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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

if a contact( previously in regular communication and promising much) pops back up after totally disappearing from the site without a word, profile deleted etc

Would you write off ?

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
over a year ago

Portstewart

Yes definitely would move on and forget about them

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"if a contact( previously in regular communication and promising much) pops back up after totally disappearing from the site without a word, profile deleted etc

Would you write off ?

"

No

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Yes I would ,I used to speak to a bloke who was always doing this

He'd rejoin and say he wanted to meet ,then vanish again

I got to the point where I just deleted his messages as it was never gonna happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not necessarily. I mean, did they actually 'promise' you something?

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

No, it's fab and people leave and come back all the time

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Always I'm cautious but hold respect. But not being a walkover is essential.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

I depends on whether she’s going to suck my cock or not

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Wouldn't waste anymore time on them x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meh, I mean instinct says yes.

But depends.

Why did they just leave?

Did they mean anything to you?

Sometimes people have things going on in their life you know nothing about.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"if a contact( previously in regular communication and promising much) pops back up after totally disappearing from the site without a word, profile deleted etc

Would you write off ?

"

Probably. Genuine people meet, end of

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would write off. Give your energy to people who respect you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would write off. Give your energy to people who respect you "

Isn't that a morning thing

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I'd makey decision after finding out what their reasons were.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd makey decision after finding out what their reasons were. "

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

I usually give it 2 days without lack of comms then move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would write off

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Nah. My emotional support pug vanishes without a word. Comes back on when she's feeling randy.

It depends on the person really. Sometimes life happens and people just need a break for a bit.

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By *hromosexualsCouple
over a year ago

Near Abercynon

It's absolutely nothing to do with me... but now I want to know why they left.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the thoughts, for myself I am disappointed mostly by the lack of good grace/ manners. We all know that life intervenes and accept that is so for ourselves and others. A thanks but no thanks is always acceptable and helps to stem the cynicism that sudden silences engender.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I've had this happen with a couple of people. How I respond depends on what had happened before they vanished - if we were just chatting then I don't have an issue picking things up again. If we'd met and someone ghosts out then it's different and I don't think I'd meet up again.

It's the sort of site where people leave and rejoin a lot. I tend not to view it as rude unless leaving the site has disrupted definite plans.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

They would be instantly friendzoned and that's where they will stay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had this numerous times with the same guy,he has used up all his chances

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Yeah not even keep as a friend if they are flaky like that , what’s the point ? Anyone can take breaks , they just need to tell you.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I think it really depends... What was their reason?

If I ever have to disappear I always try to let people know, even with just a status. And then hide my profile, not delete.

I wouldn't place too much importance on someone I'd never met, they come and go all the time on here.

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