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The morning (afternoon) after the night before...

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By *eli OP   Woman
over a year ago

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So...

What do you do? Eat all the food. Cry tears of hungover anguish at all your friends? Get planning the next thing you're going to look forward to. Sleep until Wednesday?

Do you ever get drops? How do you manage those, are you the sort to reach out to friends or loved ones or do you give yourself a good talking to?

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

Depends what I was doing the night before .... In today's case I'm feeling pretty good.. just pottering around at home trying to muster the energy to go to the shops lol

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By *istyPeaksCouple
over a year ago

braintree

Eat & drink through it

When I get beer fear - I have a nap.

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By *rtyIanMan
over a year ago

Gateway to the Beacons

Today other than cooking breakfast I have done nothing, no mojo no desire to do anything just sloth.

I did do a short meditation before I got up.

I should have gone for a dip in the river but have just sat on the settee doing bugger all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This time last week I was hungover. I at all the food and watch Netflix and remembered what an amazing night I'd had.

I do get the the drops and give myself a bit of a talking to and practice a bit of self care.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What are these drops? Do they go in your eyes or on the tongue?

Got an itsy hangover - probably should consider eating something as that's the major reason why so little alcohol caused a hangover in the first place.

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford


"So...

What do you do? Eat all the food. Cry tears of hungover anguish at all your friends? Get planning the next thing you're going to look forward to. Sleep until Wednesday?

Do you ever get drops? How do you manage those, are you the sort to reach out to friends or loved ones or do you give yourself a good talking to? "

I don't socialise or have fun with other people. Misanthropy is good for one's heart.

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

As somebody who doesn't drink, a late night just sees me being very tired the next day. If I had my way it would be sit on the sofa and watch sport or movies. Unfortunately I married somebody who regardless of how d*unk they were the night before is always full of beans and active the next day so we are always active in this house.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What makes you bad makes you better

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Eat food, paracetamol and sleep when I finally get home, knowing that I only have 5 days of work and mum duties till the next escapism adventure weekend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you tried having a pork pie, OP? A pork pie always makes me feel better.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"So...

What do you do? Eat all the food. Cry tears of hungover anguish at all your friends? Get planning the next thing you're going to look forward to. Sleep until Wednesday?

Do you ever get drops? How do you manage those, are you the sort to reach out to friends or loved ones or do you give yourself a good talking to? "
I have a constant mood always happy always optimistic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive been out Friday stayed over in Glasgow with a couple of friends left them shopping on sat got the train home washed changed and out in Edinburgh sat night am now sat in my pjs i ordered a mcdonalds breakfast delivery am now considering another take away for tea i really cant do 2 nights out in a row

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

If you have a drop then do whatever you need to work through it, is it emotional or physical? That will help to fix things, hopefully.

Also remember to reflect on the highs, playing things back in your mind is a good way of reinforcing the positive experiences.

Take care of yourself and call friends to help you too.

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

No matter how good a day I have had, I always experience a drop when I get home to an empty flat

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By *ryandseeMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"No matter how good a day I have had, I always experience a drop when I get home to an empty flat"

That's not nice. At least plenty of chatters on here to pass the time

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By *rettyflamingoWoman
over a year ago

Where the flamboyance of flamingos live

After last night I have done absolutely nothing, still in my pjs.

Usually prefer time on my own.

Iam going to shift my arse and make that chicken tikka thst I’ve said I’d make a few days ago lol

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By *rtyIanMan
over a year ago

Gateway to the Beacons


"After last night I have done absolutely nothing, still in my pjs.

Usually prefer time on my own.

Iam going to shift my arse and make that chicken tikka thst I’ve said I’d make a few days ago lol "

you still got spice mix?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I have no work the next day I just veg on the sofa. I do suffer from emotional drops and I find messaging my playmate and my swinging friend helps keep me grounded.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to Have a good night first don’t I?

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

Post event chat with my fab friends about the highlights and make plans for the next one.

I find not being able to tell other people in my life what I’ve been up to difficult as I want to share why I have a big grin on my face but I can’t.

