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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Shit aren't they?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The shit ones, yes

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By *heRazorsEdgeMan
over a year ago

Wales/ All over UK


"Shit aren't they?"

I quite like some of them… others, not so much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No they're pretty good to be fair! Just channel the people who give you good ones and fuck those that give you bad ones

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By *heRazorsEdgeMan
over a year ago

Wales/ All over UK

Would you rather be numb to everything OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

No. I quite like them

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

No.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Depends who you've got feelings for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you don’t feel you can’t care. If you don’t care, you’re a shit.

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By *weetiepie99Woman
over a year ago

cardiff

Depends if they're reciprocated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some are.. others are fantastic.

Shit where is obi_fox that was vague as fuck

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Some are.. others are fantastic.

Shit where is obi_fox that was vague as fuck "

You called!

OP - no, feelings aren't shit in general. Sometimes an event happens that causes a negative emotional response - bereavements, relationship breakdowns, unrequited love, dropping your toast butter side down on an unhoovered carpet covered in dog hair, realising you're now eligible for a saga holiday - that kind of thing.

But without feelings there'd be no joy, no love, no sense of being wanted and desired, no pleasure in giving a first puppy to a young child depsite the fact they will no doubt outlive it and have the heartbreak of losing it in the future.

So in short feelings are great. Just not all the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No they're pretty good to be fair! Just channel the people who give you good ones and fuck those that give you bad ones "

Wise words

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All depends on the context.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of an almost human nature, this will not do. Call the schoolmaster

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

How can you fully experience the joy of love, if you have never experienced the pain of heartbreak

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love

Hate

Fear

Loathing

Jealousy

Happiness

Sadness

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"How can you fully experience the joy of love, if you have never experienced the pain of heartbreak"

One need not lead to the other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Sometimes an event happens that causes a negative emotional response - bereavements, relationship breakdowns, unrequited love, dropping your toast butter side down on an unhoovered carpet covered in dog hair, realising you're now eligible for a saga holiday - that kind of thing.

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Was feeling ok till I read that tick list of how things are going for me at the moment...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone will hurt u eventually u just got to know who's worth it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have to go through them to reach emotional maturity

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks all for the kind words and support.

Whilst I understand that feelings do allow the joyful emotions to surface, quite often they cause the negative ones.

Perhaps having lower or no expectations may be the answer

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

Feelings can raise you up or tear you apart. It's just about remembering that feeling come and go. Only you can dwell on them.

It's never easy when the shitty ones stick in your head and push the good ones out.

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By *handlerMonicaCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

I think it's the size of the gap between the lows and the highs that can be the issue. If you're riding a roller coaster of emotions, then it can be difficult to handle the big swings in how you feel. Whereas if you're always in the middle grey area, it's easier to manage, but can potentially just be a bit dull.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m an emotional mess at the moment. I can be myself one day and then lock my doors and not speak to anyone the next. Feelings are aweful when they are the wrong bad types Sadness/loneliness/angry/regret

But then are the most amazing ‘lift you up’ type when they are the best ones. Love/happiness/joy etc.

If only we could choose which ones we want to feel.

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