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By *ustlooking900 OP   Man
over a year ago

Donegal

Hi all just wanted some advice on rope play only a beginner and won't be doing anything dangerous just start off simple does anyone have any advice or know were I can learn abit

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By *eavenNhellCouple
over a year ago

carrbrook stalybridge

Google for your nearest peer rope workshop or rope jam good safe place to rope .

Also look up twoknottyboys online good step by step videos of different rope ties etc

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London


"Hi all just wanted some advice on rope play only a beginner and won't be doing anything dangerous just start off simple does anyone have any advice or know were I can learn abit "

Have you thought about joining the Scouts?

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By *ustlooking900 OP   Man
over a year ago

Donegal


"Google for your nearest peer rope workshop or rope jam good safe place to rope .

Also look up twoknottyboys online good step by step videos of different rope ties etc "

Thanks I'll have a look there's no workshops near me unfortunately

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

Hello OP, reach out to the folks on the Swingers Section. I'm sure there are plenty of rope experts who will give you some invaluable advice and sign post you in the right direction.

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

Loads of vids on youtube, check out Rory's brainworks,

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By *akeanyoneMan
over a year ago

LH

There's another popular site, if you search the events on there they'll often hold classes

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over a year ago


"Loads of vids on youtube, check out Rory's brainworks, "

Rorys is a great learning tool

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By *ustlooking900 OP   Man
over a year ago

Donegal


"Hello OP, reach out to the folks on the Swingers Section. I'm sure there are plenty of rope experts who will give you some invaluable advice and sign post you in the right direction. "

Thanks I'll post there to see if anyone has advise

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By *ustlooking900 OP   Man
over a year ago

Donegal


"Loads of vids on youtube, check out Rory's brainworks, "

Cheers I'll look him up didn't think I'd get stuff like that on YouTube

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"Hi all just wanted some advice on rope play only a beginner and won't be doing anything dangerous just start off simple does anyone have any advice or know were I can learn abit "

What are you looking for?

Shibari type things, or more porn based things like Hardtied?

Youtube has some videos on different types of ties, but a peer group or course are handy to learn the basics on safety

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By *ensualMan
over a year ago

Sutton

This is one I have posted before.

I would say all rope play is potentially dangerous, due to nerve placement or constricting ties.

Books

Most have a sections on safety and choice or rope.

Two of those books were written by the Knotty Boys,. One is "Showing You The Ropes". The books are not my thing but people like them and are worth checkling if you like pretty rope. Unfortunately YouTube has removed most of their videos.

Although I am into Japanese style rope, rope is about fun and can be about sexy times. To that end I like Chantra Rose's "Bondage for Sex. You can find her in action online on porn sites in her domination of women videos "Chanta's Bitches"( not for the fainthearted).

Other books I would mention are:

Lee Harrington's "Shibari You Can Use"

Midori's "The Seductive Art Japanese Bondage"

Lord Morpheus' "Bondage Basics'

Pete Riggs *Rope Bondage The Smart Way"

Jay Wiseman "Basic Ripe Bondage"

If tying men is your thing I would recommend

,Stephen Niederwieser's "Tie Me Up!

For rope bottoms:

Evie Vanes "Better Bondage Every Body"

Clover's guide for rope bottoms and rope models

If you want a good holistic book in bondage and D/S and don't mind a long read, Mistress Couple's "Ultimate Guide to Bondage" would be worth a look.

If you want videos the makers of rope deGiotta, and also Twisted Monk used to separately have videos on Vimeo and YouTube. There is also The Duchy.

Crash Restraint has a good syllabus but a number of the links are dead.

I recommend The Rope Podcast.

In addition to the previous post: Esinem has online tutorials. as has Anatomie has videos, as has bondagetuition on YouTube.Ebi Mcknotty is worth looking up."

"

I would also add:

As a general rule it is best to learn from someone who is experienced. Understanding tension is important and the purpose of ties can be critical. I was recently at a peer rope where a couple tried to use a decorative hip harness for a suspension and gave the peer rope team a scare of their lives. They then had to explain the whys and wherefores. A few months ago I went on an erotic rope workshop at anatomie. It was led by someone who practices in Japan. He solved 4 of my rope issues in the first hour. He has book which is the Rope Kamasutra.

Back to info.

many recommend Shibari Study which is a paid resource.

Miumi-U Teaches Japanese is a recommended book.

Other books are "Shibari" by Phillippe Boxis;

There are Douglas Kent's books, but because they are out of print they are becoming stupidly expensive, and they are old school.

