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By *yorks4couples OP   Man
over a year ago

doncaster

Never expect a reply but fk me not had one all night. Read all profiles to save wasting each others time. Always respectful attatch pics but no joy tonight whatsoever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Their***

Couldn't resist.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

It's very normal. Many people look at the profile before replying, and if they don't like your profile, they won't reply

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

Nobody’s up mine, I’m sure I would notice

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford

I am up no one's arse, which is a tragedy.

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By *ittlemissTinselTitsCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

You might want to put some pics up that folk can see

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By *rettyflamingoWoman
over a year ago

Where the flamboyance of flamingos live


"Their***

Couldn't resist. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I don't get up my own arse then nobody will ! Self-rimming, now that is an issue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they don’t find you attractive?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aah that'll be why they're not replying! Can't be easy to type from up there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Online yes

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By *yorks4couples OP   Man
over a year ago

doncaster

D- must try harder ??.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Maybe if you were a little less entitled?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Their***

Couldn't resist. "

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By *akeanyoneMan
over a year ago

LH

Don't message anyone then they can't ignore you

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

It's always good to be up my own rather than someone else's as not onto poo nor pain

Ever thought you might be try to connect with the wrong ones out your league or even your own approach

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Classic married / attached with all the red flags and an aggressive attitude to match.

We wouldn’t reply to you and it’s not us up our own arse.

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By *yorks4couples OP   Man
over a year ago

doncaster

I know my boundaries dont try to punch out of my weight. Already found the reason. Its obviously my grammar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Their***

Couldn't resist.

"

grammar police out tonight

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By *mber and FireCouple
over a year ago

Carmarthenshire

This is gonna turn out great for you, OP. So many people are now gonna change their ways!

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford


"

We wouldn’t reply to you and it’s not us up our own arse. "

This reads as if there is a vacancy.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

If you’re not getting replies then look at your approach and how you come across.

Your profile needs to appeal to your target audience.

Fab is a tough gig for single guys and the successful profiles really pop out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Their***

Couldn't resist.

grammar police out tonight "

I only did it because of the unreasonable tone of the thread title and content.

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

Work on improving your profile and get some actual pics up for a start. Might help.

Adjusting your attitude definitely will.

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By *yorks4couples OP   Man
over a year ago

doncaster

No aggression whatsoever, recently split from a partner of 12 years, new to the scene try to be myself if you find that aggressive fair enough. Too many opinionated doras out THEIR. To say im aggressive when i always reply wether THERE my type or not i believe is just being decent. Bet your hubby wish he bailed out at 12 year

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire


"Never expect a reply but fk me not had one all night. Read all profiles to save wasting each others time. Always respectful attatch pics but no joy tonight whatsoever. "

I view a profile before reading or replying to a message

The fact you have no visible photos is a negative

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By *yorks4couples OP   Man
over a year ago

doncaster

Appreciated constructive just discreetly bi so cautious thanks

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"No aggression whatsoever, recently split from a partner of 12 years, new to the scene try to be myself if you find that aggressive fair enough. Too many opinionated doras out THEIR. To say im aggressive when i always reply wether THERE my type or not i believe is just being decent. Bet your hubby wish he bailed out at 12 year"

Ooft... There we have it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am up no one's arse, which is a tragedy."

Not because there aren’t any willing ones

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By *heRazorsEdgeMan
over a year ago

Wales/ All over UK

So after just one night of not getting a reply, you’re posting in the forums about how hard done by you are….

Seriously dude, sometimes people on here don’t get replies for days or longer and manage not to have a self-entitled whine!

I suggest a bit of self reflection and adjustment of your approach and profile.

Also, NOBODY, is entitled to a reply… and no reply is a reply all to itself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No aggression whatsoever, recently split from a partner of 12 years, new to the scene try to be myself if you find that aggressive fair enough. Too many opinionated doras out THEIR. To say im aggressive when i always reply wether THERE my type or not i believe is just being decent. Bet your hubby wish he bailed out at 12 year"

How dare people on a forum have opinions, eh?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Take photos of stuff other than your face.

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By *yorks4couples OP   Man
over a year ago

doncaster

Completely understand. Never pushy don’t feel I’m owed a response. Iv nothing to hide apart from being discreetly bi. Always state and provide face pic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can sometimes be found in other people's asses.

Waaaaaheeey happy fab Friday all!

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By *iss.ddWoman
over a year ago

Leeds + Newcastle

U ok hun

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford


"I am up no one's arse, which is a tragedy.

Not because there aren’t any willing ones "

But I get no offers, as Paul Simon sang.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No aggression whatsoever, recently split from a partner of 12 years, new to the scene try to be myself if you find that aggressive fair enough. Too many opinionated doras out THEIR. To say im aggressive when i always reply wether THERE my type or not i believe is just being decent. Bet your hubby wish he bailed out at 12 year"

Lol.

I can't even.

Good luck champ. Maybe eat a snickers. You're such a diva when you're hungry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am up no one's arse, which is a tragedy.

Not because there aren’t any willing ones

But I get no offers, as Paul Simon sang."

