FabSwingers.com forum: Aside from fab… how else do you meet partners / sex buddies?

By *aytie0 OP Woman
over a year ago

Seaham

Just curious be careful with listing sites and just abbreviate or face-bk. I’m just curious how people date these days after finding myself single. It seems like a crazy new world and I’m interested in knowing what works for you

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By *hatChattyGuyMan
over a year ago

folkestone

I've had a few fwb off tinder, still never met anyone from here lol, on fb dating but ewwww

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had dates from other apps ..one that is similar to kindling and the other that's a bit like a bee...if that makes sense;)

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Going out clubbing

It's bonus points if you have the gift of the gab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Resorts near us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I stand in my bedroom window and windmill my penis, my postman doesn’t seem to appreciate it though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I put so much effort into trying to chat with women in reality as I have done online, I would be well away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just curious be careful with listing sites and just abbreviate or face-bk. I’m just curious how people date these days after finding myself single. It seems like a crazy new world and I’m interested in knowing what works for you "

I only really use hnge met a a few people over the summer but were just hooking up and didn't last more than 2 weeks.

Rest of the popular apps I never really got into.

Meeting girls the old fashioned way is still the best for me. Bars and nights out with friends and chatting which is getting more normal again now after covid.

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By *entBarryUKMan
over a year ago

Ashford

"I stand in my bedroom window and windmill my penis, my postman doesn’t seem to appreciate it though "

Ahh, the old methods are still the best

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Waitrose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My job

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nowhere not even here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A who what now?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric bikes

I just use my imagination

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Try joining a ceroc dance class

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

The majority on PoF (don't you believe they are all looking for a marriage partner).

However chance conversations in supermarkets have proved helpful.

Examples:

"Do you know anything about red wine?"

"Who are you going to drink it with?"

"My boyfriend"

"Shucks, but you look nice so I will help you anyway!, but I usually buy mine at another store (mentioned)".

"If I give you my number can you get me some when you go there?"

In another supermarket:

Met two black girls by the J20 shelf and asked if I could just read the price tag. One said "Do you like chatting to black girls?". Answer "Yes" so she replies "I'm married but my sister isn't".

"In that case I need her phone numb'077...'(interjected)er". "Slow down,I need to write it down"! talk about enthusiastic!

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By *oly Fuck Sticks BatmanCouple
over a year ago

here & there

I met innocent through bumble!!

After having some honest conversations about what we wanted from a relationship and what we were into 3 years later best relationship I've ever been in

Sweet xx

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

"I stand in my bedroom window and windmill my penis, my postman doesn’t seem to appreciate it though "

My postwoman has been replaced by a man. don't think it was anything I said or did.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I answer the door naked to my many Amazon delivery men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I answer the door naked to my many Amazon delivery men.

And does he just leave it in your safe space?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I answer the door naked to my many Amazon delivery men.

And does he just leave it in your safe space?"

If he knows the password.

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By *ixedDevilMan
over a year ago

Bootyville

I mainly meet using dating apps in all honesty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here, Tinder, nights out - in that order pretty much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

Clubs, pubs, coffee shops, all sorts of places.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Train, traveling to Scotland (Edinburgh) banter the spice of Life

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

Dating apps. I read In Cosmopolitan online what the best free dating apps were and joined up.

Put a few photos on there which weren’t the typical ones - bloke standing on a riverbank holding a fish or bloke standing next to a hired Ferrari and wrote a couple of paragraphs for a profile.

You can’t really know which is best because it’s down to how many users are in your area, so give a few of them a try.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dating apps. I read In Cosmopolitan online what the best free dating apps were and joined up.

Put a few photos on there which weren’t the typical ones - bloke standing on a riverbank holding a fish or bloke standing next to a hired Ferrari and wrote a couple of paragraphs for a profile.

You can’t really know which is best because it’s down to how many users are in your area, so give a few of them a try."

I did this. I didn't do those exact photos though.

