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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What's with people saying things like oh daddy and yes please daddy when you talk about sex,

They got everything I like then come out with, spank me daddy? What's wrong with just saying spank me.

The daddy bit is such a turn off, makes me think they got abused or something.

Do any of you have pet hates like this?

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"What's with people saying things like oh daddy and yes please daddy when you talk about sex,

They got everything I like then come out with, spank me daddy? What's wrong with just saying spank me.

The daddy bit is such a turn off, makes me think they got abused or something.

Do any of you have pet hates like this?"
You can always say its a turn off?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's with people saying things like oh daddy and yes please daddy when you talk about sex,

They got everything I like then come out with, spank me daddy? What's wrong with just saying spank me.

The daddy bit is such a turn off, makes me think they got abused or something.

Do any of you have pet hates like this?You can always say its a turn off?"

I think the.rapid shrinkage would be more than enough of a hint

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to have sex with someone that would call me a filthy little boy lol :D I was 34 at the time. I could feel myself smurking everytime I said it as I was giggling inside but didn't want to say anything so just let her crack on :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe it's just not your thing OP... it doesn't suit everyone, neither does it have to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I dont get that either. I've always refused to dress up as a schoogirl too. Just seems wrong to me.

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By *vana sukalotWoman
over a year ago

In a land of make believe (Derby)

It makes me feel sick when I hear or read it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We each have our own things that turn us on.

Remember some people are into things others are not. My major kink is something that a lot of people would find shocking, but it works for me.

If you don't like it you don't do it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah I dont get that either. I've always refused to dress up as a schoogirl too. Just seems wrong to me."

So have I, the knee length socks don't go with hairy legs!!

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By *ackandkateCouple
over a year ago

Truro

I don't like it when they swear at me

"Gerroff me yer fat cunt" dampens the ardour a bit doesn't it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's with people saying things like oh daddy and yes please daddy when you talk about sex,

They got everything I like then come out with, spank me daddy? What's wrong with just saying spank me.

The daddy bit is such a turn off, makes me think they got abused or something.

Do any of you have pet hates like this?"

Is this by PM, MSN or something? Or in person....?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't like it when they swear at me

"Gerroff me yer fat cunt" dampens the ardour a bit doesn't it?

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

"I don't like it when they swear at me

"Gerroff me yer fat cunt" dampens the ardour a bit doesn't it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's with people saying things like oh daddy and yes please daddy when you talk about sex,

They got everything I like then come out with, spank me daddy? What's wrong with just saying spank me.

The daddy bit is such a turn off, makes me think they got abused or something.

Do any of you have pet hates like this?"

It's normally to do with the partner being a daddy dominant. Nothing to do with actual daddy or incest or abuse

Google daddy dominant. It does explain a lot.

It is something that I think isn't often used outside of relationships. I know I could never use it again now though

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Yeah I dont get that either. I've always refused to dress up as a schoogirl too. Just seems wrong to me."

Same here i just dont get it, id look a right twat dressed as a school girl anyway.

The phrase "baby girl" has every bit of me cringing, thankfully it seems to be of an american term

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont like men calling me slut, only met one man who did though.

i quite like to call men daddy, i dont though, i sometimes call my hubby daddy bear.

its not that weird realy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What's with people saying things like oh daddy and yes please daddy when you talk about sex,

They got everything I like then come out with, spank me daddy? What's wrong with just saying spank me.

The daddy bit is such a turn off, makes me think they got abused or something.

Do any of you have pet hates like this?

Is this by PM, MSN or something? Or in person....?

Both, pm and meeting, even after asking not to be called daddy.

Call me anything you want but never daddy. Especially when me cock in your a*** LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah I dont get that either. I've always refused to dress up as a schoogirl too. Just seems wrong to me.

Same here i just dont get it, id look a right twat dressed as a school girl anyway.

The phrase "baby girl" has every bit of me cringing, thankfully it seems to be of an american term"

Baby girl is a very common term in some circles. In fact there is a baby girl and littles meet held locally to me bi monthly. Just for those that want to be around others that understand.

How ever it's worth mentioning that the term daddy has been used as an endearment between couples for centuries. Daddy bear is common too.

Why do people always have to see something sick in something that is normally just a form of endearment

Cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get this a lot from younger lads.

The other common one is 'Sir'

It is a total turn off in the cold light of day, by PM, in chat and in the early stages of sex, but said at the right time and in the right setting and scenario, it can be a great turn on.

As I wouldn't say it's my thing, many people throw it in all too early in the proceedings (for me) and rightly or wrongly, it does make me think twice about whether they are right for me or not.

One thing that does make me think like that is that in the main, the folks I have had speaking to me like that online are those who have never materialised in the physical.

That could be, of course, that they have picked up on me not playing along and have decided that I am not for them.

On the flip side, they could be sexual fantasists with no real intention of doing anything other than talk about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah I dont get that either. I've always refused to dress up as a schoogirl too. Just seems wrong to me.

Same here i just dont get it, id look a right twat dressed as a school girl anyway.

The phrase "baby girl" has every bit of me cringing, thankfully it seems to be of an american term"

I get called baby by my dom and I love it. No one else gets away with it but him. It's a term of endearment that is, I believe, also common in d/s. He also says good girl when I've done something pleasing, again I love it. It's horses for courses I think though and as I said earlier its different things for different people.

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

Its not a term that I feel comfortable with,I have one Daddy and I stopped using that term when I hit puberty and he then became Dad

I can't equate that with anything sexual at all

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

Each to their own....but not a term I am personally comfortable with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Daddy or baby are just way too creepy

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By *atinaBabeCouple
over a year ago

casa caliente

daddy very sexy big mature hot man mmmmmmmm baby girl want daddy to spank my ass lol just fun x

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By *toneblueMan
over a year ago

Southampton

"daddy very sexy big mature hot man mmmmmmmm baby girl want daddy to spank my ass lol just fun x"

Exactly. It's just fun, just fantasy. Why read too much into it? If you [OP] have a partner whose fantasies turn you off then maybe you aren't the right partner for them? Keep looking or accept it's just a bit of fun and go along with it.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean

Yes it's fantasy. Yes it's fun.

It's the fantasy of having sex with your daughter or your father having sex with you while you are a girl.

It's fun for those that are aroused by underage incest and role play it as a substitute.

I can't stand the Each to their own brigade.....

Rattle Rattle Jewelry Jewelry baby girls.....

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean

"daddy very sexy big mature hot man mmmmmmmm baby girl want daddy to spank my ass lol just fun x"

Scuse my cynical ole self but your avatar is on a porn site where there is a pic of a boy rubbing face between the tits of a mature woman......

Just thought I'd mention it.

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By *amschwingerzCouple
over a year ago

West

"What's with people saying things like oh daddy and yes please daddy when you talk about sex,

They got everything I like then come out with, spank me daddy? What's wrong with just saying spank me.

