FabSwingers.com forum: Rude for the sake of it?

By *igerstyle2k2 OP Man
over a year ago

Oxfordshire

Hey peeps.

I don't mean to kick a hornets nest but...

Are people rude on here (in the mails they send) for the sake of being rude because it's a free site?

Why can't everyone be nice?

Peace and Love!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

absolutely i agree i always reply and always polite ,but then i think people think im boring

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

they seem to be dnt know why

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Ooooooooh! Your post is SO tempting to reply to rudely. But I won't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you mean by rude?

Unfortunately you get nice and rude people everywhere!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The ruder the better for me

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By *igerstyle2k2 OP Man
over a year ago

Oxfordshire

By rude I mean nasty (not the nice kind of nasty), like putting you down and telling you where to go etc.

Or something like sending you a mail giving you an unkind comment on a profile pic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I generally reply in the same manner that I have been messaged

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck you

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By *igerstyle2k2 OP Man
over a year ago

Oxfordshire

"Fuck you

How rude! Haha!

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By *anSusieCouple
over a year ago

Midlothian

I think it's human nature to become defensive if you feel someone has touched on something you feel strongly about or they have a go at you or someone you like. I must confess it happed to me lastnight and i got in a right state, wrote a really long reply but decided to delete as i would have got a two day ban...lol. I'm (Dan) nice and calm today though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"By rude I mean nasty (not the nice kind of nasty), like putting you down and telling you where to go etc.

Or something like sending you a mail giving you an unkind comment on a profile pic."

Just block the rude ones..... Don't waste your energy on them.. There are nice people in here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't block the rude ones - they're the ones you're looking for

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

if they reply to you in a rude fashion after you being pleasant.... think how lucky you are being spared a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I`m guilty of not always answering my mail, but that kind of depends on the mail I get, one liners saying you`re in my area do I want to meet get ignored, I wouldn`t meet someone I don`t know, same goes for the copy and paste message you get every week lol, but if I do reply even if it`s a thanks but no thanks, I try to be polite. Sometimes it`s not easy tho, when guys are being pushy, because you didn`t reply, the instant you read it.

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