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By *etcpl OP   Couple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

I was once told that meeting a particular forum user would open many doors for me in the swinging world.

Do you think this is true?

If so who would you say is the forum user most likely to raise your own profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn’t say it’s true at all

In fact I would say the forums hinder rather than help people

Use to think this place was good

But over time it’s shown me that people that are prosived to be nice people aren’t nice at all

It’s all just one big smoke show

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m new here and have found the forums very helpful

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Only if they're in the Clique™. But if they tell you that they're in the Clique™, odds are they're not really in the Clique™. Hope that helps

LvM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You got suckered by "the clique"

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln


"You got suckered by "the clique""

See

LvM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only if they're in the Clique™. But if they tell you that they're in the Clique™, odds are they're not really in the Clique™. Hope that helps

LvM"

Those who know know, those who don't couldn't give a shit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *eff4000Man
over a year ago

Camberley

Once I seduce Redfordanger I think we'll be the ultimate swinging power couple

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

.

Bollocks.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln


"Bollocks. "

Fuck her ^^ and you're in Fab royalty

LvM

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I wouldn't say it's true. It might open doors but if what's on the other side isn't what you're after it's pointless.

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

*paging Obi Fox*

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By *rincess Peach xxCouple
over a year ago

leeds


"I was once told that meeting a particular forum user would open many doors for me in the swinging world.

Do you think this is true?

If so who would you say is the forum user most likely to raise your own profile?"

This sounds like it belongs in the #metoo movement.

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By *istyPeaksCouple
over a year ago

braintree


"You got suckered by "the clique"

See

LvM"

Can I be in the Lique instead

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

More likely to put me off someone. Some people love gossip and drama others avoid like the plague

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some forum users are also regular club goers and have a large group of swinging friends so I suppose someone like that could help you break into the scene as it were.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bollocks.

Fuck her ^^ and you're in Fab royalty

LvM"

Internet rolity have been sitting among yous for a very very long time watching

God is it about time I think so

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

.


"Bollocks.

Fuck her ^^ and you're in Fab royalty

LvM"

Fancy being in Fab royalty soon?

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln


"Bollocks.

Fuck her ^^ and you're in Fab royalty

LvM

Fancy being in Fab royalty soon? "

All the way in

LvM

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

.


"Bollocks.

Fuck her ^^ and you're in Fab royalty

LvM

Fancy being in Fab royalty soon?

All the way in

LvM"

I would expect/hope for nothing less.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I've seen a few high profile women claiming to have schooled a number of new profiles and set them on their journey with good advice.

Strangely though if you look at most of those profiles a year later they are either unlos or don't have any further veries.

The assumption has to be that the original advice was poor or not taken and/or other women have refused to meet them because of who they were all veried by.

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

rubbish op most of the real swingers dont go anywhere near these forums

the forum are a tiny tiny part and alot on it dont meet online or at all nothing wrong with that at all by the way as we all play or not play our own way but popular people on a online platform really means nothing out in the real world nothing at all ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was once told that meeting a particular forum user would open many doors for me in the swinging world.

Do you think this is true?

If so who would you say is the forum user most likely to raise your own profile?"

If a member of Fab Royalty wants to open doors for you, its probably to show you the Exit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone that met me would be instantly black listed

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Nah I don't believe it just like I don't believe in fab elite or fab royalty.

Yes it might help you if you want to get in with a certain group of people on here all depending on whether the person you meet wants you to meet others or wants to keep you to themselves. Or if they give recommendations to others on here or blacklist you. Or if you care about any of that shite. Anyone who uses the whole do you know who an I line is not anyone I would have interest in meeting anyhow. I prefer to meet people that I like and want to meet rather than try and join in with any group just for the sake of it.

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

We wouldn't do anything we didn't want to, in order to raise our profile.. Why would you? However we have found ourselves introduced to a few very desirable circle's after meeting a certain few people.

Won't lie we like the fact, rather than having to trawl Fab..

Networking is just that and if everyone's happy..

Please read properly before burning..

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By *ickshawedCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Ah, so that's why you wanted to meet me OP

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

You don't really need anyone to be able to open doors once you've gained a greater number of like minded friends you'll be doing it yourself that's where socials become handy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"*paging Obi Fox*

"

Fucks sake...

I've literally just walked in the door after a day working out in the cold, thought I'd sit down and peruse the forums for 10 minutes before starting some more work...and I find this.

