FabSwingers.com forum: second chance

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What would you do if you arranged a meet with someone and then the day before they denied any knowledge. Would you give them a second chance? X

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nope certainly would not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

unless over 9 inches, then maybe

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Hell no!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope....!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. One chance with me is all you get.

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By *allayWoman
over a year ago

West Cumbria

no way, far too many time wasters to add any more to our lists that we don't need x

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Er next.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"unless over 9 inches, then maybe"

Slut...

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

"What would you do if you arranged a meet with someone and then the day before they denied any knowledge. Would you give them a second chance? X "

kerb and kick......sub nor not....x

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"unless over 9 inches, then maybe

Slut...

cheers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What would you do if you arranged a meet with someone and then the day before they denied any knowledge. Would you give them a second chance? X "

Not a hope in hell.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"unless over 9 inches, then maybe

Slut...

cheers

Credit where it's due.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I couldn't be arsed with the stupidity and I wouldn't waste my time responding to them again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And it's a no from us!

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"unless over 9 inches, then maybe

Slut...

cheers

Credit where it's due.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks everyone I think I'll keep looking x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really would. You deserve better than that. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I would, because you must realise we all make mistakes......x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I really would. You deserve better than that. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What would you do if you arranged a meet with someone and then the day before they denied any knowledge. Would you give them a second chance? X "

It very much depends on the circumstances, what was said, how it was said, was there any potential for confusion, was cold feet involved or was it a mistake. I would be cautious of making a further arrangement but would be happy for them to travel to me for a social meet as a late cancellation wouldn't put me our much and would confirm any earlier confusion.

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Nope.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What would you do if you arranged a meet with someone and then the day before they denied any knowledge. Would you give them a second chance? X

might have been a hubby making plans for the wife...it actually happens....sometimes lol-then of course..he chickens out of telling her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, nada, neh, no way.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

It depends. If it's someone I know they may get the benefit of the doubt. If it's a new person probably not.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"What would you do if you arranged a meet with someone and then the day before they denied any knowledge. Would you give them a second chance? X "

No. Too many people to choose from to waste time with those who want to play silly beggers. I wouldn't even acknowledge them.

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By *juk72Man
over a year ago

Reading

If they deny arranging it No

If they throw their hands up and admit they screwed up on the date, then maybe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd give them a chance to explain the obvious misunderstanding that existed regards our meet that never was….!.

Then based on that answer, I’d make up my mind whether to risk making future arraignments with them….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve given somebody a second chance in a similar but not identical scenario to the OP and I’m glad I did. We had been in regular touch through this site for a few months and somehow when we got around to discussing plans for meeting up, he went quiet before anything was finalised. I just left it and he got in touch a few weeks later. I chose to give him the benefit of the doubt and we have now met and continue to do so and he’s a decent guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and get to the bottom of it all , xx I hate not knowing the truth.

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By *oulou45Woman
over a year ago

Bucks

Nope no second chance. Would be different if there was a genuine reason.

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By *toneblueMan
over a year ago

Southampton

It's danger signal that's for sure. If I get a danger signal I'm out.

Look at it this way, if there is a communication problem at this stage there may be others further down the line.

Trust your instincts.

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield

They denied any knowledge???? How many offers is that person getting? I don't think any single guy will forget that he is due to meet

Give a second chance? hummmmmmmmm...NO

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I first came here I was a big softee and fell for all the banter, I was very naieve. Now you either want to meet me or you don`t, my time has been wasted enough, if I say I`m going to be there I wil be, nervous or not, so one chance is all they get with me now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They denied any knowledge???? How many offers is that person getting? I don't think any single guy will forget that he is due to meet

Give a second chance? hummmmmmmmm...NO"

A guy forgot he was meeting me a few weeks ago

pity tho, he was hot, but he blew it, I`m sure I`m no big loss tho he gets plenty of meets lol

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Ok, we dont know the full story just that he denies all knowledge of arranging a meet.

Did he say he did want to meet in the future?

Im looking at it from a different perspecive as sometimes i have know knowledge of conversations ive had with people or that ive even spoken to them.

Did you get the impression it was a cop out. If he was still chatting to you, it seems a bit strange for an excuse. Saying he had forgotten i can see, but denying all knowlede?

I dont know what id do as i dont know what the interaction has been between you and this guy.

Now if we are talking about giving people second chances in real life, i wouldnt be where i am today without second chances.

Would be interesting to know what he said after denying all knowledge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What would you do if you arranged a meet with someone and then the day before they denied any knowledge. Would you give them a second chance? X "

Not a fookin chance! People get one bite at the cherry with us and if they fuck us about that's it, we'll have already moved on to find someone who actually wants to me us, and not as an also-ran when their first choice blew out.

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over a year ago

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