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By *ryandsee OP   Man
over a year ago

Yorkshire

A series of things to discuss. This one is about lessons learned.

"What advice would you give your past-self for your present or future?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing.. I wouldn't be where I am now, if I had not lived the life I have lived, that includes the good and bad things x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stop trying to grow up so fast.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I always answer this the same way

I wouldn't listen anyway so I'd say nothing

You should bring these topics to our hypothetical dinner party

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By *ryandsee OP   Man
over a year ago

Yorkshire

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By *ryandsee OP   Man
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"I always answer this the same way

I wouldn't listen anyway so I'd say nothing

You should bring these topics to our hypothetical dinner party "

If we are chatting and putting the world to right we have to go for a selection of tapas and good wine

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

You can't help pick someone else off the floor when your collapsed on it yourself. Remember to take care of your own needs and not just everyone else's.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"I always answer this the same way

I wouldn't listen anyway so I'd say nothing

You should bring these topics to our hypothetical dinner party

If we are chatting and putting the world to right we have to go for a selection of tapas and good wine "

Yes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't sell the A4

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By *ryandsee OP   Man
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"Don't sell the A4"

Care to elaborate? Bad deal? Assuming you refer to the car and not the stationery

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't be so hell-bent on getting to the top of your career path so soon. It's not a race and it's a long life. Try and enjoy it a little more

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

Probably just to work a bit harder at school (I did well but just coasted). But as NiceCouple have said, I probably wouldn't have listened anyway, and would have said I was doing just fine!

More recently, I would tell myself to start training properly sooner. I like to think I would have listened to that.

P.s. also loving the Soviet-style thread naming convention.

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By *ryandsee OP   Man
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"Probably just to work a bit harder at school (I did well but just coasted). But as NiceCouple have said, I probably wouldn't have listened anyway, and would have said I was doing just fine!

More recently, I would tell myself to start training properly sooner. I like to think I would have listened to that.

P.s. also loving the Soviet-style thread naming convention."

Oh thank you. I am glad you do but fail to see the soviet connection bit Just a simple numerical order as each topic is too long to fit in the title.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't sell the A4

Care to elaborate? Bad deal? Assuming you refer to the car and not the stationery "

I traded it in after it failed its mot. What I got instead cost me more within the next 2 years than the repairs would have

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London


"Probably just to work a bit harder at school (I did well but just coasted). But as NiceCouple have said, I probably wouldn't have listened anyway, and would have said I was doing just fine!

More recently, I would tell myself to start training properly sooner. I like to think I would have listened to that.

P.s. also loving the Soviet-style thread naming convention.

Oh thank you. I am glad you do but fail to see the soviet connection bit Just a simple numerical order as each topic is too long to fit in the title. "

Just teasing, OP. The Soviets were very fond of basic naming - e.g. housing estate-43. Did exactly what they said on the tin!

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By *ryandsee OP   Man
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"Probably just to work a bit harder at school (I did well but just coasted). But as NiceCouple have said, I probably wouldn't have listened anyway, and would have said I was doing just fine!

More recently, I would tell myself to start training properly sooner. I like to think I would have listened to that.

P.s. also loving the Soviet-style thread naming convention.

Oh thank you. I am glad you do but fail to see the soviet connection bit Just a simple numerical order as each topic is too long to fit in the title.

Just teasing, OP. The Soviets were very fond of basic naming - e.g. housing estate-43. Did exactly what they said on the tin! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More bad stuff than good stuff I’m afraid

Would have to be a good bolicking and three hour talk

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton


""What advice would you give your past-self for your present or future?""

Leave.

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By *ryandsee OP   Man
over a year ago

Yorkshire


""What advice would you give your past-self for your present or future?"

Leave."

Can I assume you mean from a bad situation/relationship rather than for example the country? And by the way would agree with you if that was the case though not always easy to do sadly for some people.

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By *uicy 2020Woman
over a year ago

London

Respect yourself more x

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton


""What advice would you give your past-self for your present or future?"

Leave.

Can I assume you mean from a bad situation/relationship rather than for example the country?"

Pretty much anything that needa leaving. I have a repeated pattern of staying too long - home, marriage, relationships, jobs, etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would tell myself to spend more time in the company of people I care about. And I'd tell myself to make sure I always tell those I love just how much I love them on a very regular basis.

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