OK. Back in my single male profile days I met loads of people via the forums. Some for sex and some for socials. Never did I target someone because they were popular or because I thought it would boost any Fab 'social standing'. I did it because I got a good feel for their persona online and wanted to see if they were the same in person. There were a lot of popular, almost 'idolised' profiles back then including men, women and couples. Less frequent forum users would give OTT flattery and blow some smoke in response to their posts and I'm sure some forum regulars did occasionally think that their popularity did them favours when looking for company.

But it would be pretty arrogant and borderline delusional for anyone to think that by posting in here they're building any kind of fan base of folk, queuing up to meet them.

And if anyone actively looked to meet a forum user just because they appeared popular online then I'd advise them to prepare for as much disappointment as joy. The forums seem to have a higher percentage of users who either meet so infrequently you're more likely to be struck by lightening, or they tend to be looking for long term, almost monogamous relationships, meet only in clubs, or prioritise social events over 1-2-1 meets.

Just my observations of course. Other views will differ.

Right. Back to work for me.

A

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

We've met loads of forum users can't say it's opened doors for us. Nor would I expect it too.

Its probably had the opposite effect people have said they wouldn't meet us because we have met certain forum members.

Each to their own run your profile they way you want and take things on the forums with a pinch of salt!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If anyone said that to me I'd tell 'em to 'calm down and give your head a wobble'

Nobody is above anyone in this game

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bollocks.

Fuck her ^^ and you're in Fab royalty

LvM"

Not sure if royalty, but probably a happy woman

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Load of shite, and if there was such a person I’d avoid them, I’m not here to boost egos.

The mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn’t say it’s true at all

In fact I would say the forums hinder rather than help people

Use to think this place was good

But over time it’s shown me that people that are prosived to be nice people aren’t nice at all

It’s all just one big smoke show "

Basically

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

The only door you'll get opened if you meet me is the door to the disabled toilet.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

It sounds very unlikely to me. Besides, we spend our time seeking out people we like, not trying to be in with the In crowd.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't met anyone from the forum and those who I would consider meeting either for fun or a social aren't anywhere near me

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington

Personally I don’t need anyone to raise my profile on here I’m quite capable of opening doors for myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you bang one you get to bang em all?

In.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On a serious note, this is one of the many, many reasons I'd never do verifications anymore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you bang one you get to bang em all?

In. "

^ this one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you bang one you get to bang em all?

In.

^ this one. "

I feel like you've just insulted me somehow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you bang one you get to bang em all?

In.

^ this one.

I feel like you've just insulted me somehow "

I seem to do that lately.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I've always said that some people can't tell the difference between productivity and popularity. One does not equate to the other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This explains all the messages in my inbox

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This explains all the messages in my inbox "

Change your filters so men can't message you...it keeps my inbox clear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This explains all the messages in my inbox

Change your filters so men can't message you...it keeps my inbox clear "

Where would I get all my pictures of dicks from thought if I did that?

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By *uietly_KinkyMan
over a year ago

High Wycombe

Around here, if a door opens, there's probably a pit full of acid and/or scorpions on the other side.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London


"Around here, if a door opens, there's probably a pit full of acid and/or scorpions on the other side."

I’ll take door number three please. Those first two sound rubbish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its true women all see me as a notch to open doors but mistake me for a gentleman i open doors for nobody

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you


"I was once told that meeting a particular forum user would open many doors for me in the swinging world.

Do you think this is true?

If so who would you say is the forum user most likely to raise your own profile?"

All lies!!

But meet me & you get 10% discount with your next Chinese takeaway order lol

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"On a serious note, this is one of the many, many reasons I'd never do verifications anymore. "

I expected at least one from the time I helped retrieve that thing from that place

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

Clearly this will be a polarising thread.

Quite recently I met the 'enfant terrible' socialite of the Fab Social Fora. It didn't open any doors for me, but it left a few of them ajar.

The brief acquaintanceship was a great PR stunt for my profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On a serious note, this is one of the many, many reasons I'd never do verifications anymore.

I expected at least one from the time I helped retrieve that thing from that place "

You put it there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But I feel if I can somehow infiltrate the so called Secret Society of the fab website, I can at least know who to approach.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But I feel if I can somehow infiltrate the so called Secret Society of the fab website, I can at least know who to approach. "

Or who to avoid

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

The last two women I met both won the Euromillions!! Could be just coincidence

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By *ackandtheunicornCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

The first rule of the clique is that you do not speak about the clique

The second rule....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really want to know who the door opener was tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But I feel if I can somehow infiltrate the so called Secret Society of the fab website, I can at least know who to approach.

