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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes, single men have got a bad reputation for being time wasters and fantasist...and no show loads of times.

However, after speaking with a couple from 10mins away on here, whatsapp messaging and video calls a meet was arranged..

Now time came, time went nothing, not a call, not a text nothing!!.. Their profile is now not available and can see tell they have blocked WhatsApp as well.

But single men are the time wasters.. took morning off work to play as well..

Why do people do it??

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I don't know why they do it. It's not something I've ever done or had done to me though so I don't know what people get from it.

What I did learn early on though is sex talk and swapping pics usually just encourages those who have no intention of ever meeting on here so I don't do that anymore. And I tend to chat for a good while before I meet anyone as well.

People must get a kick out of leading others on and having their ego's massaged that's more than likely why people do it. Or they were never a couple in the first place.

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Are you sure they were a couple. Lots of fake profile as well on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Are you sure they were a couple. Lots of fake profile as well on here"

They were a couple. Whatsapp video called them on numerous occassions and we spoke at length about the meet. Didn't need to swap pics...as saw them on video and speaking to them.. frustrating.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Love private messages trying to discredit me in same way shape or form..

Some very very sad people on here

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

Sorry that happened, dude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Report and block.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have reported and blocked the couple. Blocked those giving abuse.. they obviously forgot morning vitamins.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

Chichester

Sounds like they just used you for wank fodder OP. Not much you can do alas. Block / report and hopefully find something constructive to do with time off now.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sounds like they just used you for wank fodder OP. Not much you can do alas. Block / report and hopefully find something constructive to do with time off now. "

Never been someone's wank fodder!!! Lol

Baby oil aggressive wank for me it is then!!

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall


"Yes, single men have got a bad reputation for being time wasters and fantasist...and no show loads of times.

However, after speaking with a couple from 10mins away on here, whatsapp messaging and video calls a meet was arranged..

Now time came, time went nothing, not a call, not a text nothing!!.. Their profile is now not available and can see tell they have blocked WhatsApp as well.

But single men are the time wasters.. took morning off work to play as well..

Why do people do it??"

Had it done to us by as many couples as guys. Some folk are just lame.

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

Timewasters come in all shapes and sizes, OP, but sorry you had that happen. Very annoying.

Guess you've just got to dust yourself and carry on and don't take it personally.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Yes, single men have got a bad reputation for being time wasters and fantasist...and no show loads of times.

However, after speaking with a couple from 10mins away on here, whatsapp messaging and video calls a meet was arranged..

Now time came, time went nothing, not a call, not a text nothing!!.. Their profile is now not available and can see tell they have blocked WhatsApp as well.

But single men are the time wasters.. took morning off work to play as well..

Why do people do it??

Had it done to us by as many couples as guys. Some folk are just lame."

Single men aren't the timewasters.

'Some' people are. And they can be men, women or couples.

You did your pre-meet homework, took precautions to ensure they were real, and still got let down. This is on them, not you. Sadly it happens but it will always be beyond your control.

If and when it does the only thing you can do is block them and move on. Disappointing as it is there's no point dwelling on it or wondering if it will happen again, as all that will do is taint your view on others when they're not linked to any previous occurrence.

Better luck next time.

A

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

On Holibobs

Sorry to hear that OP

Who knows...There are hundreds of reasons and is why I always book a meet or a social when I'm doing something else that weekend as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Time is designed to be wasted

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Time is designed to be wasted "

How profound

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry that happened to you, it’s shit, OP. It’s happened to me too.

Chalk it up to experience and move on

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Yes, single men have got a bad reputation for being time wasters and fantasist...and no show loads of times.

However, after speaking with a couple from 10mins away on here, whatsapp messaging and video calls a meet was arranged..

Now time came, time went nothing, not a call, not a text nothing!!.. Their profile is now not available and can see tell they have blocked WhatsApp as well.

But single men are the time wasters.. took morning off work to play as well..

Why do people do it??"
supposedly its a common thing better luck next time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had this video call with a woman was invited round and she sent me to someone else’ house

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I had this video call with a woman was invited round and she sent me to someone else’ house "

That is just wrong...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sounds like they just used you for wank fodder OP. Not much you can do alas. Block / report and hopefully find something constructive to do with time off now.

Never been someone's wank fodder!!! Lol

Baby oil aggressive wank for me it is then!! "

Hope this is a happy ending!