The daddy bit is such a turn off, makes me think they got abused or something.

Do any of you have pet hates like this?"

I would be more concerned about someone who enjoys being called 'daddy' during sex...to creepy for our liking, as is the school girl uniform bit..I dont like that one bit and it doesnt do anything for me..it might be harmless fun (to many) but the connotation of enjoying a woman looking like an underage girl???..no thanks..

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By *toneblueMan
over a year ago

Southampton

"Yes it's fantasy. Yes it's fun.

It's the fantasy of having sex with your daughter or your father having sex with you while you are a girl.

It's fun for those that are aroused by underage incest and role play it as a substitute.

I can't stand the Each to their own brigade.....

Rattle Rattle Jewelry Jewelry baby girls..... "

I can't stand the You're wrong and I'm right brigade...but hey, each to their own!

It may be an incest fantasy for some but for others it may be just a common term of endearment. I try not to judge others if I can.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean

"Yes it's fantasy. Yes it's fun.

It's the fantasy of having sex with your daughter or your father having sex with you while you are a girl.

It's fun for those that are aroused by underage incest and role play it as a substitute.

I can't stand the Each to their own brigade.....

Rattle Rattle Jewelry Jewelry baby girls.....

I can't stand the You're wrong and I'm right brigade...but hey, each to their own!

It may be an incest fantasy for some but for others it may be just a common term of endearment. I try not to judge others if I can.

I can't stand the You're right I'm wrong brigade either.

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By *toneblueMan
over a year ago

Southampton

"Yes it's fantasy. Yes it's fun.

It's the fantasy of having sex with your daughter or your father having sex with you while you are a girl.

It's fun for those that are aroused by underage incest and role play it as a substitute.

I can't stand the Each to their own brigade.....

Rattle Rattle Jewelry Jewelry baby girls.....

I can't stand the You're wrong and I'm right brigade...but hey, each to their own!

It may be an incest fantasy for some but for others it may be just a common term of endearment. I try not to judge others if I can.

I can't stand the You're right I'm wrong brigade either. "

How do you feel about the Boy's Brigade? Me, I've no time for them at all...

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean

"Yes it's fantasy. Yes it's fun.

It's the fantasy of having sex with your daughter or your father having sex with you while you are a girl.

It's fun for those that are aroused by underage incest and role play it as a substitute.

I can't stand the Each to their own brigade.....

Rattle Rattle Jewelry Jewelry baby girls.....

I can't stand the You're wrong and I'm right brigade...but hey, each to their own!

It may be an incest fantasy for some but for others it may be just a common term of endearment. I try not to judge others if I can.

I can't stand the You're right I'm wrong brigade either.

How do you feel about the Boy's Brigade? Me, I've no time for them at all..."

Moderately worse than the Girl's Brigade

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes it's fantasy. Yes it's fun.

It's the fantasy of having sex with your daughter or your father having sex with you while you are a girl.

It's fun for those that are aroused by underage incest and role play it as a substitute.

I can't stand the Each to their own brigade.....

Rattle Rattle Jewelry Jewelry baby girls..... "

See the thing is for all the baby girls I know it's nothing and I no mean nothing to do with incest or role play

Being little can be something you just are. it'snot about being a daughter. Note I said most. There are some that do enjoy it. But that's not for the majority of littles I know.

I loved looking up and calling the man I loved daddy. Or feeling safe in his arms

Oh and the littles I do know that do see themselves as much younger. It's not sexual.

I often wonder why people can only see such sick things in enjoyment that to those that enjoy it think very differently and actually get distressed when people suggest the darker side.

Cali

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean

There's no need to call a man daddy for him to be protective.

Daddy is the word for a blood relative of an underage girl or boy.

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By *toneblueMan
over a year ago

Southampton

"Yes it's fantasy. Yes it's fun.

It's the fantasy of having sex with your daughter or your father having sex with you while you are a girl.

It's fun for those that are aroused by underage incest and role play it as a substitute.

I can't stand the Each to their own brigade.....

Rattle Rattle Jewelry Jewelry baby girls.....

See the thing is for all the baby girls I know it's nothing and I no mean nothing to do with incest or role play

Being little can be something you just are. it'snot about being a daughter. Note I said most. There are some that do enjoy it. But that's not for the majority of littles I know.

I loved looking up and calling the man I loved daddy. Or feeling safe in his arms

Oh and the littles I do know that do see themselves as much younger. It's not sexual.

I often wonder why people can only see such sick things in enjoyment that to those that enjoy it think very differently and actually get distressed when people suggest the darker side.

Cali"

I'm curious about this 'little' thing, as I suspect I used to go out with one but I haven't heard of it before. For me it did ruin our relationship as I couldn't get my head around the 'little girl' thing and couldn't maintain sexual interest in someone who I felt was child-like. I thought she needed a father figure and I didn't want to be one. Maybe I misunderstood.

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

Everything Cali and Ruby have said before me has been spot on. Its a D/s thing and a bit of knowledge on Daddy Doms before of jumping to incest conclusion, goes a long way.

No way would I think of incest or my own father, *shudders*

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean

P.S Cali ....

The very fact that the word DADDY is used shows that is IS about being a daughter. If she wasn't a daughter he couldn't be Daddy .....

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean

"Yes it's fantasy. Yes it's fun.

It's the fantasy of having sex with your daughter or your father having sex with you while you are a girl.

It's fun for those that are aroused by underage incest and role play it as a substitute.

I can't stand the Each to their own brigade.....

Rattle Rattle Jewelry Jewelry baby girls.....

See the thing is for all the baby girls I know it's nothing and I no mean nothing to do with incest or role play

Being little can be something you just are. it'snot about being a daughter. Note I said most. There are some that do enjoy it. But that's not for the majority of littles I know.

I loved looking up and calling the man I loved daddy. Or feeling safe in his arms

Oh and the littles I do know that do see themselves as much younger. It's not sexual.

I often wonder why people can only see such sick things in enjoyment that to those that enjoy it think very differently and actually get distressed when people suggest the darker side.

Cali

Seems you understood but wanted a woman rather than a little girl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"P.S Cali ....

The very fact that the word DADDY is used shows that is IS about being a daughter. If she wasn't a daughter he couldn't be Daddy ..... "

Then you have little understanding as your very very wrong on that. It is a word with more than one use. But then I understand that because I've been there. And while I used the endearment of daddy. It was never about a father or daughter.

Google daddy dominant. It explains it very well. Even my own father managed to understand the distinct difference.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean

"P.S Cali ....

The very fact that the word DADDY is used shows that is IS about being a daughter. If she wasn't a daughter he couldn't be Daddy .....

Google daddy dominant. It explains it very well. Even my own father managed to understand the distinct difference. "

I know what Daddy Dominant means..

I don't need to make the term anything other than it is .....

