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"I'd never meet without a public social first." ^this^ I think its important its public. | |||
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"Just to say I chat a lot beforehand. If I'm meeting you for a drink I'm 90% sure I want more. " Yep… what she said ^^ | |||
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"Im yet to have a social of any description, but thats not to say i wouldnt. Some meets weve chatted, had a drink etc before hand at their place, others ive literally been told to "get it out" the second ive walked in. Im ok with either to be honest. " You’re lucky. Most meets I’ve had I’ve been told to “get out” the second I’ve walked in! ![]() | |||
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"Im yet to have a social of any description, but thats not to say i wouldnt. Some meets weve chatted, had a drink etc before hand at their place, others ive literally been told to "get it out" the second ive walked in. Im ok with either to be honest. You’re lucky. Most meets I’ve had I’ve been told to “get out” the second I’ve walked in! ![]() Maybe they said "get it out!" | |||
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"Im yet to have a social of any description, but thats not to say i wouldnt. Some meets weve chatted, had a drink etc before hand at their place, others ive literally been told to "get it out" the second ive walked in. Im ok with either to be honest. You’re lucky. Most meets I’ve had I’ve been told to “get out” the second I’ve walked in! ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Im yet to have a social of any description, but thats not to say i wouldnt. Some meets weve chatted, had a drink etc before hand at their place, others ive literally been told to "get it out" the second ive walked in. Im ok with either to be honest. You’re lucky. Most meets I’ve had I’ve been told to “get out” the second I’ve walked in! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Just to say I chat a lot beforehand. If I'm meeting you for a drink I'm 90% sure I want more. Yep… what she said ^^ " I think that's alot more people than care to admit it. Social first is one of those automatic responses cause it sounds like the right thing to say | |||
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"Just to say I chat a lot beforehand. If I'm meeting you for a drink I'm 90% sure I want more. " Basically this ![]() | |||
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"Just to say I chat a lot beforehand. If I'm meeting you for a drink I'm 90% sure I want more. Basically this ![]() Drink? ![]() | |||
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"We always set out to just social… ![]() You're just sluts though. ![]() | |||
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"But how can you ever tell for sure if the chemistry will be there, face to face? Just because the photos look good, and people seem great from online messages…" This is me. I have chatted with some lovely men, liked their pics but when we've met in person the chemistry wasn't there. | |||
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"We always set out to just social… ![]() ![]() Bit rich… yo-yo knickers ![]() | |||
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"But how can you ever tell for sure if the chemistry will be there, face to face? Just because the photos look good, and people seem great from online messages…" Voice notes or quick video chat on telegram | |||
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"Voice notes or quick video chat on telegram" Video chat helps, but voicenotes and phone calls still don’t sort the chemistry side. I’d never plan for sex on a first meeting, based on seeing a few pics and hearing someone’s voice.. | |||
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"But how can you ever tell for sure if the chemistry will be there, face to face? Just because the photos look good, and people seem great from online messages…" Tell me about it right?! ![]() | |||
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"But how can you ever tell for sure if the chemistry will be there, face to face? Just because the photos look good, and people seem great from online messages… Tell me about it right?! ![]() I know, I know if I get on with someone by talking ( I mean actual talking on the phone, video call). I know if I fancy someone by doing that | |||
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"If I’m not fingering her under the table after 1/2hr then it’s a bad meet for me ![]() If I’d have known that I’d have moved a bit closer! ![]() | |||
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"I just used to get straight in the bedroom after a few pleasantries ![]() ![]() I read this as granny face pic and was alarmed ![]() | |||
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"I just used to get straight in the bedroom after a few pleasantries ![]() ![]() ![]() If granny gets approval away we go ![]() | |||
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"I just used to get straight in the bedroom after a few pleasantries ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Pahaha. The guys all the red flags if he's disappointed when you show up after those | |||
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"If I’m not fingering her under the table after 1/2hr then it’s a bad meet for me ![]() ![]() You got the main course. Of course ![]() ![]() | |||
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"My last fab meet was a nice drink, chat and a snog ![]() Sounds like a great meet to be fair, nice and chilled ![]() | |||
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"My last fab meet was a nice drink, chat and a snog ![]() Lucky man or woman x | |||
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"My last fab meet was a nice drink, chat and a snog ![]() The second and third meet was much better. Very hot and steamy ![]() | |||
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"Do most of you like me rather meet for a social chat and kisses only on first meets or do you all just want to fuck lol " We’re not really that sociable to be honest, just want to fuck ![]() | |||
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"My last fab meet was a nice drink, chat and a snog ![]() ![]() Steamy sounds fun x | |||
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"My last fab meet was a nice drink, chat and a snog ![]() Ending on a snog first meet is still pretty decent to be fair. I take those as a win! | |||
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"Sorry to reply again but on these new points. Yeah I mean imagine going through too much work effort and hassle chatting, essentially going on dates, to then set up a sex meet and for that sex to be fucking terrible. To quote that meme 'aint nobody got time for that!'" Yeah I mean imagine getting your sexiest underwear on, makeup etc. Then have the hassle and effort of meeting someone that’s expecting sex but you fancy them as much as a piece of raw tripe. Imagine feeling that you have to give them a blow job just so that you can escape! Ain’t nobody got time for that! | |||
