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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey everyone!! Jus was wondering should it b only bout meet sex or can it lead to only meeting and making good friends?!

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

It can be whatever you want it to be op .

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

The sex and the tits

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It can be whatever you want it to be op ."

U r right!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes should only be about batting those beavers with your man meat sticks.. this cake shit has to stop.

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

NORWAY Wherever I lay my hat

Everyone is different and that's fine. Personally I prefer to establish a connection and enjoy the social side and the sex in (almost) equal measure

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville


"Hey everyone!! Jus was wondering should it b only bout meet sex or can it lead to only meeting and making good friends?! "

Came for the sex; made lifelong friends.

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By *ai24Man
over a year ago

Hull


"Yes should only be about batting those beavers with your man meat sticks.. this cake shit has to stop."

Good point well presented.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have met more amazing friends than lovers on Fab.

Admittedly, I rarely come here for just sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck and go for me..

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

I like the social atmosphere of the clubs. Oh, and boobies

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

Life isn't only about sex, ormore specifically sexual activity, but it is a major motivator, from an early age in each person's life.

Sex without the prequel of social interaction, is either exploitation and/or prostitution.

In swinging, a connection with the individual person couple or group is vital for an enjoyable, mutually beneficial experience; and the potential of a repeat meet.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

For me It's for...

Fwb's

Fb's

Close friends

Social friends

Kink

Party socials

Shits n giggles on the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There would be a lot less people here if we were expected to be here just for the sex. Or maybe we would all get more sex, because we have to have sex to stay on here? Who knows. This should be part of the 15 minute town. Have to have sex within 15 minutes. Friendship optional.

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

No, sex is best when you get on with the person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fwb

Fb

Friends male as well as female

My kinks which I’m sad to say are quite a few

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

It's all about the ass OP

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Hey everyone!! Jus was wondering should it b only bout meet sex or can it lead to only meeting and making good friends?! "
its about a gambit of things sex is but a small part

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

Friends, sexy friends, having a laugh in the forums, socials, sex and mostly making me smile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It can be whatever you want it to be op ."

This.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"Friends, sexy friends, having a laugh in the forums, socials, sex and mostly making me smile "

Looking at your pictures made me smile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it is to be discombobulated on the forums

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"For me it is to be discombobulated on the forums "

That's to big a word for a Sunday evening

Shafted works better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our opinion is that anyone who has joined Fab Swingers in the first place, must at least have some kind of sexual element as the 'Main' reason for joining !

(reason we say this is because there are so many alternative websites for all other aspects of things 'NON sexually' related)

Once having setup the Fab Profile & being able to join in whichever interest it is that appeals to them,available on Fab (as opposed to other sites) then Hey Presto

If there are additional side lines that also happen to provide interest that happen to be non sexual based then all good.

But it doesn't detract that the original intention was sex based.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke


"Friends, sexy friends, having a laugh in the forums, socials, sex and mostly making me smile

Looking at your pictures made me smile "

I’m glad. Making people smile is my favourite thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me it is to be discombobulated on the forums "

One of my favourite words

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not here for the sex anymore as too many time wasters on here lately plus I’ve made a lot of friends since rejoining and there’s a few of them I’m looking forward to meeting one day

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By *rtyIanMan
over a year ago

Gateway to the Beacons

What's this sex thing you talk of

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex??

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By *ryandseeMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Don't forget the cake!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cake ??

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Sex and cake??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex.

Sex without feelings. Or conversation. Nothing but penetration.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me It's for...

Fwb's

Fb's

Close friends

Social friends

Kink

Party socials

Shits n giggles on the forums"

100% this for me to plus keeping in contact with anyone I've met at a club

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By *rtyIanMan
over a year ago

Gateway to the Beacons


"Sex.

Sex without feelings. Or conversation. Nothing but penetration. "

Nah not for me

Prefer connection and intimacy and the sift stuff from cwtches to kisses

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"Sex.

Sex without feelings. Or conversation. Nothing but penetration. "

Sounds like sex with a ex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sex.

Sex without feelings. Or conversation. Nothing but penetration.

Sounds like sex with a ex "

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

It's what you make it.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Friends, sexy friends, having a laugh in the forums, socials, sex and mostly making me smile "
what about me

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"Sex.

Sex without feelings. Or conversation. Nothing but penetration. "

I feel sorry for gay women, but rules are rules

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the sex bit the best xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's about lots of different things, but yes, sex plays a big part in it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. Unless it’s not.

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By *ausage1970Man
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Sex or whatever you want alot find more here.