Read between the lines, there might be an offer in my reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Text men you’ll sure to get a reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No aggression whatsoever, recently split from a partner of 12 years, new to the scene try to be myself if you find that aggressive fair enough. Too many opinionated doras out THEIR. To say im aggressive when i always reply wether THERE my type or not i believe is just being decent. Bet your hubby wish he bailed out at 12 year

Lol.

I can't even.

Good luck champ. Maybe eat a snickers. You're such a diva when you're hungry. "

Cackling

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By *yorks4couples OP   Man
over a year ago

doncaster

If im revved up id do anything. But id like to keep that to people i get intimate with and not strangers. Bet you was a hide and seek champ

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By *yorks4couples OP   Man
over a year ago

doncaster

Even worse when frustrated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Assuming you're talking to me.

You need to hit reply+quote though otherwise people don't know if they need to your comment or not.

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By *rettyflamingoWoman
over a year ago

Where the flamboyance of flamingos live

I’ve a bucket of popcorn, best entertainment so far this evening

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If im revved up id do anything. But id like to keep that to people i get intimate with and not strangers. Bet you was a hide and seek champ"

Ooh I love hide and seek! Who's meant to be better than me at it now?

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By *ackandtheunicornCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

It's super hard to get anyone's interest via text, no matter who you are.

Compared with in person, there's voice/accent, body language, looks, dress, and plain old chemistry

In messages you've got a few words and pictures that won't ever capture your true personality.

Online is very difficult.

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By *yorks4couples OP   Man
over a year ago

doncaster


"I am up no one's arse, which is a tragedy.

Not because there aren’t any willing ones

But I get no offers, as Paul Simon sang.

Read between the lines, there might be an offer in my reply "

Either too polite or too insistent. Can manage in between legs though. Just the communication what leads to that i must be shit at. Open to criticism another angles always useful thsnks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am up no one's arse, which is a tragedy.

Not because there aren’t any willing ones

But I get no offers, as Paul Simon sang.

Read between the lines, there might be an offer in my reply

Either too polite or too insistent. Can manage in between legs though. Just the communication what leads to that i must be shit at. Open to criticism another angles always useful thsnks"

Sorry, my comment is off-topic, I was only replying to Elephantis

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By *yorks4couples OP   Man
over a year ago

doncaster

Im very easy to take wrong. completely agree for this example.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let me tell you something you already know.

Before getting into your own arses guys, please remember to douche.

The arse ain't all sunshine and rainbows. It's a very nasty and dirty place and I don't care how tough you are it will make you puke and take you to your knees and keep you there permanently if you let it.

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"I am up no one's arse, which is a tragedy.

Not because there aren’t any willing ones

But I get no offers, as Paul Simon sang.

Read between the lines, there might be an offer in my reply

Either too polite or too insistent. Can manage in between legs though. Just the communication what leads to that i must be shit at. Open to criticism another angles always useful thsnks

Sorry, my comment is off-topic, I was only replying to Elephantis "

Oh no, but there are dozens of us ready to have a go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Let me tell you something you already know.

Before getting into your own arses guys, please remember to douche.

The arse ain't all sunshine and rainbows. It's a very nasty and dirty place and I don't care how tough you are it will make you puke and take you to your knees and keep you there permanently if you let it.

"

I don't know if I'd love you or want to smother you to death if we met in the reals

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No aggression whatsoever, recently split from a partner of 12 years, new to the scene try to be myself if you find that aggressive fair enough. Too many opinionated doras out THEIR. To say im aggressive when i always reply wether THERE my type or not i believe is just being decent. Bet your hubby wish he bailed out at 12 year"

They’re

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am up no one's arse, which is a tragedy.

Not because there aren’t any willing ones

But I get no offers, as Paul Simon sang.

Read between the lines, there might be an offer in my reply

Either too polite or too insistent. Can manage in between legs though. Just the communication what leads to that i must be shit at. Open to criticism another angles always useful thsnks

Sorry, my comment is off-topic, I was only replying to Elephantis

Oh no, but there are dozens of us ready to have a go "

Surely not with me, I tend to not follow F&B advice whatever it might be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Let me tell you something you already know.

Before getting into your own arses guys, please remember to douche.

The arse ain't all sunshine and rainbows. It's a very nasty and dirty place and I don't care how tough you are it will make you puke and take you to your knees and keep you there permanently if you let it.

I don't know if I'd love you or want to smother you to death if we met in the reals "

You know the answer

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By *yorks4couples OP   Man
over a year ago

doncaster


"This is gonna turn out great for you, OP. So many people are now gonna change their ways!"

Willing to learn and see other peoples point of view. And a few have gave good feedback. Ud reply straight away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am up no one's arse, which is a tragedy.

Not because there aren’t any willing ones

But I get no offers, as Paul Simon sang.

Read between the lines, there might be an offer in my reply

Either too polite or too insistent. Can manage in between legs though. Just the communication what leads to that i must be shit at. Open to criticism another angles always useful thsnks

Sorry, my comment is off-topic, I was only replying to Elephantis

Oh no, but there are dozens of us ready to have a go

Surely not with me, I tend to not follow F&B advice whatever it might be "

oi I can read you know

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By *yorks4couples OP   Man
over a year ago

doncaster


"This is gonna turn out great for you, OP. So many people are now gonna change their ways!"

