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Mixed Xmas get together

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By *riendlyfunfem OP   Woman
over a year ago

A world of my own

Notts has recently posted about a Xmas party inviting, I assume, only swingers. I am thinking of having a little get together between Xmas and new year, and want to invite family and friends and would also like to invite a few friends from Fabs. It would be purely social, unless at the end of the night there were just 'fabs friends' left. Do you think its a good idea or not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yerrrrrrr go for it hun

The fab friends will know to behave themselves till the vanillas have gone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

all depends on how good your fab friends are at keeping quiet when the alcohols in them lol

Could make for an interesting evening lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you could accidently let something slip about swinging to your fab friends, that might be overheard by your family, never the twain shall meet lol Dont do it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think you could accidently let something slip about swinging to your fab friends, that might be overheard by your family, never the twain shall meet lol Dont do it x"

This is the second time tonight I have agreed with you

It only takes one wrong word or hand up the wrong skirt to unravel your hobby ........ I would be paranoid all night and not be able to relax if I mixed the two sets

Hope you have fun which ever you decide on x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It could be absolutely fine, or it could go pearshaped by one slip of the tongue (was meaning verbal here lol) - guess you need to think about the fall out if it got out to your family - only you know the people involved......

You could invite the family for the afternoon then your fab pals later! Tell the family your going out, so they go lol! Therefore only one lot of sorting out the house..........!

Just have fun!! You don't want to be on tenderhooks the whole time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Notts has recently posted about a Xmas party inviting, I assume, only swingers. I am thinking of having a little get together between Xmas and new year, and want to invite family and friends and would also like to invite a few friends from Fabs. It would be purely social, unless at the end of the night there were just 'fabs friends' left. Do you think its a good idea or not?"

Well for fear it pulled for my posting on... in which case I'm sorry..

We have done that many times over.. never been any issues whatsover..

Even had 12 couples attend a wedding reception.. again, no bother!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are we all so totally sex obsessed that if we were invited to a party such as this we wouldn't be able to contain ourselves till the 'vanilla' crowd were gone !!!!!

Surely you go places, work, parties, pubs, friends houses where you converse normally with no reference to swinging at all ???

Choose your Fab friends carefully and all will be fine I'm sure xxx

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting

So long as the vanilla friends get the hint and go when you want them too so that Fab peeps can have some playtime, lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In our case being fair... many already know what we do, friends and family.. (No Issues by the way) and those that don't.. if it bothered them, it's their problem, not ours... Our life!! Never set out to upset.. but we don't tell anyone else whats right or wrong, so why would they.. Besides as said, when its a mixed do.. people can and do behave.

We go to many normal social functions too... BBQ's Weddings.. alsorts.. Its never once been nor caused a problem.

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By *riendlyfunfem OP   Woman
over a year ago

A world of my own

Thanks for all your posts, I think my fab friends would be just same as my regular friends, its a social gathering,relaxed, chilled, the usual party fun and games with maybe a little alternative fun later depending on the situation. I don't have much in the way of family, just my daughter really but she would disappear to a club with her friends later.

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting

FFF - sounds like you have the confidence in your friends - all of em - to make it work - so go for it girl, and enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oooo Can I have an invite?

Got this luvly new floral dress I want to show off...And red slingbacks...

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting

Dr Snog - you is just a tart isnt ya!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dr Snog - you is just a tart isnt ya!!!"

Yes...

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By *riendlyfunfem OP   Woman
over a year ago

A world of my own

Snoggy your the top of my list mmwwwaaah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Snoggy your the top of my list mmwwwaaah "

Aww Thank you and can me Mum come with as well? she,ll be passed out by 10.30 pissed on gin bless...

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By *riendlyfunfem OP   Woman
over a year ago

A world of my own


"Snoggy your the top of my list mmwwwaaah

Aww Thank you and can me Mum come with as well? she,ll be passed out by 10.30 pissed on gin bless... "

Don't do gin, she'll have to bring her own!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Snoggy your the top of my list mmwwwaaah

Aww Thank you and can me Mum come with as well? she,ll be passed out by 10.30 pissed on gin bless...

Don't do gin, she'll have to bring her own!"

Its in her handbag 24/7 no probs..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Awww, that's nice re: party.

However, I am camping from 30 Dec until Sun 03 Jan in South Devon, so it is unlikely I can join you.

Shame, as I would love to bring a chocolate mousse or a Tiramisu along with me!

Peeps would have to wait longer for them

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