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"It’s got to mark you down as seriously a bit sad if you have anything like that number of verifications and, quite obviously, are still asking people to verify you. Why ???????" How does it make someone sad? Why not still get verifications? Better to have recent ones than only have one from years ago. | |||
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"Blimey I better slow down I’m nearly at the clapped out old banger stage " this was tongue in cheek! | |||
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"I have been verified 81 times, some socials, some club meets, single guys, some don't count because one person has verified me more than once. This is having been on Fab for over 10 years I might add So yep, guess that makes me a clapped out banger hey " My kind of lady x | |||
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"Decided to hide mine because the number of veris without context means bugger all " It just proves you're real and some fella in a frock | |||
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"It’s got to mark you down as seriously a bit sad if you have anything like that number of verifications and, quite obviously, are still asking people to verify you. Why ???????" You are assuming people ask for verifications I haven't asked for any of the verifications I have received and don't publish most of them. | |||
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"It’s got to mark you down as seriously a bit sad if you have anything like that number of verifications and, quite obviously, are still asking people to verify you. Why ??????? You are assuming people ask for verifications I haven't asked for any of the verifications I have received and don't publish most of them. " I verify people I meet. I have never asked for, or been asked, to be verified or verify anybody in any other way. I publish mine, because as a single man, it's difficult to get picked out from the wannabes and fantasists who exist here | |||
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" I noticed someone on my feed receiving their 75th verification ( yes yes, I know some are socials, don't take things so literally!) So when you get to this super status, are you a sought after classic with ardent followers, or a rusty old banger who's a cheap and cheerful option? This thread, may be somewhat tongue in cheek! " More than 4 veris showing... they're a banger! | |||
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"I’ve got loads of social ones. As for sexual ones, if I thought they were the kind of person who felt the need to leave a verification and mention anything we did I wouldn’t have met them in the first place. I don’t leave them for people either. " Not keen on the ones that give a blow by blow account, and don't leave them | |||
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"It’s got to mark you down as seriously a bit sad if you have anything like that number of verifications and, quite obviously, are still asking people to verify you. Why ???????" I'm the biggest sado going then? x | |||
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"I’ve got loads of social ones. As for sexual ones, if I thought they were the kind of person who felt the need to leave a verification and mention anything we did I wouldn’t have met them in the first place. I don’t leave them for people either. Not keen on the ones that give a blow by blow account, and don't leave them " Me neither. Puts me right off. That’s just my opinion though and how I do things. I get that people love a veri and love all the details . I like reading them. I just don’t show mine. | |||
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"Decided to hide mine because the number of veris without context means bugger all " This is why I don't show my numbers, majority are socials but I know people will make assumptions and judge. | |||
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"I’ve got loads of social ones. As for sexual ones, if I thought they were the kind of person who felt the need to leave a verification and mention anything we did I wouldn’t have met them in the first place. I don’t leave them for people either. Not keen on the ones that give a blow by blow account, and don't leave them Me neither. Puts me right off. That’s just my opinion though and how I do things. I get that people love a veri and love all the details . I like reading them. I just don’t show mine. " It's a participation sport. Not keen on reading other people's theories | |||
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"Decided to hide mine because the number of veris without context means bugger all This is why I don't show my numbers, majority are socials but I know people will make assumptions and judge." Assumptions are always wrong. Meet, have fun, don't give a fuck what other people think | |||
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"I only have two verifications. I'm very classy. I think if you have more than five you're a total sex addict and you have a big problem. " Everyone knows that 'social' veris don't exist. | |||
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"I only have two verifications. I'm very classy. I think if you have more than five you're a total sex addict and you have a big problem. Everyone knows that 'social' veris don't exist." Does 18 make me sex addict? | |||
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"Decided to hide mine because the number of veris without context means bugger all This is why I don't show my numbers, majority are socials but I know people will make assumptions and judge. Assumptions are always wrong. Meet, have fun, don't give a fuck what other people think " Absoulutley this! X | |||
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"I sometimes think people can't do right for wrong. Few veris, probably time wasters. Lots of veris, then clapped out. Just go on the individual and whether you get on or not. " Very true x | |||