Willing to learn and see other peoples point of view. And a few have gave good feedback. Ud reply straight away.

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"I am up no one's arse, which is a tragedy.

Not because there aren’t any willing ones

But I get no offers, as Paul Simon sang.

Read between the lines, there might be an offer in my reply

Either too polite or too insistent. Can manage in between legs though. Just the communication what leads to that i must be shit at. Open to criticism another angles always useful thsnks

Sorry, my comment is off-topic, I was only replying to Elephantis

Oh no, but there are dozens of us ready to have a go

Surely not with me, I tend to not follow F&B advice whatever it might be "

I think that’s good advice, generally

Don’t worry, he can’t read this

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By *mber and FireCouple
over a year ago

Carmarthenshire


"No aggression whatsoever, recently split from a partner of 12 years, new to the scene try to be myself if you find that aggressive fair enough. Too many opinionated doras out THEIR. To say im aggressive when i always reply wether THERE my type or not i believe is just being decent. Bet your hubby wish he bailed out at 12 year

They’re "

This broke me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am up no one's arse, which is a tragedy.

Not because there aren’t any willing ones

But I get no offers, as Paul Simon sang.

Read between the lines, there might be an offer in my reply

Either too polite or too insistent. Can manage in between legs though. Just the communication what leads to that i must be shit at. Open to criticism another angles always useful thsnks

Sorry, my comment is off-topic, I was only replying to Elephantis

Oh no, but there are dozens of us ready to have a go

Surely not with me, I tend to not follow F&B advice whatever it might be

oi I can read you know "

Do you now?!

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By *aysOfOurLivesCouple
over a year ago

Essex

I gave it a go but it was shit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just because somebody doesn't want to reply to your message or doesn't want to sleep with you does not make them up their own arse.

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By *yorks4couples OP   Man
over a year ago

doncaster


"No aggression whatsoever, recently split from a partner of 12 years, new to the scene try to be myself if you find that aggressive fair enough. Too many opinionated doras out THEIR. To say im aggressive when i always reply wether THERE my type or not i believe is just being decent. Bet your hubby wish he bailed out at 12 year

They’re

Thats tame where im from.

This broke me "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am up no one's arse, which is a tragedy.

Not because there aren’t any willing ones

But I get no offers, as Paul Simon sang.

Read between the lines, there might be an offer in my reply

Either too polite or too insistent. Can manage in between legs though. Just the communication what leads to that i must be shit at. Open to criticism another angles always useful thsnks

Sorry, my comment is off-topic, I was only replying to Elephantis

Oh no, but there are dozens of us ready to have a go

Surely not with me, I tend to not follow F&B advice whatever it might be

I think that’s good advice, generally

Don’t worry, he can’t read this "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am up no one's arse, which is a tragedy.

Not because there aren’t any willing ones

But I get no offers, as Paul Simon sang.

Read between the lines, there might be an offer in my reply

Either too polite or too insistent. Can manage in between legs though. Just the communication what leads to that i must be shit at. Open to criticism another angles always useful thsnks

Sorry, my comment is off-topic, I was only replying to Elephantis

Oh no, but there are dozens of us ready to have a go

Surely not with me, I tend to not follow F&B advice whatever it might be

oi I can read you know

Do you now?! "

I started to learn last week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am up no one's arse, which is a tragedy.

Not because there aren’t any willing ones

But I get no offers, as Paul Simon sang.

Read between the lines, there might be an offer in my reply

Either too polite or too insistent. Can manage in between legs though. Just the communication what leads to that i must be shit at. Open to criticism another angles always useful thsnks

Sorry, my comment is off-topic, I was only replying to Elephantis

Oh no, but there are dozens of us ready to have a go

Surely not with me, I tend to not follow F&B advice whatever it might be

oi I can read you know

Do you now?!

I started to learn last week "

In the back of Asda?

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By *yorks4couples OP   Man
over a year ago

doncaster


"Just because somebody doesn't want to reply to your message or doesn't want to sleep with you does not make them up their own arse. "

Just ranting and open to suggestions where i may be going wrong. Thats all. Verbally what i posted wouldnt be taken the wrong way. No tone over a keyboard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am up no one's arse, which is a tragedy.

Not because there aren’t any willing ones

But I get no offers, as Paul Simon sang.

Read between the lines, there might be an offer in my reply

Either too polite or too insistent. Can manage in between legs though. Just the communication what leads to that i must be shit at. Open to criticism another angles always useful thsnks

Sorry, my comment is off-topic, I was only replying to Elephantis

Oh no, but there are dozens of us ready to have a go

Surely not with me, I tend to not follow F&B advice whatever it might be

oi I can read you know

Do you now?!

I started to learn last week

In the back of Asda? "

You can do a lot of think there when there is a bit of 420

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am up no one's arse, which is a tragedy.

Not because there aren’t any willing ones

But I get no offers, as Paul Simon sang.