The highs definitely outweigh the lows though.

Kx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got d*unk and apparently brought a plane ticket to Barcelona next weekend, good stuff!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its usually a long drive home whenever Ive met anyone so I have the bouncy high driving away, the tears as the miles roll us apart, the munchies just because and then planning of the next time all before I get home and normally then if I dont have to play mum I just go to bed after a good ponder of life and a few thousand messages sent. One eye open for a return message then sleep.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm high for weeks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stare into space for a bit contemplating life and how I’ve managed to let myself end up with a hangover again. Don’t utter a word to anyone, assume a comfortable position and try not to move the rest of the day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I lie as still as possible watching a boxset or weepy film and whatsapp my sister all day long, confessing any embarrassing things I did. I don't really get down after nights out but I do get acute attacks of cringe when I suddenly remember some ridiculous thing I said or did that I wish had stayed forgotten!!

Plus drink a ton of freezing cold juice, eat every beef flavoured thing I can get my shaky paws on and brush my teeth several times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I lie as still as possible watching a boxset or weepy film and whatsapp my sister all day long, confessing any embarrassing things I did. I don't really get down after nights out but I do get acute attacks of cringe when I suddenly remember some ridiculous thing I said or did that I wish had stayed forgotten!!

Plus drink a ton of freezing cold juice, eat every beef flavoured thing I can get my shaky paws on and brush my teeth several times."

The cringing is the worst part , it’s like my hungover brain takes great pleasure in reminding me of every small detail of what I said on repeat all day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I lie as still as possible watching a boxset or weepy film and whatsapp my sister all day long, confessing any embarrassing things I did. I don't really get down after nights out but I do get acute attacks of cringe when I suddenly remember some ridiculous thing I said or did that I wish had stayed forgotten!!

Plus drink a ton of freezing cold juice, eat every beef flavoured thing I can get my shaky paws on and brush my teeth several times.

The cringing is the worst part , it’s like my hungover brain takes great pleasure in reminding me of every small detail of what I said on repeat all day "

When a flashing memory makes you groan out loud ! I mean, I could always try to stop doing and saying such stupid stuff, but I think that's probably an unlikely aim !

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London


"So...

What do you do? Eat all the food. Cry tears of hungover anguish at all your friends? Get planning the next thing you're going to look forward to. Sleep until Wednesday?

Do you ever get drops? How do you manage those, are you the sort to reach out to friends or loved ones or do you give yourself a good talking to? "

A really big night? It'll be sleep I need. All the sleep until I can move my head without the room spinning. Oh, and boiled sweets. Can't eat anything but like the sugar. Less severe hangover and it's fresh air and food, and lots of it.

I occasionally get those little dips, especially if I've been out with friends I don't see often (or those it feels nostalgic to be out with), but they're short lived. I guess it's the rarity of the get togethers that make them special.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

We’ve been hungover today…so it’s been sex, Victorian Fayre, Elf, sex, takeaway, football…

Now realising how important commas are…

K

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Same thing I do with every other feeling I try to hide from.... sleep.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Lie in as long as possible while feeling sorry for ourselves, have a chat for a bit, finger K, drag ourselves out of bed for a shower. And then breakfast, which for me is a fried breakfast and coffee usually

LvM

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

My response to drop is to hide away, cry a lot, freak out and alienate my friends.

Sometimes very long walks at night are included.

Spent many years trying to break the cycle, but doesn't work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My response to drop is to hide away, cry a lot, freak out and alienate my friends.

Sometimes very long walks at night are included.

Spent many years trying to break the cycle, but doesn't work."

But you come out the other side so it does work.

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.


"My response to drop is to hide away, cry a lot, freak out and alienate my friends.

Sometimes very long walks at night are included.

Spent many years trying to break the cycle, but doesn't work.

But you come out the other side so it does work. "

I do come out the other side, but I'd prefer it didn't happen in the first place. Lot of people seem to get hurt in the process.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

We had a liquid lunch to get over the liquid evening and now I’m regretting it

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