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By *asper! OP   Man
over a year ago

Cleethorpes

I've just noticed a single lass I no who has just joined .i see her in the pub I go in she doesn't no I no .should I stay quiet or tell her that I'm on fab as well ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guess that depends on whether the concept of 'discretion' appeals to you or not?

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"Guess that depends on whether the concept of 'discretion' appeals to you or not? "

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"I've just noticed a single lass I no who has just joined .i see her in the pub I go in she doesn't no I no .should I stay quiet or tell her that I'm on fab as well ??"

Do you want her to know you are on FAB ?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Guess that depends on whether the concept of 'discretion' appeals to you or not? "

It's not indiscreet to let someone know you are a member of FAB or to let them know that you know that they don't know you know they are a member of FAB .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could you drop a hint and leave her wondering? She may ask you more about your hint?

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By *asper! OP   Man
over a year ago

Cleethorpes

I would wana be discreet and I'm sure she would .i think I'd rather tell her when I build up some courage lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I noticed the taxi driver I had was on FAB. Worst thing was, he was on it when driving. Twat

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By *asper! OP   Man
over a year ago

Cleethorpes

Lmao

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I wouldnt approach her away from the site. She may not want everyone knowing hr business

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By *acciWoman
over a year ago

leeds

If you really want her to know then message her on here

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Could you drop a hint and leave her wondering? She may ask you more about your hint?"

I always wonder when someone uses the word fab in a conversation with me if hey are dropping a hint lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've just noticed a single lass I no who has just joined .i see her in the pub I go in she doesn't no I no .should I stay quiet or tell her that I'm on fab as well ??"

If you wanna fuck her then tell her but if she wouldn't look at you twice then what's the point.

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By *nfieldishCouple
over a year ago

Enfield


"Could you drop a hint and leave her wondering? She may ask you more about your hint?

I always wonder when someone uses the word fab in a conversation with me if hey are dropping a hint lol "

Thats what we do.... Drop the f word in....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Buy her a drink in the pub and take it from there, but, don't say you are on fab.

Just play it cool.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell her she looks fab an walk away

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex


"Buy her a drink in the pub and take it from there, but, don't say you are on fab.

Just play it cool."

We agree, chat to her as you would any other lady you liked & if she likes you it will all come to light at some time.

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By *asper! OP   Man
over a year ago

Cleethorpes

Thank you all great ideas I've messages her i am guna tell her hope it doesn't spook her ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its really unfair to go up to someone in a pub and tell them that you have seen them on a swinging site. In fact its a little nasty.

For gods sake leave her real vanilla life out of being on this site. Its bugger all to do with you.

If you would like to meet with her, then message her on here. Or do you think that outing her in the pub will lead to her feeling she has to play with you just in case you tell others, do you feel going up to her in person gives her leverage for a meet.

Message her on here, dont say anything about the pub, if she doesnt message you back or isnt interested, leave her alone, her personal business is her own.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I would leave it be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guess that depends on whether the concept of 'discretion' appeals to you or not?

It's not indiscreet to let someone know you are a member of FAB or to let them know that you know that they don't know you know they are a member of FAB ."

Think I know what you mean.

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By *tefnkatCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield

For what it's worth, I agree with iconic.

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

warrington

I think I would leave it if you see her, but there is nothing wrong with dropping her a message on here to see if she is interested, but still dont mention that you have seen her in the pub!! Just message her as if she was any other woman on the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tell her she looks fab an walk away "

or chat her up and say there are some fab sites on the internet these days!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A number of people we know have turned up on FAB and have messaged us. We just pretend we don't them.

Least said soonest mended.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

someone came up to me in my local town on a night out and said "I've seen your tits on fab!" I politely said "I think you have the wrong person " and walked off ! .. maybe if he hadn't been so brash about it I May have had a joke about it with him but I didn't like the fact he knew

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

know know know - don't say anything!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do hope you have never written to her, otherwise she will "no" you too

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts


"I think I would leave it if you see her, but there is nothing wrong with dropping her a message on here to see if she is interested, but still dont mention that you have seen her in the pub!! Just message her as if she was any other woman on the site."

This. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tell her she looks fab an walk away

or chat her up and say there are some fab sites on the internet these days!"

And that is equally unnerving.

How will you know how this lady will react to a comment like that, she may _iew it as a form of blackmail, and it may worry and upset her.

Personally I feel everything fab and swinging reated should be kept to the site. If someone I knew from a swinging club came up to me whilst I was picking my veg in Asda and mentioned fab I would be angry about it, and I would never do this to someone if I recognised them.

Private life and swinging should be kept separate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tell her she looks fab an walk away "

I don't think I'd like it tho if it was me ! So prob you just keep it to your self

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I saw a girl i knew to say hello to in passing when i first joined. I always thought she was quite a fitty then i saw her profile and realised she was more than a fitty she was gorgeous and oozed sex appeal. I just bit the bullet and winked at her recieved a wink back and messaged her everything was fine. Shes now one of my best friends...and regular fb

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

this has just happened to me bout hour of so checked on who had looked at me an a girl from 2 doors down on here full pic same name was shocked but hey ho lets all enjoy might invite her in for a drink now lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would leave it be"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Suppose you did tell her in the pub that she is on Fab, and actually it's that 60 year old single guy in the string vest again just happens to have some of her pictures , stick to messaging on Fab, you can always include a face pic.

Alternatively chat to her in the pub with no mention of fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you really want her to know then message her on here"

Yep, sounds like a plan, then you'll know if she's interested. Just be prepared for her to vanish , but hey at least you'll have an answer

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