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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You know what I mean. Do you feel like you don’t stand a chance because of how someone looks?

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

WHEREVER I LAY MY HAT

All the time. But he (she/they) who dares wins Rodders

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If that's what you think then you'll be right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think so if you don’t ask yoj definitely don’t get…

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By *olden PoleMan
over a year ago

Bromley

Nope….confidence is key along with the ability to make conversation.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If that's what you think then you'll be right. "

Ooohh. So they’re only mega fit in my own mind? Is that what you mean

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Yes, quite often.

Mrs

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By *istyPeaksCouple
over a year ago

braintree

I used to. I now go by

“He who dares”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the time but I try my luck anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not in the slightest, but then again I am beautiful

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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No. Sometimes I know that someone won't find me attractive but I don't see it as them being out of my league. Different people find different things attractive don't they?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes especially if they put physical preference details in there bio such as ‘ over 6ft’ ‘ gym fit’ etc etc

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Not with looks. It’s more about are we on the same path/wavelength.

You can be a physically impressive specimen, but a toxic personality will make you ugly in my eyes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If that's what you think then you'll be right.

Ooohh. So they’re only mega fit in my own mind? Is that what you mean "

Nothing to do with anyone else. Be your own biggest supporter

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By *it4uMan
over a year ago

Brighton / lancashie / SW France

Majority of the time and sometimes I don’t even bother sending a message cos what’s the point

But I send one anyway lol

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By *eardsandboobsCouple
over a year ago

near lincoln

I support Lincoln and once shagged a notts county player who were in the league below at the time . So they weren’t in my league. Does that count ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All the time but I try my luck anyway. "

Exactly this lol

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By *eartsmanMan
over a year ago

southeast , midlands, southern France

I'm of the opinion that if you don't ask you'll never know. But I get where you're coming from OP. I look at some profiles and think I have no chance!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes definitely. Then if you do message them and they reply, never sure if just out of politeness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No i see average joes with stunnera daily why should i expect less

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

But then I tend not to go for the classically good looking anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I do feel that way. I sometimes send a message but often dont bother.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always feel there have been profiles (some in the forums) that are out of my league and felt there would be no chance they would want to chat to me. Have been pleased in the past though when one of those profiles have messaged me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If that's what you think then you'll be right.

Ooohh. So they’re only mega fit in my own mind? Is that what you mean

Nothing to do with anyone else. Be your own biggest supporter "

So if I think I’m awesomely attractive… I am. Got it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah all the time, but take a punt. You’re losing nothing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You know what I mean. Do you feel like you don’t stand a chance because of how someone looks? "

Yes all the time

How I look and my weight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup.

When I was young, I spent a lot of time with a support group for families with kids who had special needs. A lot of the children didn’t look how general society believes is ‘conventionally attractive’ and it felt awful when we went places and people said cruel things and stared. But there was real love and strength in that group and I/we had some amazing times - there’s so much more to life, when how people look, doesn’t matter, and you concentrate on who they are instead

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By *astandtheCurious2Couple
over a year ago

letchworth

Yes all the time, I really struggle with the not being good enough thing

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By *estinyIsAllCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Yep, but we often try our luck as you never know. They could be blind d*unk, have vision problems or just take pity on us.

D x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes all the time, I really struggle with the not being good enough thing "

You look like a very attractive couple to me. I very much sympathise though

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By *weet and SpiceCouple
over a year ago

Around the Midlands

Shoot your shot as they say

What have you got to lose

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Brum

We’re more of a cup kinda couple you know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yup.

When I was young, I spent a lot of time with a support group for families with kids who had special needs. A lot of the children didn’t look how general society believes is ‘conventionally attractive’ and it felt awful when we went places and people said cruel things and stared. But there was real love and strength in that group and I/we had some amazing times - there’s so much more to life, when how people look, doesn’t matter, and you concentrate on who they are instead "

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By *ickshawedCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"We’re more of a cup kinda couple you know.

"

Like the two girls, one cup?

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"You know what I mean. Do you feel like you don’t stand a chance because of how someone looks? "

Not really out of my league, mostly I’m out of their age range or their county

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You know what I mean. Do you feel like you don’t stand a chance because of how someone looks?

Not really out of my league, mostly I’m out of their age range or their county "

Or country.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yep, but we often try our luck as you never know. They could be blind d*unk, have vision problems or just take pity on us.