Read between the lines, there might be an offer in my reply

Either too polite or too insistent. Can manage in between legs though. Just the communication what leads to that i must be shit at. Open to criticism another angles always useful thsnks

Sorry, my comment is off-topic, I was only replying to Elephantis

Oh no, but there are dozens of us ready to have a go

Surely not with me, I tend to not follow F&B advice whatever it might be

oi I can read you know

Do you now?!

I started to learn last week

In the back of Asda?

You can do a lot of think there when there is a bit of 420 "

Apparently , I wouldn’t know as I read that on a blog

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By *rMonkeyMan
over a year ago

Somewhere

No one owes you a response OP, a lack of does not indicate anyone being up their own arse

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By *yorks4couples OP   Man
over a year ago

doncaster


"No one owes you a response OP, a lack of does not indicate anyone being up their own arse"

Was a rant calm down. I dont take myself that seriously jesus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No one owes you a response OP, a lack of does not indicate anyone being up their own arse

Was a rant calm down. I dont take myself that seriously jesus"

The forum is like a dick, sometimes it is hard x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No one owes you a response OP, a lack of does not indicate anyone being up their own arse

Was a rant calm down. I dont take myself that seriously jesus

The forum is like a dick, sometimes it is hard x"

But much like yourself, rarely hard

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke


"I am up no one's arse, which is a tragedy."

It very much is

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I certainly am

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford


"I am up no one's arse, which is a tragedy.

It very much is "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry i slipped and fell up it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's only one person allowed up my arse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's only one person allowed up my arse "

Is it me?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never expect a reply but fk me not had one all night. Read all profiles to save wasting each others time. Always respectful attatch pics but no joy tonight whatsoever. "

We wouldn't reply to you...no profile pic, no public pics and not much in your bio. If you want to stand out then at keast make some effort

Mrs

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By *yorks4couples OP   Man
over a year ago

doncaster


"Never expect a reply but fk me not had one all night. Read all profiles to save wasting each others time. Always respectful attatch pics but no joy tonight whatsoever.

We wouldn't reply to you...no profile pic, no public pics and not much in your bio. If you want to stand out then at keast make some effort

Completely get that discreetly bi so cautious hence why i always explain and respect everyone has a type. As iv said was just ranting but completely understand your point as id be the same

Mrs "

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over a year ago

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Op

I suggest add some pictures if you need to crop them then do so would you expect a reply when you have no clue what the person may not look like effort helps the more you make

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By *ackbydemandMan
over a year ago

Leicester

No profile or public pictures, you need a bit more on the profile. Also, golden rule of retail, don't blame the customer if the merchandise is shoddy.

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By *yorks4couples OP   Man
over a year ago

doncaster


"Op

I suggest add some pictures if you need to crop them then do so would you expect a reply when you have no clue what the person may not look like effort helps the more you make "

Appreciated cheers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes people just can’t be bothered replying to every person they know they won’t be interested in.

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
over a year ago

Portstewart

Honestly with your profile currently the way it is we wouldn't reply either and we're not up anyone's arses. There are a few red flags on your profile that put us right off. Just trying to be helpful, a single male with cannot accommodate 99% of the time indicates that the partner at home doesn't know there on here and we don't want to get involved

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford

If you want an opinion given then best not to provoke it.

My advice is stop posting as your posts on this post alone is pointing to you are looking like a peron with a bit of attitude and a chip on your shoulder.

Its not your grammer as that shouldnt come into it.

my advice is try to get on with the forum and get involved with posts.

men have the hardest times on many places if you continue to push with attitude and a large chip on your shoulder your going to come down with a bang.

get out to organised events and meets you only get known in person if your prepared to get involved.

if you dont you know the outcome so think about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No aggression whatsoever, recently split from a partner of 12 years, new to the scene try to be myself if you find that aggressive fair enough. Too many opinionated doras out THEIR. To say im aggressive when i always reply wether THERE my type or not i believe is just being decent. Bet your hubby wish he bailed out at 12 year"

Do you believe in being decent, and in the next sentence you make a nasty comment?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ditto

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By *yorks4couples OP   Man
over a year ago

doncaster


"If you want an opinion given then best not to provoke it.

My advice is stop posting as your posts on this post alone is pointing to you are looking like a peron with a bit of attitude and a chip on your shoulder.

Its not your grammer as that shouldnt come into it.

For the mojority i have, correct though as theyve took my post the wrong way iv done the same. Please dont bring my grandma into this ??

my advice is try to get on with the forum and get involved with posts.

men have the hardest times on many places if you continue to push with attitude and a large chip on your shoulder your going to come down with a bang.

get out to organised events and meets you only get known in person if your prepared to get involved.

if you dont you know the outcome so think about it."

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By *yorks4couples OP   Man
over a year ago

doncaster


"No aggression whatsoever, recently split from a partner of 12 years, new to the scene try to be myself if you find that aggressive fair enough. Too many opinionated doras out THEIR. To say im aggressive when i always reply wether THERE my type or not i believe is just being decent. Bet your hubby wish he bailed out at 12 year

Do you believe in being decent, and in the next sentence you make a nasty comment?"