Or who to avoid "

That’s a hint isn’t it?! ….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Crap,I certainly wouldn't meet anyone I didn't want to,and tbh if I can't open the doors by myself so to speak then they can stay closed

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

Can anyone explain the difference between the Clique, fab elite and fab royalty for me? Or are they one and the same?

I’d like to think I’m Fab GM Vauxhall Conference level…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If one thing is guaranteed to put me off someone, it's who they've previously met.

And if it's a so called forumite elite, I'd avoid at all costs!!

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

There are none....no-one is that important on here despite what they may believe x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are none....no-one is that important on here despite what they may believe x"
erm yes i am grrr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"There are none....no-one is that important on here despite what they may believe xerm yes i am grrr"

Apart from you obs

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"I really want to know who the door opener was tho"

If she’s reading this her name is probably UNLOS ?

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

I am a legend in my own front room

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is FAB elite/royalty like the equivalent of being the president of Somaliland? Not recognised or heard of anywhere else?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I really want to know who the door opener was tho

If she’s reading this her name is probably UNLOS ? "

My next user name, they seem very popular.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are none....no-one is that important on here despite what they may believe xerm yes i am grrr

Apart from you obs "
phew good save

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I really want to know who the door opener was tho

If she’s reading this her name is probably UNLOS ? "

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

But I've never met you in my life. You'd have had a jelly baby if I had.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have nothing to add to the thread but can someone tell me what UNLOS means

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have nothing to add to the thread but can someone tell me what UNLOS means "

User no longer on site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You got suckered by "the clique"

See

LvM

Can I be in the Lique instead "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have nothing to add to the thread but can someone tell me what UNLOS means

User no longer on site. "

Thanks I’ve been trying to guess for ages

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World

I don't need someone that believes themselves to be so popular everyone wants to meet them to give me any help with my profile.

Those are the people I avoid on purpose at the socials I've been too.....

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"On a serious note, this is one of the many, many reasons I'd never do verifications anymore.

I expected at least one from the time I helped retrieve that thing from that place

You put it there!"

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By *izandpaulCouple
over a year ago

merseyside

I don't know what raising your profile actually means.

We use the forums mainly for parties and holidays.

On holiday at present and the see who's near facility is great.

We have been checking forum posts of folks who want to meet, why waste your time meeting someone if you don't find them compatible.

My advice, just do your own thing, take things at your own pace.

If you are pleasant, open, happy and approachable doors will open automatically.

Have a great swinging journey.

It's your journey, nobody else's.

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By *weetiepie99Woman
over a year ago

cardiff

In a word, no

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden


"I don't need someone that believes themselves to be so popular everyone wants to meet them to give me any help with my profile.

Those are the people I avoid on purpose at the socials I've been too....."

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You charlatan! I tried fruitlessly to get away from you at the last social.

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World


"I don't need someone that believes themselves to be so popular everyone wants to meet them to give me any help with my profile.

Those are the people I avoid on purpose at the socials I've been too.....

°

You charlatan! I tried fruitlessly to get away from you at the last social. "

Bullshit..... you kept coming back to double dip my chips!

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford

Raise one's profile here? Or in the real world?

It might be worth remembering that, thank goodness, those are very different things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Raise one's profile here? Or in the real world?

It might be worth remembering that, thank goodness, those are very different things."

I've never understood the saying the real world. Just because interacting on the Internet isn't face-to-face and personal doesn't make it any less real and I think people need to remember that more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Raise one's profile here? Or in the real world?

It might be worth remembering that, thank goodness, those are very different things.

I've never understood the saying the real world. Just because interacting on the Internet isn't face-to-face and personal doesn't make it any less real and I think people need to remember that more. "

It's less real in many cases because you have no idea if people are who they claim to be online, or in the case of the Forum if the things they say are what they actually believe or reflect their true personality. People can lie or deceive in person of course but its much easier and so more common online.

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London


"Raise one's profile here? Or in the real world?

It might be worth remembering that, thank goodness, those are very different things.

I've never understood the saying the real world. Just because interacting on the Internet isn't face-to-face and personal doesn't make it any less real and I think people need to remember that more.

It's less real in many cases because you have no idea if people are who they claim to be online, or in the case of the Forum if the things they say are what they actually believe or reflect their true personality. People can lie or deceive in person of course but its much easier and so more common online. "

This ^ Leo Blooms is an utter cunt in real life!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Raise one's profile here? Or in the real world?