"Bondage' David La Greca It has a good philosophical side

If philosophy is your thing "Discovering Kinbaku' Zetsu Nawa is worth a look.

If history is your thing the podcast and associated material of the Kinbakunomicon by Faviola is excellent. As is the "The Beauty of Kinbaku" by Master K.

There is a documentary based in London starting at the Flying Dutchman (another site lost to us) filmed 2010 to 2014 by Bob Bentley (although now dated the scene has changes hugely) " The Pleasure of Rope' clips on YouTube.

For a different take on the history of shibari you can search for Midori's online commentary "

The History & Myths of Japanese Bondage"

Unfortunately due to the fact we now live in religious centric reactionary world (I don't normally mix rope and pokitics) that controls the financial system. Websites perceived to be promoting sex are not provided banking facilities or have them taking way. There used to be an excellent site with how to tie videos from famous Japanese riggers that had to close down last year because it had banking facilities withdrawn.

Please support providers and also teachers of kink, especially rope.

Rope done badly can cause serious harm."

In addition if you have money Shibari Study is worth a look.

Also Ebi Mcnotty rope 365 is worthwhile"

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines


"Loads of vids on youtube, check out Rory's brainworks,

Cheers I'll look him up didn't think I'd get stuff like that on YouTube "
just put Shibari ties in the search engine.

Look to see if there are any beginners rope workshops offered in your area.

There are some good books out there try two knotty boys.

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By *eavenNhellCouple
over a year ago

carrbrook stalybridge


"This is one I have posted before.

I would say all rope play is potentially dangerous, due to nerve placement or constricting ties.

Books

Most have a sections on safety and choice or rope.

Two of those books were written by the Knotty Boys,. One is "Showing You The Ropes". The books are not my thing but people like them and are worth checkling if you like pretty rope. Unfortunately YouTube has removed most of their videos.

Although I am into Japanese style rope, rope is about fun and can be about sexy times. To that end I like Chantra Rose's "Bondage for Sex. You can find her in action online on porn sites in her domination of women videos "Chanta's Bitches"( not for the fainthearted).

Other books I would mention are:

Lee Harrington's "Shibari You Can Use"

Midori's "The Seductive Art Japanese Bondage"

Lord Morpheus' "Bondage Basics'

Pete Riggs *Rope Bondage The Smart Way"

Jay Wiseman "Basic Ripe Bondage"

If tying men is your thing I would recommend

,Stephen Niederwieser's "Tie Me Up!

For rope bottoms:

Evie Vanes "Better Bondage Every Body"

Clover's guide for rope bottoms and rope models

If you want a good holistic book in bondage and D/S and don't mind a long read, Mistress Couple's "Ultimate Guide to Bondage" would be worth a look.

If you want videos the makers of rope deGiotta, and also Twisted Monk used to separately have videos on Vimeo and YouTube. There is also The Duchy.

Crash Restraint has a good syllabus but a number of the links are dead.

I recommend The Rope Podcast.

In addition to the previous post: Esinem has online tutorials. as has Anatomie has videos, as has bondagetuition on YouTube.Ebi Mcknotty is worth looking up."

"

I would also add:

As a general rule it is best to learn from someone who is experienced. Understanding tension is important and the purpose of ties can be critical. I was recently at a peer rope where a couple tried to use a decorative hip harness for a suspension and gave the peer rope team a scare of their lives. They then had to explain the whys and wherefores. A few months ago I went on an erotic rope workshop at anatomie. It was led by someone who practices in Japan. He solved 4 of my rope issues in the first hour. He has book which is the Rope Kamasutra.

Back to info.

many recommend Shibari Study which is a paid resource.

Miumi-U Teaches Japanese is a recommended book.

Other books are "Shibari" by Phillippe Boxis;

There are Douglas Kent's books, but because they are out of print they are becoming stupidly expensive, and they are old school.

"Bondage' David La Greca It has a good philosophical side

If philosophy is your thing "Discovering Kinbaku' Zetsu Nawa is worth a look.

If history is your thing the podcast and associated material of the Kinbakunomicon by Faviola is excellent. As is the "The Beauty of Kinbaku" by Master K.

There is a documentary based in London starting at the Flying Dutchman (another site lost to us) filmed 2010 to 2014 by Bob Bentley (although now dated the scene has changes hugely) " The Pleasure of Rope' clips on YouTube.

