mine is odd and very specific. But I am going to master my dearest one technique for making his and brave it one day..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

" Being sarcastic and witty runs in my family

Are we related ?

I did wonder that to

Checking my family tree also!"

We are family I've got all my sarcasm lovers with me.. la la la la la..

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

"Cynacism. Give me one topic and I'll tell you why it's the worst thing in the world

Coffee?

Taking emotion out of opinions comes naturally too

Yeah, but...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Getting into bed and remembering the single time, out of the 100's of interactions during the day, where I was impatient...

It's my super skill

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Creativity and diy "

Those two combined make you great husband material

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"Smiling

Handy. Saves me tickling.

Awww… that’s a shame

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sarcasm... Honestly, I just can't help myself.

Patience/tolerance... Definitely not one of my virtues"

I had no patience to read through till the end

Just messing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Being sarcastic but also being loving and empathetic comes naturally to me.

Hate and violence and being able to switch my mind of does not come naturally to me.

Well rounded then

I'm about 75% of the whole package I reckon

Shhh put a tag "priceless" on it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sarcasm... Honestly, I just can't help myself.

Patience/tolerance... Definitely not one of my virtues

I bet you're a delight untangling Christmas lights

That gave me an idea, thanks

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"Being sarcastic but also being loving and empathetic comes naturally to me.

Hate and violence and being able to switch my mind of does not come naturally to me.

Well rounded then

I'm about 75% of the whole package I reckon

Shhh put a tag "priceless" on it

Oh I'm definitely that

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Pushing people away and road rage lol."

A juicy road rage is something I'd make a popcorn for.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"Sarcasm... Honestly, I just can't help myself.

Patience/tolerance... Definitely not one of my virtues

I bet you're a delight untangling Christmas lights

That gave me an idea, thanks

You're welcome... I think

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Bending over ha ha

Oh you sexy flexi

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Naturally - caring about/loving people. And waffling with a full flex of lexicon, even unnecessarily.

What doesn't? - opening up which is quite the juxtaposition isn't it? Very few are close to me or know anything really. But I care a lot about different people. *shrugs*

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Naturally

Flirting

Sarcasm/wit

Empathy

Not natural

Reading signals of someone flirting back

Accepting compliments (I am working hard on this)

Switching off"

Empathy seems a bit underappreciated these days. Putting right words out there does not equal to the actual feeling. Sometimes I feel the experience of empathy is almost physical.

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By *ax19862002Man
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Speaking to people. I.e if at a party of gathering where i don't know alot of people. I'll be comfortable striking up conversations.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"Naturally

Flirting

Sarcasm/wit

Empathy

Not natural

Reading signals of someone flirting back

Accepting compliments (I am working hard on this)

Switching off

Empathy seems a bit underappreciated these days. Putting right words out there does not equal to the actual feeling. Sometimes I feel the experience of empathy is almost physical. "

Empathy is physically, you feel the emotions of other people so have to learn how to put yourself in a bubble now and then

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By *aked_magicMan
over a year ago

the gutter looking at the stars (S.Australia)

Procrastination

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Cynacism. Give me one topic and I'll tell you why it's the worst thing in the world

I knew there was a reason I liked you, can we bitch over our hatred of things sometime?, not chocolate orange though please

Awww bless, but chocolate orange is the first thing in the firing line. Just cover your ears, it'll be over soon

Just give it to me , I can take it

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Thing that comes natural to me strangely enough that wildlife doesn't feel threatened by me I've rescued may birds

What doesn't fookin sleep

it's under construction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bending over ha ha

Oh you sexy flexi

Ha ha thanks

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By *istyPeaksCouple
over a year ago

braintree

"Naturally

Flirting

Sarcasm/wit

Empathy

Not natural

Reading signals of someone flirting back

Accepting compliments (I am working hard on this)

Switching off

Empathy seems a bit underappreciated these days. Putting right words out there does not equal to the actual feeling. Sometimes I feel the experience of empathy is almost physical.

Empathy is physically, you feel the emotions of other people so have to learn how to put yourself in a bubble now and then"

It definitely is. I have to shield a lot because certain people or moods can affect me. And as a Care Manager it really is a double edged sword at times.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

In terms of what comes naturally, mostly an odd combination of excessive snark and people pleasing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Learning new skills quickly.