D x"

This is a positive post I can get in board with

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yup.

When I was young, I spent a lot of time with a support group for families with kids who had special needs. A lot of the children didn’t look how general society believes is ‘conventionally attractive’ and it felt awful when we went places and people said cruel things and stared. But there was real love and strength in that group and I/we had some amazing times - there’s so much more to life, when how people look, doesn’t matter, and you concentrate on who they are instead "

Boom.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Shoot your shot as they say

What have you got to lose "

I’m shooting blanks at the moment

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

I often get men surprised I reply back. But they always try. Usually the reply is "no thanks" though.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

I'm average looking but always go for handsome men with big cocks they usually oblige

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By *wingin CatMan
over a year ago

London

Yes - all the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh all the time..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

99% of this site is out of my league……

Holding out hope to meet that 1%

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Nope.

If I see specific preferences that I don't match in terms of height, body shape, hair length, age etc then I don't feel they're out of my league.

We're just looking to play in different leagues, requiring different skill sets and attributes.

Nobody is out of anyone's league.

Otherwise I wouldn't be married to Fox.

A

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford

No because anyone who has me will tell you I’m a legend.

Plus my mum thinks I’m special and that’s all that matters

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Obviously. I'm human

LvM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not with looks. It’s more about are we on the same path/wavelength.

You can be a physically impressive specimen, but a toxic personality will make you ugly in my eyes."

Accurate

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By *ickshawedCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

I don't think anyone's out of my league. I might admire them and therefore be nervous about making contact, but that's not the same as believing they're out of reach.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You know what, honestly, no...

Not because I'm a super stud and the best looking man alive or anything, but I think it's abit school playground popularity contest being 'out of leagues'

Especially as you get older to around late 20s above, you only have to look at hot womens veris here to see most don't have a physical type pattern...

And that's the beauty of this and my old thread about what were you like in school. Here, jocks can meet the former 'nerds' etc. I think as long as you have the chat, anything can go and you can work for someone you think is the hottest thing you've seen!

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"I don't think anyone's out of my league. I might admire them and therefore be nervous about making contact, but that's not the same as believing they're out of reach. "

That’s the benefit of being forum famous, people want to meet you

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Swanage


"You know what I mean. Do you feel like you don’t stand a chance because of how someone looks? "
of course but I'm quite confident so I suppose if you don't ask you don't get

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By *rsPricklePantsWoman
over a year ago

Room 237 at The Overlook Hotel, Suffolk

Yes, definitely, plus it really doesn't help when you've had random people out of nowhere message to find fault with you in some way, it totally knocks the confidence especially when it's multiple people at once

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Shoot your shot as they say

What have you got to lose

I’m shooting blanks at the moment "

Me too, but then I’ve had the snip…..(over share lol?)

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

London

All the time. And I don’t even go by looks.

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By *ickshawedCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"I don't think anyone's out of my league. I might admire them and therefore be nervous about making contact, but that's not the same as believing they're out of reach.

That’s the benefit of being forum famous, people want to meet you"

I thought that was the benefit of having boobs

Most people we've met don't read the forums

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By *B..Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

I used to think that way but now if I like the look of them I will msg, what is there to lose

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think anyone's out of my league. I might admire them and therefore be nervous about making contact, but that's not the same as believing they're out of reach.

That’s the benefit of being forum famous, people want to meet you

I thought that was the benefit of having boobs

Most people we've met don't read the forums "

Your Vera's are like a Forum hall of fame! A point I will confirm when I get mine on there...

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By *oly Fuck Sticks BatmanCouple
over a year ago

here & there

Nope absolutely not - if you don’t ask you don’t get, we would much rather be turned down than never know if they could have said yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope absolutely not - if you don’t ask you don’t get, we would much rather be turned down than never know if they could have said yes. "

FAF?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes but we are still new to meets so we tend to wait for people to message or wink at us rather than the other way round..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep

Of coarse

But god loves a tryer

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Yes all the time, more often than not.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

They are only out of your league if you lack the confidence. Same with dream job, dream life, dream women - all within your reach if you can get the confidence to go get them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All the time. But he (she/they) who dares wins Rodders"

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

I think everybody’s out of my league. Which is handy, as it means absolutely everyone is on the same level. No superstars, no celebrities, no gods and no monsters. So I’ll say hi to anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Generally not unless a profile says something like looking for slim or gym fit then ill pass by, but that's more that I won't fit their preference rather than out of their league. Everyone likes different types of people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope absolutely not - if you don’t ask you don’t get, we would much rather be turned down than never know if they could have said yes. "

Winner of the thread!

