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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you regret missed opportunities because you misread someone's profile/character...or do you believe everyone has a chance to be redeemed?

Go!

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By *inda May SimmonsTV/TS
over a year ago

hexham


"Do you regret missed opportunities because you misread someone's profile/character...or do you believe everyone has a chance to be redeemed?

Go!"

Why does that have to be an “or”?

I both regret missed opportunities AND believe that people should be given the chance to redeem themselves

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Regrets are not worth thinking about.

Every experience, good or bad, makes us who we are.

Just learn from them, and try and avoid making poor choices in the future. But if you do, don’t beat yourself up over them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you regret missed opportunities because you misread someone's profile/character...or do you believe everyone has a chance to be redeemed?

Go!

Why does that have to be an “or”?

I both regret missed opportunities AND believe that people should be given the chance to redeem themselves "

Without an "or" the boat of life never goes anywhere

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
over a year ago

Manchester(ish).


"Do you regret missed opportunities because you misread someone's profile/character...or do you believe everyone has a chance to be redeemed?

Go!"

Other way round for me OP.

I've given one or two people here the benefit of the doubt and they behaved badly. Reflects on them not me. I'm tough enough to shake em off and keep going.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and yes i have to believe both its the only reason i open my eyes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regrets………. I’ve had a few

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Regrets………. I’ve had a few "

too few to mention by any chance?

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By *inda May SimmonsTV/TS
over a year ago

hexham


"Regrets………. I’ve had a few

too few to mention by any chance?"

So many that I couldn’t possibly mention them all, in my case!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Regrets………. I’ve had a few

too few to mention by any chance?"

A few yeah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Regrets………. I’ve had a few

too few to mention by any chance?

So many that I couldn’t possibly mention them all, in my case!"

Me too gorgeous. Many I never got the chance to take back.They are the worst

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells

Regrets - I've had more than a few. Do I ever think about them? No, learn from them and move on.

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

Wherever I lay my hat

No regrets. If you can change things that your wish you either had done in the past or done differently - then do it. If you can't, learn from it and move on.

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By *elisandre300Woman
over a year ago

dontbefuckingnosey


"Do you regret missed opportunities because you misread someone's profile/character...or do you believe everyone has a chance to be redeemed?

Go!"

I don’t regret missed opportunities but I do regret giving second chances to some people on here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you regret missed opportunities because you misread someone's profile/character...or do you believe everyone has a chance to be redeemed?

Go!

I don’t regret missed opportunities but I do regret giving second chances to some people on here.

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So why not accept the opportunities instead of regretting second chances?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely redeemable

On three counts

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

No regrets and definitely no redemption, I'm a cut away person. There are plenty of great people in my life, for me not to give someone a second chance to piss me off

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I don't really regret missed opportunities because I have no way of knowing how things would have turned out and regretting something like that is a bit of a waste.

I believe nearly everyone deserves a second chance but misplaced loyalty and trust is definitely something I regret

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By *elisandre300Woman
over a year ago

dontbefuckingnosey


"Do you regret missed opportunities because you misread someone's profile/character...or do you believe everyone has a chance to be redeemed?

Go!

I don’t regret missed opportunities but I do regret giving second chances to some people on here.

So why not accept the opportunities instead of regretting second chances?"

Tbf I very rarely miss opportunities. But there’s only so many chances I can give before I say ‘fuck it’ and burn those bridges. My mental happiness is worth more.

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By *elisandre300Woman
over a year ago

dontbefuckingnosey


"No regrets and definitely no redemption, I'm a cut away person. There are plenty of great people in my life, for me not to give someone a second chance to piss me off"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neewbie

I never regret anything life is worth living xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Neewbie

I never regret anything life is worth living xxx"

Welcome

It is, but reflection can be poignant

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I give most people a second or third chance , it doesn’t mean they deserve & I wouldn’t put myself at risk it but it’s my choice. And I enjoy seeing the best come out of someone especially if I’ve be warned against them.

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