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I would love a tall slim man, or a 5ft7+ curvy/busty woman to fall head over heels for.
Aside from looks a nice, kind and patient personality is key and I offer the same
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"A single woman open to dating a trans woman. (I know I have more chance of a tea party with Putin ) but you never know "I would if you were nearer x | |||
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"Iam open to this I saw the dating thread and commented. I dont have a type but all the ‘normal’ non sex stuff would be lovely to have someone to share it all with. I have found there are a lot of people out there now that just don’t want a full on relationship which is quite sad but their choice. I just want to have fun and have someone to have fun with  " | |||
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"Iam open to this I saw the dating thread and commented. I dont have a type but all the ‘normal’ non sex stuff would be lovely to have someone to share it all with. I have found there are a lot of people out there now that just want a full on relationship which is quite sad but their choice. I just want to have fun and have someone to have fun with "A fun fab friend that is open to the lifestyle you chosen | |||
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"A relationship with someone that’s in this lifestyle is what I’m after, which is different to a fun fab friend I think " Ditto you knew what I meant young lady | |||
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"Maybe it would be a good idea to request a dating section on the Forum. I’m not sure how it could be policed as I’m sure there are some snakes who will use it to get their end away without any intent of seeking a genuine relationship. " I think this has been requested many times, but falling on deaf ears it would seem | |||
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"Again, throwing my hat in the ring "Thing nearly took my eye out | |||
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Anyone else fancy putting their name in the hat?"I'm in. Just a social would be nice. I need to get into the saddle again. | |||
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"Dating lol does this really happen ? Am i missing something ?" I met my ex gf at a social group, found her on Fab, we hooked up, became friends and then dated and lived together for 2 years. Now split sadly but open to doing it all over again with another lady. It was my second open relationship. | |||
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"Throwing my hat in for someone local to me , no drama , someone who likes animals more than people , likes cats, nice walks , meals out and just generally chilling together with a takeaway and a good film "You just abbreviated what I said, that’s plagiarism | |||
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"I'm available for romantic walks and sexy fucks "Damn it I'm only available for sexy walks and romantic fucks! | |||
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"Omg it's more women than men looking for romantic relationship...goes figures "Relationships hurt, life is easier without the possibility of having your heart broken | |||
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"Would love to meet a nice laid back Guy for fun and friendship To cuddle up to,spoon with, have great sex ,good banter " I'd love to meet a woman who wants that. | |||
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"Omg it's more women than men looking for romantic relationship...goes figures
Relationships hurt, life is easier without the possibility of having your heart broken "What he said. | |||
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"Omg it's more women than men looking for romantic relationship...goes figures
Relationships hurt, life is easier without the possibility of having your heart broken "Better to have loved and lost or so they say | |||
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"Omg it's more women than men looking for romantic relationship...goes figures
Relationships hurt, life is easier without the possibility of having your heart broken
Better to have loved and lost or so they say "But it isn't though. Love sucks. | |||
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"Omg it's more women than men looking for romantic relationship...goes figures
Relationships hurt, life is easier without the possibility of having your heart broken
Better to have loved and lost or so they say
But it isn't though.
Love sucks.
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"Im in I'm not overly fussed as long as she's easy on the eye, intelligent and can't hold a conversation over coffee, and willing to date a fugly. Once said lady steps forward and say's hello we can discuss the shared interests as grow from there " I'm not sure the ladies will be able to resist this. | |||
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"Omg it's more women than men looking for romantic relationship...goes figures
Relationships hurt, life is easier without the possibility of having your heart broken
Better to have loved and lost or so they say
But it isn't though.
Love sucks.
"No it definitely isn't and it's all good at the start but sucks in the end | |||
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Yes love does hurt. My hearts been broken in the worst imaginable way. Then I put myself out there a couple of years ago and had it broken again with the promise of things, but was just being led on.