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean

Just saying you've called someone DADDY doesn't mean you have a better understanding of meaning.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"daddy very sexy big mature hot man mmmmmmmm baby girl want daddy to spank my ass lol just fun x

Scuse my cynical ole self but your avatar is on a porn site where there is a pic of a boy rubbing face between the tits of a mature woman......

Just thought I'd mention it. "

What's that got to do with anything, I'm pretty sure he is above the age of consent and I think that was a bit of a low shot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To op Yeh I do feel its wrong too in a very weird way. A young fem on here (aged 27) wanted to call me mummy! I was chatting to her for a few days with an interest in meeting but all if a sudden age started with the 'mummy' comments and I asked her to stop but she carried on. I just blocked her. Too weird for me that shite... Hate the schoolgirl look too its just too weird. Each to their own but for me... Makes me cringe and shudder.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its a bit like the adult baby thing.

i was friendly with a man on another site, we both liked teddy bears and cats.

its because they think it was more fun being a kid, so they like to pretend they are one sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just saying you've called someone DADDY doesn't mean you have a better understanding of meaning.

I have a very in depth understanding of it. And you obviously don't understand it if you can lower it to the sad and sick levels of incest. As a little that was happily so for many years I know it was nothing sick or perverted

Yes some role play being younger. Those I know that do have no sexual connotations what so ever. However being seen as a child was not part of my little side.

But then it wouldn't have been right for me to be so as my relationship was sexual.

I called my partner master or daddy depending. Although pretty much after first year master was for out and about. Even my collar says to daddy's little girl. Plenty of people read it. Asked and understood.

I to be fair will bow out of this topic as I've already given my side and places for others to look for more info. And although it's something that is now lost to me. It's the biggest loss to me.

Cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't believe that everyone who uses or enjoys the word 'Daddy' during sex play is a latent paedophile. I've always likened it to an obey thing rather than wanting sex with your child/your daddy etc. We all obeyed our parents when we were younger, so I imagine its used in that kind of mindset.

I don't know though because I'm not into that type of roleplay or scene. I wouldn't use those kind of words myself. I couldn't use terms like Master or Sir either. But that's just my personality and I don't find a sexual kick out of domination etc

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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"Yes it's fantasy. Yes it's fun.

It's the fantasy of having sex with your daughter or your father having sex with you while you are a girl.

It's fun for those that are aroused by underage incest and role play it as a substitute.

I can't stand the Each to their own brigade.....

Rattle Rattle Jewelry Jewelry baby girls.....

See the thing is for all the baby girls I know it's nothing and I no mean nothing to do with incest or role play

Being little can be something you just are. it'snot about being a daughter. Note I said most. There are some that do enjoy it. But that's not for the majority of littles I know.

I loved looking up and calling the man I loved daddy. Or feeling safe in his arms

Oh and the littles I do know that do see themselves as much younger. It's not sexual.

I often wonder why people can only see such sick things in enjoyment that to those that enjoy it think very differently and actually get distressed when people suggest the darker side.

Cali"

So if it isn't sexual why do it in a sexual enviroment?

Plus if it is a term of endearment why use daddy and baby?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's with people saying things like oh daddy and yes please daddy when you talk about sex,

They got everything I like then come out with, spank me daddy? What's wrong with just saying spank me.

The daddy bit is such a turn off, makes me think they got abused or something.

Do any of you have pet hates like this?"

Absolutely not, and I agree with Cali, it is not in any way shape or form in a used in a child like manner.

It is a Master - Sub role, but in a more caring way.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean

"daddy very sexy big mature hot man mmmmmmmm baby girl want daddy to spank my ass lol just fun x

Scuse my cynical ole self but your avatar is on a porn site where there is a pic of a boy rubbing face between the tits of a mature woman......

Just thought I'd mention it.

What's that got to do with anything, I'm pretty sure he is above the age of consent and I think that was a bit of a low shot "

I haven't a clue what you are on about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To op Yeh I do feel its wrong too in a very weird way. A young fem on here (aged 27) wanted to call me mummy! I was chatting to her for a few days with an interest in meeting but all if a sudden age started with the 'mummy' comments and I asked her to stop but she carried on. I just blocked her. Too weird for me that shite... Hate the schoolgirl look too its just too weird. Each to their own but for me... Makes me cringe and shudder. "

The schoolgirl dressing up thing is pretty mainstream and I don't believe that all that slip on a St Trinians outfit are into incest. I think that's a very naïve _iew considering that the schoolgirl dressing up kink is sold mainstream in every fancy dress shop. That to me doesn't have any significant sinister meaning.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This also

Without even any "Daddy" role men were chomping at the bit at Britney and Oh Baby!

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By *arambarMan
over a year ago

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"The schoolgirl dressing up thing is pretty mainstream and I don't believe that all that slip on a St Trinians outfit are into incest. I think that's a very naïve _iew considering that the schoolgirl dressing up kink is sold mainstream in every fancy dress shop. That to me doesn't have any significant sinister meaning. "

Indeed... Similarly I know plenty of people who have indulged in a "play rape" fantasy but that doesn't mean they're rapists.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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What do Daddy-Doms Do? Daddies are in charge of their little. While they do not pretend to be their little’s father, they will take on a parental role as the Dominant. They are there to protect, guide, nurture and love their little. While in some D/s relationships, the Dominate may order their submissive frivolously for their own pleasure, a Daddy will order or set rules for their little based on nurturing goals and what is best for their little.

Why do Daddies like little's? This can be asked the same for any relationship. Daddies like little's based on their own personal likes and dislikes and what they find attractive. A Daddy should enjoy the regression that their little naturally does and appreciate the child-like attributes of their little, but they will also find their adult side attractive.

I read up on it, this is what I found.

To the OP.......I have never liked the words daddy and baby when it involves adults.

Since reading the above, I like it even less.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"daddy very sexy big mature hot man mmmmmmmm baby girl want daddy to spank my ass lol just fun x

Scuse my cynical ole self but your avatar is on a porn site where there is a pic of a boy rubbing face between the tits of a mature woman......

Just thought I'd mention it.

What's that got to do with anything, I'm pretty sure he is above the age of consent and I think that was a bit of a low shot

I haven't a clue what you are on about.

Apologies, I dont jump to peoples defence when its clearly not needed. I read his comment that he was suggesting you had a young guy between your boobs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Indeed... Similarly I know plenty of people who have indulged in a "play rape" fantasy but that doesn't mean they're rapists."

That personally I have to say I find more disturbing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As I said in a previous post, I have been called 'daddy' numerous times by younger guys and whilst I don't care for it, I have never thought of ot as being anything sinister.

I tend to think that the term daddy, to them, infers dominance or mastery on the part of the daddy and submissiveness and eagerness to please on their part.

