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By *urvycat OP Woman
over a year ago

west midlands

Anybody be alone this Christmas…….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want to be but my mother is expecting me to go and stay with them. Not looking forward to it as I hate this time of year and she's a very difficult woman to be around

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By *ipperbangMan
over a year ago

Sittingbourne

I will be alone luckily not at home but in The Bahamas for 19 days, I always go away for Christmas it’s better & cheaper than being home alone at Christmas xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I will be alone luckily not at home but in The Bahamas for 19 days, I always go away for Christmas it’s better & cheaper than being home alone at Christmas xxx"

Wish that was me! Have a wonderful holiday x

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By *ipperbangMan
over a year ago

Sittingbourne

"I will be alone luckily not at home but in The Bahamas for 19 days, I always go away for Christmas it’s better & cheaper than being home alone at Christmas xxx

Wish that was me! Have a wonderful holiday x"

I wish I had you for company, thanks I always have lovely Christmases lockdown 2020 was hell home alone in the cold xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once spent Christmas alone in a foreign country where Christmas wasn't really recognised. Just another day

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By *JB1954Man
over a year ago

Reading

I spent last Christmas alone. Although neighbours I saw couple of times and female friend messaged me every few hours . This year looks like the same.

Another friend said about going away. To me if on own means meals etc are when hotel say etc. If I am at home . Yes I can cook well . So can have food when I want and as in own home. Have my comforts etc.

Yes would enjoy being with others at Christmas. Few years ago when family alive. Cooked Christmas and Boxing day meals for eight people.

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By *ourmanMan
over a year ago

Belper

Yes home alone

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

Im single so I'm alone every Christmas. I hate Christmas I work in retail so its a horrible time of year for us.

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Must not sing the song

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

2nd year running I will be waking up and going to bed alone on Christmas day

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By *amierebelMan
over a year ago

nae danger.

Yeah willingly spending it alone this year just not got the reason to celebrate it atm

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

Yup! Every damn year

Keep waiting for Santa but he never comes and empties his sack on me

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By *rtyIanMan
over a year ago

Gateway to the Beacons

"Yup! Every damn year

Keep waiting for Santa but he never comes and empties his sack on me

In S Wales its a dirty old coalsack

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

"Yup! Every damn year

Keep waiting for Santa but he never comes and empties his sack on me

In S Wales its a dirty old coalsack "

Hey I’d be happy with that! I’d be able to keep warm in the cost of living crisis!

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By *rtyIanMan
over a year ago

Gateway to the Beacons

"Yup! Every damn year

Keep waiting for Santa but he never comes and empties his sack on me

In S Wales its a dirty old coalsack

Hey I’d be happy with that! I’d be able to keep warm in the cost of living crisis!"

I shall see what I can find young lady xx

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By *arren the doggerMan
over a year ago

willenhall

First time on my own. I'm dreading it. Hate Xmas x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will be alone. My shift pattern has worked out in a way that I’m not able to make it back home to be with family. Still love Christmas though, so I’d be celebrating alone and video calling family, unless Santa bring me a partner to wake up next to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This will be my 5th on my own, I don't mind... Much

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By *ack688Man
over a year ago

abruzzo Italy (and UK)

Yes, it will be the fourth in a row on my own, it’s ok, you get used to it

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

I'll have my kids half of Xmas day but I will be on my own boxing day.. I'm not fuss about it. Done it for like 6 years already. What's another year to add to that lol

I can get things done then

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By *arialoueWoman
over a year ago

bradford

I will be that's why I'm not doing anything to do with Xmas this year 1st time in 20yrs

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

"I will be that's why I'm not doing anything to do with Xmas this year 1st time in 20yrs "

Sorry to hear that

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By *arialoueWoman
over a year ago

bradford

I'm putting the money I won't spend on Xmas towards a holiday for next Xmas,I do the same for my birthday every yr sitting at home alone just makes my mental health worse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unless Santa brings me a nice man for Christmas I’ll be spending it alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anybody be alone this Christmas……."

Hopefully me.

I try my best each year, but someone always tries to insist that I shouldn't be alone at Christmas

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By *ubcdverykinkyMan
over a year ago

Bourne lincs

Yes I have no family alive. And my partner of 18yrs left me nearly 3 yrs ago. So be another lonely Christmas

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

I'm looking forward to a few days alone over Christmas

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By *rettyflamingoWoman
over a year ago

Where the flamboyance of flamingos live

I was on my own last Christmas Day and absolutely hated it. Got the family coming over this year.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"First time on my own. I'm dreading it. Hate Xmas x"

Yep. I hear ya! I will be waking on my own also.

