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"We want to see the goods. Soft cock, hard cock and bumhole pics are what the ladies like to see " Shhhh, stop giving your secrets away! | |||
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"I've been on here awhile now really struggling to get started any tips? Apart from bio ive seen much worse than mine and they got loads of verification and meets so." Welcome to fab. Just my penniesworth. Don’t compare yourself to others. | |||
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"The rough, yank and spank would put me off, im sure others would be into that though but it will narrow down your options. Mrs " Puts me off too | |||
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"The rough, yank and spank would put me off, im sure others would be into that though but it will narrow down your options. Mrs " Agree with the about I love a spank but reading that would put me off. | |||
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"I've been on here awhile now really struggling to get started any tips? Apart from bio ive seen much worse than mine and they got loads of verification and meets so." I’d advise someone new and looking to get started to attend socials and join a club. It’s a cliche and I’m sure you’ve probably heard it before but it’s something I recommend, if you really want to get started. I don’t know what your experience is around others but if you go to a club you can potentially experience things, meet people and see if the scene is for you. There’s nothing particularly wrong with your profile, but what you are looking for will narrow your searches down. Those things you’re into aren’t that common, especially with people meeting newbies. So it’s just having some patience and literally just striking the right time and place, regarding messaging someone who is into that. I wouldn’t compare your profile to someone else’s because everyone is different they might be a club regular or been on before, there are loads of reasons why he might have more verifications… All the best! | |||
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"I've been on here awhile now really struggling to get started any tips? Apart from bio ive seen much worse than mine and they got loads of verification and meets so." Your bio will frighten most women off. And we are not a piece of meet for you to use and abuse! | |||
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"I've been on here awhile now really struggling to get started any tips? Apart from bio ive seen much worse than mine and they got loads of verification and meets so." What do you mean by no ‘baggage’ | |||
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"Deleted somethings on my bio guys so cheers for that. TMontana i noticed you're from sheffield any clubs round Sheff/donny/leeds area? also you are definitely the kind of guy i see killing it on a site like this. swear a guy has to look like you to get sucess on here." Sadly La Chambre and Asylum closed in lockdown and never reopened. Leeds has two clubs though which are supposedly good. Quest and Pandora. No don’t say that, there are many people that don’t like the way I look everyone is different and looking for different things that’s the beauty of the scene… All you can do is be yourself. I wouldn’t have deleted it because ultimately that’s what you were looking for and soon enough you’ll come across someone seeking that. | |||
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"I wanna see personality." ….. I want to see people & I want to see life! *one for the music nerds. | |||
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"Personality how do I convey that on a bio? " Just write what you are trying to say. Don’t think too much about it. | |||
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"Personality how do I convey that on a bio? " Borrow my personality, I’m not using it, and don’t need it lately. | |||
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"I wanna see personality. ….. I want to see people & I want to see life! *one for the music nerds. " My favourite song of theirs | |||
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"I've been on here awhile now really struggling to get started any tips? Apart from bio ive seen much worse than mine and they got loads of verification and meets so. What do you mean by no ‘baggage’ " I don't think he wants to meet them after doing the supermarket shop | |||
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"Personality how do I convey that on a bio? " Write it like you're having a conversation. That's what I do, I mean it's conversations in my head but still. It works. | |||
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"Deleted somethings on my bio guys so cheers for that. TMontana i noticed you're from sheffield any clubs round Sheff/donny/leeds area? also you are definitely the kind of guy i see killing it on a site like this. swear a guy has to look like you to get sucess on here." This 100% | |||
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"I've been on here awhile now really struggling to get started any tips? Apart from bio ive seen much worse than mine and they got loads of verification and meets so. What do you mean by no ‘baggage’ I don't think he wants to meet them after doing the supermarket shop " | |||
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"I've been on here awhile now really struggling to get started any tips? Apart from bio ive seen much worse than mine and they got loads of verification and meets so. Welcome to fab. Just my penniesworth. Don’t compare yourself to others. " Be yourself | |||
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"We want to see the goods. Soft cock, hard cock and bumhole pics are what the ladies like to see " Well damn... been doing this wrong all along... | |||
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"you really think some cock pictures will make much difference lol" Not some ALL the cock pics | |||
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"I wanna see personality." I don’t look at their personality when I’m ploughing away at her love hole | |||
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"I wanna see personality. I don’t look at their personality when I’m ploughing away at her love hole " Exactly they trolling when they talking about personality | |||
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"for the people saying looks dont matter on here why are women deleting my mails when i said a photo then..." You need a mix of ingredients to make a good sandwich...the bread without the filling isn't very satisfying...I think | |||