Being able to turn my hand to most things..

Gaining the confidence of animals, especially ones that have had a rough time.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"Naturally

Flirting

Sarcasm/wit

Empathy

Not natural

Reading signals of someone flirting back

Accepting compliments (I am working hard on this)

Switching off

Empathy seems a bit underappreciated these days. Putting right words out there does not equal to the actual feeling. Sometimes I feel the experience of empathy is almost physical.

Empathy is physically, you feel the emotions of other people so have to learn how to put yourself in a bubble now and then

It definitely is. I have to shield a lot because certain people or moods can affect me. And as a Care Manager it really is a double edged sword at times. "

I used to do care work, definitely need your bubble up doing that job

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Making people laugh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Cynacism. Give me one topic and I'll tell you why it's the worst thing in the world

I knew there was a reason I liked you, can we bitch over our hatred of things sometime?, not chocolate orange though please

Awww bless, but chocolate orange is the first thing in the firing line. Just cover your ears, it'll be over soon

Just give it to me , I can take it

There's a good girl, I promise you can return the favour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Charm, obviously, dur!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sucking Cocks

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By *hGlobbitsMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Pedantry. Sorry

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

"Pedantry. Sorry

Good to see you back again

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Naturally... I'm a social butterfly, I've always fitted in with ease, the only thing that hinders me is lack of sleep and alcohol

Unnaturally... is also trust, my outer shell is like concrete, but find a crack and I'm a friend for life xxx

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

I’m naturally good with pets.

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
over a year ago

Portstewart

Baking, sarcasm by the bucket load and paper crafts. In order of preference to me, however most would prefer the 2nd to just quietly disappear.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

"Naturally

Humour,wit,charm,sarcasm

What doesn't:

Flirting

Walking in heels

You're good at flirting...

•

You must be fucking joking: she's a proverbial pain in the arse. All I ever get from her is perpetual sarcasm. You'll find her wit and charm at the bottom of the Grand Canyon.

She's correct about "Flirting": I've tried to discern her flirtatious behaviour by offering her chips. It's a futile effort.

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By *KloganMan
over a year ago

Ramsbottom

Naturally | Spreadsheets, numbers and chess

Un-naturally | anything between the sheets, crosswords and monopoly.

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

"Naturally

Humour,wit,charm,sarcasm

What doesn't:

Flirting

Walking in heels

You're good at flirting...

•

You must be fucking joking: she's a proverbial pain in the arse. All I ever get from her is perpetual sarcasm. You'll find her wit and charm at the bottom of the Grand Canyon.

She's correct about "Flirting": I've tried to discern her flirtatious behaviour by offering her chips. It's a futile effort.

But, Nero, she told me she loved me?

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

"Naturally

Humour,wit,charm,sarcasm

What doesn't:

Flirting

Walking in heels

You're good at flirting...

•

You must be fucking joking: she's a proverbial pain in the arse. All I ever get from her is perpetual sarcasm. You'll find her wit and charm at the bottom of the Grand Canyon.

She's correct about "Flirting": I've tried to discern her flirtatious behaviour by offering her chips. It's a futile effort.

But, Nero, she told me she loved me?

You're far too good for her.

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

Being genuine and kind to others

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By *nselfishpleaserMan
over a year ago

kent

Very good with my hands, also diy

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By *ilfCrumpet9Man
over a year ago

Wirral

DIY, building and fixing things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Breathing

Oh come on. That doesn't require thoughtful action!

Exactly. It just happens naturally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Naturally I'm a pleaser.

What doesn't come naturally is talking dirty. I feel stupid. So role play is a no go lol

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

Peeing it just flows out

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

What does….Trust, good food / cooking, taking risks

What doesn’t….small talk, doing what is expected just because

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does: being a submissive sissy bitch

Doesn't: being with someone who's poor hygiene & ill behaviour...!

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

I would say my ability to connect well with kiddos more than I can with adults. I think the fact I'm a big kid myself speaks itself, probably why I chose it as a profession I suppose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Naturally: Being around dogs

Unnaturally: Being around people

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Being a cunt.

The mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you said ‘comes naturally “

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What comes naturally? Walking away from people without a second thought when I need to, not hanging on to bitterness and/or nostalgia

What doesn't? Flirting, I'm lacking that gene

Casey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Restoring furniture

DIY

Know what you mean I was an antique furniture restorer for few years now self employed handyman. Also bought my first shed last year and kitted it out as my workshop

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

you said ‘comes naturally “

Grinning ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ps. As much as I'd love reply to all I think we are at point of no return to 1:1 replies

Thanks for sharing

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Peeing it just flows out

Can you write words in the snow ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Naturally

Flirting

Sarcasm/wit

Empathy

Not natural

Reading signals of someone flirting back

Accepting compliments (I am working hard on this)

Switching off

Empathy seems a bit underappreciated these days. Putting right words out there does not equal to the actual feeling. Sometimes I feel the experience of empathy is almost physical.

Empathy is physically, you feel the emotions of other people so have to learn how to put yourself in a bubble now and then

It definitely is. I have to shield a lot because certain people or moods can affect me. And as a Care Manager it really is a double edged sword at times. "

You give more than you can handle losing I'm guessing! Look after yourself

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Wit

And mastering answers on the postcard

What’s a postcard?

A small card people would send through the post, often With a picture on the front and a short message on the back

It didn't get so bad they are forgotten now did it? Please say no. "

I guess along with telegrams, faxes, telexes and errand boys they eventually will be.

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By *entBarryUKMan
over a year ago

Ashford

Flirting.

Apparently I do it all time!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Wit

And mastering answers on the postcard

What’s a postcard?

A small card people would send through the post, often With a picture on the front and a short message on the back

It didn't get so bad they are forgotten now did it? Please say no.

I guess along with telegrams, faxes, telexes and errand boys they eventually will be. "

That's sad. But then I'm guilty of not buying too many anymore myself.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Wit

And mastering answers on the postcard

What’s a postcard?

A small card people would send through the post, often With a picture on the front and a short message on the back

It didn't get so bad they are forgotten now did it? Please say no.

I guess along with telegrams, faxes, telexes and errand boys they eventually will be.

That's sad. But then I'm guilty of not buying too many anymore myself. "

I occasionally buy a postcard and found some plain white ones among my aunt's effects when she died. I think it's just progress really. The phrase 'answers on a postcard ' already has little relevance or meaning to the upcoming generation and I doubt many people under 40 know what a telex is

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

What’s a postcard?

A small card people would send through the post, often With a picture on the front and a short message on the back

Answers on a postcard were often specified by competition organisers etc as it saved them having to open envelopes

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Breathing, Drinking, Eating, Farting , Fucking ,Belching .......... and one or two more .....

and in no particular order...and sometimes more than one at a time.....

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By *wingin CatMan
over a year ago

London

Being nice to people who deserve it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say being awkward.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Being nice to people who deserve it."

Everyone deserves kindness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would say being awkward.

Fucking in, is that woodland, is not awkward behaviour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being a dick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would say being awkward.

Fucking in, is that woodland, is not awkward behaviour

I would say the tourist group that were in front of us on the magical woodland tour would probably disagree with you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would say being awkward.

Fucking in, is that woodland, is not awkward behaviour

I would say the tourist group that were in front of us on the magical woodland tour would probably disagree with you.

What's the name of this tour and do you attend these woods often?

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

I had a natural talent for computer coding in my teens. I don't like public speaking.

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

What’s a postcard?

...

It didn't get so bad they are forgotten now did it? Please say no.

I guess along with telegrams, faxes, telexes and errand boys they eventually will be. "

Morse (the sound variety, not lamp signalling) is still part of my communications arsenal. It has its own sub culture of abbreviations that text speak still has a lot to learn from.

Shame, sometimes, that other car drivers are unlikely to be able to read it!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Being nice to people who deserve it.

Everyone deserves kindness"

Err nope. I can just about to tolerate the existence of some

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Naturally | Spreadsheets, numbers and chess

Un-naturally | anything between the sheets, crosswords and monopoly."

More of a strategist than intuition follower then?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

What’s a postcard?

...

It didn't get so bad they are forgotten now did it? Please say no.

I guess along with telegrams, faxes, telexes and errand boys they eventually will be.