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"I only have two verifications. I'm very classy. I think if you have more than five you're a total sex addict and you have a big problem. Everyone knows that 'social' veris don't exist. Does 18 make me sex addict? " Yes! Even if they are spread over 18 years! | |||
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"I only have two verifications. I'm very classy. I think if you have more than five you're a total sex addict and you have a big problem. Everyone knows that 'social' veris don't exist. Does 18 make me sex addict? Yes! Even if they are spread over 18 years! " Guilty as charged! | |||
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"It’s got to mark you down as seriously a bit sad if you have anything like that number of verifications and, quite obviously, are still asking people to verify you. Why ???????" Rude and patronising. | |||
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"I only have two verifications. I'm very classy. I think if you have more than five you're a total sex addict and you have a big problem. " Hahahaha well that's me told lmao | |||
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"Perceptions on veris always amuse me. Some spend their lives chasing just one, adamant that they can't get meets or become a 'real swinger'() () without one. Other perceive those with a reasonable number to be disease infested deviants who'd bang a hole in an old sofa if it was available in the early hours of a Sunday morning. Some think those that hide theirs are hiding something else. Some think that those that show every one have pu listed a full and accurate list of everyone they've ever shagged in their lives. Veris are just words on a screen that show two (or more) people met. The content is often irrelevant to anyone but those involved. It's really not worth overthinking them or considering it a contest to rack up a particular number. A" I never read them. It's just a signal that they're real people to me | |||
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"I have 100 plus over more than 10 years Seen a single member with over 100 in 7 months, between 3 and 4 a week! Thats the ones they have had verifications from! " Good for them! X | |||
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"I have 100 plus over more than 10 years Seen a single member with over 100 in 7 months, between 3 and 4 a week! Thats the ones they have had verifications from! Good for them! X" I'm just jealous | |||
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" I noticed someone on my feed receiving their 75th verification ( yes yes, I know some are socials, don't take things so literally!) So when you get to this super status, are you a sought after classic with ardent followers, or a rusty old banger who's a cheap and cheerful option? This thread, may be somewhat tongue in cheek! " Don’t feel like a rusty old banger that’s for sure and hopefully we will pass our next mot allowing us to put a few more miles on the clock, although maybe at a more leisurely pace. Have to say a lot of ours are socials but not really bothered if our number is off putting to people or not and we all know people hide lots of theirs anyway so never a true reflection in most cases and we are always wary of people that don’t display their’s, | |||
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"I have 100 plus over more than 10 years Seen a single member with over 100 in 7 months, between 3 and 4 a week! Thats the ones they have had verifications from! Good for them! X I'm just jealous " x | |||
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"We’ve received verifications from people we haven’t met and one for cam, we have never been on cam " That's a bit tonk. Gives folks a bad name | |||
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"We’ve received verifications from people we haven’t met and one for cam, we have never been on cam " You can report to admin and ask them to be removed | |||
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"Blimey I better slow down I’m nearly at the clapped out old banger stage " Oi pack it in Still a lot of things going on under the bonnet | |||
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"Biggest regret when me and my wife first started our couples profile was to avoid people with lots of verifications as we thought they would have been to experienced for us, if only we had just met the couples with more then maybe the wife would have had a better experience and still been active on here with me now " | |||
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"Biggest regret when me and my wife first started our couples profile was to avoid people with lots of verifications as we thought they would have been to experienced for us, if only we had just met the couples with more then maybe the wife would have had a better experience and still been active on here with me now " It isn't all bad we are both happier with the dynamic we have now anyway, I actually prefer doing it as a single most of the time and I still get to come home to an amazing understanding wife at the end of the day so all is good | |||
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"We’ve received verifications from people we haven’t met and one for cam, we have never been on cam You can report to admin and ask them to be removed " But they stay on your verification summary don’t they? We just messaged them and asked what the heck? and obviously didn’t display them | |||
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"We’ve received verifications from people we haven’t met and one for cam, we have never been on cam You can report to admin and ask them to be removed But they stay on your verification summary don’t they? We just messaged them and asked what the heck? and obviously didn’t display them" On a previous profile I got a veri from a man who was pretending to have been at a fab walking event. He verified a few others who were actually there but no-one had a clue who he was. I couldn't display my summary until admin removed it which was bad enough but in the veri he referred to me as a very sexy lady he would like to meet again | |||