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"I've been on here awhile now really struggling to get started any tips? Apart from bio ive seen much worse than mine and they got loads of verification and meets so. Welcome to fab. Just my penniesworth. Don’t compare yourself to others. Be yourself " Exactly. Unless playing Dungeons and Dragons, because the whole idea is to be someone else. . | |||
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"I've been on here awhile now really struggling to get started any tips? Apart from bio ive seen much worse than mine and they got loads of verification and meets so. Welcome to fab. Just my penniesworth. Don’t compare yourself to others. Be yourself " Unless your name is Mac Foster | |||
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"for the people saying looks dont matter on here why are women deleting my mails when i said a photo then... You need a mix of ingredients to make a good sandwich...the bread without the filling isn't very satisfying...I think" This translates to (fill your butt with tuna, sweetcorn and mayo and take a spread arse pic) | |||
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"I wanna see personality. I don’t look at their personality when I’m ploughing away at her love hole Exactly they trolling when they talking about personality" No honestly they’re not. Personality goes a long way | |||
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"I've been on here awhile now really struggling to get started any tips? Apart from bio ive seen much worse than mine and they got loads of verification and meets so. Welcome to fab. Just my penniesworth. Don’t compare yourself to others. Be yourself " Being himself isn't doing him any good he needs to be somebody else | |||
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"I've been on here awhile now really struggling to get started any tips? Apart from bio ive seen much worse than mine and they got loads of verification and meets so. Welcome to fab. Just my penniesworth. Don’t compare yourself to others. Be yourself Being himself isn't doing him any good he needs to be somebody else " I’d try Tmontana, I don’t think anyone could go wrong they could pull him off. * waits……. | |||
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"I've been on here awhile now really struggling to get started any tips? Apart from bio ive seen much worse than mine and they got loads of verification and meets so." Some great tips on this thread..... https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/support/1376577 Winston | |||
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"Deleted somethings on my bio guys so cheers for that. TMontana i noticed you're from sheffield any clubs round Sheff/donny/leeds area? also you are definitely the kind of guy i see killing it on a site like this. swear a guy has to look like you to get sucess on here." • You've been here eight weeks. That really isn't long at all in the grand scheme of things. As the other gentlefolk have suggested get yourself to a Fab Organised social (or even a club), meet some fellow fabbers and cultivate those friendships. Leave your expectations at home; those will follow through eventually as you slowly build your connections. ° Oh, and TMontana is still a puppy; I mentored him. | |||
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"Deleted somethings on my bio guys so cheers for that. TMontana i noticed you're from sheffield any clubs round Sheff/donny/leeds area? also you are definitely the kind of guy i see killing it on a site like this. swear a guy has to look like you to get sucess on here." Had to scroll up to make sure F&B didn’t post this | |||
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"Weirdly OP I’ve had you on my hotlist for quite some time but despite being pretty spot on for your wish list in a woman, I would quite frankly eat you alive " This haha | |||
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"There are a couples of typos in your bio text. ‘Open minded’ And ‘Someone I’m attracted to’ (the ‘to’ is missing) Apologies. Good spelling and grammar is my jam " I thought your...you know what I'll leave that for DMs | |||
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"Weirdly OP I’ve had you on my hotlist for quite some time but despite being pretty spot on for your wish list in a woman, I would quite frankly eat you alive " Lol! I meet men scared to go to a club and my second time at Hellfire I made 3 men get fully undressed to join me in the cage on the stage. My first MMF at Rio's Yeah I'm not for the scared. | |||
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"I've been on here awhile now really struggling to get started any tips? Apart from bio ive seen much worse than mine and they got loads of verification and meets so." turn the ignition on | |||
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"They all say that " Proof's in the pudding, Petal. If you can't handle a club alone...you can't handle me. I've been to the clubs alone and as a couple meet. | |||
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"Your profile is still fairly generic. Why do you feel the need to mention your height in your bio when that information is already available elsewhere on your profile? It's just one of those things that gives others the impression that you've put it together in a hurry. Given that men outnumber women on fab by around 100 to 1, you really need to stand out. Have a USP. Something special to catch someones attention. And as most of those you message will check out your profile before even considering opening your message (though you'll likely know nothing about is as most browse in mode) if your profile doesn't grab their interest, why should they bother to read what you've sent them, let alone reply? A lot of guys come on the forum after a short time being here, complaining about a lack of 'success' thinking that there's some magic silver bullet or something to getting meets. Spoiler alert! - There isn't. What works for one person might not work for someone else. At the end of the day, not everyone you fancy is going to fancy you back - and vice versa. Unfortunately, most guys join fab on the assumption that there are desperate horny women just gagging for it who will fuck anyone - which couldn't be futher from the truth. Realign your expectations. Effort in - rewards out" He can add the height twice. I like making 6-foot men squirm and moan....twice. Lol! | |||
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"I’m having deja vu… I’m sure I seen a post on the forum yesterday from someone with your profile pic that had joined about a year ago asking a similar thing " I want what she’s been drinking | |||