It might be worth remembering that, thank goodness, those are very different things.

I've never understood the saying the real world. Just because interacting on the Internet isn't face-to-face and personal doesn't make it any less real and I think people need to remember that more.

It's less real in many cases because you have no idea if people are who they claim to be online, or in the case of the Forum if the things they say are what they actually believe or reflect their true personality. People can lie or deceive in person of course but its much easier and so more common online.

This ^ Leo Blooms is an utter cunt in real life! "

Harsh but true ^

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden


"Raise one's profile here? Or in the real world?

It might be worth remembering that, thank goodness, those are very different things."

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My dear Thesp', I'm more than happy to raise your profile to a higher plane. It will be an apotheosis.

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford


"Raise one's profile here? Or in the real world?

It might be worth remembering that, thank goodness, those are very different things.

°

My dear Thesp', I'm more than happy to raise your profile to a higher plane. It will be an apotheosis. "

You are too kind. Outside here, my profile is already dangerously high. I can barely leave my palaces without being mobbbed by well-wishers, and winsome lovelies hoping for marriage.

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford


"Raise one's profile here? Or in the real world?

It might be worth remembering that, thank goodness, those are very different things.

I've never understood the saying the real world. Just because interacting on the Internet isn't face-to-face and personal doesn't make it any less real and I think people need to remember that more. "

Fair point. I meant in terms of profile. There will be people well-known offline who are unknown here,and vice versa.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Well thank you OP

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Probably that couple 48 from London who go by the name fabswingers.com. They message everyone on here I think. Very well connected I'd say.

However personally speaking in the words of Shania Twain, That dont impress me much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was once told that meeting a particular forum user would open many doors for me in the swinging world.

Do you think this is true?

If so who would you say is the forum user most likely to raise your own profile?"

Is this your Q? why would you want to open all the doors? Surely you'd only want to open the right ones. Why waste your time?

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden


"I don't need someone that believes themselves to be so popular everyone wants to meet them to give me any help with my profile.

Those are the people I avoid on purpose at the socials I've been too.....

°

You charlatan! I tried fruitlessly to get away from you at the last social.

Bullshit..... you kept coming back to double dip my chips! "

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And what, fair maiden, is wrong with Le Doublé Dip du frîtes??

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

Noone, raising it would be like attempting to raise the titanic, not gonna happen

Tg

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I open my own doors. I certainly wouldn't meet someone in the hope it would open doors to others.

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By *etcpl OP   Couple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"I was once told that meeting a particular forum user would open many doors for me in the swinging world.

Do you think this is true?

If so who would you say is the forum user most likely to raise your own profile?

If a member of Fab Royalty wants to open doors for you, its probably to show you the Exit. "

Too true

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By *etcpl OP   Couple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"Ah, so that's why you wanted to meet me OP "

Too true. And the doors haven’t stopped opening since

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By *etcpl OP   Couple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"Well thank you OP "

Wellcome

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By *etcpl OP   Couple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"I was once told that meeting a particular forum user would open many doors for me in the swinging world.

Do you think this is true?

If so who would you say is the forum user most likely to raise your own profile?

Is this your Q? why would you want to open all the doors? Surely you'd only want to open the right ones. Why waste your time? "

The person that said it to me is not the same person that they alluded to.

I had to chuckle and ask them what they meant, but they were adamant in their belief that meeting certain people on the forum opens or closes doors to you.

I wanted to see how prevalent this thought was, as I see it as pure nonsense.

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford


"they were adamant in their belief that meeting certain people on the forum opens or closes doors to you.

I wanted to see how prevalent this thought was, as I see it as pure nonsense."

Everyone who hasn't met me thinks this is nonsense.

Everyone who HAS met me stays tight-lipped about the frankly incredible benefits, but suffice to say a free entry to the Church Steeple Fund Tombola (top prize, a £5 Woolworths voucher) is just the start!

OK.

It's also the end.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

The end is nigh. ^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think after reading and listening for enough time, I’d say it closes the doors more than it would open.

Fab is a strange place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What does open doors mean?

Some fabbers are more involved in the scene. Some are more sociable and know everyone.

Those ppl would probably be useful to meet as they can do the introductions.

Nothing sordid, or cliquie, or popularity contest about it.

And if any fabber really has the queen bee, prom queen hold over others... Do you really want to meet their mini mes?