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"Sorry to reply again but on these new points. Yeah I mean imagine going through too much work effort and hassle chatting, essentially going on dates, to then set up a sex meet and for that sex to be fucking terrible. To quote that meme 'aint nobody got time for that!' Yeah I mean imagine getting your sexiest underwear on, makeup etc. Then have the hassle and effort of meeting someone that’s expecting sex but you fancy them as much as a piece of raw tripe. Imagine feeling that you have to give them a blow job just so that you can escape! Ain’t nobody got time for that!" Oh damn well I mean IT being consensual is always a pretty damn essential part for starters... ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I prefer social first, they usually ghost me afterwards anyway." ![]() | |||
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"The furthest my first meets go is a kiss..never have and never will fuck on the first meet x" Bummer ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I prefer social first, they usually ghost me afterwards anyway." Yup, what she said ![]() | |||
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"Do most of you like me rather meet for a social chat and kisses only on first meets or do you all just want to fuck lol " No fucking on coffee meet... ![]() ![]() | |||
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"The furthest my first meets go is a kiss..never have and never will fuck on the first meet x Bummer ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Do most of you like me rather meet for a social chat and kisses only on first meets or do you all just want to fuck lol No fucking on coffee meet... ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"The furthest my first meets go is a kiss..never have and never will fuck on the first meet x Bummer ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() But I'm guessing theirs room for those that need a delicate touch ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Do most of you like me rather meet for a social chat and kisses only on first meets or do you all just want to fuck lol No fucking on coffee meet... ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Why funny though? ![]() | |||
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"Do most of you like me rather meet for a social chat and kisses only on first meets or do you all just want to fuck lol No fucking on coffee meet... ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() most women iv known see it as more of a guideline than a hard rule ![]() | |||
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"Do most of you like me rather meet for a social chat and kisses only on first meets or do you all just want to fuck lol No fucking on coffee meet... ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Sure we are all different ![]() ![]() | |||
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"That's why we used to like going to the attic that's how we got into swinging go there we would aim to play together in a room and if we felt a bit frisky or the Mrs liked a guy we'd play with them no pressure.." Jet airplane to the Attic please ![]() | |||
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"Isn't it about what's most natural? If you both fancy eachother... there's nothing like the present ![]() And you would be an amazing present. ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Isn't it about what's most natural? If you both fancy eachother... there's nothing like the present ![]() ![]() ![]() But am I right about you should go with the flow? No point waiting again if you really fancy eachother? | |||
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"Isn't it about what's most natural? If you both fancy eachother... there's nothing like the present ![]() ![]() ![]() Yes. No. Maybe. I mean, if the vibe is right, I’ve done it and it didn’t amount to anything afterwards, because it was just being with each other at the right time, and it was sexy and exciting. But, if Then there’s that anticipation of wanting after having a little taste. You know? That’s a build up to something much much more. (For me). It also leaves the opportunity of nothing happening (also happens) which sucks, so I agree with you, JUMP ON THEM!!! ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Isn't it about what's most natural? If you both fancy eachother... there's nothing like the present ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() But most people like one nighters? | |||
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"Isn't it about what's most natural? If you both fancy eachother... there's nothing like the present ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I'm a repeat cummer...two nights?? ![]() | |||
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"Do most of you like me rather meet for a social chat and kisses only on first meets or do you all just want to fuck lol " We generally aim to be fucking within 3 minutes of meeting... if that goes OK, then we will probably consider talking to them. Cal | |||
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"Fuck on the first meet if there's chemistry I have very very little spare time and if I had to factor in an extra day for social first it would take forever to get to it!" I'm the same...but only if I think we would get on. The fab meets I had when it purely was a social to begin with ended up with average sex that I didn't enjoy and never to see them again. I did find a common denominator with them meets...none of them had verifications. They were all handsome and lovely to chat to. But the sex was pretty dead. The best sex I had is with fabbers with lots of positive verifications. ![]() | |||
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"Isn't it about what's most natural? If you both fancy eachother... there's nothing like the present ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Do they? Maybe we do, but also most people like to see things get, dare I say better, if you see each other again. | |||
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"Isn't it about what's most natural? If you both fancy eachother... there's nothing like the present ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Yes but difficult to find a good playmate. Much easier to find one nighters? | |||
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"…. But, if Then there’s that anticipation of wanting after having a little taste. You know? That’s a build up to something much much more. (For me). It also leaves the opportunity of nothing happening (also happens) which sucks, so I agree with you, JUMP ON THEM!!! ![]() ![]() And that’s where yours and my point of views will be coming from a different place maybe. A woman v a man’s experience. I can’t say either way feels easy. It feels easy with what I want, but the reality is much different. And to relate that to the op, no, my expectations of the woman I meet is, they might not find that first meeting sexy enough to want anything more than a social. | |||
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