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By *esthetic21 OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham/Bristol

To be a cougar? Just out of interest

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I've seen a 29 year old describing herself as one on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you're too young, OP.

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By *esthetic21 OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham/Bristol


"I think you're too young, OP. "

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By *esthetic21 OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham/Bristol


"I've seen a 29 year old describing herself as one on here. "
yea saw a 32 year old saying g the same and thought huh? I'm 37 what does that make me? Old I guess

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Brum

If you can buy a bottle of Prosecco without flashing your ID then you’re a cougar.

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

I've seen people in their 50's describe themselves as young in their header, for fab it's a mindset!

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By *lderflower_AppleWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

I always thought it was a term someone else applied to a woman. Never realised other ladies label themselves like that.

That feels a bit sad to me... why do so many people in life feel the need to label themselves and others? Why can't we all just be 'people' with out own varied interests and desires without having to be pigeonholed as 'something' ??

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"I always thought it was a term someone else applied to a woman. Never realised other ladies label themselves like that.

That feels a bit sad to me... why do so many people in life feel the need to label themselves and others? Why can't we all just be 'people' with out own varied interests and desires without having to be pigeonholed as 'something' ??"

Lots of women on here call themselves milfs which regardless of whether it's a label or not doesn't make any sense with the acronym unless they want to fuck themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always thought it was a term someone else applied to a woman. Never realised other ladies label themselves like that.

That feels a bit sad to me... why do so many people in life feel the need to label themselves and others? Why can't we all just be 'people' with out own varied interests and desires without having to be pigeonholed as 'something' ??"

My thoughts exactly

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I always thought it was a term someone else applied to a woman. Never realised other ladies label themselves like that.

That feels a bit sad to me... why do so many people in life feel the need to label themselves and others? Why can't we all just be 'people' with out own varied interests and desires without having to be pigeonholed as 'something' ??"

I think it's because we need to have a shorthand way to describe people. One word quickly and neatly sums up a certain aspect of a person. Personally I don't think it's a bad thing in certain circumstances

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By *esthetic21 OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham/Bristol


"I always thought it was a term someone else applied to a woman. Never realised other ladies label themselves like that.

That feels a bit sad to me... why do so many people in life feel the need to label themselves and others? Why can't we all just be 'people' with out own varied interests and desires without having to be pigeonholed as 'something' ??

I think it's because we need to have a shorthand way to describe people. One word quickly and neatly sums up a certain aspect of a person. Personally I don't think it's a bad thing in certain circumstances "
me either unless it's derogatory.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I always thought it was a term someone else applied to a woman. Never realised other ladies label themselves like that.

That feels a bit sad to me... why do so many people in life feel the need to label themselves and others? Why can't we all just be 'people' with out own varied interests and desires without having to be pigeonholed as 'something' ??

I think it's because we need to have a shorthand way to describe people. One word quickly and neatly sums up a certain aspect of a person. Personally I don't think it's a bad thing in certain circumstances me either unless it's derogatory."

I do think you need to know your audience though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be a cougar? Just out of interest"

How much of an age difference for it to become a thing?

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Swanage

53

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By *ubcdverykinkyMan
over a year ago

Bourne lincs

Not much hope for me am 61 and sub bi guy

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By *ickshawedCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

42

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

51

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is the male version of a cougar called?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is the male version of a cougar called? "
Dirty old man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I happily class myself in that category..I'm 51 (or 35 + P&P as I prefer to say) and I loooove younger toned clean-shaven guys....25 to mid 30s is my absolute kryptonite, especially if they have a good body and that cute floppy hair thing going on.

I also have a thing for well-toned upper arms and doing it in/on cars..guess we all have our 'thing'. Nothing beats just wearing lingerie and heels under a long coat, being picked up and off to a secluded place for some fun whatever the weather!

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

45+ I'd say, I get approached as one now. And cubs would have to be under 30.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

id say +20 of the prey!

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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

I would say that, from 50 and over would a good age to describe what age a cougar would be

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By *ryandseeMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Apparently a woman over 40 who likes much younger (possibly with a 10 year gap or more). What do I know and who cares

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