I will admit, at school I spent much time pining over the cheerleader popular girls. But I've grown out of that. So now it's a blessing if I am being cock blocked by the queen bee. It's a timesaving advice as I like my partner's to have minds of their own

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

There was a time way back whence when blokes I'd meet were suddenly receiving invites and interest from other forum women who previously showed little interest until the veri from me went up.

So, I do believe there is a smidge of truth in it. It's the motivation behind new interest that would be the concern. Is it because the new veri is seen as some kind of seal of approval or because of other, darker reasons?

As mentioned above, some forum users attend lots of events and parties, so "access" to meeting new people would be easier.

Anyone who's ever attended a party of any kind in any capacity (other than a work do where everyone knows each other) must have seen at least 1 person they never knew before they went, whether it be a birthday party, a wedding, etc. So in that sense it definitely gives you the opportunity to meet new people.

Some "popular" folk don't go to parties or events, and the roles would be reversed if they attended with someone who already knew people there.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"What does open doors mean?

Some fabbers are more involved in the scene. Some are more sociable and know everyone.

Those ppl would probably be useful to meet as they can do the introductions.

Nothing sordid, or cliquie, or popularity contest about it.

And if any fabber really has the queen bee, prom queen hold over others... Do you really want to meet their mini mes?

I will admit, at school I spent much time pining over the cheerleader popular girls. But I've grown out of that. So now it's a blessing if I am being cock blocked by the queen bee. It's a timesaving advice as I like my partner's to have minds of their own"

Introductions. That's the fucking word I was looking for and all i could think of was "access to meeting new people"

I'm a thick cunt sometimes.

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By *lwaysonmymind!Man
over a year ago

Middlesbrough


"I was once told that meeting a particular forum user would open many doors for me in the swinging world.

Do you think this is true?

If so who would you say is the forum user most likely to raise your own profile?

This sounds like it belongs in the #metoo movement. "

Lol my thoughts also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was once told that meeting a particular forum user would open many doors for me in the swinging world.

Do you think this is true?"

I’ll go against the majority of the replies and I’d say there is an element of truth in that. But not just meeting a particular forum user.

For example I think if you met someone who’s regularly at the top of the hot pics, then I do think you’d potentially gain some more attention (people wanting to meet you). But that would just be because your profile is now seen by more. So your chances of someone finding your profile attractive is higher…

I’m not sure on the way it’s worded about opening more doors. People either want to meet you or they don’t. Just because you meet someone who’s fawned over, I don’t believe would make you anymore desirable if that makes sense.

I think the same would apply, you’d probably get more people now looking because they’ve seen you met. & if you weren’t someone’s type before I don’t think meeting a certain someone would change someone’s view on wanting to meet you.

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells

Out of many many meetings over the years, I only personally know one person who regularly posts on the forum

So I believe it's down to you, yourself to find people to meet, not someone who thinks they're the King or Queen of the forums.

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By *elvet RopeMan
over a year ago

by the big field


"Only if they're in the Clique™. But if they tell you that they're in the Clique™, odds are they're not really in the Clique™. Hope that helps

LvM"

I wouldn't join any club that would have me as a member

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Funny people.

I remember a couple starting a thread years ago about people referring to them as forum royalty. The thread didn’t go quite as they’d expected

One person’s perception of desirable forum personality is the next persons rubber dogshit.

Everyone has their own minds and opinions and we’re perfectly capable of opening any doors we desire to for ourselves thank you.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I have seen people basing their entire fab journey around popularity.

Only meeting people deemed as popular either on the forums or on the site in general.

I was told I was one of the popular ones which is where the initial attraction lay despite the fact I had never met anyone from the forums at that stage and spoken to less than a handful so it was a strange perception to have.

The word popular was always used on threads when describing their ideal fab meet and on a few occasions after a glass or three of something messages were sent to others asking them to recommend popular guys who were worth initiating a conversation with.

There was always a flip side though and an obsession with their own popularity and how others perceived them.

Claims that people in the forums shunned them and created a fear of posting because they weren't popular anymore for standing up to other popular forumites.

The irony of all this was that their definition of "standing up" was to message all their popular friends and get them to attack anyone they had taken offence to.

So of course fab is a popularity contest for some. Usually for those with an unhealthy obsession and desire for validation.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"Some forum users are also regular club goers and have a large group of swinging friends so I suppose someone like that could help you break into the scene as it were. "

This really. I used to be a very regular club goer and was very well known on the fab site.

If I was going to a club/event I’d put a status up inviting people to come and say hello (ie making it clear I’m friendly and approachable) and often introduced them to friends I was with.

