FabSwingers.com forum: Worries of being incapable of great sex when older

By *lumPudding OP Couple
over a year ago

Doncaster

As a couple we have great energetic sex together and really put 100% in to achieve orgasm. About 1 hour session and a small bucket of sweat it’s one hell of a workout!

I was just wondering as we get older will we be incapable of having sex at this same level? If so will we have to turn to other means to get our rock off?

Has anyone else experienced difficulties achieving orgasm due to age/health?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, I've always been shit at it

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By *ust Passing ThroughMan
over a year ago

poole

No one should be worrying about this

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By *ichaelsmyMan
over a year ago

douglas

Who says you are having great sex?

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By *he ass man 666Man
over a year ago

paradise city

"As a couple we have great energetic sex together and really put 100% in to achieve orgasm. About 1 hour session and a small bucket of sweat it’s one hell of a workout!

I was just wondering as we get older will we be incapable of having sex at this same level? If so will we have to turn to other means to get our rock off?

Has anyone else experienced difficulties achieving orgasm due to age/health?"

Not yet , fingers crossed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, but your appetites will also change. I wouldn’t worry about it. Think of it like having a big house, you’ll always have enough stuff to fill it. You’ll always be able to have enough sex to satisfy your appetite. It’s just that you’ll have moved house into a retirement flat by then and had to bin your things

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By *tephanjMan
over a year ago

Kettering

My sex drive is almost the same but I do have some health issues so can't keep going for as long.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who says you are having great sex?"

The OP is in a couple. So they probably say it to each other…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find as a man the little blue pill helps a lot makes me feel like a teenager all over again, however the aching back, the knees tend to slow you down. For her she has a touch of rheumatism and the usual aches and pains of old age and is no longer the bendy toy that can go all night. So the lovemaking becomes more sensual and more intense, more mental. Hence we tend to limit our meetings to those that can visit on a regular basis

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By *ull4youbothMan
over a year ago

march

Hi Do not think you have to worry about it. I went through a period after a serious accident and heart problems. When I relaxed about things it got a lot better. a lot about good sex starts in the mind, if you try too hard it brings problems and you do not manage to perform as well. try experimenting with playing out fantasies. Mine is cuckolding and boy that does get me going like a youngster with the right playmates. Best of luck with having lots of fun, come and join me if you like. Bob

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You go through different phases as you move through life.. So long as you are both enjoying /adapting, why sweat it?

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Blue pill and nerves. You're competing in a totally different market as you get older. Once you were confident, now, you're looking over your shoulder. Relax and enjoy what you get out of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has anyone else experienced difficulties achieving orgasm due to age/health?"

Yes, I have half the energy I had when I was half this age. I just lay there and move my hips….

^sarcasm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I'm older I intend on spending my evenings laid on the sofa with fluffy blankets, sex will be the last thing on my mind.

Oh wait...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I'm older I intend on spending my evenings laid on the sofa with fluffy blankets, sex will be the last thing on my mind.

Oh wait..."

Sure. You just lay there… I’m fine with that..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As a couple we have great energetic sex together and really put 100% in to achieve orgasm. About 1 hour session and a small bucket of sweat it’s one hell of a workout!

I was just wondering as we get older will we be incapable of having sex at this same level? If so will we have to turn to other means to get our rock off?

Has anyone else experienced difficulties achieving orgasm due to age/health?"

Like the song says ....why worry ... everyone is different ,of course health plays an important part for everyone as regards everything not only sex , make the most of life , whatever it is cause believe or not everyone is growing that but older every day , like the song says ( again ) ..you're not the only one ...a person's health determines lots of things .

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By *ustincider888Man
over a year ago

Preston Ish

I have a little anxiety about sexual performance but it used to be worse until I went to my GP who explained the reasons why I was suffering from PE.

A medical (slight issue there) and some sound advice as well as the blue pill on prescription has helped a lot in my case.

I'm now a lot more confident although not completely rid of the anxious moments.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think the secret is not to worry about it.

sometimes with someone you love you dont need 1hr long sex olympics...

im just holding on hoping i can find that again!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As a couple we have great energetic sex together and really put 100% in to achieve orgasm. About 1 hour session and a small bucket of sweat it’s one hell of a workout!

I was just wondering as we get older will we be incapable of having sex at this same level? If so will we have to turn to other means to get our rock off?

Has anyone else experienced difficulties achieving orgasm due to age/health?"

Do you worry that when the sex has gone your relationship has nothing else to keep it going?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As a couple we have great energetic sex together and really put 100% in to achieve orgasm. About 1 hour session and a small bucket of sweat it’s one hell of a workout!