Conclusion. Men on dating apps are just

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nights out usually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dating apps. I read In Cosmopolitan online what the best free dating apps were and joined up.

Put a few photos on there which weren’t the typical ones - bloke standing on a riverbank holding a fish or bloke standing next to a hired Ferrari and wrote a couple of paragraphs for a profile.

You can’t really know which is best because it’s down to how many users are in your area, so give a few of them a try."

Think outside the box and get a picture of a fish holding you, conversation starter for sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Morning yoga classes , best place ever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve tried the apps, the pubs, the clubs….and yet I’m still single!!

It would be easier finding water in the desert than a partner for me

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"Dating apps. I read In Cosmopolitan online what the best free dating apps were and joined up.

Put a few photos on there which weren’t the typical ones - bloke standing on a riverbank holding a fish or bloke standing next to a hired Ferrari and wrote a couple of paragraphs for a profile.

You can’t really know which is best because it’s down to how many users are in your area, so give a few of them a try.

I did this. I didn't do those exact photos though.

Conclusion. Men on dating apps are just

That’s a fair conclusion, from what women on there have told me the weirdo quotient is quite high. But there are some gems too.

On one of the apps you’re supposed to answer random questions, one of them was “What’s the wildest thing you’ve ever done?”

Rather than tell the complete truth I thought I’d go in gently with “Visited a swingers club” and it was like I’d met the Queen Mother and flopped my knob out instead of a handshake.

However some reactions were ok and some good conversations came out of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apart from asking outright

Might get sacked from work though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d go out to bars if I wanted to look elsewhere

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"Apart from asking outright

Might get sacked from work though

It’s difficult for the priesthood, I agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dora and I met on a dating site.

We matched perfectly.

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By *akeanyoneMan
over a year ago

In the past I met a FWB on a dating app, another on a bookface singles group, met a playmate at a swingers club, and found a relationship through a dating app. All at different times of course.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

at the naturist beach ... we just get chatting

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I met my late partner in a sex cinema. My sister met her husband on the syberian express. It can happen anywhere

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By *an4funMan
over a year ago

london

"If I put so much effort into trying to chat with women in reality as I have done online, I would be well away "

Or arrested

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

I'm not on any dating sites now they were starting to annoy me..

I am on tinder but alot of the guys on there are on here

So I will just stick to here for now

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By *illybeachboyMan
over a year ago

Guernsey

In summer on my local naturist beach there's plenty of action to be had.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I open my bedroom window, stick my head out of it and shout "I NEED A MAN!"

Works every time.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

This is the only place I've had much luck, regular dating sites are hard to even get a date!

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Brum

Absolutely everywhere.

If you’re approachable and open then people seem to just sense we’re a bit kinky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This year I've started going to more social stuff and I've met a few folk that way!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The queue outside Callocallay bar in Shoreditch works

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By *he Gentleman CallerMan
over a year ago

Southampton

Before Fab, chatrooms always worked well (e.g. 40+ on aol) but are there still any good chatrooms these days - do tell if you know any lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

- single night

- supermarket bakery isles

- work events

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Through work, or while dog walking. My poor dog does get tired after 9 walks a day though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Asda Wrexham.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The back of Waitrose nowadays

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

KFC que in Colechester

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Asda Wrexham. "

Damn you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Asda Wrexham.

Damn you! "

I changed my game !

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire

I find work handy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I found my playmate at my local club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Asda Wrexham.

Damn you!

I changed my game ! "

It’s always good to keep innovation going on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Asda Wrexham.

Damn you!

I changed my game !

It’s always good to keep innovation going on

I do try

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's far easier to meet people while out, you know if you are attracted to them as they are right in front of you, a few drinks and some dirty dancing is a great way to build up lots of sexual tension for the after party!!

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By *otBunsHunWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"I answer the door naked to my many Amazon delivery men.