Even after that, despite the prospect of it happening many more times, I’ll still throw it out there 
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"Im in I'm not overly fussed as long as she's easy on the eye, intelligent and can't hold a conversation over coffee, and willing to date a fugly. Once said lady steps forward and say's hello we can discuss the shared interests as grow from there I'm not sure the ladies will be able to resist this. " You are confident... | |||
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I really don't think dating has to equal serious relationship. I just want someone to do fun stuff with. | |||
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"Ooh I'd really like someone to go on actual dates with, walk down the beach, coffee, gig buddy. Preferably my age or younger and relatively local
I really don't think dating has to equal serious relationship. I just want someone to do fun stuff with. "Same | |||
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"Ooh I'd really like someone to go on actual dates with, walk down the beach, coffee, gig buddy. Preferably my age or younger and relatively local
I really don't think dating has to equal serious relationship. I just want someone to do fun stuff with. "Thing is though people usually catch feelings if get along well with each other so then more often than not one person will probably get hurt even if both say they want nothing serious to begin with | |||
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"Ooh I'd really like someone to go on actual dates with, walk down the beach, coffee, gig buddy. Preferably my age or younger and relatively local
I really don't think dating has to equal serious relationship. I just want someone to do fun stuff with.
Thing is though people usually catch feelings if get along well with each other so then more often than not one person will probably get hurt even if both say they want nothing serious to begin with "I’ve always had feelings for those I’ve met though. I’ve only ever met people as a regular long term thing really. Depends what kind of person you are I suppose. I know exactly what i want and don’t want and seem to be able to compartmentalise. | |||
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"Ooh I'd really like someone to go on actual dates with, walk down the beach, coffee, gig buddy. Preferably my age or younger and relatively local
I really don't think dating has to equal serious relationship. I just want someone to do fun stuff with.
Thing is though people usually catch feelings if get along well with each other so then more often than not one person will probably get hurt even if both say they want nothing serious to begin with
I’ve always had feelings for those I’ve met though. I’ve only ever met people as a regular long term thing really. Depends what kind of person you are I suppose. I know exactly what i want and don’t want and seem to be able to compartmentalise. "I'm just talking about strong enough feelings to want a relationship though | |||
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"Ooh I'd really like someone to go on actual dates with, walk down the beach, coffee, gig buddy. Preferably my age or younger and relatively local
I really don't think dating has to equal serious relationship. I just want someone to do fun stuff with.
Thing is though people usually catch feelings if get along well with each other so then more often than not one person will probably get hurt even if both say they want nothing serious to begin with
I’ve always had feelings for those I’ve met though. I’ve only ever met people as a regular long term thing really. Depends what kind of person you are I suppose. I know exactly what i want and don’t want and seem to be able to compartmentalise.
I'm just talking about strong enough feelings to want a relationship though"Well yeah if you want a relationship. I don’t and never will. Maybe that’s why it’s easier. Dunno x | |||
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"Throwing my hat in for someone local to me , no drama , someone who likes animals more than people , likes cats, nice walks , meals out and just generally chilling together with a takeaway and a good film
You just abbreviated what I said, that’s plagiarism "Or a match made in heaven! | |||
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"Throwing my hat in for someone local to me , no drama , someone who likes animals more than people , likes cats, nice walks , meals out and just generally chilling together with a takeaway and a good film
You just abbreviated what I said, that’s plagiarism
Or a match made in heaven! "I’m still waiting for ALL you ladies to form an orderly queue off the back of the car or sexy lady thread | |||
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"Ooh I'd really like someone to go on actual dates with, walk down the beach, coffee, gig buddy. Preferably my age or younger and relatively local
I really don't think dating has to equal serious relationship. I just want someone to do fun stuff with.
Thing is though people usually catch feelings if get along well with each other so then more often than not one person will probably get hurt even if both say they want nothing serious to begin with
I’ve always had feelings for those I’ve met though. I’ve only ever met people as a regular long term thing really. Depends what kind of person you are I suppose. I know exactly what i want and don’t want and seem to be able to compartmentalise.