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

I’m here to be friendzoned by as many women as possible

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Sex is only great when you have great chemistry outside of the bedroom. Sex can be great too if you physically find the man attractive too but only if he's a nice guy with it. So i look for both on fab. I also like having fab friends and writing erotica. Building up my sexual self esteem too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's what you make it. "

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"I like the sex bit the best xx "

FAF?

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By *oppet22TV/TS
over a year ago

huddersfield

No should be what people what it to be everthing not allways about sex its friendship too

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

We all use it for what we like. Myself it’s purely about casual fucks ultimately

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By *JandCMCouple
over a year ago

cardiff

We got a guy who comes round n everytime he calls round he is normally inside the wife within a few minutes.

But then we do sometimes talk for an hour or so after.

It is better that we get on, no awkwardness.

We sometimes give him a lift back home.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

We aim to make friends. If it leads in a sexual direction then that's great, but that not an objective. It doesn't have for it to be worthwhile knowing people. There are plenty of people off Fab we don't have sex with. Why should Fab be any different? It's just that here it's more likely that we'll meet people who do want it to go that way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We got a guy who comes round n everytime he calls round he is normally inside the wife within a few minutes.

But then we do sometimes talk for an hour or so after.

It is better that we get on, no awkwardness.

We sometimes give him a lift back home."

Sounds like my window cleaner. Does the job in a couple of minutes then chats for hours !

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Even sex isn't about just sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab seems to do a grand job of curing a lot of people of the desire for sex, even when it's what they originally signed up for !

I like messing around on the forum and chatting online with people, but I wouldn't say I'm big on genuinely befriending people from Fab who I'm not likely to sleep with. I don't want to do things like attend socials and have lots of people know my face and name, alongside having access to whatever I divulge in terms of info or pics on here.

So I guess I enjoy the general chit chat and have made a small number of friends I talk properly to and will be more open with, but ultimately it's sex that draws me here. I personally wouldn't stay if it was just to make social friends.

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

Considering a few people have met and taken things off fab. No, not really.

People use this site for what ever reason they need.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

No. It's about people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I come here for madness and erections.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's mostly about cake.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Considering a few people have met and taken things off fab. No, not really.

People use this site for what ever reason they need."

Thieving gets...

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By *weetiepie99Woman
over a year ago

cardiff

The bum and the penis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The bum and the penis"

Reads like a children's book

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By *weetiepie99Woman
over a year ago

cardiff


"The bum and the penis

Reads like a children's book"

The boobs too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wish it is much easier to actually meet people for whatever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fab seems to do a grand job of curing a lot of people of the desire for sex, even when it's what they originally signed up for !

I like messing around on the forum and chatting online with people, but I wouldn't say I'm big on genuinely befriending people from Fab who I'm not likely to sleep with. I don't want to do things like attend socials and have lots of people know my face and name, alongside having access to whatever I divulge in terms of info or pics on here.

So I guess I enjoy the general chit chat and have made a small number of friends I talk properly to and will be more open with, but ultimately it's sex that draws me here. I personally wouldn't stay if it was just to make social friends.

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Nice rack

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it should be about the ice lollies as well. Personally I preferred zoom.

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

We seem to have made friends for life on here already!

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Fab is the platform, you choose how you want to use it. For me it’s a place to show off my very alluring armpits.

The mr

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By *inAndTonic21Couple
over a year ago

Merseyside

Think fab is what you make it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think fab is more of a community now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No sex is best when you get on with the person. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fab seems to do a grand job of curing a lot of people of the desire for sex, even when it's what they originally signed up for !

...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like the sex bit the best xx

FAF? "

Our last car had those letters FAF on the no plate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think fab is more of a community now"

You could be right there, as majority are single males it sort of defeats the point of Swinging

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World

I just come here to look at the thighs.......

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By *oppolocosTV/TS
over a year ago

inverurie

Like any social interaction it goes where you want it to go, even if you end up not liking the destination.

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By *ackbydemandMan
over a year ago

Leicester

If I don't make a good social connection then there won't be any sex anyway

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By *ustamanMan
over a year ago

weymouth


"Yes should only be about batting those beavers with your man meat sticks.. this cake shit has to stop."

There's cake , nobody mentioned cake

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

It's should be about everything else that the site isn't meant for, as everything else afterwards is a bonus.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes should only be about batting those beavers with your man meat sticks.. this cake shit has to stop.

There's cake , nobody mentioned cake "

I’ve had cake and pizza in clubs but nobody offered me popcorn

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By *r_North-EastMan
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Wait? This website is about sex? When do we get the sex?

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