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By *anted by NightMan
over a year ago

Shangri-La


"You know what I mean. Do you feel like you don’t stand a chance because of how someone looks? "

Yes. All the time.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

If a profile says they're looking for people like us we reckon we at least make the 'for consideration ' pile whatever they look like. In person it's not so clear cut of course

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By *cloversCouple
over a year ago

Hull


"Yup.

When I was young, I spent a lot of time with a support group for families with kids who had special needs. A lot of the children didn’t look how general society believes is ‘conventionally attractive’ and it felt awful when we went places and people said cruel things and stared. But there was real love and strength in that group and I/we had some amazing times - there’s so much more to life, when how people look, doesn’t matter, and you concentrate on who they are instead "

Just love everything about this outlook

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

Yes, of course!

We’ve been surprised by some people who contact. Until they realise we don’t meet their extraordinarily high standards

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.


"You know what I mean. Do you feel like you don’t stand a chance because of how someone looks? "

All the time to be honest. Jo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, of course!

We’ve been surprised by some people who contact. Until they realise we don’t meet their extraordinarily high standards

"

I keep telling you, you're fine! Please don't be intimidated by me I promise you have nothing to worry about!

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Never x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes!

I know I am punching above my weight, and as a fatty, this is not inconsiderable!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meh. You miss 100% of the shots you don't take, as they say.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Yes!! But he seems to like fucking me anyway so why not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope not at all.

I know not everyone will want to fuck me for various reasons none of which is because they are too good for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes all the time ... I think it has something to do with my face though

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By *nselfishpleaserMan
over a year ago

kent

If you don't ask you don't get variety is the spice if life, forture favours the bold

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Holibobs

Nope I don't believe in leagues. Only connections

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

... like everything...

depends on the chat...

sometimes i think that and get a suprise message response only to discover they are boring and stupid. Photos don't really show personality.. maybe they are out of YOUR league.

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By *.R.MMan
over a year ago

Norfolk

Yes!

I was told by one that I wasn’t fat enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes!

I was told by one that I wasn’t fat enough "

Oh we need to trade, I was too fat for someone!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyones all figments of my mind waiting to be crushed under my boot

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Anyone who thinks people are out of their league need to give their head a wobble....No-one is all that!

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

As it says on my profile, I am one in a million.

I am in a league of my own

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By *weetiepie99Woman
over a year ago

cardiff

No. No-one is too good for anyone else. Its just preferences, compatability and connection.

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By *.R.MMan
over a year ago

Norfolk


"Yes!

I was told by one that I wasn’t fat enough

Oh we need to trade, I was too fat for someone! "

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Not anymore, I did think like that a while ago but I've attracted some truly incredible ladies on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’re just both mega cheeky and try our luck with the ‘top totty’

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By *asty tatsyMan
over a year ago

london

I defo do, I have a butchers at what the pics are like and think hmmmm I don’t stand a chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We’re just both mega cheeky and try our luck with the ‘top totty’ "

Is that a challenge for you given you're in that league or....

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By *ackbydemandMan
over a year ago

Leicester

Nobody is out of anybodies league, we all have something to offer

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By *i_guy_sloughMan
over a year ago

Langley

If you don’t try you’ll never know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m a trier x

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By *arialoueWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

All the time, either that or they are fake n want money etc

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

No one is out of anyone’s league, you just might not float their boat but you don’t know until you try

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London


"I’m a trier x "

If leagues exist, you’re Premier League and you know it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. You never know until you ask

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m a trier x "

Oh piss off jasmine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m a trier x

Oh piss off jasmine "

That’s just hurt my heart x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m a trier x

Oh piss off jasmine

That’s just hurt my heart x "

I'm sure I'd be able to make it more than up to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For every thousand that say no there will be one that says yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With enough preparation I can get anyone

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London


"You know what I mean. Do you feel like you don’t stand a chance because of how someone looks? "

Yes, at times.

