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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all,. I have been chatting to a lady off another dating site. All she wants is for me to pleasure her orally, nothing else. No kissing, no sucking her boobs etc, just give her oral sex and go.

Something doesn't seem right does this kind of request actually happen? Or am I right to feel a little apprehensive?

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

It happens. Sometimes.

But always trust your gut. If you feel something is off, chances are, it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a man.

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

If a woman is actually looking for someone to potentially date it's unlikely she'd chat like that before meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's women on here who only wanna ride men's faces and that's it.

They are usually fucking terrifying sounding though

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By *ay9971Man
over a year ago

Manchester

I’ve had a meet on here where it was me just eating her out and it went fine but yeah I’d say trust your gut…..not your dick lol

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Chatting?

Using your voice or your keyboard?

There's a significant difference.

A

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

It does happen yes. I’ve only met one in my life, we started off fucking but I quickly realised she got little from it. She said she was inexperienced and I should teach her , we tried for a while & it didn’t work.

Now we hang out , make fun of each other & she rides my face. I’m ok with it, I love it actually, she does too, why complicate things that work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It happens. Sometimes.

But always trust your gut. If you feel something is off, chances are, it is."

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Meet in a coffee shop first.

If you want to do it and she wants to do it, go ahead

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

Trust your instincts obey your thirst

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I have a friend who lives this kind of meet so yes they do happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Meet in a coffee shop first.

If you want to do it and she wants to do it, go ahead "

Yes, but probably not in the coffee shop.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks all.. I think I'll play it safe. I've only messaged her not physically chatted yet. I'll go with my head and not what's in my pants! Lol

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By *ermite12ukMan
over a year ago

Solihull and Brentwood


"Meet in a coffee shop first.

If you want to do it and she wants to do it, go ahead "

In a coffee shop?

Would put me right off my latte.

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By *thfloorCouple
over a year ago

Hove


"Thanks all.. I think I'll play it safe. I've only messaged her not physically chatted yet. I'll go with my head and not what's in my pants! Lol "

Well what's in your pants has not been called to action, only your head needed for... giving head

Many years ago a friend of mine was on a subreddit called something like "random acts of cunnilingus" and managed to arrange a meet with someone who wanted just that. He was thrilled to go but later a bit disappointed cos he said it was too transactional. Without realising it he had expected that there'd be at least some hugs, kissing or appreciation. But the woman just used his "services" to have an orgasm or three, then went lol! I guess women can be pandas too, with the right encouragement.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Hi all,. I have been chatting to a lady off another dating site. All she wants is for me to pleasure her orally, nothing else. No kissing, no sucking her boobs etc, just give her oral sex and go.

Something doesn't seem right does this kind of request actually happen? Or am I right to feel a little apprehensive? "
yes it does I met a woman twice who had this request

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Meet in a coffee shop first.

If you want to do it and she wants to do it, go ahead

Yes, but probably not in the coffee shop. "

I suppose one with long tablecloths might be ok

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Meet in a coffee shop first.

If you want to do it and she wants to do it, go ahead

In a coffee shop?

Would put me right off my latte. "

I didn't think that post through did I

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Yes it happens, I done it once years ago to someone I was talking to on a well known swipe site.

Having said this you can never guarantee anyone you talk to is genuine until you meet them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hang on why is just giving oral to a woman too good to be true? Do you hate your penis?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hang on why is just giving oral to a woman too good to be true? Do you hate your penis?"

I love my penis.lol. But he wouldn't get anything out of this deal.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Hang on why is just giving oral to a woman too good to be true? Do you hate your penis?

I love my penis.lol. But he wouldn't get anything out of this deal. "

There's no dilemma here is there? If it's not something that appeals to you don't do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I absolutely love a lick and go scenario

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Finedon ,

Lick & Go is about the only thing I can do at the present time so yes, I would jump at the chance.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Expect to be ghosted soon op.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"I absolutely love a lick and go scenario "

Visions of you sneaking up on people and licking their ice cream before legging it

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton


"I absolutely love a lick and go scenario

Visions of you sneaking up on people and licking their ice cream before legging it "

Lmao

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