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"We’ve received verifications from people we haven’t met and one for cam, we have never been on cam You can report to admin and ask them to be removed But they stay on your verification summary don’t they? We just messaged them and asked what the heck? and obviously didn’t display them On a previous profile I got a veri from a man who was pretending to have been at a fab walking event. He verified a few others who were actually there but no-one had a clue who he was. I couldn't display my summary until admin removed it which was bad enough but in the veri he referred to me as a very sexy lady he would like to meet again " Oh ooops! He messed up there didn’t he When we messaged the people who verified us to question it they said it was mistaken identity | |||
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"Veris are just words on a screen that show two (or more) people met. The content is often irrelevant to anyone but those involved. It's really not worth overthinking them or considering it a contest to rack up a particular number. A" Couldn’t have said it any better | |||
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"We’ve received verifications from people we haven’t met and one for cam, we have never been on cam You can report to admin and ask them to be removed " Just received another fake one this morning and they messaged to ask for one in return yet have their profile hidden, we have never been to the party they said we met at so reported them, see if it gets removed off our profile, not displaying it that’s for sure. | |||
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"We would like just one" If we were closer we'd happily have a social with you. I'm sure someone in your neck of the woods would have a coffee with you both. LA | |||
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"We’ve received verifications from people we haven’t met and one for cam, we have never been on cam You can report to admin and ask them to be removed Just received another fake one this morning and they messaged to ask for one in return yet have their profile hidden, we have never been to the party they said we met at so reported them, see if it gets removed off our profile, not displaying it that’s for sure." Really!!!??? Not experienced that one, yet.. We'd be the same, ie ignore. Too many fakes and idiots as it is | |||
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" I noticed someone on my feed receiving their 75th verification ( yes yes, I know some are socials, don't take things so literally!) So when you get to this super status, are you a sought after classic with ardent followers, or a rusty old banger who's a cheap and cheerful option? This thread, may be somewhat tongue in cheek! " They will soon start to be told they have too many!! | |||
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"I'm on 209 now and it's actually another great filter for me " Omg | |||
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" I noticed someone on my feed receiving their 75th verification ( yes yes, I know some are socials, don't take things so literally!) So when you get to this super status, are you a sought after classic with ardent followers, or a rusty old banger who's a cheap and cheerful option? This thread, may be somewhat tongue in cheek! " I am happy to speak for myself and say I am a cheap rusty old banger… but I am cheerful and still capable of getting someone from a to b | |||
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"I have 1 social and no meet ones visible as who i meet and what we do is between us - i think my profile mentions discretion - and i think its indiscreet to have who when & what you got up to for everyone to read. If someone wants that on their profile - it’s their profile their rules. I wouldn’t judge anyone because it’s none of my business. " I have never looked at it like this but I can totally understand where you are coming from… very good, I like it ???? I still show a boat load on mine but full respect on your stance | |||
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"I'm not arsed by the number of verifications but I know some people get very judgy about it. If anyone wants to judge me on anything about my profile or my activity on here that's fine by me, just don't feel the need to share that judgement with me and all will be well. " This is the wrong place for judgement. There's enough of that in vanilla world | |||
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"I know the tongue in cheek disclaimer and all... But I always find the rush on here to justify lots of verifications as social. If you find 120 people on here you wanted to fuck more power to you. Ya gotta love fabs open-mindedness " I don't like to see any veris on a profile. I don't care if they've met 3,000 people for coffee or sex, I just don't want to know the gory details. | |||
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"I know the tongue in cheek disclaimer and all... But I always find the rush on here to justify lots of verifications as social. If you find 120 people on here you wanted to fuck more power to you. Ya gotta love fabs open-mindedness I don't like to see any veris on a profile. I don't care if they've met 3,000 people for coffee or sex, I just don't want to know the gory details. " Ummmmm how else am I suppose to know she has the bestest mouth on fab!!! | |||
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"It's not so much the number of verifications as a lot will be socials or cam. It's the number of meets. I recently saw a lady with 326 meets which did put me off." Why? I've been on here as a single and couple for 14 years. In that time I've probably had 300+ meets. That works out at around an average of 20 a year. Less than 2 a month. Shocking. A *I've also had sex with other people off site so that number is already fucked. Don't sweat the numbers. It’s pointless. | |||
