FabSwingers.com forum: Is the wink pointless

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is the wink pointless or does it serve it's purpose. Asking for a friend lol

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By *issalignedTV/TS
over a year ago

London

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Imagine all the terrible wink wank puns we'd have missed out through the years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it pointless I don’t look at my winks

I also find that if they can’t pluck up the courage just to send a message

Then what’s it going to be like them trying to pluck up the courage to meet me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

they are lazy...

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By *edknight40Man
over a year ago

Leicester

What’s the point of composing a message using the context of their profile if it only gets deleted. Id sooner use the wink process and of I get one back start chatting.

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

If I can't see your face, everything is pointless

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Just message.

What have you got to lose?

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

I find winks as much use as tits on a fish. I tend to disregard them...mostly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I don't think they are pointless I think they do as intended, show an initial interest, no big deal either way, is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like winks as a way of showing initial interest.

And I send them as well if I'm potentionally interested in someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like winks as a way of showing initial interest.

And I send them as well if I'm potentionally interested in someone "

This

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"they are lazy..."

After 10 years in Fab, I can count the number of first messages from single ladies AND couples on one hand. Winks, on the other hand (see what I did there?

), have started many a conversation, and resulted in many great shared times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I like them

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I find winks as much use as tits on a fish. I tend to disregard them...mostly."

Unless they're mermaids ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From experience I have found them useful. I'm terrible at first messages so winks are the ideal way for me to show my interest in someone.

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By *olden_Road_to_SamarkandMan
over a year ago

London & North Wessex Downs

I always check mine - it's a good way of seeing if there is initial attraction.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

No. I get them and respond all the time. I send 1 or 2 a wee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They work in a - I'm open to DMs but can't be fucked to write a message way.

It's what I found a lot of people do with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer a wank tbh

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Winks can be an ice breaker for some obviously must've read the bio to send one showing some interest. It's one of those where a woman may wink in real life but expect the guy to make the first move she's unable to play with her hair

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Never look at them and very rarely send.

I find a message works better x

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By *lidMan
over a year ago

Cambridge

I rarely get them so I couldn't say .. lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes we look at them and sometimes we just bulk delete them. Just depends on how many there is.

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By *iredhandMan
over a year ago

Manchester

….not if you’re Anne Robinson.

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Beds (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

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And I send them as well if I'm potentionally interested in someone "

This ^^^ and then if there's no interest reciprocated nothing really lost at all

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

Gentlemen, don't preclude from sending a wink. Go for it.

Your wink will be a saline drop in an ocean of orphaned winks.

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By *phrodite_AdonisCouple
over a year ago

We like winks if people match our preferences but don’t know where to start

I’m happy to take the lead and message first

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

I never, well hardly ever check for winks. But then I have my hands full and not looking for anyone new.

If I were then maybe I would send the odd wink out, myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only send winks....its a way of saying I like your photos /profile if you like mine let me know.

Beats sending a detailed personal message that you've spent time to think of and get deleted 99% of the time

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

It’s not pointless but sometimes they can get lost in the mire of so many winks. If you like them wink then message. What’s the worst they can say?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s not pointless but sometimes they can get lost in the mire of so many winks. If you like them wink then message. What’s the worst they can say?

Fancy a fuck usually

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

The proplem is some look at them some don't so when you wink you have no idea which camp the winkee is in. I look at them about one a week and read the profiles of any winker in Reading as location is important to me. If i like the profile I'll wink back.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"It’s not pointless but sometimes they can get lost in the mire of so many winks. If you like them wink then message. What’s the worst they can say?

Fancy a fuck usually

That’s the worst they can say?

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath

Well it can’t hurt

one day Rodney ect wink away

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By *ady CurvaceousWoman
over a year ago

Kent

I bulk delete winks. I prefer a message. I also bulk delete friend invites from guys who don't bother messaging either.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I don't even look at my winks. If a half assed message is an instant no thanks then a single lazy click isn't going to be more effective.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They work just fine if both parties use them, but lots of people don't. It seems a shame if someone's thinking the person they winked isn't interested when actually they'll just never see it. I'd always go with a message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find winks as much use as tits on a fish. I tend to disregard them...mostly.