Don’t quite know how that’s going to feel.

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By *auntymanMan
over a year ago

Stourbridge

Will be alone again this Xmas.

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By *oulou22Woman
over a year ago

Sutton

Yes, love it. A few days off to relax, eat, sleep and watch loads of movies.

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By *lderflower_AppleWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

I'll be on my own again this year. Not an unusual occurrence for me. Was thinking of going away to do Christmas markets somewhere in Europe but flights are really pricey this year and I just can't justify the cost.

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

I'm on my own but will find somewhere open and go there for Christmas Dinner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Home alone here too again, another singleton wishing Santa would deliver me a partner ..

Perhaps a fab match up here would help a lot of us?!

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By *rettyflamingoWoman
over a year ago

Where the flamboyance of flamingos live

"Home alone here too again, another singleton wishing Santa would deliver me a partner ..

Perhaps a fab match up here would help a lot of us?!

Shame I’m not closer

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

"Unless Santa brings me a nice man for Christmas I’ll be spending it alone "
come round mine we'll watch gone with the wind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It will be my son and I and not to forget my dogs, so quiet but not alone

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By *dward_TeagueMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

Yes for the first time I will be spending Christmas alone. I’m looking forward to it in a weird kind of way, but I will get out of the house for a long walk then cook myself a Christmas lunch for one before doing what the rest of the nation does, slump in front of the TV.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've spent one Christmas alone my decision and vowed never to again,I'm very lucky to have a very close family who all get on ish so il be spending Christmas with my two youngests, grandkids and my Mam

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I want to be but my mother is expecting me to go and stay with them. Not looking forward to it as I hate this time of year and she's a very difficult woman to be around

x"
very much the same here. It's not my favourite time of year.

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By *ustamanMan
over a year ago

weymouth

Yes and have been mostly for the last 9yrs, generally I try to ignore Christmas and use the enforced holiday to get on with the house and my continued fight against damp

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Only for a precious 24 hours. I've all my treat food hidden ready for it

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By *rtyIanMan
over a year ago

Gateway to the Beacons

I'll have my daughter until lunchtime

She stays over I'm as ever,

Then I'll be alone as I have been for 5 yrs now

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

I'm alone every Christmas. I fucking love it.

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By *ayden_82Man
over a year ago

corby

Will be alone this year :/

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Seventh alone. My kids will come for a bit. You get use to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally o dislike Christmas and would treat it as just another day.

I wonder though if the net result for everybody is more happy or sad.

Lots of unrealistic expectations are dashed and lots of people feel lonely or that they’re missing out on something amazing somewhere.

Others get more material things and get to have a fight with family members though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm alone every Christmas. I fucking love it. "

High five, my fellow ND buddy

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

"Personally o dislike Christmas and would treat it as just another day.

I wonder though if the net result for everybody is more happy or sad.

Lots of unrealistic expectations are dashed and lots of people feel lonely or that they’re missing out on something amazing somewhere.

Others get more material things and get to have a fight with family members though. "

Oh yes.. I remember the family quarrel lol I still got family members not talking to each other because of a game of monopoly lol in hindsight, I think something deeper must of happened but still, couldn't quite process what was going on at the time. Families are complicated sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't want to be but that isn't my choice ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeaaap just me and my dog this year

It’s ironic because I’ve always taken in anyone who was on their own and invited them to dinner! Hopefully I’ll find somewhere that will be open and go out.

It’s pretty shit, but at least I know I’m not the only one now x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bits of it probably

not a bad thing...

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By *imply DeeWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

Yes.

I wasn’t overly concerned until now, but maybe it’s just my bloody hormones.

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

all i can say try not to be alone at christmas,,, but i know thats not always possible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will be when my lads go to their dads in the afternoon but then family gathering on Boxing Day

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

Anyone who is alone and doesn't want to be, perhaps register now at a local nursing or residential home to become a volunteer helper over Christmas.

Or even in the community many old folks alone would love some company even if it's a quick cuppa and a mince pie.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I spent 10 days all over Christmas in hospital last year couldn't even have visitors

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By *tephanjMan
over a year ago

Kettering

I will be at work alone on Xmas and boxing day. Oh the joys of security

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If anyone feels lonely and needs to reach out, my DM’s are always open xc

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By *aptain VMan
over a year ago

Birstall, Leicester

"Anybody be alone this Christmas……."