Had nothing to do with sex though - just giving newbies to the scene a friendly face when they got to the club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Vive le cul sec et les Citroën

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford


"Vive le cul sec et les Citroën "

Papa?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Vive le cul sec et les Citroën

Papa?"

oui fiston ?

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"I was once told that meeting a particular forum user would open many doors for me in the swinging world.

Do you think this is true?

If so who would you say is the forum user most likely to raise your own profile?"

I’ve no idea - but tbh in recent years I’ve deliberately lowered my profile rather than raising it.

Being really popular on here with chaps can (and certainly did in my case) cause a huge amount of nastiness from women.

I’ve absolutely no wish to go through the shit again that I went through pre-lockdown.

Happy being the lesser known Peachy

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"I have seen people basing their entire fab journey around popularity.

Only meeting people deemed as popular either on the forums or on the site in general.

I was told I was one of the popular ones which is where the initial attraction lay despite the fact I had never met anyone from the forums at that stage and spoken to less than a handful so it was a strange perception to have.

The word popular was always used on threads when describing their ideal fab meet and on a few occasions after a glass or three of something messages were sent to others asking them to recommend popular guys who were worth initiating a conversation with.

There was always a flip side though and an obsession with their own popularity and how others perceived them.

Claims that people in the forums shunned them and created a fear of posting because they weren't popular anymore for standing up to other popular forumites.

The irony of all this was that their definition of "standing up" was to message all their popular friends and get them to attack anyone they had taken offence to.

So of course fab is a popularity contest for some. Usually for those with an unhealthy obsession and desire for validation."

The irony is who people perceive popular is so inconsistent & occasionally you meet a popular person fave to face & realise they are often very normal & nothing special to look at , or extremely toxic and best avoided. The nicest people are generally the unpopular ones.

I’ve actually been accused of being popular and having a fab harem. Of course neither is true !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actively avoid all that, having experienced it and been subject to some real unpleasantness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Funny people.

I remember a couple starting a thread years ago about people referring to them as forum royalty. The thread didn’t go quite as they’d expected

One person’s perception of desirable forum personality is the next persons rubber dogshit.

Everyone has their own minds and opinions and we’re perfectly capable of opening any doors we desire to for ourselves thank you."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Vive le cul sec et les Citroën

Papa?"

Nicole?

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford


"Vive le cul sec et les Citroën

Papa?

Nicole?"

I haven't been called that in years.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"

I’ve actually been accused of being popular and having a fab harem. Of course neither is true !

"

You don't have a fab harem? Whoah. Really?

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

I do.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

(I don’t really.)

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Yes actually I do.

Going back over the years and all the "popular" profiles and resulting threads opened many doors for newbies especially, to gain new contacts and new experiences. Is that not what swinging is supposed to be about. Sharing and being open minded to new people in the lifestyle.

We are too quick to jump to self imposed forum politics and the resulting self importance.

When in reality we are all the same and no one is above another in any shape or form. Anyone one of us can be "flavour of the month" at any time.

That's what's best about the world of forum fecklenss. The door is constantly revolving

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Yes, I've seen it give people a sense of legitimacy they didn't have before, including in ways that left a bad taste in my mouth.

It's something I'm keen to avoid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have those profiles not moved with the times and given out fobs for the doors x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of negative comments, so I would add that several good friends who have been well known on Forum did introduce me to Socials and have always been welcoming and supportive to many others.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I understand one of the main selling points of this site is networking and it's a great tool for meeting people and moving in circles that may be closed off otherwise.

I've always been curious though how people feel about networking without consent?

Recommendations made without the persons prior knowledge or permission?

I know of a few who are no longer on the site, both men and women, who had doors opened for them that they didn't know existed until they were asked to step through them because someone they had met nominated them and passed on their details.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes actually I do.

Going back over the years and all the "popular" profiles and resulting threads opened many doors for newbies especially, to gain new contacts and new experiences. Is that not what swinging is supposed to be about. Sharing and being open minded to new people in the lifestyle.

We are too quick to jump to self imposed forum politics and the resulting self importance.

When in reality we are all the same and no one is above another in any shape or form. Anyone one of us can be "flavour of the month" at any time.