For a different take on the history of shibari you can search for Midori's online commentary "

The History & Myths of Japanese Bondage"

Unfortunately due to the fact we now live in religious centric reactionary world (I don't normally mix rope and pokitics) that controls the financial system. Websites perceived to be promoting sex are not provided banking facilities or have them taking way. There used to be an excellent site with how to tie videos from famous Japanese riggers that had to close down last year because it had banking facilities withdrawn.

Please support providers and also teachers of kink, especially rope.

Rope done badly can cause serious harm."

In addition if you have money Shibari Study is worth a look.

Also Ebi Mcnotty rope 365 is worthwhile"

"
all of the above spot on

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Hi all just wanted some advice on rope play only a beginner and won't be doing anything dangerous just start off simple does anyone have any advice or know were I can learn abit "
start with a reef knot and work up

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By *ustlooking900 OP   Man
over a year ago

Donegal


"This is one I have posted before.

I would say all rope play is potentially dangerous, due to nerve placement or constricting ties.

Books

Most have a sections on safety and choice or rope.

Two of those books were written by the Knotty Boys,. One is "Showing You The Ropes". The books are not my thing but people like them and are worth checkling if you like pretty rope. Unfortunately YouTube has removed most of their videos.

Although I am into Japanese style rope, rope is about fun and can be about sexy times. To that end I like Chantra Rose's "Bondage for Sex. You can find her in action online on porn sites in her domination of women videos "Chanta's Bitches"( not for the fainthearted).

Other books I would mention are:

Lee Harrington's "Shibari You Can Use"

Midori's "The Seductive Art Japanese Bondage"

Lord Morpheus' "Bondage Basics'

Pete Riggs *Rope Bondage The Smart Way"

Jay Wiseman "Basic Ripe Bondage"

If tying men is your thing I would recommend

,Stephen Niederwieser's "Tie Me Up!

For rope bottoms:

Evie Vanes "Better Bondage Every Body"

Clover's guide for rope bottoms and rope models

If you want a good holistic book in bondage and D/S and don't mind a long read, Mistress Couple's "Ultimate Guide to Bondage" would be worth a look.

If you want videos the makers of rope deGiotta, and also Twisted Monk used to separately have videos on Vimeo and YouTube. There is also The Duchy.

Crash Restraint has a good syllabus but a number of the links are dead.

I recommend The Rope Podcast.

In addition to the previous post: Esinem has online tutorials. as has Anatomie has videos, as has bondagetuition on YouTube.Ebi Mcknotty is worth looking up."

"

I would also add:

As a general rule it is best to learn from someone who is experienced. Understanding tension is important and the purpose of ties can be critical. I was recently at a peer rope where a couple tried to use a decorative hip harness for a suspension and gave the peer rope team a scare of their lives. They then had to explain the whys and wherefores. A few months ago I went on an erotic rope workshop at anatomie. It was led by someone who practices in Japan. He solved 4 of my rope issues in the first hour. He has book which is the Rope Kamasutra.

Back to info.

many recommend Shibari Study which is a paid resource.

Miumi-U Teaches Japanese is a recommended book.

Other books are "Shibari" by Phillippe Boxis;

There are Douglas Kent's books, but because they are out of print they are becoming stupidly expensive, and they are old school.

"Bondage' David La Greca It has a good philosophical side

If philosophy is your thing "Discovering Kinbaku' Zetsu Nawa is worth a look.

If history is your thing the podcast and associated material of the Kinbakunomicon by Faviola is excellent. As is the "The Beauty of Kinbaku" by Master K.

There is a documentary based in London starting at the Flying Dutchman (another site lost to us) filmed 2010 to 2014 by Bob Bentley (although now dated the scene has changes hugely) " The Pleasure of Rope' clips on YouTube.

For a different take on the history of shibari you can search for Midori's online commentary "

The History & Myths of Japanese Bondage"

Unfortunately due to the fact we now live in religious centric reactionary world (I don't normally mix rope and pokitics) that controls the financial system. Websites perceived to be promoting sex are not provided banking facilities or have them taking way. There used to be an excellent site with how to tie videos from famous Japanese riggers that had to close down last year because it had banking facilities withdrawn.

Please support providers and also teachers of kink, especially rope.

Rope done badly can cause serious harm."

In addition if you have money Shibari Study is worth a look.

Also Ebi Mcnotty rope 365 is worthwhile"

"

Thanks so much looked up the knotty boys on YouTube seems to be alot there thanks again

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