Me unfortunately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First time alone and I'm fucking dreading it

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

Probably. Alone,in bed and asleep hopefully. Working nights throughout Christmas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I want to be but my mother is expecting me to go and stay with them. Not looking forward to it as I hate this time of year and she's a very difficult woman to be around

x very much the same here. It's not my favourite time of year. "

Not my favourite either. I had a better time by myself at home when we were in lockdown Xmas 2020! Pretty much says it all

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By *lan100100Man
over a year ago

Preston

"Yeaaap just me and my dog this year

It’s ironic because I’ve always taken in anyone who was on their own and invited them to dinner! Hopefully I’ll find somewhere that will be open and go out.

It’s pretty shit, but at least I know I’m not the only one now x"

I'm alone again this year so you'd be welcome

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By *tealth camper guyMan
over a year ago

plymouth / penzance

Yes will be home alone again this Christmas

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By *iss E99TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Taunton Somerset

I normally dread Christmas, I’ve never really enjoyed it but this year I’m looking after my moms dog Benji, mini yorkie terroir.

I’ll be taking him to the beach, he loves that.

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By *lackroses85Woman
over a year ago

Between Norwich & Yarmouth

I wish I was, my family will expect me to see them. Im tempted to get some food in and say I'm not well xx

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

There are places if you felt like it you could go and be around others. I'm likely to be helping at the local village hall where they are are feeding everybody who would like to attend.

I'm hoping there will be a really lovely atmosphere for everybody there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, will be alone, the third since my partner died. Though it is my choice now rather than circumstances.

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By *eliusMan
over a year ago

Henlow

"Im single so I'm alone every Christmas. I hate Christmas I work in retail so its a horrible time of year for us. "

Retail is nuts at Xmas! People don’t realise how shit it can be for staff.

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By *ena AmourTV/TS
over a year ago

Chard

First xmas without my boy, not looking forward to it to be honest. I may visit family but that means holiday driving which isn't my favourite past-time.

I have plenty to do in a vanilla sense so will keep myself busy and will certainly be watching Die Hard at some point.

Anyone who feels lonely and wants to message or talk would be welcome to do so.

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

I shall definitely be alone in the morning. My eldest daughter may come over in the afternoon. I love Christmas Day alone. I also love spending it with those I love, but alone definitely beats spending it with relatives who suck the energy from you!

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By *lubchuckerMan
over a year ago

Oxfordshire

Yeah that'll be me then, just me myself and i

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Depends what you mean by alone.

I'll be surrounded by people coz I'm working all day but I'll be lonely as fuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Alone every year, never speak to anyone. This is England

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By *urvycat OP Woman
over a year ago

west midlands

I would love some wonderful company

Over Crimbo

That’s me over ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Home alone with a pizza.

After telling the delivery guy to

"Leave it on the doorstep and get the hell out of here".

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By *ruckingscouser69Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

Yeah, I'll probably be working if I can

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By *lan4FFUUNNMan
over a year ago

Genoa Italy and Liverpool

"I want to be but my mother is expecting me to go and stay with them. Not looking forward to it as I hate this time of year and she's a very difficult woman to be around

Come and visit me for Christmas x

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By *JB1954Man
over a year ago

Reading

"I spent last Christmas alone. Although neighbours I saw couple of times and female friend messaged me every few hours . This year looks like the same.

Yes would enjoy being with others at Christmas. Few years ago when family alive. Cooked Christmas and Boxing day meals for eight people. "

I must admit after seeing this post from others. Had not thought really about this Christmas .

So now have started Christmas list for food etc and presents to buy. This limited to one nephew and female friend , her children.

Yes would like to be like years ago with relations staying at house and cooking for them all on Christmas and Boxing days. Yes tiring to do , but seeing family and friends who came enjoy outweighs the work involved. I do admit once Boxing day meal over . Then my time to relax drink, relax

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

I’ll be alone Christmas Eve and Christmas Day.

So my plan is to take the puppy to the dog park, and the beach then home for a grilled steak, chips,salad and a bottle of wine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Found a local restaurant that delivers Xmas dinner on eve ready for the big day, so that's me sorted. Plenty of wine and a wank!

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

I fem, spent around 6 Christmas' alone. Kids went to their dads, so I was home alone.

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