That's what's best about the world of forum fecklenss. The door is constantly revolving "

Brought a memory of our first meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lot of negative comments, so I would add that several good friends who have been well known on Forum did introduce me to Socials and have always been welcoming and supportive to many others. "

social isn't the same without you btw

T

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

There are a lot of lovely people here, diamonds in the rough. And if some of them are more visible on the forums it’s only because they spend more time posting here. The more you chat, the more friends you make. You might even find you fancy some of them, and there’s no harm in that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like a scam to us , go to a swingers club and open your own doors lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I understand one of the main selling points of this site is networking and it's a great tool for meeting people and moving in circles that may be closed off otherwise.

I've always been curious though how people feel about networking without consent?

Recommendations made without the persons prior knowledge or permission?

I know of a few who are no longer on the site, both men and women, who had doors opened for them that they didn't know existed until they were asked to step through them because someone they had met nominated them and passed on their details."
can you bring this to life more?

Is me saying to someome "I love xyz, you should meet them" non consensual door opening?

There are lot of abstract terms in this thread. We need to agree some common terms !

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"I understand one of the main selling points of this site is networking and it's a great tool for meeting people and moving in circles that may be closed off otherwise.

I've always been curious though how people feel about networking without consent?

Recommendations made without the persons prior knowledge or permission?

I know of a few who are no longer on the site, both men and women, who had doors opened for them that they didn't know existed until they were asked to step through them because someone they had met nominated them and passed on their details.can you bring this to life more?

Is me saying to someome "I love xyz, you should meet them" non consensual door opening?

There are lot of abstract terms in this thread. We need to agree some common terms !"

That is one way of looking at it but the cases I know of is when that goes one step further and they say "I love xyz, you should meet them. Here's their phone number and further details".

There are other examples which I won't be discussing on here but others have already alluded to background drama they suffered as a result of being considered popular on this thread and suffice to say some people are extremely uncomfortable having others discussing them even in positive terms.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

So who is this forum user that opens doors? x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I understand one of the main selling points of this site is networking and it's a great tool for meeting people and moving in circles that may be closed off otherwise.

I've always been curious though how people feel about networking without consent?

Recommendations made without the persons prior knowledge or permission?

I know of a few who are no longer on the site, both men and women, who had doors opened for them that they didn't know existed until they were asked to step through them because someone they had met nominated them and passed on their details.can you bring this to life more?

Is me saying to someome "I love xyz, you should meet them" non consensual door opening?

There are lot of abstract terms in this thread. We need to agree some common terms !

That is one way of looking at it but the cases I know of is when that goes one step further and they say "I love xyz, you should meet them. Here's their phone number and further details".

There are other examples which I won't be discussing on here but others have already alluded to background drama they suffered as a result of being considered popular on this thread and suffice to say some people are extremely uncomfortable having others discussing them even in positive terms. "
ah right. That's not okay imo... Bit more than just a recommendation.

And I'm sure being "popular" has its downsides. My observation is that some ppl seem to believe the hotties have it made, have always had it made and have an easy life juts because they have won the genetic lottery. Or have worked hard to stay in shape etc. And so given them this prom queen persona that isn't true. *Refuses to name names*

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales


"Bollocks.

Fuck her ^^ and you're in Fab royalty

LvM"

I got a kiss from fab royalty last night

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


"I was once told that meeting a particular forum user would open many doors for me in the swinging world."

No, you was told I’d open your back door

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Bollocks.

Fuck her ^^ and you're in Fab royalty

LvM

I got a kiss from fab royalty last night "

I'm not fab royalty but I would very happily do that again. And again.

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By *izandpaulCouple
over a year ago

merseyside


"So who is this forum user that opens doors? x"

I was about to ask that and who on earth are FAB royalty and how did they ever get to this lofty position.

Or are they just legends in their own minds.

Or, as my dear nan used to say to any conceivable problem "best get yourself out into the fresh air".

Wise words.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"So who is this forum user that opens doors? x

I was about to ask that and who on earth are FAB royalty and how did they ever get to this lofty position.

Or are they just legends in their own minds.

Or, as my dear nan used to say to any conceivable problem "best get yourself out into the fresh air".

Wise words. "

I was called Fab royalty once. I was fucking horrified.

Hopefully I've disabused anyone of that notion.

I'm a (small r) republican. Down with all of that.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"So who is this forum user that opens doors? x"

The one with the keys to the handcuffs

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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I think some popular people would like you to think they are the key to raising your fab profile but it’s nonsense. It can be a curse as much as anything else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mean I look after the gate but meeting me will mostly break you. Mentally

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I mean I look after the gate but meeting me will mostly break you. Mentally "

Breaking people is fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think some popular people would like you to think they are the key to raising your fab profile but it’s nonsense. It can be a curse as much as anything else "

Wise words Babs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I mean I look after the gate but meeting me will mostly break you. Mentally

Breaking people is fun "

Sure is. Wanna break each other sometime?