Just the same when they called me 'sir' and wanted to be referred to as 'boy'

I think that for some people, the terms may take on a more sinister meaning or even a meaning in its more literal sense but for the majority of people who play at this (as opposed to it being a lifestyle choice), it is little more than them expressing their wish to be servile.

I think the term itself is overused by some people who don't understand the idea and misunderstood by an equal (if not greater) number who do not want to understand (or fail to comprehend), for them, the use of the terms themselves ring sinister alarm bells.

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over a year ago

"Who's ya daddy" is used as an insult to demonstrate authority, hence the "daddy" part. In a Dom/sub setting it is most likely performed by the Dom on the sub after an ownership ceremony.

It's not my idea of how a sub should address her Master/Sir/Dom but it's a case of different strokes for different folks.

It has NOTHING at all to do with incest.

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over a year ago

"What do Daddy-Doms Do? Daddies are in charge of their little. While they do not pretend to be their little’s father, they will take on a parental role as the Dominant. They are there to protect, guide, nurture and love their little. While in some D/s relationships, the Dominate may order their submissive frivolously for their own pleasure, a Daddy will order or set rules for their little based on nurturing goals and what is best for their little.

I read up on it, this is what I found.

To the OP.......I have never liked the words daddy and baby when it involves adults.

Since reading the above, I like it even less."

Interestingly I was going to post a link Cali will have, can't find it, but found this, so different meanings as always in this world.

A Daddy in gay culture is a slang term meaning an older man sexually involved in a relationship or having a sexual interest in a younger man. The age gap may differ, but the relationship involves the traditional parental hierarchy of father-son dynamics, the daddy providing emotional support and guidance along with sexual encouragement and nurturing to the inexperienced and vulnerable partner.

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over a year ago

""Who's ya daddy" is used as an insult to demonstrate authority, hence the "daddy" part. In a Dom/sub setting it is most likely performed by the Dom on the sub after an ownership ceremony.

It's not my idea of how a sub should address her Master/Sir/Dom but it's a case of different strokes for different folks.

It has NOTHING at all to do with incest."

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over a year ago

The baby word doesn't seem odd to me and its one of the words that I will use to my OH on texts and vice versa.

Both of us will text, Hi Baby, or Babe or honey or sweetie or darling. We never use our actual names in texts. It doesn't mean anything sinister other than terms of endearment. The worst it could be described as is cheesy lovey dovey stuff but it doesn't have any other dark meaning

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan
over a year ago

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The schoolgirl fantasy for a guy is a throwback to your adolescence and puberty. You become sexually aware for the first time in your life in your teens, when you're at school, surrounded by, 'schoolgirls'.

So, it makes sense that naturally, an attraction on a subconscious level will always exist, to some degree.

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over a year ago

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A Daddy in gay culture is a slang term

I have to be honest, I thought it was used in the gay culture too.

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over a year ago

"The baby word doesn't seem odd to me and its one of the words that I will use to my OH on texts and vice versa.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean

I'd like - just once - for someone to come up with an argument or evidence that holds water......

St. Trinians isn't a premise of any significance in the refutation of or justification of a Daddy/Girl role.

Nor are rape fantasies.

It's not the exsistance I object to. It's the denial.

Most Daddy/Girl sites are no more than blogs written by individuals... they are NOT historical nor academia, they are in no way a truth.. just a belief by those that want to believe.

It's always those that want to believe that shout the loudest and have a tendency to insult the opinions of non believers......

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over a year ago

A Daddy in gay culture is a slang term

I have to be honest, I thought it was used in the gay culture too."

I had no idea until tonight of that use.

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over a year ago

King's Crustacean

Just cos I don't do anal doesn't mean I don't know there's shit up there.

I think it's time I went for my P.G Tips

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over a year ago

"Just cos I don't do anal doesn't mean I don't know there's shit up there.

I think it's time I went for my P.G Tips"

I take it you don't irrigate then? Enjoy the tea.

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over a year ago

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"Just cos I don't do anal doesn't mean I don't know there's shit up there.

I think it's time I went for my P.G Tips"

Don't bother coming round to mine. My box has gone out of date!

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over a year ago

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"Just cos I don't do anal doesn't mean I don't know there's shit up there.

I think it's time I went for my P.G Tips

Don't bother coming round to mine. My box has gone out of date!

I got about ten boxes when they were on offer..... I'm T'd out till 2014

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over a year ago

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Was that a euphemism you kinky bugger ?

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over a year ago

A Daddy in gay culture is a slang term

I have to be honest, I thought it was used in the gay culture too.

I had no idea until tonight of that use."

If you think swinging is high on labels, just take a month out to look at the gay scene !

In the group that I fall into namely the 'bear scene' a guy can be described as bear, cub, otter, wolf, polar bear, pocket bear, pocket cub, chub, chub cub, muscle bear, muscle cub and countless more

and thats before we get on to tops, bottoms, power bottoms .......

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

"i dont like men calling me slut, only met one man who did though.

i quite like to call men daddy, i dont though, i sometimes call my hubby daddy bear.

its not that weird realy.

Now there are times when I adore being called a slut, specially if it is accompanied by dirty....but it has to be at JUST the right time...

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A Daddy in gay culture is a slang term

I have to be honest, I thought it was used in the gay culture too.

I had no idea until tonight of that use.

If you think swinging is high on labels, just take a month out to look at the gay scene !

In the group that I fall into namely the 'bear scene' a guy can be described as bear, cub, otter, wolf, polar bear, pocket bear, pocket cub, chub, chub cub, muscle bear, muscle cub and countless more

and thats before we get on to tops, bottoms, power bottoms .......

Oh before the swinging idea and I thought I was a wise women I didn't even know what a fluffier was

Or cim lol

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By *awkeye and HotlipsCouple
over a year ago

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The whole: oh you're so big ( I wish ), fake porn moans....thankfully not ever heard it during a meet, but in a club, with the whole orgy business ( not us involved, we add, we moved on ). What's that all about?

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over a year ago

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There is a whole world out there filled with Daddy's, tops, bottoms, D/s, M/s...bottom line (no pun intended) if it aint for you...don;t do it...consenting adults and all that...

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over a year ago

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"The whole: oh you're so big ( I wish ), fake porn moans....thankfully not ever heard it during a meet, but in a club, with the whole orgy business ( not us involved, we add, we moved on ). What's that all about?"

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over a year ago

So, it makes sense that naturally, an attraction on a subconscious level will always exist, to some degree."

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan
over a year ago

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"Just cos I don't do anal doesn't mean I don't know there's shit up there.

I think it's time I went for my P.G Tips

Don't bother coming round to mine. My box has gone out of date!

I got about ten boxes when they were on offer..... I'm T'd out till 2014"

Hell fire. You like a brew, don't you?!

You expecting some chimps round??

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over a year ago

King's Crustacean

"Just cos I don't do anal doesn't mean I don't know there's shit up there.

I think it's time I went for my P.G Tips

Don't bother coming round to mine. My box has gone out of date!