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"I’m having deja vu… I’m sure I seen a post on the forum yesterday from someone with your profile pic that had joined about a year ago asking a similar thing I want what she’s been drinking " Spunk? | |||
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"I’m having deja vu… I’m sure I seen a post on the forum yesterday from someone with your profile pic that had joined about a year ago asking a similar thing I want what she’s been drinking " I hope someone pipes up and agrees with me, unless the OP has posted virtually the same question in the forum twice. The bio is the same. The comments yesterday were about him sounding too dominant … someone back me up | |||
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"I’m having deja vu… I’m sure I seen a post on the forum yesterday from someone with your profile pic that had joined about a year ago asking a similar thing I want what she’s been drinking I hope someone pipes up and agrees with me, unless the OP has posted virtually the same question in the forum twice. The bio is the same. The comments yesterday were about him sounding too dominant … someone back me up " Green arrow | |||
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"Weirdly OP I’ve had you on my hotlist for quite some time but despite being pretty spot on for your wish list in a woman, I would quite frankly eat you alive This haha" Danm brah you as cold as ice | |||
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"I’m having deja vu… I’m sure I seen a post on the forum yesterday from someone with your profile pic that had joined about a year ago asking a similar thing I want what she’s been drinking I hope someone pipes up and agrees with me, unless the OP has posted virtually the same question in the forum twice. The bio is the same. The comments yesterday were about him sounding too dominant … someone back me up Green arrow " I don’t know what the green arrow does | |||
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"I’m having deja vu… I’m sure I seen a post on the forum yesterday from someone with your profile pic that had joined about a year ago asking a similar thing " There's another thread, from a few weeks ago on a different section of the forum. | |||
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"I’m having deja vu… I’m sure I seen a post on the forum yesterday from someone with your profile pic that had joined about a year ago asking a similar thing I want what she’s been drinking I hope someone pipes up and agrees with me, unless the OP has posted virtually the same question in the forum twice. The bio is the same. The comments yesterday were about him sounding too dominant … someone back me up Green arrow I don’t know what the green arrow does " Click on the green arrow by his name, shows you all the threads he's made/commented on | |||
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"I’m having deja vu… I’m sure I seen a post on the forum yesterday from someone with your profile pic that had joined about a year ago asking a similar thing There's another thread, from a few weeks ago on a different section of the forum." Thank you! I thought I was going mad | |||
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"I’m having deja vu… I’m sure I seen a post on the forum yesterday from someone with your profile pic that had joined about a year ago asking a similar thing " That's because he did. The Green arrow reveals all. | |||
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"I’m having deja vu… I’m sure I seen a post on the forum yesterday from someone with your profile pic that had joined about a year ago asking a similar thing That's because he did. The Green arrow reveals all. " Thank you. I wasn’t aware that’s what the green arrow was for. Seems a bit odd to start two almost identical threads when the other one was still active | |||
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"I’m having deja vu… I’m sure I seen a post on the forum yesterday from someone with your profile pic that had joined about a year ago asking a similar thing I want what she’s been drinking I hope someone pipes up and agrees with me, unless the OP has posted virtually the same question in the forum twice. The bio is the same. The comments yesterday were about him sounding too dominant … someone back me up " Someone posted the link you may be thinking of further up is this thread. Winston | |||
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"I’m having deja vu… I’m sure I seen a post on the forum yesterday from someone with your profile pic that had joined about a year ago asking a similar thing There's another thread, from a few weeks ago on a different section of the forum. Thank you! I thought I was going mad " Good PI skills Sam. Can I use those skills for the reverse gangbang? | |||
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"I’m having deja vu… I’m sure I seen a post on the forum yesterday from someone with your profile pic that had joined about a year ago asking a similar thing I want what she’s been drinking I hope someone pipes up and agrees with me, unless the OP has posted virtually the same question in the forum twice. The bio is the same. The comments yesterday were about him sounding too dominant … someone back me up Green arrow I don’t know what the green arrow does Click on the green arrow by his name, shows you all the threads he's made/commented on" Cackle this is too entertaining. | |||
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"You've been on 8 weeks which in fab years is 5 minutes " Some women talk but they send like 1-2 messages then not reply its weird. | |||
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"I suspect your personality may be putting people off." Oh right you know me right? | |||
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"I’m having deja vu… I’m sure I seen a post on the forum yesterday from someone with your profile pic that had joined about a year ago asking a similar thing I want what she’s been drinking I hope someone pipes up and agrees with me, unless the OP has posted virtually the same question in the forum twice. The bio is the same. The comments yesterday were about him sounding too dominant … someone back me up Green arrow I don’t know what the green arrow does " i didnt know this either,, hmm interesting | |||
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"Green arrow I don’t know what the green arrow does i didnt know this either,, hmm interesting " If you click on the Green Arrow by a persons name in the thread, it brings up a list of threads that person has commented on | |||
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