Have a good day off. X

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Sorry you had this op

I've no idea why people do half the things they do on here!

Maybe fantasists who get off on this sort of thing

Block and report them to admin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry to hear that OP

Who knows...There are hundreds of reasons and is why I always book a meet or a social when I'm doing something else that weekend as well

"

This one!

We combine any event that entails travelling with either another activity or an alternative. We have sooo much sex in the run up in anticipation that really it doesn't matter to us if they show or don't. We also have a tendency to find fun when let down

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

Had it happen a number of times, with single men, single women and couples. Try not to get disheartened or let if affect you contacting people.

I have meet this afternoon up which will take me a while to travel.to. (bloody Welsh public transport) and even though I'm sure it will be fine, that tiny bit of me still wonders if I'll get a message cancelling, or I'll be sat in pub on my own.

Still, I'm going to trust this person. Why wouldn't I

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

It's frustrating. I never believe it's going to happen until the person is right there in front of me! I'm more surprised when they do turn up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are you sure they were a couple. Lots of fake profile as well on here

They were a couple. Whatsapp video called them on numerous occassions and we spoke at length about the meet. Didn't need to swap pics...as saw them on video and speaking to them.. frustrating."

Don't speak for so long before meeting. Always much more likely they are not serious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are you sure they were a couple. Lots of fake profile as well on here

They were a couple. Whatsapp video called them on numerous occassions and we spoke at length about the meet. Didn't need to swap pics...as saw them on video and speaking to them.. frustrating.

Don't speak for so long before meeting. Always much more likely they are not serious."

They are too busy wanking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are you sure they were a couple. Lots of fake profile as well on here

They were a couple. Whatsapp video called them on numerous occassions and we spoke at length about the meet. Didn't need to swap pics...as saw them on video and speaking to them.. frustrating.

Don't speak for so long before meeting. Always much more likely they are not serious.

They are too busy wanking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's frustrating. I never believe it's going to happen until the person is right there in front of me! I'm more surprised when they do turn up."

Given the sheer volume of whining done by single guys that get no response it's baffling how many when the goal is straight in front of them walk off from the penalty spot! (World cup themed reply yay)

For the record we have never cancelled a meet nor have we considered not turning up. In our opinion the very worst we would do is if the dynamic didn't feel right we would apologize and offer to leave.

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By *igblackcock69Man
over a year ago

notts


"Yes, single men have got a bad reputation for being time wasters and fantasist...and no show loads of times.

However, after speaking with a couple from 10mins away on here, whatsapp messaging and video calls a meet was arranged..

Now time came, time went nothing, not a call, not a text nothing!!.. Their profile is now not available and can see tell they have blocked WhatsApp as well.

But single men are the time wasters.. took morning off work to play as well..

Why do people do it??"
I get lots of messages from so called couples but as soon as I ask to chat with the missus.. NOTHING, I tend to get that in early to out the fakes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Before anyone asks, it wasn’t me

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset


"Before anyone asks, it wasn’t me "

It never is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Before anyone asks, it wasn’t me

It never is"

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset


"It's frustrating. I never believe it's going to happen until the person is right there in front of me! I'm more surprised when they do turn up.

Given the sheer volume of whining done by single guys that get no response it's baffling how many when the goal is straight in front of them walk off from the penalty spot! (World cup themed reply yay)

For the record we have never cancelled a meet nor have we considered not turning up. In our opinion the very worst we would do is if the dynamic didn't feel right we would apologize and offer to leave."

This is why I've stopped accommodating. They can't not turn up to mine, they can organise the place from now on!

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield


"It's frustrating. I never believe it's going to happen until the person is right there in front of me! I'm more surprised when they do turn up."

This is so me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's frustrating. I never believe it's going to happen until the person is right there in front of me! I'm more surprised when they do turn up.

Given the sheer volume of whining done by single guys that get no response it's baffling how many when the goal is straight in front of them walk off from the penalty spot! (World cup themed reply yay)

For the record we have never cancelled a meet nor have we considered not turning up. In our opinion the very worst we would do is if the dynamic didn't feel right we would apologize and offer to leave.

This is why I've stopped accommodating. They can't not turn up to mine, they can organise the place from now on!"

Even if they were gift wrapped and put under your tree

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