I'm just talking about strong enough feelings to want a relationship though
Well yeah if you want a relationship. I don’t and never will. Maybe that’s why it’s easier. Dunno x"Yeah I don't want one  | |||
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"Ooh I'd really like someone to go on actual dates with, walk down the beach, coffee, gig buddy. Preferably my age or younger and relatively local
I really don't think dating has to equal serious relationship. I just want someone to do fun stuff with.
Thing is though people usually catch feelings if get along well with each other so then more often than not one person will probably get hurt even if both say they want nothing serious to begin with
I’ve always had feelings for those I’ve met though. I’ve only ever met people as a regular long term thing really. Depends what kind of person you are I suppose. I know exactly what i want and don’t want and seem to be able to compartmentalise. "You can have feelings without wanting to be serious/committed. | |||
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"Ooh I'd really like someone to go on actual dates with, walk down the beach, coffee, gig buddy. Preferably my age or younger and relatively local
I really don't think dating has to equal serious relationship. I just want someone to do fun stuff with.
Thing is though people usually catch feelings if get along well with each other so then more often than not one person will probably get hurt even if both say they want nothing serious to begin with
I’ve always had feelings for those I’ve met though. I’ve only ever met people as a regular long term thing really. Depends what kind of person you are I suppose. I know exactly what i want and don’t want and seem to be able to compartmentalise.
You can have feelings without wanting to be serious/committed."Yes you can but you can't always stop those feelings from getting stronger and then wanting something serious | |||
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"Ooh I'd really like someone to go on actual dates with, walk down the beach, coffee, gig buddy. Preferably my age or younger and relatively local
I really don't think dating has to equal serious relationship. I just want someone to do fun stuff with.
Thing is though people usually catch feelings if get along well with each other so then more often than not one person will probably get hurt even if both say they want nothing serious to begin with
I’ve always had feelings for those I’ve met though. I’ve only ever met people as a regular long term thing really. Depends what kind of person you are I suppose. I know exactly what i want and don’t want and seem to be able to compartmentalise.
You can have feelings without wanting to be serious/committed."Yes. That’s what I meant. I do but I won’t be committing to a proper relationship. | |||
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"Ooh I'd really like someone to go on actual dates with, walk down the beach, coffee, gig buddy. Preferably my age or younger and relatively local
I really don't think dating has to equal serious relationship. I just want someone to do fun stuff with.
Thing is though people usually catch feelings if get along well with each other so then more often than not one person will probably get hurt even if both say they want nothing serious to begin with
I’ve always had feelings for those I’ve met though. I’ve only ever met people as a regular long term thing really. Depends what kind of person you are I suppose. I know exactly what i want and don’t want and seem to be able to compartmentalise.
You can have feelings without wanting to be serious/committed.
Yes you can but you can't always stop those feelings from getting stronger and then wanting something serious "Serious isn't my end game, so it's not an issue. I don't want marriage, don't even want to live with anyone. Too old for more children, so it's different. | |||
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"Ooh I'd really like someone to go on actual dates with, walk down the beach, coffee, gig buddy. Preferably my age or younger and relatively local
I really don't think dating has to equal serious relationship. I just want someone to do fun stuff with.
Thing is though people usually catch feelings if get along well with each other so then more often than not one person will probably get hurt even if both say they want nothing serious to begin with
I’ve always had feelings for those I’ve met though. I’ve only ever met people as a regular long term thing really. Depends what kind of person you are I suppose. I know exactly what i want and don’t want and seem to be able to compartmentalise.
You can have feelings without wanting to be serious/committed.
Yes you can but you can't always stop those feelings from getting stronger and then wanting something serious
Serious isn't my end game, so it's not an issue. I don't want marriage, don't even want to live with anyone. Too old for more children, so it's different."Exactly this | |||
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Seeks intelligent, athletic, emotionally stable, legend, please | |||
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"A single woman open to dating a trans woman. (I know I have more chance of a tea party with Putin ) but you never know
I would if you were nearer x"Distances always an issue on here I find
Though yes I would like to find a quirky lady to travel / do interesting stuff with / obviously sexual connection and maybe some fab stuff together once comfortable enough mentally with each other that it’s a relationship not just girlfriend fuck friends
Myself I view fab as a tool and as a singleton it’s a tool I find amusing wielding at times , for a proper relationship though I would absolutely throw the tool away no issues what so ever if required .
