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By *ornycouple007 OP   Man
over a year ago

Hampshire

Hi all, as a bi man I fund it hard to neet woman as some seem out off by it. Is it just me or do others have the same problems

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By *ornycouple007 OP   Man
over a year ago

Hampshire

Find

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

What makes you think it's because you're bi as opposed to any other reason?

A

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By *phrodite_AdonisCouple
over a year ago

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"Hi all, as a bi man I fund it hard to neet woman as some seem out off by it. Is it just me or do others have the same problems "

Yes, it’s unfortunately a thing. Bi women are sought after, bi men are shunned. We see this a lot from couples not just women.

No bi males allowed as part of a couple (and let’s be real, we all have preferences, but this doesn’t seem like one to us ) For whatever reason there’s a stigma.

View it it as a decent filter and move on.

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By *ornycouple007 OP   Man
over a year ago

Hampshire


"What makes you think it's because you're bi as opposed to any other reason?

A"

It could be for other reasons but not when they say thinks that can hurt you like why would I want that anywhere near me when it's been in a guy etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm just not interested in bi men,I certainly wouldn't be rude to him though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn’t imagine a guy not liking a girl because she was bi but it’s each to their own, I wouldn’t stress over it, just move on, there’s plenty that do I’m sure, don’t waste your time on people that like dick not liking you for liking dick

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By *ansexualPandaMan
over a year ago

Near You

The first week I came on Fab a couple messaged me asking for a meet and then rescinded saying that they don't meet bisexual guys (though bi-girls were fine). Just something that you have to take on the chin and move on. View it as their loss, not yours.

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

It happens, treat it as you didn't wanna get involved with folk who have those preferences anyway

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit


"What makes you think it's because you're bi as opposed to any other reason?

A

It could be for other reasons but not when they say thinks that can hurt you like why would I want that anywhere near me when it's been in a guy etc"

Some women and couples won't meet bi men ,which is why many will say they're straight.

Whatever someone's sexuality things like that shouldn't be said to anyone

Block people like that op ,

If someone chooses not to meet bi men there's not much you can do about it,but would you want to meet those who don't want to meet you anyway?.

Plenty still will meet you .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all, as a bi man I fund it hard to neet woman as some seem out off by it. Is it just me or do others have the same problems "

plenty of folk do, if folk don't want meet bi guys well it's their prerogative, each to there own.

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By *ecypheringmWoman
over a year ago

Oldbury

Now I understand why a friend was nervous when he told me he was bi... I had wondered why it was a big deal

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By *-Elle-XWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

Everyone's entitled to their preferences of course but I find that really odd, why does it matter what you're into elsewhere. Sounds like homophobia to me.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I like bi men.

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By *oubleswing2019Man
over a year ago

Colchester

A woman once said to me, "How can I compete against another man?" and I said, "It's not a competition. Never is and never will be. You both have unique and endearing biologies."

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By *ust Passing ThroughMan
over a year ago

poole


"Hi all, as a bi man I fund it hard to neet woman as some seem out off by it. Is it just me or do others have the same problems "

People have a preference of what they like, like you do. Wouldn't stress it

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By *rixie_BlondeWoman
over a year ago

London (She/Her)

I actively like bi men, and especially bi mmf

I have been told by a few health professionals to avoid having sex with bi men because the risk of disease is higher I expect that’s bad and out of date advice, but maybe that’s why people avoid bi men?

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By *anielpiercedMan
over a year ago

by the seaside


"I actively like bi men, and especially bi mmf

I have been told by a few health professionals to avoid having sex with bi men because the risk of disease is higher I expect that’s bad and out of date advice, but maybe that’s why people avoid bi men? "

That's definitely bad advice but used to be the normal presumption. I always got tested when the ladies from the Terrence Higginns trust used to attend Vanilla Alternative club on bi night and thankfully by practising safe sex I've never had an sti in all my 50 years. I know where the stigma comes from it's mainly due to the straight male in a couple thinking a bi guy would jump him but that's not the case. Each to their own, best advice i could give to the op is to visit a club on bi night and chat to couples there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all, as a bi man I fund it hard to neet woman as some seem out off by it. Is it just me or do others have the same problems "

Change your profile to straight and see what happens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like bi!

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By *tarman033Man
over a year ago

liverpool

Me too x

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