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Op

I suggest add some pictures if you need to crop them then do so would you expect a reply when you have no clue what the person may not look like effort helps the more you make

Appreciated cheers"

Welcome pal

Their is plenty of helpful advice among the pile of threads from previous folk whom asked similar as yourself it's a useful tool just search profile help advice

Good luck pal

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By *yorks4couples OP   Man
over a year ago

doncaster


"No aggression whatsoever, recently split from a partner of 12 years, new to the scene try to be myself if you find that aggressive fair enough. Too many opinionated doras out THEIR. To say im aggressive when i always reply wether THERE my type or not i believe is just being decent. Bet your hubby wish he bailed out at 12 year

Do you believe in being decent, and in the next sentence you make a nasty comment?"

Im like a mirror. I Was ranting though i can see how some would take offence. Should of been the better person lesson learnt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No aggression whatsoever, recently split from a partner of 12 years, new to the scene try to be myself if you find that aggressive fair enough. Too many opinionated doras out THEIR. To say im aggressive when i always reply wether THERE my type or not i believe is just being decent. Bet your hubby wish he bailed out at 12 year

Do you believe in being decent, and in the next sentence you make a nasty comment?

Im like a mirror. I Was ranting though i can see how some would take offence. Should of been the better person lesson learnt "

To be fair some people are up their own asses though

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By *yorks4couples OP   Man
over a year ago

doncaster


"No aggression whatsoever, recently split from a partner of 12 years, new to the scene try to be myself if you find that aggressive fair enough. Too many opinionated doras out THEIR. To say im aggressive when i always reply wether THERE my type or not i believe is just being decent. Bet your hubby wish he bailed out at 12 year

Do you believe in being decent, and in the next sentence you make a nasty comment?

Im like a mirror. I Was ranting though i can see how some would take offence. Should of been the better person lesson learnt

To be fair some people are up their own asses though "

Someones ?? ??

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By *oly Fuck Sticks BatmanCouple
over a year ago

here & there

You would be better off on Fabguys… if you want instant gratification.

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By *yorks4couples OP   Man
over a year ago

doncaster


"You would be better off on Fabguys… if you want instant gratification."

No women on there though plus i enjoy a challenge (sometimes)

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By *oly Fuck Sticks BatmanCouple
over a year ago

here & there


"You would be better off on Fabguys… if you want instant gratification.

No women on there though plus i enjoy a challenge (sometimes)"

Sounds like you’re just moaning about not getting replies… so much for enjoying the challenge

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By *yorks4couples OP   Man
over a year ago

doncaster


"No profile or public pictures, you need a bit more on the profile. Also, golden rule of retail, don't blame the customer if the merchandise is shoddy."

Just cautious as discreetly bi. Plus im a shit salesman

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By *ortyairCouple
over a year ago

Wallasey

Just had a lovely big cock up my arse and one in my pussy... oops sorry wrong thread xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just had a lovely big cock up my arse and one in my pussy... oops sorry wrong thread xxx"

And you didn't let the OP have a go?! Shame on you!

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By *yorks4couples OP   Man
over a year ago

doncaster


"You would be better off on Fabguys… if you want instant gratification.

No women on there though plus i enjoy a challenge (sometimes)

Sounds like you’re just moaning about not getting replies… so much for enjoying the challenge "

Had some success wanting more so advice would be appreciated i was venting because i wasnt moaning tbf

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By *yorks4couples OP   Man
over a year ago

doncaster


"Just had a lovely big cock up my arse and one in my pussy... oops sorry wrong thread xxx"

Nice.

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By *ackbydemandMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"No profile or public pictures, you need a bit more on the profile. Also, golden rule of retail, don't blame the customer if the merchandise is shoddy.

Just cautious as discreetly bi. Plus im a shit salesman"

Second rule of retail, if the merchandise is shoddy, say that its fantastic.

Third rule of retail, if you're a shit salesman...

???

...

Fourth rule = Profit

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By *-Elle-XWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I echo those who've said it's the lack of public pictures, even if you post some that aren't of your face, it makes you look more genuine. So many lads on here who are trying to cheat so they leave their profiles blank, I ignore messages from blank profiles.

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By *yorks4couples OP   Man
over a year ago

doncaster


"I echo those who've said it's the lack of public pictures, even if you post some that aren't of your face, it makes you look more genuine. So many lads on here who are trying to cheat so they leave their profiles blank, I ignore messages from blank profiles."

Cheers completely get that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I echo those who've said it's the lack of public pictures, even if you post some that aren't of your face, it makes you look more genuine. So many lads on here who are trying to cheat so they leave their profiles blank, I ignore messages from blank profiles."

Aren't they the worst?! Isnt my profile so colourful? Oh, hi by the way

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By *ortyairCouple
over a year ago

Wallasey


"Just had a lovely big cock up my arse and one in my pussy... oops sorry wrong thread xxx

And you didn't let the OP have a go?! Shame on you! "

Lol, feel terrible now xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just had a lovely big cock up my arse and one in my pussy... oops sorry wrong thread xxx

And you didn't let the OP have a go?! Shame on you!

Lol, feel terrible now xxx"

After a DP I'm not surprised! Take some ibuprofen!