It's true that we all have our unique selling points so this is not about lacking confidence in yourself: "don't ask, don't get" is true, of course, but I carry a dose of realism with me at all times.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London


"With enough preparation I can get anyone "

Yes, but it’s harder to get hold of the zip ties and black bags on a bank holiday when B&Q’s closed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, I’ve even told it to people who have approached me

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By *rMonkeyMan
over a year ago

Somewhere

Never, the worst they can say is no thanks.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

No. I know they're out of my league by the way I look.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never, the worst they can say is no thanks."

I can think of worse things

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"With enough preparation I can get anyone "

I must admit, you are starting to wear me down

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I used to. Then I realised how shitty it made me feel that everyone thought I was shallow enough to not be interested in them. You never know unless you give it a go.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

On looks alone definitely not.

If they give off a particular vibe where they believe they are too good for most or look down on others I'm more than happy to leave them in their own little League.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes often

That's why I never send a first message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feel sometimes I’m out everbody league

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes 100% that why I don't bother to send a message most of the time,men outnumber the woman on here so I always think I haven't got a chance

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nobody is out of anybodies league, we all have something to offer"

Yes. I offer foot rubs and random facts.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"Nobody is out of anybodies league, we all have something to offer

Yes. I offer foot rubs and random facts. "

You still ok to file my feet next weekend?

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By *rincess Peach xxCouple
over a year ago

leeds

It’s not always about looks.

If anything looks aren’t important to us.

Respect and hygiene are the top of our list haha

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Everyone is out of my league. Worth trying every now and again though

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nobody is out of anybodies league, we all have something to offer

Yes. I offer foot rubs and random facts.

You still ok to file my feet next weekend? "

Yes. I’ve ordered the grinder from HSS tools.

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

Not really, looks obviously help but personality goes a long way I think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We can never be everyone’s cup of tea. I’ve been told I’m too fat, too old , don’t do ladies that wear glasses and so on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No one is out of anyone’s league, you just might not float their boat but you don’t know until you try "

Of course they are. Much better to accept your limitations and adjust your expectations accordingly than live a life of disappointment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly just shoot your shot and if rejected, fuck it.

Positive vibes people ITS CHRISTMASSSeSS

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By *rtyIanMan
over a year ago

Gateway to the Beacons

All about the aesthetics on here and other online platforms, if your face don't fit you rarely get the chance to show your personality etc

You can try through your bio but its the 7-second rule, look at the pic scroll by.

Be shit if we all liked the same anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I do all the time.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"Nobody is out of anybodies league, we all have something to offer

Yes. I offer foot rubs and random facts.

You still ok to file my feet next weekend?

Yes. I’ve ordered the grinder from HSS tools. "

I'll bring Henry to catch the shavings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. But I always recommend shooting your shot anyway. What's the worst that could happen? They say no and hurt your ego? You'll get over it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"All about the aesthetics on here and other online platforms, if your face don't fit you rarely get the chance to show your personality etc

You can try through your bio but its the 7-second rule, look at the pic scroll by.

Be shit if we all liked the same anyway "

It would be shit if we all looked the same too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes. But I always recommend shooting your shot anyway. What's the worst that could happen? They say no and hurt your ego? You'll get over it. "

Or not respond at all which is obviously neither a rejection or a yes let's party. It's the nether zone where anything is possible (in your head)

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By *ateshugsMan
over a year ago

Isle of Man, (Crosby ish)

I know I’m a 5, maybe a 6 with a suit on. I’ll try my luck. But never hold my breath!

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Are they out of your league?"

Yes. But take the punt anyway – you never know when someone might fancy slumming it with you for a bit.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I know I’m a 5, maybe a 6 with a suit on. I’ll try my luck. But never hold my breath! "

I’m a 10.

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By *elisandre300Woman
over a year ago

dontbefuckingnosey


"You know what I mean. Do you feel like you don’t stand a chance because of how someone looks? "

All the time.

I’m surprised when someone way out of my league messages me… flattered, but I also can’t help but question why… so I never respond and just fantasize instead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a really fickle place in here?

I'm sure we can all identify profiles we think are out of our league.

I exchanged a face picture in the past, to be told not for me, which of course does knock your confidence a little.

However I recently got winked at by one of those aforementioned hot profiles. I genuinely thought it was a wind up,but after exchanging a picture, a social is being arranged.

