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By *ubmissiveman2u OP Man
over a year ago

Cheshire

Anybody else suffered from people not wanting to meet just chat ???

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"Anybody else suffered from people not wanting to meet just chat ???"

No and yes. Alot of men flirt but don't seem to actually meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guess your over reaching yourself...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In fab? Oh yes.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I am one of those I'm afraid ,but I'm totally upfront about it so people don't expect a meet .

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By *hromosexualsCouple
over a year ago

Near Abercynon

This is exactly why single guys are always moaning about women and couples not replying.

I quite like a chat, but some people seem to assume that a reply means we are going to meet up for sex... that might happen, but the chances are it won't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people will some people won’t sounds like showadywady lol

In all seriousness all the lady’s seem to be up north and hundreds of miles away fab is what it is give it time you will meet the right one for you

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
over a year ago

Portstewart

Yes there are lots who prefer the social side but that's their choice. And some others are just fussy and picky and it takes all sorts to keep everyone happy so just move on to the next one and maybe they will chase after you

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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Quite ironic that you’ve posted in a forum to complain about people wanting to chat…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh the other hand I'd love a penpal!

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

"Anybody else suffered from people not wanting to meet just chat ???"

Oh dear poor you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup. It doesn’t *always* follow, but it’s often a fairly good indicator someone’s got a partner they’re cheating on.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

I like to chat to see if I want to meet. If I chat it doesn’t necessarily mean I want to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anybody else suffered from people not wanting to meet just chat ???"

When do you ask if they'd be interested in a meet? How long after starting to chat?

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By *ittlekinks38Woman
over a year ago

outside belfast x

Yeah they like the thrill of the chase and chat I've found plenty like that! They are called timewasters or potentially playing away from home...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's on chatting that you work out if you want to meet them. I couldn't meet without some sort of conversation first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I seem to have accumulated a pen pal from 100s of miles away it's a he and I'm straight think he is too so I very much doubt we will ever meet, being a single guy on here as you can imagine I don't get all that many messages to reply to so it doesn't bother me and sometimes just good to chat to like minded folk, he initially message me asking about something I wrote on one of these forms and been chatting even since on and off

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By *ond Jimmy BondMan
over a year ago

London

There’s a lot of people that “talk the talk” but have no intention meeting even though they want to meet you whilst there chatting to you and having a lady wank….then they cum and go quiet

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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

"Yeah they like the thrill of the chase and chat I've found plenty like that! They are called timewasters or potentially playing away from home..."

Maybe the reason why they don’t want to meet you is because you accuse them of being a time waster or a cheat because they want to chat with you, get to know what you’re interested in, feel comfortable and safe with you etc. before arranging to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's on chatting that you work out if you want to meet them. I couldn't meet without some sort of conversation first.

This is true.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Nope as I enjoy chatting with folk people can be interesting without anything else leading further

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

I wouldn’t want to meet them unless we had been chatting for quite a while. I’m not in a rush to meet anyone and I’m quite clear about that from the offset. Just find someone who wants the same as you OP. Quite simples really

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By *rincipessaWoman
over a year ago

your wildest dreams,

Quite the opposite. My profile says I’m not looking to meet, just want to chat and yet I get inundated with, fancy a coffee, I’m in your area, wanna meet, wanna fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Quite the opposite. My profile says I’m not looking to meet, just want to chat and yet I get inundated with, fancy a coffee, I’m in your area, wanna meet, wanna fuck "

And you can't honestly blame them, your gorgeous inside and out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Quite the opposite. My profile says I’m not looking to meet, just want to chat and yet I get inundated with, fancy a coffee, I’m in your area, wanna meet, wanna fuck "

Your Looking for list is full.

If you delete everything off your Looking for list it takes you off the searches and reduces mail.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

"Anybody else suffered from people not wanting to meet just chat ???"

It’s never happened to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as they are upfront about it, there is no issue. It's worse if they mislead you for weeks or months, then suddenly admit they never intended to meet.