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"Where are all the men? "Prob at the gay sauna keeping warm  | |||
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"Where are all the men?
Prob at the gay sauna keeping warm "I’ve just got home and now looking at ways to warm my bloomin cold bed  | |||
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"Where are all the men?
Prob at the gay sauna keeping warm
I’ve just got home and now looking at ways to warm my bloomin cold bed "Not home from the gay sauna, before anyone asks  | |||
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"Where are all the men?
Prob at the gay sauna keeping warm "Your probably right | |||
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"Where are all the men?
Prob at the gay sauna keeping warm "gotta take advantage of no football for two days. | |||
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"Where are all the men?
Prob at the gay sauna keeping warm
I’ve just got home and now looking at ways to warm my bloomin cold bed
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"Ooh I'd really like someone to go on actual dates with, walk down the beach, coffee, gig buddy. Preferably my age or younger and relatively local
I really don't think dating has to equal serious relationship. I just want someone to do fun stuff with.
Thing is though people usually catch feelings if get along well with each other so then more often than not one person will probably get hurt even if both say they want nothing serious to begin with
I’ve always had feelings for those I’ve met though. I’ve only ever met people as a regular long term thing really. Depends what kind of person you are I suppose. I know exactly what i want and don’t want and seem to be able to compartmentalise.
You can have feelings without wanting to be serious/committed.
Yes you can but you can't always stop those feelings from getting stronger and then wanting something serious
Serious isn't my end game, so it's not an issue. I don't want marriage, don't even want to live with anyone. Too old for more children, so it's different."I've been married and never again and don't want more children but that doesn't mean there's no chance of falling for someone you start seeing regularly, it's a dangerous game to play | |||
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"Where are all the men?
Prob at the gay sauna keeping warm
Your probably right "Well I'm decorating | |||
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"Where are all the men?
Prob at the gay sauna keeping warm
I’ve just got home and now looking at ways to warm my bloomin cold bed
Not home from the gay sauna, before anyone asks "Btw there's a female on the forum with pretty much similar profile pic as yours. You maybe a match! Try and see and report back if successful please | |||
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"Where are all the men?
Prob at the gay sauna keeping warm
I’ve just got home and now looking at ways to warm my bloomin cold bed
Not home from the gay sauna, before anyone asks
Btw there's a female on the forum with pretty much similar profile pic as yours. You maybe a match! Try and see and report back if successful please "Sorry that message was to kinky biscuit. Think the female was curvaceous something... I'm terrible with names. Sorry | |||
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"Following on from JustPeachy's thread, we haven't had a dating thread for a while... So if you're open to *dating* a fellow fabber, comment your type and what you're looking for. If you see someone who tickles your fancy (and you tickles there's of course - reading is fundamental) drop them a message and see if you can get a connection going "gorgeous 36DD long-legged blonde with a personality are you here?  | |||
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"I'm open
I would love a tall slim man, or a 5ft7+ curvy/busty woman to fall head over heels for.
Aside from looks a nice, kind and patient personality is key and I offer the same
Plus I have my life together and my affairs are in order "Love the fact that your affairs are in order! Just in case you meet Mr Wrong? Good luck though | |||
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"Worth a try. Looking for a man around my age or older.someone to make me laugh and feel special, as I'm quite quiet I love chatter boxes who can help me relax at let me be me." I definitely that kind of man | |||
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"Where are all the men?
