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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I apologise in advance if this is a stupid or offensive question somehow.

I've starting thinking I would quite like to start meeting couples for friendship leading to more maybe. However I'm not bi (more of a pillow princess I believe the term is) and it always seems that the women are expected to be bi during a fmf but not men in a mfm.

Anyway, my question is really, would couples be interested in a plus one who isn't into going the full distance with another woman?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s not a stupid question at all . We have participated in this exact scenario on several occasions, I consider myself ( female ) to be hetro flexible . We wish you well on your quest x

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By *urchoicenowCouple
over a year ago

Ashford

I don't think many couples would mind this. It's important that everyone enjoys themselves and that people aren't pressurised into doing anything they don't want to do. We describe ourselves as bi curious but would certainly never impose ourselves on anyone who isn't comfortable in that situation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on the couple you are messaging, if it clearly States on their profile they would like to meet a bi woman and obviously you're not going to fit that bill.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you all, very helpful

If I explain on my profile and be upfront, there shouldn't be any issues I reckon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you all, very helpful

If I explain on my profile and be upfront, there shouldn't be any issues I reckon. "

I think it's definitely worth making this clear whenever you have a contact with a couple from the very beginning. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hot husbanding

Is definitely a thing

I get requests all the time

That a woman just wants to sit and watch hubby give me a seeing to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I apologise in advance if this is a stupid or offensive question somehow.

I've starting thinking I would quite like to start meeting couples for friendship leading to more maybe. However I'm not bi (more of a pillow princess I believe the term is) and it always seems that the women are expected to be bi during a fmf but not men in a mfm.

Anyway, my question is really, would couples be interested in a plus one who isn't into going the full distance with another woman? "

Why do you fancy meeting a couple? If you can explain that then it's easier to find what you're looking for.

As in maybe you'd like to meet a straight couple and both the women can please the man.

Or maybe you'd like to try bi but with a man present so you still get some cock.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

It wouldn't bother me (Mrs) having a straight lady join us, I do like to watch a bit, I guess it's more fmf rather then ffm, I'd also class myself as hetro flexible.

Mrs

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"I apologise in advance if this is a stupid or offensive question somehow.

I've starting thinking I would quite like to start meeting couples for friendship leading to more maybe. However I'm not bi (more of a pillow princess I believe the term is) and it always seems that the women are expected to be bi during a fmf but not men in a mfm.

Anyway, my question is really, would couples be interested in a plus one who isn't into going the full distance with another woman?

Why do you fancy meeting a couple? If you can explain that then it's easier to find what you're looking for.

As in maybe you'd like to meet a straight couple and both the women can please the man.

Or maybe you'd like to try bi but with a man present so you still get some cock. "

Good point!

For most threesome scenarios there's a logical rationale behind them.

Bi MMF or FFM the it's obviously a case of everyone enjoying eachother.

Straight MFM it's all about two men pleasing the woman with no interaction between then. The physical mechanics also mean its easy for her to interact with them both at the same time.

Same with a straight FFM - two women pleasing a guy and being pleasured by him. The difference there is that they'll have to take turns with just one cock and mouth. It's a win/win pretty much for the guy involved more so than the two women perhaps.

But being clear about what you want to be involved in is important.

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I apologise in advance if this is a stupid or offensive question somehow.

I've starting thinking I would quite like to start meeting couples for friendship leading to more maybe. However I'm not bi (more of a pillow princess I believe the term is) and it always seems that the women are expected to be bi during a fmf but not men in a mfm.

Anyway, my question is really, would couples be interested in a plus one who isn't into going the full distance with another woman?

Why do you fancy meeting a couple? If you can explain that then it's easier to find what you're looking for.

As in maybe you'd like to meet a straight couple and both the women can please the man.

Or maybe you'd like to try bi but with a man present so you still get some cock.

Good point!

For most threesome scenarios there's a logical rationale behind them.

Bi MMF or FFM the it's obviously a case of everyone enjoying eachother.

Straight MFM it's all about two men pleasing the woman with no interaction between then. The physical mechanics also mean its easy for her to interact with them both at the same time.

Same with a straight FFM - two women pleasing a guy and being pleasured by him. The difference there is that they'll have to take turns with just one cock and mouth. It's a win/win pretty much for the guy involved more so than the two women perhaps.

