FabSwingers.com forum: Is anybody else missing the voyeuristic gene??

By *eather_and_Lace5463 OP Couple
over a year ago

Ramsey

Am I the only person who isn't bothered by watching other people? There seems to be no end of topics about how hot it is to watch someone else but watching really doesn't do anything for me whether it's porn or in real life. I actually find watching others boring.... How weird am I lol?

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By *aturefun63Man
over a year ago

Belper

Looks like you have an active varied sex life so don’t need to watch

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Generic sex porn I couldn't give a rats arse about watching.

But I could watch kink all day

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I'm not bothered, Mr N really enjoys it.

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By *jorkishMan
over a year ago

Seaforth

Rather do it than watch whether porn or real life

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

In with you, watching and being watched are 2 things I'm just not into.

Mrs

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

Me me meeeee , although I do watch gay porn when indulging in some self tlc , I have no interest in watching other people play at parties, clubs etc …

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I get nothing from the watching others or being watched, it can even put me off women I like if I see them having sex, the mystery is all gone.

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By *thfloorCouple
over a year ago

Hove

"Looks like you have an active varied sex life so don’t need to watch "

Classic misconception to think watching as a substitute and "less than".

OP the majority of people are not into watching and don't understand watching. It's just that all the voyeurs congregate/get vocal on fabs cos it's a place were we can indulge! My bf also doesn't get it.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

No I don't watch. Sooner be doing it myself

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Does nothing for me at clubs etc

Tbf I’m real fussy with my porn choices so it doesn’t surprise me that at clubs to watch would not hit the spot

I think it’s too staged , putting on a show.

Now maybe if it was people having sex when none of us expected either to see that might be hotter as would be more real if you get what I mean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does nothing for me at clubs etc

Tbf I’m real fussy with my porn choices so it doesn’t surprise me that at clubs to watch would not hit the spot

I think it’s too staged , putting on a show.

Now maybe if it was people having sex when none of us expected either to see that might be hotter as would be more real if you get what I mean "

We like watching and being watched, although we never feel like we're putting on a show.

Totally agree with you though, the idea of watching people when/where you didn't expect it. Very hot!!!

Winston

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love watching and being watched! Well, we like the thought of it in a club setting, not sure it would be the same for a private meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer being watched, to watching

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By *lderflower_AppleWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

I find it very erotic in a club setting to watch and be watched. I've also enjoyed past partners with others as well before I've joined in, in more private settings. On my own, watching doesn't turn me on, but when I'm indulging in a little self care I find that watching porn and imaging myself as the 'lead' in the movie definitely helps for a better solo experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get turned in from watching something where you know it’s not faked. You can sense the lust between them. It radiates and is unmissable, and I start to get turned in bu feeling just as hungry for that feeling myself. It’s hard to explain.

Even if i see a kiss across a table in a bar, I can sometimes see the look in their faces that they are returning to a room very soon. This is why porn doesn’t really do it for me because most is fake.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"Am I the only person who isn't bothered by watching other people? There seems to be no end of topics about how hot it is to watch someone else but watching really doesn't do anything for me whether it's porn or in real life. I actually find watching others boring.... How weird am I lol? "
weird

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Does nothing for me either op. Apart from watching 2 women together, I do like that.

Clubs aren’t for me. I get nothing out of watching or being watched. More likely turn me off than on.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

I don't like watching, I get bored very quickly, I do like listening though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me, I've no interest, I'm a participator.

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

I enjoy being watched, but get little or nothing out of watching.

I'd much rather be participating than spectating.

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By *amierebelMan
over a year ago

My own little world

Watching don't do nothing for me

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I like an audience.

I like seeing someone I care about having a good time. I like to see people in general having actual fun.

I don't care for watching strangers go at it in general.

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By *unthum62Man
over a year ago

Benidorm

As a seperate detached thing, watching is not that exciting for me, but in a threesome scenario it is definitely part of the fun.

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By *heBlowinsCouple
over a year ago

West Cork

What a nice little dose of validation coming across this thread

I (Mr) have sometimes wondered the same thing as OP- I love watching my wife but watching others is boring if she's not involved. I've gone completely off porn if she's not in it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If people are putting on a “look at us show” and pretending they’re in a porn film then it’s a snooze fest. Even worse if there’s a husband in the background giving instructions.