Unless they're mermaids ?"

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By *laymateteeMan
over a year ago

bristol

I think they're a good icebreaker if used with good intentions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I bulk delete winks. I prefer a message. I also bulk delete friend invites from guys who don't bother messaging either. "

I leave mine there cause it stops them from sending another for at least 30 days lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Using them with a Msg is prob the best way to use a wink or when seeing an old friend you haven't spoke to for a while on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Using them with a Msg is prob the best way to use a wink or when seeing an old friend you haven't spoke to for a while on here."

So effectively your day the wink is pointless if you're going to message them anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Winks are OK but can be very hit and miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Winks are OK but can be very hit and miss

I normally make sure I'm on the right profile before sending

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"Using them with a Msg is prob the best way to use a wink or when seeing an old friend you haven't spoke to for a while on here.

So effectively your day the wink is pointless if you're going to message them anyway

Am I missing something?

It reads to me...a wink and a message works best.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Winks are OK but can be very hit and miss

I normally make sure I'm on the right profile before sending

It usually helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of my last 30 winks 14 of them are from people who are no where near Birmingham.....

I think different people use them for different reasons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Winks are OK but can be very hit and miss

I normally make sure I'm on the right profile before sending

It usually helps

Nope, still no wink then

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By *un-n-frolicsMan
over a year ago

London

I rarely send, because so many people say they don't look at them. But I like them in theory - out and about, don't you try to catch someone's eye before chatting?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Winks are OK but can be very hit and miss

I normally make sure I'm on the right profile before sending

It usually helps

Nope, still no wink then

It does help if you read profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Winks are OK but can be very hit and miss

I normally make sure I'm on the right profile before sending

It usually helps

Nope, still no wink then

It does help if you read profiles

I'm illiterate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Winks are OK but can be very hit and miss

I normally make sure I'm on the right profile before sending

It usually helps

Nope, still no wink then

It does help if you read profiles

I'm illiterate

Don't they have tablets for that now?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Winks are OK but can be very hit and miss

I normally make sure I'm on the right profile before sending

It usually helps

Nope, still no wink then

It does help if you read profiles

I'm illiterate

Don't they have tablets for that now?

Typical, bloody Apple think they can cure everything

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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone

"Am I missing something?

It reads to me...a wink and a message works best."

Haha and I read it as...

Is the Weakest Link pointless?

I would say I like The Weakest Link when Anne hosted it compared to Romesh...

Pointless is just that... Pppfffttt

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Mine are usually from men miles away who aren't what I'm looking for ,so bulk delete them.

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

They are about as useful as a lighthouse in a bog

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By *JB1954Man
over a year ago

Reading

I send winks more often than messages. Nearly all if I like profile or looked at mine. Yes can work . But may not. My thought has been . If profile looked at , so can see . You like that profile and send wink. I did see that profiles responded to wink . Yet stated not interested in my age , single male etc . So could not contact .?

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Depends who you’re winking at some are some aren’t.

The mr

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By *aked_magicMan
over a year ago

the gutter looking at the stars (UAE)

I like the Wink, i dont always spot them immediately but i dont mind checking somebody out after receiving one. I will sometimes send one myself if I'm not sure i fit what theyre looking for after reading their profile. As has been been said already though, not everybody checks them so theyre very hit n miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They're ok but would not gain priority in comparison to someone who has taken their time to message me. Tendency to delete winks more often than not (lazy form of communication). Much rather receive a message in lieu of a

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A wink could work if they fancied you or you fancy them…and if you look at them.

I like winks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It works much better in real life.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"Is the wink pointless or does it serve it's purpose. Asking for a friend lol "

Yes I get my meets from guys winking or vice versa. I prefer winks as initial step then prefer them to message me after we winked at eachother

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

We bulk delete winks so they are pointless for us but we do state this in our profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It works much better in real life. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It works much better in real life.

Oh "

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"Is the wink pointless or does it serve it's purpose. Asking for a friend lol "

I just fabbed one of your pis as winking is pointless, right?

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By *eardedvillainMan
over a year ago

Bangor N.Ireland

100%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mass delete mine, they won't catch my attention.