Prob at the gay sauna keeping warm
I’ve just got home and now looking at ways to warm my bloomin cold bed
Not home from the gay sauna, before anyone asks
Btw there's a female on the forum with pretty much similar profile pic as yours. You maybe a match! Try and see and report back if successful please
Sorry that message was to kinky biscuit. Think the female was curvaceous something... I'm terrible with names. Sorry "Thanks, I think I’d seen her around. Will take a look | |||
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"Omg it's more women than men looking for romantic relationship...goes figures
Relationships hurt, life is easier without the possibility of having your heart broken "This isn't the point of the thread Please let's have positive vibes here | |||
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"A single woman open to dating a trans woman. (I know I have more chance of a tea party with Putin ) but you never know "Me me me! | |||
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"We would love a fem to join is as a proper thruple. Genuine xx" Thst is not quite the same as having that one person in your life though x | |||
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"I'm open to dating someone who's genuine, honest and loyal. Most of all open minded to having lots of fun as I have a high sex drive. When I've brought up swinging with people on ordinary dating sites they don't understand it at all." I get a lot of boo  on dating app when I openly say I am bi. Openness saves a lot of time and future miss understandings | |||
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"Be great to meet someone to socialise with. Head to the pub, drink craft beer, play pool badly. Head off for day trips. Head to gigs. Someone equally happy to head out for nice meal or to just chuck something together in kitchen. I'm a half decent cook, so I won't poison you. Someone that wants to come and curl up in front of log burner and argue over what films to watch, or to sit by firepit on summer night. Good sex, obviously. Whether in bed or outdoors. Interest in BDSM would be fantastic. And as I work horrible night shifts, someone with flexible working hours would be amazing so we can get similar days off together. Not asking a lot surely. " Sounds like you need to date my wife lol. It's as if she wrote that. ?? | |||
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"I’d be looking for the female version of me, dark sense of humour, can be extremely kinky on occasion, sensual and passionate on others, shared dislikes, somebody to blast music on a weekend and clean the house from top to bottom with, somebody who knows when to leave me alone and give me plenty of space when required and somebody I can return the favour for, into the outdoors, trekking, hiking, hill walking, camping and the gym, also equally happy for a cosy night in watching films in the dark with the fire on, somebody who loves animals more than people, somebody who likes to dress up and go out for nice meals and who can also dress down and look like a hobo with me, basically me but with long hair, no beard and a vagina" That's me out, don't have long hair | |||
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"I'm open to dating someone who's genuine, honest and loyal. Most of all open minded to having lots of fun as I have a high sex drive. When I've brought up swinging with people on ordinary dating sites they don't understand it all I get a lot of boo on dating app when I openly say I am bi. Openness saves a lot of time and future miss understandings "Your not alone I'm up front that I'm bisexual they are either "oh am I going to get a threesome" or "I don't think I could trust you being bi" | |||
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"I'm open to dating someone who's genuine, honest and loyal. Most of all open minded to having lots of fun as I have a high sex drive. When I've brought up swinging with people on ordinary dating sites they don't understand it all I get a lot of boo on dating app when I openly say I am bi. Openness saves a lot of time and future miss understandings
Your not alone I'm up front that I'm bisexual they are either "oh am I going to get a threesome" or "I don't think I could trust you being bi" "Yup, same here unfortunately | |||
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"I'm open to dating someone who's genuine, honest and loyal. Most of all open minded to having lots of fun as I have a high sex drive. When I've brought up swinging with people on ordinary dating sites they don't understand it all I get a lot of boo on dating app when I openly say I am bi. Openness saves a lot of time and future miss understandings
Your not alone I'm up front that I'm bisexual they are either "oh am I going to get a threesome" or "I don't think I could trust you being bi"
Yup, same here unfortunately "It's very annoying as you never know if there genuine | |||
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"I'm open to dating someone who's genuine, honest and loyal. Most of all open minded to having lots of fun as I have a high sex drive. When I've brought up swinging with people on ordinary dating sites they don't understand it all I get a lot of boo on dating app when I openly say I am bi. Openness saves a lot of time and future miss understandings
Your not alone I'm up front that I'm bisexual they are either "oh am I going to get a threesome" or "I don't think I could trust you being bi"
Yup, same here unfortunately
It's very annoying as you never know if there genuine "I’ve been led on more times than I can count, just to try and take advantage of the fact I’m bi  | |||
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"I'm in the process of arranging a date with a lovely man from here How is everyone else doing? " I’m still looking for someone to untangle these bloomin Christmas lights. There’s an energy crisis on | |||
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"I'm in the process of arranging a date with a lovely man from here How is everyone else doing? I’m still looking for someone to untangle these bloomin Christmas lights. There’s an energy crisis on "You'd be better off getting a tree with the lights attached to the branches lol that's what I have | |||
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" Sounds like you need to date my wife lol. It's as if she wrote that. ??" Sounds lovely. Çan I borrow her then? | |||
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"Boyfriend required. Must have head. Body also required... how am I doing?" They are very specific requirements. Maybe you need to broaden your search if you hope to find someone. | |||
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"Ooh I'd really like someone to go on actual dates with, walk down the beach, coffee, gig buddy. Preferably my age or younger and relatively local
I really don't think dating has to equal serious relationship. I just want someone to do fun stuff with.