Morse (the sound variety, not lamp signalling) is still part of my communications arsenal. It has its own sub culture of abbreviations that text speak still has a lot to learn from.

Shame, sometimes, that other car drivers are unlikely to be able to read it!"

The thing is that times move on and methods of communication with them. If I'm the only person left with a telex machine I'm going to have very limited opportunities to communicate

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By *amesBeelzebubMan
over a year ago

norwich

Insecurity and over thinking.

I would also say humour too although alot of my humour is inappropriate so I have to keep it to myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahhh that sweet!

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Being awesome!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That flirty look

Also no filter what so ever

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

"Sarcasm... Honestly, I just can't help myself.

Patience/tolerance... Definitely not one of my virtues

I bet you're a delight untangling Christmas lights

I'm actually quite good at that.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Being nice to people who deserve it.

Everyone deserves kindness

Err nope. I can just about to tolerate the existence of some

Ahhhhhh Mon Cher ..... that is not their fault.....

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

Sighing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And what doesn't?

Could be a manual or social skill. Whatever hops to one's mind

What comes naturally to me?

Sarcasm I believe. In runs in my genes.

What doesn't?

Trust. People who get close to me need to make a lot of effort. Bless them.

T. "

Being normal

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sarcasm... Honestly, I just can't help myself.

Patience/tolerance... Definitely not one of my virtues

I bet you're a delight untangling Christmas lights

I'm actually quite good at that. "

You tell Him!! Cheeky bugger;-)

PD I am crap at this. Want to be tangled in some ?

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By *arker secrets 321Man
over a year ago

West Bromwich

Really good will my hands and av great vision on how something will look

Not good at organising making calls etc x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sighing "

Ahhhhh you don't say.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sighing "

Off topic but not really.

What comes naturally to me is adoring your Christmas photo. Everyone check out this amazing fairy hanging off his appendage;-)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sighing

Ahhhhh you don't sigh.

He just said he did !

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sighing

Ahhhhh you don't sigh.

He just said he did !

The best

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By *sh91Man
over a year ago

Blackburn

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By *sh91Man
over a year ago

Blackburn

Going to the gym and MMA

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I make friends easily.

Good with animals

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By *ultured Gent16Man
over a year ago

close.

Manners and a fun self deprecating sense of humour.

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By *ustamanMan
over a year ago

weymouth

Manual based stuff, social skills nope. Generally good at fixing stuff

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

natural... singing along to tunes on the radio

not natural... singing in tune

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Natural - picking up new skills

Not natural - remembering anything the ex tells me.

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By *s2pervsCouple
over a year ago

Truro

"And what doesn't?

Could be a manual or social skill. Whatever hops to one's mind

What comes naturally to me?

Sarcasm I believe. In runs in my genes.

What doesn't?

Trust. People who get close to me need to make a lot of effort. Bless them.

T. "

By my nature (Mr)...moving through time and space...gravity sports, physicality.

Against my nature... aggression and violence.

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By *.R.MMan
over a year ago

Norfolk

Being ghosted

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By *dnmartinMan
over a year ago

Hounslow

Directions.

I do not get lost, give me a map and I can get anywhere straight away, and, more importantly get back.

I cannot speck anything but English and Gibberish. I cannot learn a language to save my life, Gowd knows, I have tried.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Directions.

I do not get lost, give me a map and I can get anywhere straight away, and, more importantly get back.

I cannot speck anything but English and Gibberish. I cannot learn a language to save my life, Gowd knows, I have tried. "

Loving the old school map reading skills. Good orientation is useful for the times when you cannot rely on Google maps heh.

I usually look lost but I'm not. I have a good visual memory and remember routes well when i walk somewhere by myself. Not with people though. People are disruptive.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Things I’m a natural at:

being calm in a crisis

anything involving balance skills like snowboarding etc

never letting on when I dislike you u less I want you to know

sleep, napping, dozing - I could do it at Olympic level for Britain

Fixing computer stuff

being super introverted

finding parking spots in good places quickly

being friend zoned

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

Good at absorbing information and then promptly forgetting it ... so I'm a great secret keeper!

Conversely I've a shocking memory! ...what was this thread about again?!

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

...maybe having the last word??!

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By *hGlobbitsMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Pedantry. Sorry

Good to see you back again

Thank you! You too!

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