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Is a handjob a dying art these days?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The (brother) thread to the hit fingering one.

What happened to sweet innocent handjobs?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Indeed, would love one

Please form an orderly queue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everything is hands free these days

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

I’ve had one hand job off C in 2 1/2 years

But in her defence, she’s then gone on to finish me off with her mouth

K

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I always feel when giving a hand job that it's not anything they couldn't do for themselves, and probably better since they know exactly what works for them and theres not much to be gained from being able to approach from different angles. So I do tend to move quickly on to the oral.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I always feel when giving a hand job that it's not anything they couldn't do for themselves, and probably better since they know exactly what works for them and theres not much to be gained from being able to approach from different angles. So I do tend to move quickly on to the oral."

And that is why the brattiest of tentacles, you're a wise woman.

Handjobs are never great in my experience

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

It’s definitely not a dying art OP. Especially if you’re looking directly in their eyes as you pleasure them

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By *ackbydemandMan
over a year ago

Leicester

It's not a dying art, but if you avoid the use of mouth, you definitely shouldn't avoid the use of spit, and lots of it. Drool it on, massage it into the balls, work that cock with one hand and massage the balls with the other, maybe even a finger in the bum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always feel when giving a hand job that it's not anything they couldn't do for themselves, and probably better since they know exactly what works for them and theres not much to be gained from being able to approach from different angles. So I do tend to move quickly on to the oral."

I prefer a hand job over oral anyday, it's so much better when someone else is doing it especially if we are in such a position that I can be fingering her or rubbing her clit at the same time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not a dying art, but if you avoid the use of mouth, you definitely shouldn't avoid the use of spit, and lots of it. Drool it on, massage it into the balls, work that cock with one hand and massage the balls with the other, maybe even a finger in the bum."

No gobbing on my throbbing, please.

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By *thfloorCouple
over a year ago

Hove


"I always feel when giving a hand job that it's not anything they couldn't do for themselves, and probably better since they know exactly what works for them and theres not much to be gained from being able to approach from different angles. So I do tend to move quickly on to the oral.

And that is why the brattiest of tentacles, you're a wise woman.

Handjobs are never great in my experience "

Obvs never been at the hands of a handjob artist does involve surrendering yourself though mind you. Noone can give you a great experience if you're not willing to receive it. Being tied is helpful to some.

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton


"I always feel when giving a hand job that it's not anything they couldn't do for themselves, and probably better since they know exactly what works for them and theres not much to be gained from being able to approach from different angles. So I do tend to move quickly on to the oral."

Oh, it is so different! I almost melt when Alice's hands touch my cock.

And when one then moves to the balls!

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By *ilkchocolate87Man
over a year ago

sw london

I’m circumcised so yea they rarely do it for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not with me around no..... nothings dying then!

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton


"It's not a dying art, but if you avoid the use of mouth, you definitely shouldn't avoid the use of spit, and lots of it. Drool it on..."

Nope!

I guess that just goes to show that we are all different. Never one is ever spitting on me, or drooling onto me. Turns me right off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Def not dying art wife gave me a stunning one before work this morning

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

My right hand says it's definitely not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love a hand job with plenty of lube

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By *pice-meWoman
over a year ago

Home

Plenty 4play, hand mouth and both are always great

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By *ady GoodwitchWoman
over a year ago

Witchery wish lane

I prefer to massage for ages first like a work of art

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

You can’t beat one off the wrist!

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

Handjobs are overrated anyway so *shrugs*

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By *tarkersandcrutchCouple
over a year ago

TELFORD

A handjob can be very erotic in the right setting.

The teasing, the hand sliding over the bulge, the sliding your fingers in through the zip thumb sliding over the wet tip,the sensual kiss, the eye contact. The anticipation.

A lost art.