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By *yorks4couples OP   Man
over a year ago

doncaster


"Just had a lovely big cock up my arse and one in my pussy... oops sorry wrong thread xxx

And you didn't let the OP have a go?! Shame on you!

Lol, feel terrible now xxx"

Two hands and a mouth to spare so you should ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now you've mellowed a wee bit OP () why don't you hang about and join in some other threads. You're just as unlikely to meet through the forum tbh, but if women are your target market you'll be surrounded by lots of their opinions and wants, plus get a feel for what's working on other guys profiles. If nothing else, it'll be marginally more fun that staring at an empty inbox!

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By *yorks4couples OP   Man
over a year ago

doncaster


"Now you've mellowed a wee bit OP () why don't you hang about and join in some other threads. You're just as unlikely to meet through the forum tbh, but if women are your target market you'll be surrounded by lots of their opinions and wants, plus get a feel for what's working on other guys profiles. If nothing else, it'll be marginally more fun that staring at an empty inbox! "

Good idea ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I echo those who've said it's the lack of public pictures, even if you post some that aren't of your face, it makes you look more genuine. So many lads on here who are trying to cheat so they leave their profiles blank, I ignore messages from blank profiles."

You can tell I’m single by the checking my cutlery cupboard and cushions in the house

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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds


"Never expect a reply but fk me not had one all night. Read all profiles to save wasting each others time. Always respectful attatch pics but no joy tonight whatsoever. "

So you expect a reply and think that not happening is the fault of others?

C

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire


"No one owes you a response OP, a lack of does not indicate anyone being up their own arse

Was a rant calm down. I dont take myself that seriously jesus"

Unfortunately you posted in the forum and while you now say you don't take yourself that seriously you've given a lot of people a glimpse of you.

They've also checked your profile

Read the thread

Made decisions and you have probably lessened your available pond as forums are a great way to out incompatible people and block

We all understand frustrating situations

We all rant

Sometimes there's better words to use that allow rants without sounding like an entitled arse

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

.


"Just because somebody doesn't want to reply to your message or doesn't want to sleep with you does not make them up their own arse.

Just ranting and open to suggestions where i may be going wrong. Thats all. Verbally what i posted wouldnt be taken the wrong way. No tone over a keyboard "

I'm not sure how saying people are up their own arse as they dare not to give you a reply can be taken in a good way, whether it's said verbally or written.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess in your mind you may have put effort in, and feel frustrated that you have done everything that profile bmhas requested; yet still no answers. I think women even without a photo get so many messages. They have the upper hand and will choose who they want to be naked with, which you can only respect is their decision and choice to make.

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford

I think we are all forgetting the important thing, which is that I am STILL not up anyone's arse.

Frankly, I'm embarrassed. It's been hours. I've let you all down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m the opposite.... I need someone else up my arse xx

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"Never expect a reply but fk me not had one all night. Read all profiles to save wasting each others time. Always respectful attatch pics but no joy tonight whatsoever. "

Your profile looks like a million others with hardly any photos. If you do include them in your messages, it's the people you pick don't find you attractive enough to reply

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By *r kink8585Man
over a year ago

ireland,


"I’m the opposite.... I need someone else up my arse xx "

And what a nice arse it is to be up

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes


"I’m the opposite.... I need someone else up my arse xx "

Now that's an offer I can't refuse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All these messages and no responses, question for ya, are all these women actually your type?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m the opposite.... I need someone else up my arse xx

Now that's an offer I can't refuse "

xx

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"I guess in your mind you may have put effort in, and feel frustrated that you have done everything that profile bmhas requested; yet still no answers. I think women even without a photo get so many messages. They have the upper hand and will choose who they want to be naked with, which you can only respect is their decision and choice to make. "

We certainly do have the upper hand so higher expectations which usually leads most men falling short here. Especially with their attitudes towards women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m the opposite.... I need someone else up my arse xx

And what a nice arse it is to be up "

Thank you x

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By *r kink8585Man
over a year ago

ireland,


"All these messages and no responses, question for ya, are all these women actually your type?

"

You won’t get an honest answer to that

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford


"All these messages and no responses, question for ya, are all these women actually your type?

"

He's just being modest. I bet he's drowning in hotties as we type.

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By *r kink8585Man
over a year ago

ireland,


"I’m the opposite.... I need someone else up my arse xx

And what a nice arse it is to be up

Thank you x"

A Pleasure

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford


"I’m the opposite.... I need someone else up my arse xx "

What a coincidence! Sometimes the Universe provides answers.

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By *irtydevil666Man
over a year ago

bristol

Our Survey Says.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never expect a reply but fk me not had one all night. Read all profiles to save wasting each others time. Always respectful attatch pics but no joy tonight whatsoever. "

I don't know why some men stay on here. It must be soul destroying to get no replies. You seem decent, just fed up. It's understandable.

Maybe chat on the forums. Good luck.

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By *r kink8585Man
over a year ago

ireland,


"Never expect a reply but fk me not had one all night. Read all profiles to save wasting each others time. Always respectful attatch pics but no joy tonight whatsoever.