I was just wondering as we get older will we be incapable of having sex at this same level? If so will we have to turn to other means to get our rock off?

Has anyone else experienced difficulties achieving orgasm due to age/health?

Do you worry that when the sex has gone your relationship has nothing else to keep it going?"

No, relationships are about more than sex. That is just an big part of it for some, not so much for others.

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By *lumPudding OP Couple
over a year ago

Doncaster

Thanks all, rest assured we’ll continue to have great sex (yes that is our opinion and we are biased but in all honesty it is fucking great sex!) until we’re incapable and cross that bridge when it cums (pun intended)

We’re not worrying about this to the point where it’s keeping us up at night but something we’ve discussed as it really can feel like we’re physically exhausted by the time we have both cum and it surely can’t continue into old age. Plus one of us is gonna break something one day with the manoeuvres we get into!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Change is sometimes better.

I may not be a rabid bang at it 20 year old but I still enjoy sex and in many ways much more than I used to.

Tend to shunt through with pleasure more than jack hammer to a quick finale ... but then i've nothing to prove

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"As a couple we have great energetic sex together and really put 100% in to achieve orgasm. About 1 hour session and a small bucket of sweat it’s one hell of a workout!

I was just wondering as we get older will we be incapable of having sex at this same level? If so will we have to turn to other means to get our rock off?

Has anyone else experienced difficulties achieving orgasm due to age/health?"
yes get all the energetic stuff in now time your 50 you'll be out of breath getting over threshold

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

MADERIA Wherever I lay my hat

"As a couple we have great energetic sex together and really put 100% in to achieve orgasm. About 1 hour session and a small bucket of sweat it’s one hell of a workout!

I was just wondering as we get older will we be incapable of having sex at this same level? If so will we have to turn to other means to get our rock off?

Has anyone else experienced difficulties achieving orgasm due to age/health?yes get all the energetic stuff in now time your 50 you'll be out of breath getting over threshold

Speak for yourself! Cardio exercise and yoga work wonders!

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"As a couple we have great energetic sex together and really put 100% in to achieve orgasm. About 1 hour session and a small bucket of sweat it’s one hell of a workout!

I was just wondering as we get older will we be incapable of having sex at this same level? If so will we have to turn to other means to get our rock off?

Has anyone else experienced difficulties achieving orgasm due to age/health?yes get all the energetic stuff in now time your 50 you'll be out of breath getting over threshold

Speak for yourself! Cardio exercise and yoga work wonders!

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lol hey it was tongue in cheek young lady

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

MADERIA Wherever I lay my hat

"As a couple we have great energetic sex together and really put 100% in to achieve orgasm. About 1 hour session and a small bucket of sweat it’s one hell of a workout!

I was just wondering as we get older will we be incapable of having sex at this same level? If so will we have to turn to other means to get our rock off?

Has anyone else experienced difficulties achieving orgasm due to age/health?yes get all the energetic stuff in now time your 50 you'll be out of breath getting over threshold

Speak for yourself! Cardio exercise and yoga work wonders!

lol hey it was tongue in cheek young lady

Young lady?! You are my new fave Fabber of the Day! Been a while since I was called that! Both 'young' and a 'lady'!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As a couple we have great energetic sex together and really put 100% in to achieve orgasm. About 1 hour session and a small bucket of sweat it’s one hell of a workout!

I was just wondering as we get older will we be incapable of having sex at this same level? If so will we have to turn to other means to get our rock off?

Has anyone else experienced difficulties achieving orgasm due to age/health?yes get all the energetic stuff in now time your 50 you'll be out of breath getting over threshold

Speak for yourself! Cardio exercise and yoga work wonders!

lol hey it was tongue in cheek young lady

Young lady?! You are my new fave Fabber of the Day! Been a while since I was called that! Both 'young' and a 'lady'!

I feel I got short changed fast here...

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane

"Nope, I've always been shit at it

Same here...

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

MADERIA Wherever I lay my hat

"As a couple we have great energetic sex together and really put 100% in to achieve orgasm. About 1 hour session and a small bucket of sweat it’s one hell of a workout!

I was just wondering as we get older will we be incapable of having sex at this same level? If so will we have to turn to other means to get our rock off?

Has anyone else experienced difficulties achieving orgasm due to age/health?yes get all the energetic stuff in now time your 50 you'll be out of breath getting over threshold

Speak for yourself! Cardio exercise and yoga work wonders!

lol hey it was tongue in cheek young lady

Young lady?! You are my new fave Fabber of the Day! Been a while since I was called that! Both 'young' and a 'lady'!

I feel I got short changed fast here..."