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"I know the tongue in cheek disclaimer and all... But I always find the rush on here to justify lots of verifications as social. If you find 120 people on here you wanted to fuck more power to you. Ya gotta love fabs open-mindedness I don't like to see any veris on a profile. I don't care if they've met 3,000 people for coffee or sex, I just don't want to know the gory details. Ummmmm how else am I suppose to know she has the bestest mouth on fab!!!" | |||
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"It’s got to mark you down as seriously a bit sad if you have anything like that number of verifications and, quite obviously, are still asking people to verify you. Why ???????" I must be very sad then. Although I rarely ask for a verification. To be fair I've not got that many on this profile as had a good deal of time out and this profile is only a few years old | |||
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"It's not so much the number of verifications as a lot will be socials or cam. It's the number of meets. I recently saw a lady with 326 meets which did put me off." why.... I've had way more than that in a month in the past... but my profile wouldn't reflect that. I rarely get meet verifications | |||
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"It's never really occurred to us that people would have issues too many veris. We like to see veris on profiles but are never worried about the number. " Everyone uses the site differently. I wouldn’t worry too much about it. The people who have issues with “too many veris” aren’t the sort of people you want to be meeting anyway (assuming you are someone who chooses to show lots of verifications) There’s also the issue of groups like single men *maybe* needing to show more veris than, say, couples. But that’s a whole other conversation. | |||
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"I'm on 209 now and it's actually another great filter for me " I only have 208 to go | |||
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"It means you're sociable and probably popular and reliable!" Yes. Couldn’t agree more | |||
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"Who wants to verify me? I'll show balls" You show your balls, I'll show my face and we'll verify each other | |||
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"Who wants to verify me? I'll show balls You show your balls, I'll show my face and we'll verify each other " DM me already then you lil teaseypie youuuu I honestly feel d*unk I'm so tired | |||
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"I have zero as I'm a virgin " You need to get out more | |||
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"I have zero as I'm a virgin " I'll be gentle Actually that's a lie I'm gonna be ruthless x | |||
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"That many veris must mean they are a right goer! " Gapping fanny! (((((0))))) | |||
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"That many veris must mean they are a right goer! Gapping fanny! (((((0)))))" That's a 'Red Bull' fanny. With wings........... A | |||
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" I noticed someone on my feed receiving their 75th verification ( yes yes, I know some are socials, don't take things so literally!) So when you get to this super status, are you a sought after classic with ardent followers, or a rusty old banger who's a cheap and cheerful option? This thread, may be somewhat tongue in cheek! " Well...I have 55 I think...all socials,parties apart from two,they were play ones. | |||
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"That many veris must mean they are a right goer! Gapping fanny! (((((0))))) That's a 'Red Bull' fanny. With wings........... A" | |||
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"That many veris must mean they are a right goer! Gapping fanny! (((((0)))))" What exactly is a Gapping fanny? | |||
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" I noticed someone on my feed receiving their 75th verification ( yes yes, I know some are socials, don't take things so literally!) So when you get to this super status, are you a sought after classic with ardent followers, or a rusty old banger who's a cheap and cheerful option? This thread, may be somewhat tongue in cheek! " People who have hundreds are amazing fun people. | |||
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" I noticed someone on my feed receiving their 75th verification ( yes yes, I know some are socials, don't take things so literally!) So when you get to this super status, are you a sought after classic with ardent followers, or a rusty old banger who's a cheap and cheerful option? This thread, may be somewhat tongue in cheek! People who have hundreds are amazing fun people." I like to think so x | |||
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"I don’t have a gaping Fanny " Maybe a gaping man clam instead | |||
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"Fab platinum status" means you get loads more perks | |||
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"With the number we have, guessing we need a thorough service to prevent becoming 'bangers'.. Loving the folk saying more than 'x' number you're sad, weird or will fuck anything.. Not true it sure as hell won't be them!! " I don't care if people have 0, 1 or 10,000 veris, I just don't like to see them on profiles. I don't ask non Fab people for a spreadsheet of who they fucked either.... | |||
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"With the number we have, guessing we need a thorough service to prevent becoming 'bangers'.. Loving the folk saying more than 'x' number you're sad, weird or will fuck anything.. Not true it sure as hell won't be them!! I don't care if people have 0, 1 or 10,000 veris, I just don't like to see them on profiles. I don't ask non Fab people for a spreadsheet of who they fucked either.... " As is your prerogative and preference, which we respect. Merely pointing out that to sit in judgement of someone's character as some have done on this thread, not you we may add) because their profile is not to their taste, in our opinion goes against the attitudes we enjoy within the lifestyle and we would avoid them. | |||
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