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
over a year ago

1127 walnut avenue

They're pointless when the person that has winked you doesn't reply to the message you send them..

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Slightly less than a "hi" or "hello" message.

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

I like winks and I think they work well to send a “I am interested” message.

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Winks definitely work. It’s like an old fashioned (can’t believe I said that) smile at someone who catches your eye in a bar.

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

NORWAY Wherever I lay my hat

Pointless. I can count the number of times that I have responded to a wink on one thumb!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pointless. I can count the number of times that I have responded to a wink on one thumb!"

Okay. Why?

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By *hil39Man
over a year ago

Dagenham

"they are lazy..."

That may be true but it is very annoying having taken the trouble to write a message that just gets deleted. So I thought doing a lazy "wink" could be a way of contact, if the person does not respond then fair enough nothing lost. Maybe it just doesn't work how it was possibly intended

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"they are lazy..."

So the website designers/owners installed a ‘lazy’ option? … interesting.

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By *oly Fuck Sticks BatmanCouple
over a year ago

here & there

We love a wink - there’s either mutual appreciation in which a message gets sent or not.

When you’re dealing with hundreds of messages it’s a super quick way to respond.

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By *osaint1971Couple
over a year ago

Near Taunton

Love to wink and get one back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We love a wink - there’s either mutual appreciation in which a message gets sent or not.

When you’re dealing with hundreds of messages it’s a super quick way to respond. "

I love reading this type of positive thinking. #thinkpositive.

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

NORWAY Wherever I lay my hat

"Pointless. I can count the number of times that I have responded to a wink on one thumb!

Okay. Why? "

I like a guy to put some effort in. Hitting a wink button takes even less thought than messaging 'hi/wwu2/faf'

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By *ickedwillyCouple
over a year ago

Bangor

It’s nice to start with a wink.

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

NORWAY Wherever I lay my hat

"We love a wink - there’s either mutual appreciation in which a message gets sent or not.

When you’re dealing with hundreds of messages it’s a super quick way to respond. "

But this is what I love about the forums. I am always open to having my opinions challenged and approaching things differently in future

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By *XZRMan
over a year ago

Highland

"they are lazy...

After 10 years in Fab, I can count the number of first messages from single ladies AND couples on one hand. Winks, on the other hand (see what I did there?

), have started many a conversation, and resulted in many great shared times

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By *unkerbobMan
over a year ago

belfast

Pointless to most people on here because most of them on ere are so far up there own arse they don’t even know what a wink is!!!!and before you get excited I said “most people”

Just a polite thanks but no thanks would be sufficient

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I assume men just wink every woman in a 200 mile radius without even looking at their profile. I wink back and they never send a message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pointless. I can count the number of times that I have responded to a wink on one thumb!

Okay. Why?

I like a guy to put some effort in. Hitting a wink button takes even less thought than messaging 'hi/wwu2/faf' "

So what would you personally do (and I can generise what most do) when you have many, possibly hundreds of messages and each and everyone has put some sort of effort into a message? Several paragraphs maybe.

And each one includes a photo and your not interested. You understand where I’m leading here.

I think the wink button has a hard time, i think it was supposed to be an icebreaker but it’s got a reputation along the way as lazininess. Users will use a website as they think fits I suppose.

*had to add who I was replying to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I’ve had meets from winking

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

NORWAY Wherever I lay my hat

"Pointless. I can count the number of times that I have responded to a wink on one thumb!

Okay. Why?

I like a guy to put some effort in. Hitting a wink button takes even less thought than messaging 'hi/wwu2/faf'

And each one includes a photo and your not interested. You understand where I’m leading here.

I think the wink button has a hard time, i think it was supposed to be an icebreaker but it’s got a reputation along the way as lazininess. Users will use a website as they think fits I suppose.

*had to add who I was replying to.