This place can fry your brain if you take it too seriously!

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By *J StathamMan
over a year ago

Manchester

From my experience men tend to date down and women date up.

But on fab it's amplified, a women who would usually consider herself a 5 would be an 8 on fab and can nab a meet with men that usually would not give her attention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"From my experience men tend to date down and women date up.

But on fab it's amplified, a women who would usually consider herself a 5 would be an 8 on fab and can nab a meet with men that usually would not give her attention"

To be fair lingerie does look really good...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never!!

No 1 is our of your league comrades that is the mindset of sheep. We are all lions, we conquer . Don't be defeated b4 the battle has even began. They might not fancy you back fair enough but that doesn't make them out of your league keep at it you sexy buggers lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never!!

No 1 is our of your league comrades that is the mindset of sheep. We are all lions, we conquer . Don't be defeated b4 the battle has even began. They might not fancy you back fair enough but that doesn't make them out of your league keep at it you sexy buggers lol "

Old crispydick is right. I have had sex with women I never would have thought possible when I was 16 or so but the right place at the right time and having a cheeky sense of self belief and confirdence goes a long way!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You know what I mean. Do you feel like you don’t stand a chance because of how someone looks? "

I'm not even in my own league let alone anyone else's.

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By *elisandre300Woman
over a year ago

dontbefuckingnosey


"From my experience men tend to date down and women date up.

But on fab it's amplified, a women who would usually consider herself a 5 would be an 8 on fab and can nab a meet with men that usually would not give her attention"

Ummmm I’m a 4 in real life and a 2 on here…

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You know what I mean. Do you feel like you don’t stand a chance because of how someone looks?

I'm not even in my own league let alone anyone else's."

I’m not even sure what game I’m playing anymore.

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

Why do we put ourselves in leagues? Hey I’m a trier, if I see something I like, I’ll try and get it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"From my experience men tend to date down and women date up.

But on fab it's amplified, a women who would usually consider herself a 5 would be an 8 on fab and can nab a meet with men that usually would not give her attention"

Riiiiiight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"From my experience men tend to date down and women date up.

But on fab it's amplified, a women who would usually consider herself a 5 would be an 8 on fab and can nab a meet with men that usually would not give her attention

Riiiiiight."

Very Dr Evil I like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never!!

No 1 is our of your league comrades that is the mindset of sheep. We are all lions, we conquer . Don't be defeated b4 the battle has even began. They might not fancy you back fair enough but that doesn't make them out of your league keep at it you sexy buggers lol

Old crispydick is right. I have had sex with women I never would have thought possible when I was 16 or so but the right place at the right time and having a cheeky sense of self belief and confirdence goes a long way!"

That's the spirit mate We have to try before throwing in the towel. Keep at it folks

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Swanage

Life is like a box of chocolates if you don't pick somebody theirs no taste

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"From my experience men tend to date down and women date up.

But on fab it's amplified, a women who would usually consider herself a 5 would be an 8 on fab and can nab a meet with men that usually would not give her attention"

No I'm a 8 on here and a 4 off here, women have to try harder

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Life is like a box of chocolates if you don't pick somebody theirs no taste "

I don’t remember Forest saying that!!

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"From my experience men tend to date down and women date up.

But on fab it's amplified, a women who would usually consider herself a 5 would be an 8 on fab and can nab a meet with men that usually would not give her attention

No I'm a 8 on here and a 4 off here, women have to try harder "

I'm 4 in person and from what men message me I'm absolute 10 out of 10 goddess....they say anything to get a reply lol

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

When God like men message me on here....i don't persue it as I hate for them to meet me and think dam, i made a mistake

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"When God like men message me on here....i don't persue it as I hate for them to meet me and think dam, i made a mistake "

I'm grey like god. Will that do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"From my experience men tend to date down and women date up.

But on fab it's amplified, a women who would usually consider herself a 5 would be an 8 on fab and can nab a meet with men that usually would not give her attention

No I'm a 8 on here and a 4 off here, women have to try harder

I'm 4 in person and from what men message me I'm absolute 10 out of 10 goddess....they say anything to get a reply lol"

That body literally cannot belong on a 4 unless your face is like lord Voldemort s. Even then I reckon that's a 5

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By *wistedsoul35Man
over a year ago

barrow

Yep, at probably a solid 3 out of 10, pretty much everyone on here is out of my league

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When God like men message me on here....i don't persue it as I hate for them to meet me and think dam, i made a mistake

I'm grey like god. Will that do? "

I make them think ’oh my god’.