But being clear about what you want to be involved in is important.

A"

One on his cock, one on his mouth.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"I apologise in advance if this is a stupid or offensive question somehow.

I've starting thinking I would quite like to start meeting couples for friendship leading to more maybe. However I'm not bi (more of a pillow princess I believe the term is) and it always seems that the women are expected to be bi during a fmf but not men in a mfm.

Anyway, my question is really, would couples be interested in a plus one who isn't into going the full distance with another woman?

Why do you fancy meeting a couple? If you can explain that then it's easier to find what you're looking for.

As in maybe you'd like to meet a straight couple and both the women can please the man.

Or maybe you'd like to try bi but with a man present so you still get some cock.

Good point!

For most threesome scenarios there's a logical rationale behind them.

Bi MMF or FFM the it's obviously a case of everyone enjoying eachother.

Straight MFM it's all about two men pleasing the woman with no interaction between then. The physical mechanics also mean its easy for her to interact with them both at the same time.

Same with a straight FFM - two women pleasing a guy and being pleasured by him. The difference there is that they'll have to take turns with just one cock and mouth. It's a win/win pretty much for the guy involved more so than the two women perhaps.

But being clear about what you want to be involved in is important.

A

One on his cock, one on his mouth. "

Yep. The difference between an MMF (bi or straight) or a bi MFF and a straight FMF though is that let's face it - women can usually last longer than guys and don't need a break to recover after an orgasm.

I'd hate to be the woman left wanting because the other one has sorted him and herself out and he needs a reasonable break to get it up again.

A

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By *hromosexualsCouple
over a year ago

Near Abercynon


"

Anyway, my question is really, would couples be interested in a plus one who isn't into going the full distance with another woman? "

Yes, absolutely. Most times when we meet one of us is a lot more involved than the other, seems to work fine.

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By *rincess1988Woman
over a year ago

South Oxfordshire

That’s how I like it when I play in a couple. I’m straight but I love seeing my partner in action with someone else

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

Wouldn't bother me in the slightest, I'd love watching him get all the attention

Tg x

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

MADERIA Wherever I lay my hat


"I apologise in advance if this is a stupid or offensive question somehow.

I've starting thinking I would quite like to start meeting couples for friendship leading to more maybe. However I'm not bi (more of a pillow princess I believe the term is) and it always seems that the women are expected to be bi during a fmf but not men in a mfm.

Anyway, my question is really, would couples be interested in a plus one who isn't into going the full distance with another woman?

Why do you fancy meeting a couple? If you can explain that then it's easier to find what you're looking for.

As in maybe you'd like to meet a straight couple and both the women can please the man.

Or maybe you'd like to try bi but with a man present so you still get some cock.

Good point!

For most threesome scenarios there's a logical rationale behind them.

Bi MMF or FFM the it's obviously a case of everyone enjoying eachother.

Straight MFM it's all about two men pleasing the woman with no interaction between then. The physical mechanics also mean its easy for her to interact with them both at the same time.

Same with a straight FFM - two women pleasing a guy and being pleasured by him. The difference there is that they'll have to take turns with just one cock and mouth. It's a win/win pretty much for the guy involved more so than the two women perhaps.

But being clear about what you want to be involved in is important.

A

One on his cock, one on his mouth.

Yep. The difference between an MMF (bi or straight) or a bi MFF and a straight FMF though is that let's face it - women can usually last longer than guys and don't need a break to recover after an orgasm.

I'd hate to be the woman left wanting because the other one has sorted him and herself out and he needs a reasonable break to get it up again.

A"

Exactly this. Granted I am coming at this as a single woman but one guy in to two straight woman just doesn't add up!! On the other hand, 2 bi/heteexible women and one guy - now that can be a whole lot of fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I'd hate to be the woman left wanting because the other one has sorted him and herself out and he needs a reasonable break to get it up again.

A

Exactly this. Granted I am coming at this as a single woman but one guy in to two straight woman just doesn't add up!! On the other hand, 2 bi/heteexible women and one guy - now that can be a whole lot of fun "

But even if the guy has had an orgasm he still has a mouth. Plus he has a butt

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all the opinions and answers all, I feel more confident and less co fused now

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