FabSwingers.com forum: Struggling

By *hop870121 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

I have been off this site for so long now and I’m struggling because people are saying I’m not genuine or who I say I am bcus my veri are from awhile ago but I can’t meet because of this to get and up to date veri can someone please help I’ve suggested ft or WhatsApp call but never can get a meet because of this same reason lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have been off this site for so long now and I’m struggling because people are saying I’m not genuine or who I say I am bcus my veri are from awhile ago but I can’t meet because of this to get and up to date veri can someone please help I’ve suggested ft or WhatsApp call but never can get a meet because of this same reason lol "

Have you read your profile lately? Perhaps the age is why they say you're not genuine?

Hide your verification summary and they won't know how old your veris are.

They may just be using the veris as a polite excuse.

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Maybe get updated photos change your age (you can do it once on here)

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

NORWAY Wherever I lay my hat

I'd echo the above. Only old pics and veris are red flags. You must have changed your age on here before (as you managed to wink at me last year!!) so that suggests a bit of jiggery pokery that people don't trust

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

You don't need veris but the age thing 31 says 42 on profile needs changing, your profile is your advert in order to stand any chance it has to be best it can be, but clubs you'll always get meets at clubs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You don't need veris but the age thing 31 says 42 on profile needs changing "

Yep, that's a massive red flag, and your 'excuse' about not being able to change it is meaningless. Do you really not know how old you are? When setting up your profile, the site asks for your date of birth. How did you get that wrong? And there lies the problem. You're telling everyone on here that you're dishonest. That you've messed around with your age to get around filters and so on.

"your profile is your advert in order to stand any chance it has to be best it can be, but clubs you'll always get meets at clubs

Indeed, and two thirds of your pictures are of your cock. That's too many for most

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Hi op

I agree with the points raised

The age change would make me suspicious that you'd changed it to get round a filter and can't get it back to the right one now.

Also I'd say try and take some more recent non cock pics for your profile and get rid of the one smoking,that won't appeal to all.

It's not just veries that make people think you're not genuine.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

"I'd echo the above. Only old pics and veris are red flags. You must have changed your age on here before (as you managed to wink at me last year!!) so that suggests a bit of jiggery pokery that people don't trust"

Blimey you can remember people who winked at you a year ago?? I barely remember people who winked at me yesterday.

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By *CExeCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln/Exeter

Old pics, old veri's and the age thing would all be a no for us. Might be best to start afresh, less cock pics is always a good thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with all of the above.

Also your profile says you attend clubs. People there will verify you if they deem you genuine. So its odd they havent is how I would look at it

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"I agree with all of the above.

Also your profile says you attend clubs. People there will verify you if they deem you genuine. So its odd they havent is how I would look at it"
of course he's genuine in person lol

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

I duno upto date veris really matter as I got meets without them. You can always go into the cam rooms, make friends to verify you there?

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Less cock pics would help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like it when there pinned down struggling to get free muhahahaaa

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

You say that you visit clubs, which is a good place to meet and get new veris.

But don't overlook the issue that it's difficult, hard work for all single men here. A profit is always a good focus of invested attention for all men.

Good luck!

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

NORWAY Wherever I lay my hat

Blimey you can remember people who winked at you a year ago?? I barely remember people who winked at me yesterday."

It says he did when I opened his profile. I don't remember what I had for breakfast

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as we always say "swinging is not a golden ticket to get sex"....

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By *idnight999Man
over a year ago

Walsall

Same for me, been on and off, had 6 meets in total, with a few repeat visits to certain ladies, but overall it’s very slow, I’m not into clubs tbh, but I was expecting more

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

Expecting more what? Sex?

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