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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

"Quite the opposite. My profile says I’m not looking to meet, just want to chat and yet I get inundated with, fancy a coffee, I’m in your area, wanna meet, wanna fuck

And you can't honestly blame them, your gorgeous inside and out

Yep, she’s way too gorgeous to pay any attention to anything she says or to respect her wishes in any way. I think it’s a bit selfish of her to expect people to not ask to meet her when she’s so gorgeous.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"Nope as I enjoy chatting with folk people can be interesting without anything else leading further "

I wish that was case with me. I'm very chatty but men think because I chat to them, I want to fuck them

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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

"Nope as I enjoy chatting with folk people can be interesting without anything else leading further

I wish that was case with me. I'm very chatty but men think because I chat to them, I want to fuck them"

Men think any woman who talks to them wants to fuck them to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope as I enjoy chatting with folk people can be interesting without anything else leading further

I wish that was case with me. I'm very chatty but men think because I chat to them, I want to fuck them"

It works both ways some women also assume that just because us guys chat to them that we want to fuck them

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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

"Nope as I enjoy chatting with folk people can be interesting without anything else leading further

I wish that was case with me. I'm very chatty but men think because I chat to them, I want to fuck them

It works both ways some women also assume that just because us guys chat to them that we want to fuck them "

Men do chat with women because they want to fuck them to be honest

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By *ubmissiveman2u OP Man
over a year ago

Cheshire

"Yup. It doesn’t *always* follow, but it’s often a fairly good indicator someone’s got a partner they’re cheating on."

Got it in one, she did actually finally tell me ,she was married...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yup. It doesn’t *always* follow, but it’s often a fairly good indicator someone’s got a partner they’re cheating on.

Got it in one, she did actually finally tell me ,she was married..."

Sorry to hear that. Some people are self serving

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yup. It doesn’t *always* follow, but it’s often a fairly good indicator someone’s got a partner they’re cheating on.

Got it in one, she did actually finally tell me ,she was married...

Sorry to hear that. Some people are self serving

There are a lot of women on here with partners in one form or another that's why I mainly stay in the chat box I really don't fancy someone banging on my door asking why I fucked his partner

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By *rincipessaWoman
over a year ago

your wildest dreams,

"Quite the opposite. My profile says I’m not looking to meet, just want to chat and yet I get inundated with, fancy a coffee, I’m in your area, wanna meet, wanna fuck

Your Looking for list is full.

If you delete everything off your Looking for list it takes you off the searches and reduces mail.

Yeah they’re all ticked coz really I’m happy chatting to anyone who can hold a conversation

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

"Nope as I enjoy chatting with folk people can be interesting without anything else leading further

I wish that was case with me. I'm very chatty but men think because I chat to them, I want to fuck them"

These types only have a one track mind it's like a pointless exercise which is a shame x

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford

I like chatting, though, OP! How is chatting 'suffering'?

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

Well, your new rules will sort the wheat from the chaff!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends if you consider it suffering.

Im all talk no action currently. Suffer the fools.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like penpals, I am up front about being out of country so unable to meet but like chatting and seeing a message waiting can cheer me up on a down day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most definitely but I’m not suffering

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By *ena AmourTV/TS
over a year ago

Chard

More chats the merrier! I have found fab far more rewarding experience by getting to know people, even just a little.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"More chats the merrier! I have found fab far more rewarding experience by getting to know people, even just a little.

Totally agreed. I’ve made the BEST of friends on here

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By *ust JuicyWoman
over a year ago

east london

"Anybody else suffered from people not wanting to meet just chat ???"

Lol @ suffered

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of people enjoy the social side of swinging just as much as meeting for sex. We like chatting and making friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"More chats the merrier! I have found fab far more rewarding experience by getting to know people, even just a little.

Totally agreed. I’ve made the BEST of friends on here

Same hear amazing chats with lady’s and gents some on hear funny witty and amazing people

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

I'd rather chat and gain meeting of minds before meeting .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anybody else suffered from people not wanting to meet just chat ???"

I want to meet but all I get is chat

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By *r SpiegalMan
over a year ago

gateshead

I see a lot of chat myself and am just respectful.

Personally think most woman are here for chatting which I don’t mind.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It takez a lot of chatting to filter out the unmatched. Have realistic expectations.

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