If however a couple are just into each other and are having sex as if there’s no one else there then it’s a different thing. I find I can get really turned on by this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If people are putting on a “look at us show” and pretending they’re in a porn film then it’s a snooze fest. Even worse if there’s a husband in the background giving instructions.

If however a couple are just into each other and are having sex as if there’s no one else there then it’s a different thing. I find I can get really turned on by this.

This. ^^^^

Winston

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't like watching, I get bored very quickly, I do like listening though

How about if we randomly juggle?

Winston

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does nothing for me either op. Apart from watching 2 women together, I do like that.

Clubs aren’t for me. I get nothing out of watching or being watched. More likely turn me off than on. "

I agree with the women comment although not traditional porn as it's too fake. But two women really enjoying each other is a delight.

I'd like to experience a club but I don't know how much I would enjoy being watched. I have a feeling I'd be more concerned with how I looked than enjoying the moment.

I like watching men play but prefer not to see their faces..

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By *heArrowsCouple
over a year ago

I'm a voyeur. But not on fab. I liked watching real sex. It's fascinating to me. The differences and similarities.

And to be honest, it's more the sounds of sex that turn me on. Sex sounds are awesome. Listening to a woman cum when she's reading a sexy book is one of my favourite things ever

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

I think for me it can depend on my mood and who I am watching. I’ve walked around clubs before and not felt at all turned on. I also sometimes feel like I shouldn’t be watching, even though I know they want to be watched, but just because it can seem to me like I am intruding. It gets me annoyed when people are playing and others are watching but also chatting and laughing. It just doesn’t feel right somehow.

However, there have been a few times when watching certain people or scenarios has been enjoyable, I would just say they are very few.

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By *ackbydemandMan
over a year ago

Leicester

"If people are putting on a “look at us show” and pretending they’re in a porn film then it’s a snooze fest. Even worse if there’s a husband in the background giving instructions.

If however a couple are just into each other and are having sex as if there’s no one else there then it’s a different thing. I find I can get really turned on by this.

If they are really good, might ruin it by getting a round of applause

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont like eastenders

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In a club, if it's natural and not faking it for the crowd then I find it a huge turn on. Also does depend on the people too though that I'm watching in that I have to find them sexually attractive.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

I get absolutely nothing from watching others have sex.

I enjoy watching C have sex with someone, whilst I’m joining in or them watching us but a random person in a club isn’t sexy whatsoever…

We’ve been to an exclusive club settings with 500 people from Killing Kittens, with it mostly being hot women, wearing Honey Birdette lingerie…didn’t look twice at people having sex…

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Participation sport. Watching does nothing for me

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By *wingsnroundabouts82Couple
over a year ago

Fucksville

I enjoy watching kink porn, vanilla porn bores me and I don't enjoy watching real life scenes as I feel like I'm intruding even if the people enjoy being watched

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldnt even stop myself running around the streets like a jet fighter with my arms out wide making rocket and machine gun sound effects after watching maverick so if im watching shagging it would just make me want to be doing it

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Doesn’t interest me at all. When I’ve swung as couples I’ve always preferred separate room and give my full attention to the woman I’m with and not be distracted.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

In general I'm not bothered, oftentimes in clubs it turns me off (especially if anyone is screaming like a banshee). I think it's more about the aesthetics for me, even when watching porn I'll search for ages until I find something where I find everyone involved attractive, it's more about looking at attractive people then the act itself.

Seeing my partner with someone else is a huge turn on, though I think that's more about the fact that I know what sensations she's experiencing, and seeing his enjoyment rather than just watching...plus reclaim sex is amazing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no gene either, I look at people's profiles for same reason as people read The Mail, for the interesting content widely criticized on Fab

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By *wingsnroundabouts82Couple
over a year ago

Fucksville

"I couldnt even stop myself running around the streets like a jet fighter with my arms out wide making rocket and machine gun sound effects after watching maverick so if im watching shagging it would just make me want to be doing it "

Hahahahahahahaha I'm crying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hahahahahahahaha I'm crying

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