I don't know why some men stay on here. It must be soul destroying to get no replies. You seem decent, just fed up. It's understandable.

Maybe chat on the forums. Good luck. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No aggression whatsoever, recently split from a partner of 12 years, new to the scene try to be myself if you find that aggressive fair enough. Too many opinionated doras out THEIR. To say im aggressive when i always reply wether THERE my type or not i believe is just being decent. Bet your hubby wish he bailed out at 12 year"

The fact you capitalised them and got them wrong is actually hilarious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No aggression whatsoever, recently split from a partner of 12 years, new to the scene try to be myself if you find that aggressive fair enough. Too many opinionated doras out THEIR. To say im aggressive when i always reply wether THERE my type or not i believe is just being decent. Bet your hubby wish he bailed out at 12 year

The fact you capitalised them and got them wrong is actually hilarious "

Whooooosh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never expect a reply but fk me not had one all night. Read all profiles to save wasting each others time. Always respectful attatch pics but no joy tonight whatsoever. "

Welcome to fab 2022.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No aggression whatsoever, recently split from a partner of 12 years, new to the scene try to be myself if you find that aggressive fair enough. Too many opinionated doras out THEIR. To say im aggressive when i always reply wether THERE my type or not i believe is just being decent. Bet your hubby wish he bailed out at 12 year

The fact you capitalised them and got them wrong is actually hilarious

Whooooosh"

The noise between your ears?

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By *melia DominaTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh (She/Her)


"Maybe if you were a little less entitled?"

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Such is fab op. More men than women. Maybe join in with forum/cam room chat. It will take a a while to get noticed but you might get lucky. Good luck!

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By *instonandLadyAstorCouple
over a year ago

Not where we seem to be...


"No aggression whatsoever, recently split from a partner of 12 years, new to the scene try to be myself if you find that aggressive fair enough. Too many opinionated doras out THEIR. To say im aggressive when i always reply wether THERE my type or not i believe is just being decent. Bet your hubby wish he bailed out at 12 year

The fact you capitalised them and got them wrong is actually hilarious

Whooooosh

The noise between your ears?"

Bets are still on.

Winston

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry op but this thread doesnt paint you in the best light at all. I have never blocked anyone based on their forum postings but I was tempted with you.

I get frustration, but some of your replies are out right aggressive. It shows the sort of entitled person you are sadly.

Maybe dial it back a bit, and be patient

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"Never expect a reply but fk me not had one all night. Read all profiles to save wasting each others time. Always respectful attatch pics but no joy tonight whatsoever. "

Never expect a reply and your time will be much more enjoyable!

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Fucking hell youth, bit over the top. You’ve only been here 7 mouths. You need a full years gold membership before you get issued with your vagina conveyor belt.

The mr

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By *esthetic21Man
over a year ago

Birmingham/Bristol

Never had a reply

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West


"Never had a reply"

I can see why

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By *r kink8585Man
over a year ago

ireland,


"Never had a reply

I can see why"

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

oh eck..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never had a reply

I can see why"

Ooft.

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By *melia DominaTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh (She/Her)


"Never expect a reply but fk me not had one all night. Read all profiles to save wasting each others time. Always respectful attatch pics but no joy tonight whatsoever. "

Everyone is sorta taking the piss abit. So I will lay it out for you in simple terms (though you'll never fucking read this!)

Much as FAB has an element of hook up, that is a very small percentage of what the site is about.

The FAQs clearly state, no reply is a "NO". If you cannot accept that then FAB is definitely not for you.

If you have a tissy fit about it, which this thread basically is, you will receive less interaction and definitely a grilling as these types of forum threads happen every single fucking day......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not everyone

ive actually made some good friends here

but there are some - probably a powerplay type thing.

just dont treat it as real life till you've met

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole


"Fucking hell youth, bit over the top. You’ve only been here 7 mouths. You need a full years gold membership before you get issued with your vagina conveyor belt.

The mr "

Don't get excited 7 weeks, not 7 months and he's throwing his teddy out the pram. .

We clearly say on our profile, only playing if have a meet up. Don't bombard us at other times. We had 7 offers yesterday.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never had a reply

I can see why"

Why?

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West


"Never had a reply

I can see why

Why?"

Read his profile or lack of

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By *ilkchocolate87Man
over a year ago

sw london

You’re probs messaging women who state BBC only

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And another guy gets slated,if this had been a woman she would be getting advise

Just saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never had a reply

I can see why

Why?

Read his profile or lack of "

Did he ask for profile advice??

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"Fucking hell youth, bit over the top. You’ve only been here 7 mouths. You need a full years gold membership before you get issued with your vagina conveyor belt.

The mr

Don't get excited 7 weeks, not 7 months and he's throwing his teddy out the pram. .

We clearly say on our profile, only playing if have a meet up. Don't bombard us at other times. We had 7 offers yesterday. "

You’re right weeks! Bless him even longer to wait

The mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And another guy gets slated,if this had been a woman she would be getting advise

Just saying"

I think it is more to do with how he came across on here as opposed to anything else. He didn't ask for advice, and he comes across as a little aggressive.