I got about ten boxes when they were on offer..... I'm T'd out till 2014

Hell fire. You like a brew, don't you?!

You expecting some chimps round?? "

Im too old for chimps 'baby boy' Mummy goes for apes these days. Or Grapes if I want a bunch of them .... arrrf arfffff !

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over a year ago

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Made me sick saying Mummy then ... ( I was being facetious )

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A Daddy in gay culture is a slang term

I have to be honest, I thought it was used in the gay culture too.

I had no idea until tonight of that use.

If you think swinging is high on labels, just take a month out to look at the gay scene !

In the group that I fall into namely the 'bear scene' a guy can be described as bear, cub, otter, wolf, polar bear, pocket bear, pocket cub, chub, chub cub, muscle bear, muscle cub and countless more

and thats before we get on to tops, bottoms, power bottoms .......

See now you have to explain what each of those means

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"Made me sick saying Mummy then ... ( I was being facetious )

Mummy to me is not again a parent child role, one you may say it the meaning, I am here for you, a term of endearment.

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over a year ago

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A Daddy in gay culture is a slang term

I have to be honest, I thought it was used in the gay culture too.

I had no idea until tonight of that use.

If you think swinging is high on labels, just take a month out to look at the gay scene !

In the group that I fall into namely the 'bear scene' a guy can be described as bear, cub, otter, wolf, polar bear, pocket bear, pocket cub, chub, chub cub, muscle bear, muscle cub and countless more

and thats before we get on to tops, bottoms, power bottoms .......

See now you have to explain what each of those means

On a separate thread. Not here.

We're talking about Granny's stockpile of P.G.

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"Made me sick saying Mummy then ... ( I was being facetious )

Mummy to me is not again a parent child role, one you may say it the meaning, I am here for you, a term of endearment."

What if it was being used in a sexual enviroment?

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A Daddy in gay culture is a slang term

I have to be honest, I thought it was used in the gay culture too.

I had no idea until tonight of that use.

If you think swinging is high on labels, just take a month out to look at the gay scene !

In the group that I fall into namely the 'bear scene' a guy can be described as bear, cub, otter, wolf, polar bear, pocket bear, pocket cub, chub, chub cub, muscle bear, muscle cub and countless more

and thats before we get on to tops, bottoms, power bottoms .......

See now you have to explain what each of those means

Come off it

you think 'BBW' is a minefield ?

well just you dare mislabel a man that is prone to amateur dramatics

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over a year ago

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A Daddy in gay culture is a slang term

I have to be honest, I thought it was used in the gay culture too.

I had no idea until tonight of that use.

If you think swinging is high on labels, just take a month out to look at the gay scene !

In the group that I fall into namely the 'bear scene' a guy can be described as bear, cub, otter, wolf, polar bear, pocket bear, pocket cub, chub, chub cub, muscle bear, muscle cub and countless more

and thats before we get on to tops, bottoms, power bottoms .......

See now you have to explain what each of those means

On a separate thread. Not here.

We're talking about Granny's stockpile of P.G.

Would you like a pic. I can show you one on the tip of my tongue and some being caressed by my fingers tips .....

Oooooooooooo you lovely little T bags you ...... slurp !

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over a year ago

"Made me sick saying Mummy then ... ( I was being facetious )

Mummy to me is not again a parent child role, one you may say it the meaning, I am here for you, a term of endearment.

What if it was being used in a sexual enviroment?"

No in short.

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over a year ago

A Daddy in gay culture is a slang term

I have to be honest, I thought it was used in the gay culture too.

I had no idea until tonight of that use.

If you think swinging is high on labels, just take a month out to look at the gay scene !

In the group that I fall into namely the 'bear scene' a guy can be described as bear, cub, otter, wolf, polar bear, pocket bear, pocket cub, chub, chub cub, muscle bear, muscle cub and countless more

and thats before we get on to tops, bottoms, power bottoms .......

See now you have to explain what each of those means

Come off it

you think 'BBW' is a minefield ?

well just you dare mislabel a man that is prone to amateur dramatics

This is what im scared of! don't want a bitch fight because I called a chub a cub by accident

or said someone was a power bottom just cos they farted

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over a year ago

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"Just cos I don't do anal doesn't mean I don't know there's shit up there.

I think it's time I went for my P.G Tips

Don't bother coming round to mine. My box has gone out of date!

I got about ten boxes when they were on offer..... I'm T'd out till 2014

Hell fire. You like a brew, don't you?!

You expecting some chimps round??

Im too old for chimps 'baby boy' Mummy goes for apes these days. Or Grapes if I want a bunch of them .... arrrf arfffff !"

I didn't have you down for beastiality

I can see where the grapes might come in handy, now!

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over a year ago

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"Made me sick saying Mummy then ... ( I was being facetious )

Mummy to me is not again a parent child role, one you may say it the meaning, I am here for you, a term of endearment."

Yes. When my boss says Where the Fuck are you ..... I say

Mummy's coming now.

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"Made me sick saying Mummy then ... ( I was being facetious )

Mummy to me is not again a parent child role, one you may say it the meaning, I am here for you, a term of endearment.

What if it was being used in a sexual enviroment?"

Also relating to my thread women's work I believe men need a certain extent of looking after so they leave their Mum's and find a substitute.

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"Made me sick saying Mummy then ... ( I was being facetious )

Mummy to me is not again a parent child role, one you may say it the meaning, I am here for you, a term of endearment.

Yes. When my boss says Where the Fuck are you ..... I say

Mummy's coming now."

Scared lol

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean

"Just cos I don't do anal doesn't mean I don't know there's shit up there.

I think it's time I went for my P.G Tips

Don't bother coming round to mine. My box has gone out of date!

I got about ten boxes when they were on offer..... I'm T'd out till 2014

Hell fire. You like a brew, don't you?!

You expecting some chimps round??

Im too old for chimps 'baby boy' Mummy goes for apes these days. Or Grapes if I want a bunch of them .... arrrf arfffff !

I didn't have you down for beastiality

I can see where the grapes might come in handy, now!"

Ooooops ... Taboo will get us booted ( seriously ) best make up a web site that says it's okay and done by people who ~REALLY want to nurture and look after their pets.....

Im changing the word grapes to piles....

Piles of T bags....

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over a year ago

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"Just cos I don't do anal doesn't mean I don't know there's shit up there.

I think it's time I went for my P.G Tips

Don't bother coming round to mine. My box has gone out of date!

I got about ten boxes when they were on offer..... I'm T'd out till 2014

Hell fire. You like a brew, don't you?!

You expecting some chimps round??

Im too old for chimps 'baby boy' Mummy goes for apes these days. Or Grapes if I want a bunch of them .... arrrf arfffff !

I didn't have you down for beastiality

I can see where the grapes might come in handy, now!