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..


"I think some popular people would like you to think they are the key to raising your fab profile but it’s nonsense. It can be a curse as much as anything else

Wise words Babs. "

I thought so Lorna

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By *etcpl OP   Couple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"So who is this forum user that opens doors? x"

The general question is about any of a number of people who some perceive as popular on the forum.

I’m glad my thread seems to have at least given some old women something to talk about at UTB

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"So who is this forum user that opens doors? x

The general question is about any of a number of people who some perceive as popular on the forum.

I’m glad my thread seems to have at least given some old women something to talk about at UTB "

Oh I missed this chat! Damn it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So who is this forum user that opens doors? x

The general question is about any of a number of people who some perceive as popular on the forum.

I’m glad my thread seems to have at least given some old women something to talk about at UTB "

That'll be the fab royalty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wait. Ate the clique and the royalty the same group?

And are the also the gatekeeps and door openers?

Is there a hierarchy withing the heirachy?

Viva la reveloution.

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By *etcpl OP   Couple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"So who is this forum user that opens doors? x

The general question is about any of a number of people who some perceive as popular on the forum.

I’m glad my thread seems to have at least given some old women something to talk about at UTB

Oh I missed this chat! Damn it. "

I know right. They could at least share it with the rest of the class so we can all have a good laugh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's me.

I'm the popular one, it is me.

I also have a big gaping fanny, just saying.

I will raise your profile and your views and people will treat you with more respect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's me.

I'm the popular one, it is me.

I also have a big gaping fanny, just saying.

I will raise your profile and your views and people will treat you with more respect."
in

Sounds like there are room for a few more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's me.

I'm the popular one, it is me.

I also have a big gaping fanny, just saying.

I will raise your profile and your views and people will treat you with more respect."

All I want is to be treated with a little more dignity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So who is this forum user that opens doors? x

The general question is about any of a number of people who some perceive as popular on the forum.

I’m glad my thread seems to have at least given some old women something to talk about at UTB "

What is UTB?

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"I was once told that meeting a particular forum user would open many doors for me in the swinging world.

Do you think this is true?

If so who would you say is the forum user most likely to raise your own profile?"

God no….. you see a poster at a social… you say hello and have a chat….

I’d hate being an OG thinking that apparently I hold the golden keys so to speak!

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By *ickshawedCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"It's me.

I'm the popular one, it is me.

I also have a big gaping fanny, just saying.

I will raise your profile and your views and people will treat you with more respect."

But are you professional?

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By *hedark_knightMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"It's me.

I'm the popular one, it is me.

I also have a big gaping fanny, just saying.

I will raise your profile and your views and people will treat you with more respect."

And what does one have to sacrifice to attain this special privilege? I can’t imagine you’ll be so benevolent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was once told that meeting a particular forum user would open many doors for me in the swinging world.

Do you think this is true?

If so who would you say is the forum user most likely to raise your own profile?

God no….. you see a poster at a social… you say hello and have a chat….

I’d hate being an OG thinking that apparently I hold the golden keys so to speak! "

Good thing you're not then isn't it? That's alllll me baby

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By *elvet RopeMan
over a year ago

by the big field


"I was once told that meeting a particular forum user would open many doors for me in the swinging world.

Do you think this is true?

If so who would you say is the forum user most likely to raise your own profile?

God no….. you see a poster at a social… you say hello and have a chat….

I’d hate being an OG thinking that apparently I hold the golden keys so to speak! "

I assume by OG, you mean Old Git- cos you've been round this scene longer than i have and i've got forum posts elsewhere nearly as old as some of the newbies here

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By *etcpl OP   Couple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"It's me.

I'm the popular one, it is me.

I also have a big gaping fanny, just saying.

I will raise your profile and your views and people will treat you with more respect."

Gaping or gapping?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So who is this forum user that opens doors? x

The general question is about any of a number of people who some perceive as popular on the forum.

I’m glad my thread seems to have at least given some old women something to talk about at UTB

What is UTB?"

Up the Brum social I assume

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

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"So who is this forum user that opens doors? x

The general question is about any of a number of people who some perceive as popular on the forum.

I’m glad my thread seems to have at least given some old women something to talk about at UTB

What is UTB?"

Up the bum

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