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my regular Amazon guy is gay. There's just no hope for me ha

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I recently met the most gorgeous man in the real world, we are on the same page as far as fun goes so it’s all good

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I mostly meet people through friends, parties and nights out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I mostly meet people through friends, parties and nights out. "

Kinky drinkies?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I stand in my bedroom window and windmill my penis, my postman doesn’t seem to appreciate it though "

I'm disappointed in that postman. Maybe you need to windmill your penis in the opposite direction...?

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rarely from Fab, we find a club is a far better place to find people on the sane page.

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By *ackbydemandMan
over a year ago

Leicester

I put my cock on the table in the pub, then lay woman-bait to attract them. Most effective is half a shandy and a packet of cheese & onions crisps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am absolutely clueless with this kind of stuff and dating sites scare the crap out of me lol. J randomly added me on Snap - it so happens that we knew some of the same people and since I was single I was quite enjoying just chatting to new people. Except our conversations eventually turned quite sexy,and then we ended up hooking up and haven't looked back since. When we discovered we were both into swinging and a bit of kink, it was like a dream come true and we eventually made our couples profile here. So I guess what I'm trying to say is just go with the flow abs get to know new people as you come across them, and just see what happens

Mrs

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Swanage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Waitrose "

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

"I met innocent through bumble!!

After having some honest conversations about what we wanted from a relationship and what we were into 3 years later best relationship I've ever been in

Sweet xx"

Same here.. 2 years now, so glad I swiped right! Y x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Which other ones are you on op? Asking for a friend.

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By *olden PoleMan
over a year ago

Bromley

The gym.

I make a big effort to concentrate on my work out and not the gorgeous ladies doing their squats but when we are in the steam room the flirting is outrageous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

foreign countries

from 20- 35 sll my GFs were either foreign students or i met abroad.

thry never understood what i said so worked out well....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anywhere from shopping to funerals weddings hospital waiting rooms pubs clubs to wandering the street

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

Chichester

I have met some fun people off the back of one of the gyms I use

Otherwise insta/ twatter met a few people from over the years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have met some fun people off the back of one of the gyms I use

Otherwise insta/ twatter met a few people from over the years "
woah woah woah we found out months ago that cracking on in gyms is morally wrong are you saying fab allows this now

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By *r kink8585Man
over a year ago

ireland,

"I have met some fun people off the back of one of the gyms I use

Otherwise insta/ twatter met a few people from over the years "

I’d like to use those gyms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am a terrible flirt, even worse off Fab

1 of my FB meet at work ofcourse, 1 I meet in Debenhams she worked in perfume counters (said would buy some if got her number

) & another was my mate's aunt at his birthday party haha

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Holibobs

Used to be clubs, pubs and dating sites, before fab. I do have a habit of attracting vanilla there though. so for me here is best

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

"I have met some fun people off the back of one of the gyms I use

Otherwise insta/ twatter met a few people from over the years woah woah woah we found out months ago that cracking on in gyms is morally wrong are you saying fab allows this now

'cracking on in gyms is morally wrong '

When was this edict brought in by the morality police?

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

"Anywhere from shopping to funerals weddings hospital waiting rooms pubs clubs to wandering the street "

That's it, then. I'm straight off down the crem to mingle with some tasty mourners.

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By *inda May SimmonsTV/TS
over a year ago

hexham

I go out to bars and pubs and chat to real people. It actually still works in the same way as it used to work.

In fact even people who have no interest in taking anything further tend to be more pleasant and more polite when talking to you face to face than is the case when chatting online and they can hide behind their computers

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By *ena AmourTV/TS
over a year ago

Chard

"The back of Waitrose nowadays "

Damn it, she is too posh for me!

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

There are two other sites I use to find likeminded fun seekers

I have a very public job, and being the very sociable guy I am, this worked well for me over the years

The rugby mums on the touchline…..

Vanilla pubs, I ‘pulled’ twice in one night recently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The back of Waitrose nowadays

Damn it, she is too posh for me!

Never!

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

Clubs of the swinging variety

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dog walks, when my dog was a puppy!!