I'm fickle Brucey...what can I say?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As a couple we have great energetic sex together and really put 100% in to achieve orgasm. About 1 hour session and a small bucket of sweat it’s one hell of a workout!

I was just wondering as we get older will we be incapable of having sex at this same level? If so will we have to turn to other means to get our rock off?

Has anyone else experienced difficulties achieving orgasm due to age/health?yes get all the energetic stuff in now time your 50 you'll be out of breath getting over threshold

Speak for yourself! Cardio exercise and yoga work wonders!

lol hey it was tongue in cheek young lady

Young lady?! You are my new fave Fabber of the Day! Been a while since I was called that! Both 'young' and a 'lady'!

I feel I got short changed fast here...

I'm fickle Brucey...what can I say?! "

Sssh you don't need to say anything. Actions speak louder than words...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No i just spunk in my hand and chuck it at the tele

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

MADERIA Wherever I lay my hat

"As a couple we have great energetic sex together and really put 100% in to achieve orgasm. About 1 hour session and a small bucket of sweat it’s one hell of a workout!

I was just wondering as we get older will we be incapable of having sex at this same level? If so will we have to turn to other means to get our rock off?

Has anyone else experienced difficulties achieving orgasm due to age/health?yes get all the energetic stuff in now time your 50 you'll be out of breath getting over threshold

Speak for yourself! Cardio exercise and yoga work wonders!

lol hey it was tongue in cheek young lady

Young lady?! You are my new fave Fabber of the Day! Been a while since I was called that! Both 'young' and a 'lady'!

I feel I got short changed fast here...

I'm fickle Brucey...what can I say?!

Sssh you don't need to say anything. Actions speak louder than words..."

Shhh don't tell anyone but I will always have a fire in my heart for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who says you are having great sex?"

They have a panel of judges like on Strictly who score them.

Seven!

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

I’m going to put my usual sarcasm aside and say yes.

Like, yes and yes.

Having a few months of really bad cancer scare recently, plus going through full blown menopause, it threw me off completely. Not only I don’t recognise my body anymore but also my mind is playing tricks, and it’s not cool.

All the abundance of hot men everywhere and I just can’t feel anything

That scares the shit out of me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who says you are having great sex?

The OP is in a couple. So they probably say it to each other…"

Just as I was also starting to wonder if I could still get as horny as when I was younger, you posted this with your profile picture

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m going to put my usual sarcasm aside and say yes.

Like, yes and yes.

All the abundance of hot men everywhere and I just can’t feel anything

That scares the shit out of me."

Sorry to hear that, hope it all gets better for you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As a couple we have great energetic sex together and really put 100% in to achieve orgasm. About 1 hour session and a small bucket of sweat it’s one hell of a workout!

I was just wondering as we get older will we be incapable of having sex at this same level? If so will we have to turn to other means to get our rock off?

Has anyone else experienced difficulties achieving orgasm due to age/health?yes get all the energetic stuff in now time your 50 you'll be out of breath getting over threshold

Speak for yourself! Cardio exercise and yoga work wonders!

lol hey it was tongue in cheek young lady

Young lady?! You are my new fave Fabber of the Day! Been a while since I was called that! Both 'young' and a 'lady'!

I feel I got short changed fast here...

I'm fickle Brucey...what can I say?!

Sssh you don't need to say anything. Actions speak louder than words...

Shhh don't tell anyone but I will always have a fire in my heart for you"

As long as that fire comes out once my boxers hit the floor

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

MADERIA Wherever I lay my hat

"As a couple we have great energetic sex together and really put 100% in to achieve orgasm. About 1 hour session and a small bucket of sweat it’s one hell of a workout!

I was just wondering as we get older will we be incapable of having sex at this same level? If so will we have to turn to other means to get our rock off?

Has anyone else experienced difficulties achieving orgasm due to age/health?yes get all the energetic stuff in now time your 50 you'll be out of breath getting over threshold

Speak for yourself! Cardio exercise and yoga work wonders!

lol hey it was tongue in cheek young lady

Young lady?! You are my new fave Fabber of the Day! Been a while since I was called that! Both 'young' and a 'lady'!

I feel I got short changed fast here...

I'm fickle Brucey...what can I say?!

Sssh you don't need to say anything. Actions speak louder than words...

Shhh don't tell anyone but I will always have a fire in my heart for you

As long as that fire comes out once my boxers hit the floor

You packing?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My tip... you don't have to worry if you were never capable of great sex in the the first place

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"As a couple we have great energetic sex together and really put 100% in to achieve orgasm. About 1 hour session and a small bucket of sweat it’s one hell of a workout!