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
over a year ago

…

I don’t always find classically good looking guys attractive. For example, I’d take someone more rugged who look like they’d been bashed around a bit over a pretty boy, anyday. Same with body type, I’d rather have someone a bit more chunky than gym ripped. So in essence, the pretty boys or Adonis’s may think they’re out of my league, but I wouldn’t be attracted to them anyways

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By *nglo-Indian-DelightCouple
over a year ago

Worcestershire

No, not at all, I'm no oil painting(male1/2), but can confidently state have had some very attractive ladies, interact with me as part of our adventure, but I/we don't meet with any expectations

And I'm pleased to say my Mrs still finds me attractive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone here needs to own themselves more.

Unless you're all Photoshop pros there's bodies on here that absolutely do not belong to below 5s. If you have some decent chat and own yourselves, than your face would have to be really pretty scary to not be attractive.

I've seen a lot of faces here now and not one of them has made me go 'eurgh fuck no!' Some I cannot believe they are DMing me!

Love yourselves people you're all fuckin gorgeous. That goes for the men especially who I think need to hear it more alot of the time.

It's hard to get replies for alot of us because the women are much more in demand. Don't let that knock your confidence!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No but sometimes I’ve seen someone and thought fuck she’s hot but then I also know that peoples attractions are all different, so it’s worth trying… Worst thing that can happen is they say no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t always find classically good looking guys attractive. For example, I’d take someone more rugged who look like they’d been bashed around a bit over a pretty boy, anyday. Same with body type, I’d rather have someone a bit more chunky than gym ripped. So in essence, the pretty boys or Adonis’s may think they’re out of my league, but I wouldn’t be attracted to them anyways "

I'm just gonna go ahead and tell you not one man on this fucking site thinks they are out of your league

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"From my experience men tend to date down and women date up.

But on fab it's amplified, a women who would usually consider herself a 5 would be an 8 on fab and can nab a meet with men that usually would not give her attention

No I'm a 8 on here and a 4 off here, women have to try harder

I'm 4 in person and from what men message me I'm absolute 10 out of 10 goddess....they say anything to get a reply lol"

I'm not going to blow any smoke up your bum, I would however give you fair marking in person

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"Everyone here needs to own themselves more.

Unless you're all Photoshop pros there's bodies on here that absolutely do not belong to below 5s. If you have some decent chat and own yourselves, than your face would have to be really pretty scary to not be attractive.

I've seen a lot of faces here now and not one of them has made me go 'eurgh fuck no!' Some I cannot believe they are DMing me!

Love yourselves people you're all fuckin gorgeous. That goes for the men especially who I think need to hear it more alot of the time.

It's hard to get replies for alot of us because the women are much more in demand. Don't let that knock your confidence! "

I must be good dam photographer

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"From my experience men tend to date down and women date up.

But on fab it's amplified, a women who would usually consider herself a 5 would be an 8 on fab and can nab a meet with men that usually would not give her attention

No I'm a 8 on here and a 4 off here, women have to try harder

I'm 4 in person and from what men message me I'm absolute 10 out of 10 goddess....they say anything to get a reply lol"

You’re a high 4

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone here needs to own themselves more.

Unless you're all Photoshop pros there's bodies on here that absolutely do not belong to below 5s. If you have some decent chat and own yourselves, than your face would have to be really pretty scary to not be attractive.

I've seen a lot of faces here now and not one of them has made me go 'eurgh fuck no!' Some I cannot believe they are DMing me!

Love yourselves people you're all fuckin gorgeous. That goes for the men especially who I think need to hear it more alot of the time.

It's hard to get replies for alot of us because the women are much more in demand. Don't let that knock your confidence! "

I'm a Photoshop pro

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone here needs to own themselves more.

Unless you're all Photoshop pros there's bodies on here that absolutely do not belong to below 5s. If you have some decent chat and own yourselves, than your face would have to be really pretty scary to not be attractive.

I've seen a lot of faces here now and not one of them has made me go 'eurgh fuck no!' Some I cannot believe they are DMing me!