Shaz x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m circumcised so yea they rarely do it for me "

You just need her soft and a tight grip and lube

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love having hands tied behind back and wanked slowly

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By *luboyoMan
over a year ago

North West / Birmingham


"It’s definitely not a dying art OP. Especially if you’re looking directly in their eyes as you pleasure them "

I love a hand job. Lying together kissing and just being wanked off. Heaven

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I enjoy giving the Mr a hand job, sloppy one some lube and away we go, I have to say it's far less frequent than a blow job or sex though.

Mrs

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Not into them to be honest. Prefer the lady to just use her mouth.

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

Wherever I lay my hat

Interesting thread and taking notes as I'll intersperse some hand action with oral but I rarely give a 'standalone handy' on the basis that I'm never going to match the honed technique of the guy's own hand.

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By *hil most chillMan
over a year ago

South East & Europe

I adore receiving a good hand job. What makes it good is the slow sensual build up, with stroking of balls, inner thighs etc thrown in, as well as plenty of lube and oil. For the ladies saying it's nothing the guy can't do better himself, while we definitely know how to get ourselves off, having a woman do it, where I don't know how she's going to touch me, or when she's going to change pace, or tease me, is way more exciting than anything I can do to myself.

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By *ocktoplaywithMan
over a year ago

Derby

My last meet was a handjob, and very nice it was too. She had me on the edge for ages before tipping me over…….

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By *old HoopsWoman
over a year ago

Near Chester


"I always feel when giving a hand job that it's not anything they couldn't do for themselves, and probably better since they know exactly what works for them and theres not much to be gained from being able to approach from different angles. So I do tend to move quickly on to the oral."

This. Interesting thread.

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By *cotsguyyMan
over a year ago

Belfast and Fife

Seems to be a dying art here in Northern Ireland, bring back fingering too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Were women ever good at them I wonder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Considering the amount of men moaning about not meeting, I'll take a guess its still a popular sport.

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By *lamdaddyMan
over a year ago

London


"Considering the amount of men moaning about not meeting, I'll take a guess its still a popular sport."

It doesn't count if it's your own! Unless you do the old sit on left hand until numb trick

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By *omewhatSlightlyDazedMan
over a year ago

Warwick Birmingham & YamYamLand


"I always feel when giving a hand job that it's not anything they couldn't do for themselves, and probably better since they know exactly what works for them and theres not much to be gained from being able to approach from different angles. So I do tend to move quickly on to the oral."

It's always better when it's someone else's hand. There's so many different ways/angles and they all feel different. When it's good I don't want to climax, I want it to keep going and keep changing building up until it can't be held any longer (or your wrist hurts like fuck then just finish already)

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

I cannot remember ever receiving a handjob? Although; I was once offered cash if I let a guy wank me off….

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By *lamdaddyMan
over a year ago

London


"I cannot remember ever receiving a handjob? Although; I was once offered cash if I let a guy wank me off…. "

Really? Growing up you didnt have that year where you'd moved past kissing but not to oral yet so a girl would just clumsily do her best?

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

Sometimes I enjoy a handjob from Alice more than penetrative sex. It's just mind-blowing.

When my little fella is performing well and it just goes on and on it's almost *too* good. The other week she had to pause half way through because she was laughing too hard when my eyes apparently rolled back into my head like I was having a religious experience!

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By *oyahandrussCouple
over a year ago

Nr Rugby

I love giving a good handshake

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By *cotsguyyMan
over a year ago

Belfast and Fife


"I love giving a good handshake "

You can tell a lot about a lady from her handshake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

love a good hand job.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"I cannot remember ever receiving a handjob? Although; I was once offered cash if I let a guy wank me off….

Really? Growing up you didnt have that year where you'd moved past kissing but not to oral yet so a girl would just clumsily do her best?"

No? I suppose the closest I got was having my cock stroked while I drove a gf home one time? Girls just want a cock inside them, in my experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A girl gave me a wank one time, it was so bad I thought she was dragging my knob along a wall.