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

"Anywhere from shopping to funerals weddings hospital waiting rooms pubs clubs to wandering the street

That's it, then. I'm straight off down the crem to mingle with some tasty mourners.

...and aren't weddings best if you are looking for a fight?

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By *ena AmourTV/TS
over a year ago

Chard

"The back of Waitrose nowadays

Damn it, she is too posh for me!

Never!

Sainsbury's bakery counter? I will let you have a nibble of my french stick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The back of Waitrose nowadays

Damn it, she is too posh for me!

Never!

Sainsbury's bakery counter? I will let you have a nibble of my french stick.

Not sure I can compromise love, Sainsbury’s bakery is dreadful

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

We've met and played with people in a club who aren't even on Fab.

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By *hatChattyGuyMan
over a year ago

folkestone

"The back of Waitrose nowadays

Damn it, she is too posh for me!

Never!

Sainsbury's bakery counter? I will let you have a nibble of my french stick.

Not sure I can compromise love, Sainsbury’s bakery is dreadful

I'd have to disagree, sainsbury's is currently ranked 1st place on my jam donut chart.

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

Met mine off Twitter. A year break because of covid but 3 years still met every two weeks.

By far the best and most sexually compatible lady I have ever been with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've seriously had more joy on Facebook dating than Fab... there's too many fake profiles on here, the real few that I have met should be done by trading standards for very out of date pics, or there seems to be drama involved (I avoid couples... long story).

I have no prob pulling in a pub either..just usually they want more than casual sex and I don't lead people on.

Tinder used to be ok but now gone too mainstream and majority of female profiles begin... "not after ONS of FWB".... yawn

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

Hookup sites, dating sites, in bars, in cafes, once on a train journey, oh, a couple of times from a porn forum, and my most regular partner of late was a tutor on a course I attended.

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis

"I’ve tried the apps, the pubs, the clubs….and yet I’m still single!!

It would be easier finding water in the desert than a partner for me

I know the feeling

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By *eresa_cdslutTV/TS
over a year ago

nr Bodmin

Volunteer work for community and charity, working on committees etc always works for me,you are assured of meeting really nice caring people

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By *yorks4couplesMan
over a year ago

doncaster

Used to be very social so always dropped on. Just came out of a 12 year relationship. Work away through the week and have kids as much as poss on a weekend. Alot to explain and puts alot of people off. Im a genuine guy just getting back into things but grt accused of cheating ect ect due to not having many photos certain time frames ect. Will come with time and iv had some success. Any tips how to put my situation across without being dramatic or coming accross suspicious?

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

Reddit, Twitter, and Tinder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not on any dating sites now they were starting to annoy me..

I am on tinder but alot of the guys on there are on here

So I will just stick to here for now "

This! So many on Tinder with a different name and trying to sell me a pss poor paper dream to get in my knickers….insult to intelligence, if it’s just a dip n slip just say that… At least on here we are all clear on intent. Although I’m yet to encounter a one off from here hahahaha x

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By *yorks4couplesMan
over a year ago

doncaster

"I'm not on any dating sites now they were starting to annoy me..

I am on tinder but alot of the guys on there are on here

So I will just stick to here for now

Think im too honest and undersell myself. Rather that than be a letdown but seen this is quite a reoccurring theme. Dont get why people overhype themselves up. Whrn everyones having a good time surely thats the bigger turn on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The back of Waitrose nowadays

Damn it, she is too posh for me!

Never!

Sainsbury's bakery counter? I will let you have a nibble of my french stick.

Not sure I can compromise love, Sainsbury’s bakery is dreadful

I'd have to disagree, sainsbury's is currently ranked 1st place on my jam donut chart."

Well, I haven’t been there in a while, so I might have to revisit the idea. I used to love their custard donuts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The last time I was in the pub, a man with a group of aquaintences said " Your boobs are massive" (after staring on and off for a while) I think this was his attempt at a chat-up line

Anyway, suffice it to say I went home alone that night.

I think I am just too cynical!

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