Love yourselves people you're all fuckin gorgeous. That goes for the men especially who I think need to hear it more alot of the time.

It's hard to get replies for alot of us because the women are much more in demand. Don't let that knock your confidence!

I must be good dam photographer "

11th June 2020.

That's all x

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By *phrodite_AdonisCouple
over a year ago

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No, but more because it’s very rare we (ok I) like the look of someone in the first place

Sasha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone here needs to own themselves more.

Unless you're all Photoshop pros there's bodies on here that absolutely do not belong to below 5s. If you have some decent chat and own yourselves, than your face would have to be really pretty scary to not be attractive.

I've seen a lot of faces here now and not one of them has made me go 'eurgh fuck no!' Some I cannot believe they are DMing me!

Love yourselves people you're all fuckin gorgeous. That goes for the men especially who I think need to hear it more alot of the time.

It's hard to get replies for alot of us because the women are much more in demand. Don't let that knock your confidence!

I'm a Photoshop pro "

Oh you can stop as well you god damn 8.3

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone here needs to own themselves more.

Unless you're all Photoshop pros there's bodies on here that absolutely do not belong to below 5s. If you have some decent chat and own yourselves, than your face would have to be really pretty scary to not be attractive.

I've seen a lot of faces here now and not one of them has made me go 'eurgh fuck no!' Some I cannot believe they are DMing me!

Love yourselves people you're all fuckin gorgeous. That goes for the men especially who I think need to hear it more alot of the time.

It's hard to get replies for alot of us because the women are much more in demand. Don't let that knock your confidence!

I'm a Photoshop pro

Oh you can stop as well you god damn 8.3 "

Naff off.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oh no. This might come to an end 175.

Thanks everyone for replying, and it’s refreshing to hear it’s not just me that thinks it.

And to add, there’s a lot of women that have replied that I do think are in aanother league. You’re all gorgeous.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"Everyone here needs to own themselves more.

Unless you're all Photoshop pros there's bodies on here that absolutely do not belong to below 5s. If you have some decent chat and own yourselves, than your face would have to be really pretty scary to not be attractive.

I've seen a lot of faces here now and not one of them has made me go 'eurgh fuck no!' Some I cannot believe they are DMing me!

Love yourselves people you're all fuckin gorgeous. That goes for the men especially who I think need to hear it more alot of the time.

It's hard to get replies for alot of us because the women are much more in demand. Don't let that knock your confidence!

I'm a Photoshop pro "

Still missed a few of those zits on your butt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh no. This might come to an end 175.

Thanks everyone for replying, and it’s refreshing to hear it’s not just me that thinks it.

And to add, there’s a lot of women that have replied that I do think are in aanother league. You’re all gorgeous.

"

Anyone can look good on a posed edited pic, remember that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, but more because it’s very rare we (ok I) like the look of someone in the first place

Sasha "

You know you're hot and have high standards! Which is absolutely fair!

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By *am80CoolWoman
over a year ago

Town

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell no, know your own worth. They're human like everyone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone here needs to own themselves more.

Unless you're all Photoshop pros there's bodies on here that absolutely do not belong to below 5s. If you have some decent chat and own yourselves, than your face would have to be really pretty scary to not be attractive.

I've seen a lot of faces here now and not one of them has made me go 'eurgh fuck no!' Some I cannot believe they are DMing me!

Love yourselves people you're all fuckin gorgeous. That goes for the men especially who I think need to hear it more alot of the time.

It's hard to get replies for alot of us because the women are much more in demand. Don't let that knock your confidence!

I'm a Photoshop pro

Still missed a few of those zits on your butt "

I added those!!

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
over a year ago

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"I don’t always find classically good looking guys attractive. For example, I’d take someone more rugged who look like they’d been bashed around a bit over a pretty boy, anyday. Same with body type, I’d rather have someone a bit more chunky than gym ripped. So in essence, the pretty boys or Adonis’s may think they’re out of my league, but I wouldn’t be attracted to them anyways

I'm just gonna go ahead and tell you not one man on this fucking site thinks they are out of your league "

Aw shucks Thank you, but I’m 100% sure I won’t be everyones cup of tea… some will want tall, brunette, small boobs, skinny etc. Everyone is attracted to different things. One persons premiership captain is another persons Sunday league reserve player

Ps Don’t come at me for that comparison… I know virtually nothing about football

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