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

It's the most natural means to end a social meet

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By *luboyoMan
over a year ago

North West / Birmingham

I absolutely love being wanked off. Lots of kissing at the same time is just perfect

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

Oh hell no - I adore giving my partner a hand job. I love to feel him harden in my hands, watch the head throb as I tease him- I especially love kneeling between his legs at seeing him watching my arousal as I touch him. Listening to the moans that come from him, those little twitches as he gets more turned on - fuck it makes me wet just thinking about it!

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I absolutely love giving an oily two-handed wank

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The temptation to pop it in my mouth is usually too great to resist.

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

I absolutely love it when a partner wanks me.

It’s both exquisitely intimate and sexually intense; the actual act coupled with the close physical proximity/kissing/direct eye contact…..

Yes…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think I'm very good at them so it probably puts me off.

I agree though that they can be really hot.

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…


"I don't think I'm very good at them so it probably puts me off.

I agree though that they can be really hot.

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One delightfully intimate way around this is if your partner initially gently takes and holds your hand around his cock and performs the motions with your hand. That way he can both show you exactly how he likes it (the speed, the grip strength etc) and you can both bask in the incredible sexual intensity that such an act bequeaths

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By *ezebel100Woman
over a year ago

Birmingham


"I always feel when giving a hand job that it's not anything they couldn't do for themselves, and probably better since they know exactly what works for them and theres not much to be gained from being able to approach from different angles. So I do tend to move quickly on to the oral."

This ^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not to toot my own horn but I think I’m quite good at giving a handjob. I’ve had good reviews

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

Just a hand job, meh. But using my hands to explore and tease until he either comes or has to be inside me right now? That's something else entirely

I like it when we're kissing side by side and from that angle my hand is upside down which means I can use the side of my knuckle just *here* and the pad of my *thumb* just there and tease only the head. And, whoops, is that bit really sensitive and makes him catch his breath? I might have to do that again. Because it's not something he can easily do for himself.

Or I'm kneeling between his thighs using both hands covered in oil or lube to create the sensation of never-endingness. And then sliding one hand up, then over and back down again and seeing him squirm with pleasure.

Definitely not a dying art and now I've got empty hands and the horn!

J

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By *ack688Man
over a year ago

abruzzo Italy (and UK)

I was with someone recently that gave me an incredible handjob, she was watching a Lingan massage video while she did it and copied what they did and used it like a training video, but it was pretty amazing.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Just a hand job, meh. But using my hands to explore and tease until he either comes or has to be inside me right now? That's something else entirely

I like it when we're kissing side by side and from that angle my hand is upside down which means I can use the side of my knuckle just *here* and the pad of my *thumb* just there and tease only the head. And, whoops, is that bit really sensitive and makes him catch his breath? I might have to do that again. Because it's not something he can easily do for himself.

Or I'm kneeling between his thighs using both hands covered in oil or lube to create the sensation of never-endingness. And then sliding one hand up, then over and back down again and seeing him squirm with pleasure.

Definitely not a dying art and now I've got empty hands and the horn!

J"

This is just...

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish


"This is just... "

Turns out it has a really similar effect to certain messages...

J

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By *ixed MisterMan
over a year ago

London


"Just a hand job, meh. But using my hands to explore and tease until he either comes or has to be inside me right now? That's something else entirely

I like it when we're kissing side by side and from that angle my hand is upside down which means I can use the side of my knuckle just *here* and the pad of my *thumb* just there and tease only the head. And, whoops, is that bit really sensitive and makes him catch his breath? I might have to do that again. Because it's not something he can easily do for himself.

Or I'm kneeling between his thighs using both hands covered in oil or lube to create the sensation of never-endingness. And then sliding one hand up, then over and back down again and seeing him squirm with pleasure.

Definitely not a dying art and now I've got empty hands and the horn!

J"

my oh my.

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By *ixed MisterMan
over a year ago

London

I adore a good hand job, whether it be the beginning of something more, the main attraction, or the grand finale .

So many good variations, the change of tightness of the grip, added oil, different positions and angles. It may be a slightly dying art due to people rushing for oral or penetration, but a good hand job can bring on extremely intense orgasms and some glorious sensations.

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