Ooooops ... Taboo will get us booted ( seriously ) best make up a web site that says it's okay and done by people who ~REALLY want to nurture and look after their pets.....

Im changing the word grapes to piles....

Piles of T bags....

Piles?

I'm saying nothing

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"Made me sick saying Mummy then ... ( I was being facetious )

Mummy to me is not again a parent child role, one you may say it the meaning, I am here for you, a term of endearment.

What if it was being used in a sexual enviroment?

Also relating to my thread women's work I believe men need a certain extent of looking after so they leave their Mum's and find a substitute.

That would only be relevant if men had sex with their mothers.

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"Made me sick saying Mummy then ... ( I was being facetious )

Mummy to me is not again a parent child role, one you may say it the meaning, I am here for you, a term of endearment.

What if it was being used in a sexual enviroment?

Also relating to my thread women's work I believe men need a certain extent of looking after so they leave their Mum's and find a substitute.

That would only be relevant if men had sex with their mothers."

Another scary thought

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

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WhozZz the daddyyyyyy

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

"Made me sick saying Mummy then ... ( I was being facetious )

Mummy to me is not again a parent child role, one you may say it the meaning, I am here for you, a term of endearment.

What if it was being used in a sexual enviroment?

Also relating to my thread women's work I believe men need a certain extent of looking after so they leave their Mum's and find a substitute.

That would only be relevant if men had sex with their mothers.

Another scary thought

but according to Freud they all fantastise of such......

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

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Did Freud have a Blog ?

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over a year ago

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"Did Freud have a Blog ?"

I guess not

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over a year ago

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By *anSusieCouple
over a year ago

Midlothian

trying to explain kink to non-kinksters is just like trying to explain why or what you love about football to a non-footy fan.....ppl should be free to enjoy what they like in swinging without pushing it onto others if they not into it.

We're active in both the fetish + swinging scene but don't mix the two when it doesn't match.

Happy pre-christmas swinging everyone

susie

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

gives me the eebie jeebies

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over a year ago

A Daddy in gay culture is a slang term

I have to be honest, I thought it was used in the gay culture too.

I had no idea until tonight of that use.

If you think swinging is high on labels, just take a month out to look at the gay scene !

In the group that I fall into namely the 'bear scene' a guy can be described as bear, cub, otter, wolf, polar bear, pocket bear, pocket cub, chub, chub cub, muscle bear, muscle cub and countless more

and thats before we get on to tops, bottoms, power bottoms .......

Oh before the swinging idea and I thought I was a wise women I didn't even know what a fluffier was

Or cim lol"

What is cim, I don't know what that means.

And all this gay bear thing, I have no idea what that's all about, interesting though

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over a year ago

Cum in mouth lol

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over a year ago

Lol really, bloody hell I was expecting something way out and weird.

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

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"Yeah I dont get that either. I've always refused to dress up as a schoogirl too. Just seems wrong to me."

I agree. I also find it strange. If I was a female and my partner asked me to dress like a schoolgirl I would be worried.

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over a year ago

Yeah I had a guy ask for my pic as a 5yo... To me that is just wrong, I never messaged him back since

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By *arambarMan
over a year ago

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"Yeah I dont get that either. I've always refused to dress up as a schoogirl too. Just seems wrong to me.

I agree. I also find it strange. If I was a female and my partner asked me to dress like a schoolgirl I would be worried. "

Is a nurse's uniform OK, or a policewoman's for that matter? What about a geeky librarian?

I think dressing up and doing some role play every now and then is OK. If it becomes something someone needs constantly then there are bigger issues to address, but I don't think you can necessarily categorise someone as a freak because they've done the schoolgirl fantasy once in a blue moon.

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By *arambarMan
over a year ago

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"Yeah I had a guy ask for my pic as a 5yo... To me that is just wrong, I never messaged him back since "

OK, that's pretty fucking weird.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

I think that personally, it is fucked up.

I know absolutely that it fucks people up.

I also know that in the security of a "relationship", as 'endearing' as it is between the two - outside of it, nothing is said of what happens behind closed doors.

The problem is that in the first instance it may well be all fun and games though once the relationship develops, boundaries are OFTEN pushed, and is usually within the BDSM scene.

Whilst it may be a kinky turn on or bit of inquisitive play - it repeatedly happening is where this kind of play become damaging.

Ask anyone into Age Play (if you can find them willing enough to say) what they do - and you will get absolutley nothing out of them. Largely as it is perverse... its the only word I can think of beside shameful, not only to them but to those they are telling it to.

It is a very fine line and one that will, if continued lead to the destruction of one of the players.

Just to say - I have never done it but know people who have, and they are not the better for it.

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over a year ago

"Yeah I dont get that either. I've always refused to dress up as a schoogirl too. Just seems wrong to me.

I agree. I also find it strange. If I was a female and my partner asked me to dress like a schoolgirl I would be worried.

Is a nurse's uniform OK, or a policewoman's for that matter? What about a geeky librarian?

I agree with you. The schoolgirl scenario is extremely common. There are even St Trinian type party nights. The clubs are not promoting under age sex. I don't even think people choosing these outfits have any other thought apart from it being a short skirt and cropped blouse.

Its really kinda obvious that women whop dress as nurses or police officers have a unfulfilled career desire. People are overthinking some things here

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over a year ago

I missed the words 'do not' out of my sentence, amend to read - women who dress as nurses/police officers do not have unfulfilled career desires. It is just taking the caring role, the law enforcing role and trading on the power in those two positions. In reality there is nothing sexy in the real nurses or police womens uniform and neither should there be. We all know this.

There will be a few people who are extreme in their fantasies regarding underage sex etc, nut these people are the minority and not the majority.

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over a year ago

I have a Daddy. We don't fuck, His fetish is oral only.He is 21 yrs my senior and likes me to dress prettily. He doesn't like girls below about 25 yrs old, and is a daddy dominant.

He calls me His princess and lavishes me with care, love and adoration, just as I do Him. I tell Him all my real life issues too and turn to Him for advice.

My biological father is alive and well and I would never ever.think of him in any sexual role. The two are very different.

For clarification my Dom is not my Daddy they are two separate people who have different roles in my life and very different styles and they know about each other.