I do agree though that the forums gjve men a much harder time than women for the same things

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

You can feel the warmth and kindness. So many lovely posts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oops another unhappy single mail boo hoo.. Never seen this before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can feel the warmth and kindness. So many lovely posts. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can feel the warmth and kindness. So many lovely posts. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And another guy gets slated,if this had been a woman she would be getting advise

Just saying

I think it is more t

o do with how he came across on here as opposed to anything else. He didn't ask for advice, and he comes across as a little aggressive.

I do agree though that the forums gjve men a much harder time than women for the sa

me things "

Fair point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And another guy gets slated,if this had been a woman she would be getting advise

Just saying"

100% CC

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Appreciated constructive just discreetly bi so cautious thanks"

Why ‘discreetly’ bi..??

It’s plastered all over your bio that you’re bi and you’ve had fun with women and men..hardly discreet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Appreciated constructive just discreetly bi so cautious thanks

Why ‘discreetly’ bi..??

It’s plastered all over your bio that you’re bi and you’ve had fun with women and men..hardly discreet "

I think it means that in his life away from here nobody knows he is bi.

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By *arkandlovelyWoman
over a year ago

South Derbyshire

Yeah, does "discreetly bi" mean you've lead your partner to believe you're straight while you have sex with men behind her back?

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By *esthetic21Man
over a year ago

Birmingham/Bristol


"Never had a reply

I can see why"
lol I get many replies actually so nerr

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By *esthetic21Man
over a year ago

Birmingham/Bristol


"Never had a reply

I can see why

Why?

Read his profile or lack of

Did he ask for profile advice?? "
don't worry i take no notice of comments like this I know what my profile looks like I made it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think there’s a lot of perception bias going on here.

One guy allegedly told to man up on a mental health thread, ergo people suck up to women but not men on them? I’ve never seen anyone told to man up on a serious mental health thread and if I did, I know I’d stick my oar in on whoever said it.

One user finds out there’s some external chat group with voting on who can talk to who (?!?) ergo everyone is backsniping and in one clique or another? Weird how I’ve never been invited to join any, guess I’m already voted off?

For every time you see some shithousery (and it does exist, certainly) by a man/woman/couple on here, don’t just go “aha! See I told “they” all do this” and start perpetuating a stereotype that may not exist. Instead think of all the times that other men/women/couples *didn’t* do that, and you’ll find that this is by far the bigger number, usually on the same thread for that matter.

The forum isn’t like piss in your beer, where 5 drops in your pint ruins it all. If you feel it is, nothing will ever fix it until the entirety of humanity evolves to not have some pricks.

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By *esthetic21Man
over a year ago

Birmingham/Bristol


"Never had a reply

I can see why

Why?

Read his profile or lack of "
lol your profile is hidden so there's a serious lack of there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think there’s a lot of perception bias going on here.

One guy allegedly told to man up on a mental health thread, ergo people suck up to women but not men on them? I’ve never seen anyone told to man up on a serious mental health thread and if I did, I know I’d stick my oar in on whoever said it.

One user finds out there’s some external chat group with voting on who can talk to who (?!?) ergo everyone is backsniping and in one clique or another? Weird how I’ve never been invited to join any, guess I’m already voted off?

For every time you see some shithousery (and it does exist, certainly) by a man/woman/couple on here, don’t just go “aha! See I told “they” all do this” and start perpetuating a stereotype that may not exist. Instead think of all the times that other men/women/couples *didn’t* do that, and you’ll find that this is by far the bigger number, usually on the same thread for that matter.

The forum isn’t like piss in your beer, where 5 drops in your pint ruins it all. If you feel it is, nothing will ever fix it until the entirety of humanity evolves to not have some pricks."

I appear to have posted in the wrong thread please ignore

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"I think there’s a lot of perception bias going on here.

One guy allegedly told to man up on a mental health thread, ergo people suck up to women but not men on them? I’ve never seen anyone told to man up on a serious mental health thread and if I did, I know I’d stick my oar in on whoever said it.

One user finds out there’s some external chat group with voting on who can talk to who (?!?) ergo everyone is backsniping and in one clique or another? Weird how I’ve never been invited to join any, guess I’m already voted off?

For every time you see some shithousery (and it does exist, certainly) by a man/woman/couple on here, don’t just go “aha! See I told “they” all do this” and start perpetuating a stereotype that may not exist. Instead think of all the times that other men/women/couples *didn’t* do that, and you’ll find that this is by far the bigger number, usually on the same thread for that matter.

The forum isn’t like piss in your beer, where 5 drops in your pint ruins it all. If you feel it is, nothing will ever fix it until the entirety of humanity evolves to not have some pricks."

Wise words

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"Appreciated constructive just discreetly bi so cautious thanks

Why ‘discreetly’ bi..??

It’s plastered all over your bio that you’re bi and you’ve had fun with women and men..hardly discreet "

Because its his choice to keep his choices discrete. Not complicated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good arses everyone

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

The fact that a handful of people, in one nigght, aren't attracted to you enough to want to reply and you are bitching about it, surely just means YOU are the one up their own arse, no?!

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