Thing is though people usually catch feelings if get along well with each other so then more often than not one person will probably get hurt even if both say they want nothing serious to begin with
I’ve always had feelings for those I’ve met though. I’ve only ever met people as a regular long term thing really. Depends what kind of person you are I suppose. I know exactly what i want and don’t want and seem to be able to compartmentalise.
You can have feelings without wanting to be serious/committed.
Yes you can but you can't always stop those feelings from getting stronger and then wanting something serious
Serious isn't my end game, so it's not an issue. I don't want marriage, don't even want to live with anyone. Too old for more children, so it's different.
I've been married and never again and don't want more children but that doesn't mean there's no chance of falling for someone you start seeing regularly, it's a dangerous game to play "Don't play the game then. Simple. Leave those of us who wish to, to get on with it
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"I'm not very good at putting words across on a page but here goes. I'm quite shy at first so someone confident would be good to bring out my confidence. Local would be better, someone with a dark sense of humour who I have great chemistry and sex with. I love cuddles on the sofa and random days out. If you're out with friends then I won't bombard you with texts and calls all night, I'll look forward to hearing all about it the next time we meet...I expect the same in return. I don't want to spend every waking hour together, I don't want to live together. I figure seeing each other once or twice a week is plenty. Gives each other time for ourselves and time for family and friends too without driving each other nuts. Of course we would text daily ( unless you're out). Conversation is very important otherwise it just won't work. I know it sounds like a part time relationship, I suppose it kinda is but that's what I want "Me too.... | |||
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"Would like to date a women 20-45 couple times a month if possible " Sorry to burst your bubble but that’s not the kind of dating we’re talking about in this thread | |||
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"Ooh I'd really like someone to go on actual dates with, walk down the beach, coffee, gig buddy. Preferably my age or younger and relatively local
I really don't think dating has to equal serious relationship. I just want someone to do fun stuff with.
Thing is though people usually catch feelings if get along well with each other so then more often than not one person will probably get hurt even if both say they want nothing serious to begin with
I’ve always had feelings for those I’ve met though. I’ve only ever met people as a regular long term thing really. Depends what kind of person you are I suppose. I know exactly what i want and don’t want and seem to be able to compartmentalise.
You can have feelings without wanting to be serious/committed.
Yes you can but you can't always stop those feelings from getting stronger and then wanting something serious
Serious isn't my end game, so it's not an issue. I don't want marriage, don't even want to live with anyone. Too old for more children, so it's different.
I've been married and never again and don't want more children but that doesn't mean there's no chance of falling for someone you start seeing regularly, it's a dangerous game to play
Don't play the game then. Simple.