I was just wondering as we get older will we be incapable of having sex at this same level? If so will we have to turn to other means to get our rock off?

Has anyone else experienced difficulties achieving orgasm due to age/health?yes get all the energetic stuff in now time your 50 you'll be out of breath getting over threshold

Speak for yourself! Cardio exercise and yoga work wonders!

lol hey it was tongue in cheek young lady

Young lady?! You are my new fave Fabber of the Day! Been a while since I was called that! Both 'young' and a 'lady'!

"
lol oh well see a compliment well received

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

MADERIA Wherever I lay my hat

"My tip... you don't have to worry if you were never capable of great sex in the the first place

Is that a bushel you are hiding your light under young man!

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"My tip... you don't have to worry if you were never capable of great sex in the the first place

Is that a bushel you are hiding your light under young man!

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lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As a couple we have great energetic sex together and really put 100% in to achieve orgasm. About 1 hour session and a small bucket of sweat it’s one hell of a workout!

I was just wondering as we get older will we be incapable of having sex at this same level? If so will we have to turn to other means to get our rock off?

Has anyone else experienced difficulties achieving orgasm due to age/health?yes get all the energetic stuff in now time your 50 you'll be out of breath getting over threshold

Speak for yourself! Cardio exercise and yoga work wonders!

lol hey it was tongue in cheek young lady

Young lady?! You are my new fave Fabber of the Day! Been a while since I was called that! Both 'young' and a 'lady'!

I feel I got short changed fast here...

I'm fickle Brucey...what can I say?!

Sssh you don't need to say anything. Actions speak louder than words...

Shhh don't tell anyone but I will always have a fire in my heart for you

As long as that fire comes out once my boxers hit the floor

You packing?!

It's heavy in them today!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im the greatest fuck in the universe yet im unwilling to show anyone anymore people dont deserve the gifts i have so il let them rot away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im the greatest fuck in the universe yet im unwilling to show anyone anymore people dont deserve the gifts i have so il let them rot away "

You okay ?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im the greatest fuck in the universe yet im unwilling to show anyone anymore people dont deserve the gifts i have so il let them rot away

You okay ?! "

I just assumed you hadn't got round to fucking him yet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My tip... you don't have to worry if you were never capable of great sex in the the first place

Is that a bushel you are hiding your light under young man!

Definitely not, complete open book, me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im the greatest fuck in the universe yet im unwilling to show anyone anymore people dont deserve the gifts i have so il let them rot away "

Ah dude

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Yeah, sadly once you get to 45 it's all downhill from there. Sorry about that - you might have sex a couple of times a week but you'll need to make sure you keep on taking cod liver oil so you don't injure yourself. Make the most of your youthful sex drive and bodies while you still can.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

I'm sure if it does ever come to a point that you notice not having the same sexual experience. You can always look at the memories that it was a good innings

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

"Yeah, sadly once you get to 45 it's all downhill from there. Sorry about that - you might have sex a couple of times a week but you'll need to make sure you keep on taking cod liver oil so you don't injure yourself. Make the most of your youthful sex drive and bodies while you still can. "

45 you say well I must've been specially designed because at 50 and still going strong like a 21 year old

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Finedon ,

I was having regular sex as part of an MMF situation well into my mid 70s, this was a real life arrangement and not through FAB.

In my late 70s I was diagnosed with a Heart condition which grounded me, then came Covid which I survived untouched, since then my Heart condition remains will be with me for life, my Arthritis has limited my mobility, still waiting for two replacement knee joints.

I will be 83 in a months time and although the mind says you can do certain things the body reminds you that you have no chance.

There are a few Fab members who are still managing to perform in their 70s and 80s and I envy them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope not still a horny dog at 57?

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By *ullyMan
over a year ago

Near Clacton

Never forget the old saying "if you don't use it you lose it". True for me alas, my hunger for sex was knocked for six when my late wife was diagnosed with cancer, she deteriorated over the course of nigh on 4 years and I totally dedicated myself to her care neglecting my own needs. I lost a lot of weight and muscle and all interest in things sexual. Now a few years on and my libido has stirred with the help of the little blue tabs and a couple of good sex sessions I am on the right track, but for sure I need more opportunities hence being on here and F G.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

As you get older you change. It will probably be a very slow process but there is nothing to say you won't still be having a good sex life for many years yet.

My late partner and I was still having sex into his 70s without viagra admittedly we weren't swinging from the chandeliers but we still had a fulling sex life

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By *ichaelsmyMan
over a year ago

douglas

"Who says you are having great sex?

The OP is in a couple. So they probably say it to each other…"

lol, sometimes these things just pop into my head and out again.

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