I absolutely get where you are coming from Woody. I know what the wink is intended for and I feel crap about the genuine guys who have taken the time to ready my (long) profile and send an articulate and original message but are buried in the 1200 unread messages. Even if I'm not interested, they are worthy of a polite 'thanks for taking the time to message but it's a no thanks' reply. Trying to sort the wheat from the chaff in my messages AND checking out who has winked at me just isn't an option. Maybe it's time I turn my usual approach on its head and block messages from single guys but encourage winks and go Bumble style.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t mind a wink or 2

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By *ixieAndHerKingCouple
over a year ago

Debauchery

There’s no point in winking us because don’t respond to them and never have. We want to see people’s personalities coming through in a message because also helps filter in or out the people may or may not like. The people who we’re interested in are the ones who send us a good message and we like the look of them.

Hades

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

I find winks ok as a potential hot list or initiating if shoeing or you catches it before they get pushed down list

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By *eartsmanMan
over a year ago

southeast , midlands, southern France

For me a wink is to show that you are interested in that person, if you get a wink back then great, I then initiate a conversation.

I like a lot of people on here have spent hours writing messages to people to get it deleted, or worse still having the message ignored with out it even being read!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Winks are a great ice breaker and an indication they are interested. If I get a wink back I’ll be more inclined to send a message and take it from there.

I rarely send first messages as they just get lost. So the wink & wink back gives me some hope they’d reply if I sent the first message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is for me because I don't check them lol

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By *carlett CumslutWoman
over a year ago

cardiff

Never ever check them!

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"they are lazy..."

They are not lazy it’s just the bar has been raised for men to make more effort. Women send winks to let you know they are potentially interested and require a full application from you

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"Winks are a great ice breaker and an indication they are interested. If I get a wink back I’ll be more inclined to send a message and take it from there.

I rarely send first messages as they just get lost. So the wink & wink back gives me some hope they’d reply if I sent the first message."

That’s how they should be used yes. But I think women get so many messages they don’t check winks. Maybe it would he better if you had to wink and wink back before you could message someone , that’s how other apps work you can’t just spam anyone

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By *reamers13Couple
over a year ago

Lancashire

"I like winks as a way of showing initial interest.

And I send them as well if I'm potentionally interested in someone "

Yes, our philosophy too

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By *olarbear73Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Winks can lead to meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven’t actually sent anybody a wink so I have no idea if it’s a wasted feature or not for me

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

NORWAY Wherever I lay my hat

"Winks are a great ice breaker and an indication they are interested. If I get a wink back I’ll be more inclined to send a message and take it from there.

I rarely send first messages as they just get lost. So the wink & wink back gives me some hope they’d reply if I sent the first message.

Couldn't agree more. This would transform the Fab experience for so many

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

For a guy receiving one no absolutely not, it signifies they are interested so you can send a well thought out message referring to profile and send a face pic, if you're lucky they like your look and off you go

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

I'd say they're more useful for women than men due to the dynamics of fab. We receive far less attention on average and are more likely to check / notice them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd say they're more useful for women than men due to the dynamics of fab. We receive far less attention on average and are more likely to check / notice them."

Yep, pretty much this. Even if they don't message, it's better they wink as at least it shows some sort of interest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think a wink is pointless made some very sexy lady friends on hear through it one in particular suppose it’s what you make of it

Happy fab Thursday all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

same as everything on this site for some yes, others no. Mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think winks are a good idea of showing interest.

But I find that when I've recieved them first, I will reply with a message and get nothing back. Other times I'll just see that their profile is private

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By *irtysnapperMan
over a year ago

Bromsgrove

"What’s the point of composing a message using the context of their profile if it only gets deleted. Id sooner use the wink process and of I get one back start chatting.

This. I like them personally. The initial message just comes down to ‘I’m interested, want to chat’, and a wink does that more quickly. I like receiving them too.

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By *ose and her beastCouple
over a year ago

Watford

Meet lots of amazing people and it started with a wink I find it's a nice way to say hey we are interested if you wink back we know it's mutual and a message will be sent

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By *un-n-frolicsMan
over a year ago

London

"What’s the point of composing a message using the context of their profile if it only gets deleted. Id sooner use the wink process and of I get one back start chatting.

This. I like them personally. The initial message just comes down to ‘I’m interested, want to chat’, and a wink does that more quickly. I like receiving them too. "

It’s a good point. Though I try (normally fail) to add something clever, the first message is generally just an amalgam of my profile and what, from their profile, I think they want. I really ought to use my time more efficiently.

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