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over a year ago

I did once have a message from a 21 yr old girl saying that she likes to call the older women she sees, Auntie, kind of revolting, not for me at all

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over a year ago

"Yeah I had a guy ask for my pic as a 5yo... To me that is just wrong, I never messaged him back since "

That is seriously seriously disgusting!!! I once had a guy on here ask me how many of my family I had had sex with, thought that was bad but a 5 yr old

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over a year ago

Personally I'm in the really don't approve camp of using the terms during sex, I never really had any relationship with my dad growing up so its a term I've never used, to me a daddy is someone who looks after you and protects very young children from the grown up adult world and anything remotely sexual is exactly that an adult thing

As for school girl outfits again I don't think it's appropriate school girls should not be having sex, my pal said to me it reminded her of the fun and giggles and feeling naughty when she almost her virginity as a teenager the fumbling and knowing you were doing something she shouldn't, again I was nearly 20 before I felt grown up enough to lose mine to anyone

Again it was always a thing before not to shave my public are as it just reminded me of little girls prebuescant the only reason I ende up doing it was tight jeans boilers suits and 1400 degree furnaces aren't great and one day I thought fuk it so it was done as a practical thing not for sexual kink

I guess alot of my _iews probably stem from things I witnessed when I was younger my best friends book is entitled no safe place the original title was going to read granddad special girl but publishers felt the title might be misleading, perhaps that might be why I have such a negative _iew on the whole references to babes that should have been left in childhoo, for couples although it can be a term for a partner who's is the daddy to your kids but not to someone you haven't shared that bond of bringing a child into the world together with

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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"Yeah I had a guy ask for my pic as a 5yo... To me that is just wrong, I never messaged him back since

That is seriously seriously disgusting!!! I once had a guy on here ask me how many of my family I had had sex with, thought that was bad but a 5 yr old

Don't forget to REPORT this type of thing

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over a year ago

"Yeah I had a guy ask for my pic as a 5yo... To me that is just wrong, I never messaged him back since

That is seriously seriously disgusting!!! I once had a guy on here ask me how many of my family I had had sex with, thought that was bad but a 5 yr old

Don't forget to REPORT this type of thing

I wish I had but I was so shocked, I just deleted his message

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over a year ago

"Yeah I had a guy ask for my pic as a 5yo... To me that is just wrong, I never messaged him back since

That is seriously seriously disgusting!!! I once had a guy on here ask me how many of my family I had had sex with, thought that was bad but a 5 yr old

Don't forget to REPORT this type of thing

The whole 'daddy' thing I find sick, there is some real emotional/mental issues there that sex cannot heal.

The schoolgirl fetish I find vile. People are quick to vilify Savile, but this fetish smacks of that.

IMHO both are just wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ray Winstone made a career of asking all manner of people “ Who’s the Daddy”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ray Winstone made a career of asking all manner of people “ Who’s the Daddy”

That did occur to me as well... I suppose its context

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By *insfordcoupleCouple
over a year ago

winsford cheshire

"We each have our own things that turn us on.

Remember some people are into things others are not. My major kink is something that a lot of people would find shocking, but it works for me.

If you don't like it you don't do it! "

whats your biggest turn on x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree it is common in D/s, and good girl was a phrase that could drive my last sub wild in the right circumstances... Again, another common one, but more associated with obedience I would say. incest and daddy/daughter play doesn't do it for me in the slightest and yet I use those phrases. I'm not overly comfortable being someone's Daddy either. So defo depends on circumstances and context.

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over a year ago

"Yeah I had a guy ask for my pic as a 5yo... To me that is just wrong, I never messaged him back since

That is seriously seriously disgusting!!! I once had a guy on here ask me how many of my family I had had sex with, thought that was bad but a 5 yr old

Don't forget to REPORT this type of thing

The whole 'daddy' thing I find sick, there is some real emotional/mental issues there that sex cannot heal.

The schoolgirl fetish I find vile. People are quick to vilify Savile, but this fetish smacks of that.

IMHO both are just wrong

Dressing up as a schoolgirl is in no way the same as being a predatory paedophile, and enjoying the former does not make you a risk of being the later! Crazy generalised statement to make!! Have they not recently remade St Trinians? Are you saying anyone who watched it may have or go on to abuse young girls???

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"Daddy" can also be used to refer to a sugar daddy which is also very different.

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By *coobyroo218Couple
over a year ago

Guernsey

"Ray Winstone made a career of asking all manner of people “ Who’s the Daddy”

That did occur to me as well... I suppose its context

So does that not sum it up. If its in context with the people saying it and they are all happy to have it said to them thats the end of this thread.

Different things please different people

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over a year ago

"Yeah I had a guy ask for my pic as a 5yo... To me that is just wrong, I never messaged him back since

That is seriously seriously disgusting!!! I once had a guy on here ask me how many of my family I had had sex with, thought that was bad but a 5 yr old

Don't forget to REPORT this type of thing

The whole 'daddy' thing I find sick, there is some real emotional/mental issues there that sex cannot heal.

The schoolgirl fetish I find vile. People are quick to vilify Savile, but this fetish smacks of that.

IMHO both are just wrong

If you want to justify sexualizing imagery of children by saying that St Trinians was all a bit of fun, thats fine. Personally it makes my skin crawl. How many paedos would have got off on that? IMHO if someone watches something like that and by seeing a 13/14 in a school girl outfit and get a twitch in the trouser dep't, they need chemically castrating.

If its your thing fine, I would just do some deep sole searching as to why watching a woman dressing as a child turns you on... seems fucked up to me.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

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It's best to look back through the posts and see where 'schoolgirl' / St. Trinians was introduced.

It was NOT introduced by the O.P or by anyone who dislikes the term Daddy / Baby / Little Girl.

St. Trinians cannot be used as a reason to support the use of age play.

I'd dress up as a schoolgirl for a night out and a laugh.

I wouldn't dress up as a schoolgirl for sex.

There's a HUGE difference.

No one is offended by Dressing Up Games........

Sex play with child substitutes is pig ugly no matter how much lipstick you put on it............

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean

And Ray Winstone didn't use the term when having sex with girls. He used it when he had been victorious in beating up other men...... he was not 'nurturing' women.

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over a year ago

"And Ray Winstone didn't use the term when having sex with girls. He used it when he had been victorious in beating up other men...... he was not 'nurturing' women."

Quite right Gwanny,,,,, and he probably poached the phrase from Kojak who sometimes used it when banging-up villains….

Although it must be said Kojack often used creepy stuff like “ who loves ya baby” while sucking a lollipop…... hey.... who knows what that was all about eh! sheeeeezzzz and don’t get me started on Shirley Crabtree AKA Big Daddy….

Who in his defence would probably struggle to arouse any feeling of lust towards him wearing that baggy old leotard of his….

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over a year ago

I don't see there's anything wrong with dressing up in a schoolgirl outfit for sex. There are plenty of swinging parties with a schoolgirl theme, Ann Summers, a high street sex shop, sell schoolgirl outfits by the bucketload.

Its not the outfit, its how its perceived by the person its aimed at.

The majority of men in sex clubs etc will be turned on by a woman in a schoolgirl outfit. He is _iewing her as an adult woman wearing a short skirt, shirt and tie, he isn't seeing a child.

However if a man is turned on by a child and wishes a woman to hide her blatent womanly sexuality and act in a childlike, infantile way, then I agree that is cause for concern.

Whatever a woman is wearing, if her persona is of a sexual adult woman then that is what men will see. How many sexy elves do you see at this time of year, the elf being very childlike in appearance.