Leave those of us who wish to, to get on with it
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"Think I need to relocate further South" You'll be made very welcome. | |||
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"I’d like to throw my hat in. I’ve been thinking about this for a little while now… I absolutely love going on date nights and spending time with someone. Nights / weekends away, having fun and enjoying each others company. Doing things together and having a laugh, living life making memories… I think it would be really nice to meet someone to socialise and share this lifestyle with. It doesn’t have to be anything too serious either. If it’s something you fancy then drop me a message… Laidback & drama free "You have a great profile and really great pics im sure you will have no trouble finding a lovely lady | |||
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"Be great to meet someone to socialise with. Head to the pub, drink craft beer, play pool badly. Head off for day trips. Head to gigs. Someone equally happy to head out for nice meal or to just chuck something together in kitchen. I'm a half decent cook, so I won't poison you. Someone that wants to come and curl up in front of log burner and argue over what films to watch, or to sit by firepit on summer night. Good sex, obviously. Whether in bed or outdoors. Interest in BDSM would be fantastic. And as I work horrible night shifts, someone with flexible working hours would be amazing so we can get similar days off together. Not asking a lot surely. " Can we have you in a male version please! | |||
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"I'm not very good at putting words across on a page but here goes. I'm quite shy at first so someone confident would be good to bring out my confidence. Local would be better, someone with a dark sense of humour who I have great chemistry and sex with. I love cuddles on the sofa and random days out. If you're out with friends then I won't bombard you with texts and calls all night, I'll look forward to hearing all about it the next time we meet...I expect the same in return. I don't want to spend every waking hour together, I don't want to live together. I figure seeing each other once or twice a week is plenty. Gives each other time for ourselves and time for family and friends too without driving each other nuts. Of course we would text daily ( unless you're out). Conversation is very important otherwise it just won't work. I know it sounds like a part time relationship, I suppose it kinda is but that's what I want
Me too....
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"Aw yeah I’d love to date someone. Preferably a guy who’s tall and stocky with a beard! But you know, that’s not a deal breaker. Would love to meet someone who could be interested in a stag and vixen type scenario. Must be very open minded and willing to share with all sexes (and get off on seeing me satisfied by others) Aside from the nitty gritty, must love cuddling and rubbing feet! and my shitty Christmas pyjamas! "you are perfect lol | |||
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"Be great to meet someone to socialise with. Head to the pub, drink craft beer, play pool badly. Head off for day trips. Head to gigs. Someone equally happy to head out for nice meal or to just chuck something together in kitchen. I'm a half decent cook, so I won't poison you. Someone that wants to come and curl up in front of log burner and argue over what films to watch, or to sit by firepit on summer night. Good sex, obviously. Whether in bed or outdoors. Interest in BDSM would be fantastic. And as I work horrible night shifts, someone with flexible working hours would be amazing so we can get similar days off together. Not asking a lot surely. " "Well, doesn't look like anyone likes what I had to offer, or maybe they just don't like me. Oh well, that's life." You have to be kidding with that comment above. The only thing id disagree upon would be curl up in front of the log burner. As id prefer to cuddle up infront of it or be nice and naked with a warm kissed body. As I also do enjoy the cooking as well you would get banned from the kitchen so you run the same risk as me. | |||
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"I’m looking for someone goofy, funny, red haired with a killer body " You can just say RedforDanger. | |||
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"I'll tag into the thread... With no expectations "If you WILL insist on living hundreds of miles away... | |||
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"Looking for a much older woman to carbon date. "Lol lol that's good | |||
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"I'm not very good at putting words across on a page but here goes. I'm quite shy at first so someone confident would be good to bring out my confidence. Local would be better, someone with a dark sense of humour who I have great chemistry and sex with. I love cuddles on the sofa and random days out. If you're out with friends then I won't bombard you with texts and calls all night, I'll look forward to hearing all about it the next time we meet...I expect the same in return. I don't want to spend every waking hour together, I don't want to live together. I figure seeing each other once or twice a week is plenty. Gives each other time for ourselves and time for family and friends too without driving each other nuts. Of course we would text daily ( unless you're out). Conversation is very important otherwise it just won't work. I know it sounds like a part time relationship, I suppose it kinda is but that's what I want
Me too....
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"I hope the OP has left because they found "Who was it ? | |||
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