However if a man wishes a woman to lose her sexuality and her adultness, strap down her breasts, shave etc, wear a nappy with rubber frilly pants over the top then that is more sinister to me

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By *arambarMan
over a year ago

swindon

"I don't see there's anything wrong with dressing up in a schoolgirl outfit for sex. There are plenty of swinging parties with a schoolgirl theme, Ann Summers, a high street sex shop, sell schoolgirl outfits by the bucketload.

Its not the outfit, its how its perceived by the person its aimed at.

The majority of men in sex clubs etc will be turned on by a woman in a schoolgirl outfit. He is _iewing her as an adult woman wearing a short skirt, shirt and tie, he isn't seeing a child.

However if a man is turned on by a child and wishes a woman to hide her blatent womanly sexuality and act in a childlike, infantile way, then I agree that is cause for concern.

Whatever a woman is wearing, if her persona is of a sexual adult woman then that is what men will see. How many sexy elves do you see at this time of year, the elf being very childlike in appearance.

However if a man wishes a woman to lose her sexuality and her adultness, strap down her breasts, shave etc, wear a nappy with rubber frilly pants over the top then that is more sinister to me

Well said - that sums up exactly my thoughts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so who wants to call me DADDY???

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Schoolgirl thing is not for me, each to their own.

Bit iffy for me, but I can see both sides.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Must say OP this is by far the most interesting post and original I've read on here and I'm glad to know I'm not the frigid prude for having this opinion had seriously thought in the past am I really too uptight for having this opinion

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I think the school girl thing is odd too,

because what do you think of when you see a school uniform........School kids.

And when It's a women in a school uniform with pig tails, white knee high stocks and a lollipop which is a common image associated with the schoolgirl fetish its just seems even worse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its common nay normal in d/s bdsm relationships so dont be appalled. She does not mean father by it at all. Why is callin a girl baby not ok? Thats so normal!

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over a year ago

"I think the school girl thing is odd too,

because what do you think of when you see a school uniform........School kids.

And when It's a women in a school uniform with pig tails, white knee high stocks and a lollipop which is a common image associated with the schoolgirl fetish its just seems even worse.

I often get asked to dress-up in school uniform, (by males and females alike)...... which kinda puts a dent in that theory....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think the school girl thing is odd too,

because what do you think of when you see a school uniform........School kids.

And when It's a women in a school uniform with pig tails, white knee high stocks and a lollipop which is a common image associated with the schoolgirl fetish its just seems even worse.

I often get asked to dress-up in school uniform, (by males and females alike)...... which kinda puts a dent in that theory....

IMHO I think it steams from the social obsession with youth and looking young, we all have different perspectives on things and I'm not into things associated with family or children in any way when it comes to sex. No matter how innocent some may see it.

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over a year ago

"I think the school girl thing is odd too,

because what do you think of when you see a school uniform........School kids.

And when It's a women in a school uniform with pig tails, white knee high stocks and a lollipop which is a common image associated with the schoolgirl fetish its just seems even worse.

I often get asked to dress-up in school uniform, (by males and females alike)...... which kinda puts a dent in that theory....

Of course it is, in most cases its just a case of sexy dress up, nothing else. Its absolute madness to suggest that anyone who dresses as a schoolgirl for a meet is secretly harbouring a daddy fetish and should visit a pychiatrist. But again, as often happens on this forum, things get blown out of proportion all the time

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

as Iconic says 'most cases' it is innocent role play, that leaves a possible element of doubt that in a very very small percentage of cases, it may not be.

as always, if someone suggests something people feel uncomfortable with, don't do it.

it is adults on this site, not vulnerable children.

this subject has always had polar opposite _iews and people sitting either side have the right to feel the way they do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One man's meat is another man's poison.

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By *uriousBristolCplCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

"We each have our own things that turn us on.

Remember some people are into things others are not. My major kink is something that a lot of people would find shocking, but it works for me.

If you don't like it you don't do it! "

SO SO SO True. Intrigued as to the 'Major' kink

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan
over a year ago

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"I think the school girl thing is odd too,

because what do you think of when you see a school uniform........School kids.

And when It's a women in a school uniform with pig tails, white knee high stocks and a lollipop which is a common image associated with the schoolgirl fetish its just seems even worse.

I often get asked to dress-up in school uniform, (by males and females alike)...... which kinda puts a dent in that theory....

Couldn't agree more. There's some really silly posts cropping up on here now, about this.

So much so, that I'm compelled to re-post a comment I made above to this thread, a few days ago;

So, it makes sense that naturally, an attraction on a subconscious level will always exist, to some degree.

It has NOTHING to do with being interested in schoolkids sexually, per se!

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

Couldn't agree more. There's some really silly posts cropping up on here now, about this.

So much so, that I'm compelled to re-post a comment I made above to this thread, a few days ago;

So, it makes sense that naturally, an attraction on a subconscious level will always exist, to some degree.

It has NOTHING to do with being interested in schoolkids sexually, per se! "

No ones posts are silly , it is just what they think on the subject.

I am sure they don't think your posts are silly, just different to theirs.

I do agree with your comments about the schoolgirl thing though, I think it is more a turn on for men as they associate schoolgirls with the time their hormones started raging and want to recreate it now.

I do think there is a difference with the above and remembering being a teenager and someone asking for a younger schoolgirl in frilly socks etc though.

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan
over a year ago

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Couldn't agree more. There's some really silly posts cropping up on here now, about this.

So much so, that I'm compelled to re-post a comment I made above to this thread, a few days ago;

So, it makes sense that naturally, an attraction on a subconscious level will always exist, to some degree.

It has NOTHING to do with being interested in schoolkids sexually, per se!

No ones posts are silly , it is just what they think on the subject.

I am sure they don't think your posts are silly, just different to theirs.

I do think there is a difference with the above and remembering being a teenager and someone asking for a younger schoolgirl in frilly socks etc though."

'silly' in hindsight, probably wasn't the right word...

I'll leave you and others to decide which word befits the sentence...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think the school girl thing is odd too,

because what do you think of when you see a school uniform........School kids.

And when It's a women in a school uniform with pig tails, white knee high stocks and a lollipop which is a common image associated with the schoolgirl fetish its just seems even worse.

I often get asked to dress-up in school uniform, (by males and females alike)...... which kinda puts a dent in that theory....

Couldn't agree more. There's some really silly posts cropping up on here now, about this.

So much so, that I'm compelled to re-post a comment I made above to this thread, a few days ago;

So, it makes sense that naturally, an attraction on a subconscious level will always exist, to some degree.

It has NOTHING to do with being interested in schoolkids sexually, per se! "

I missed that above, think that explains why I don't get the school girl thing.

I never liked the girls in school (maybe the ones a few years above) I liked the teachers And some of the other girls mums. I went out with one girl just coz her mum was hot.

I may have been young but I still liked real women. Lol