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"Honestly, I think it is like fishing, cast your net wide and hope to catch something. I don't use this approach personally but have experienced it from the fish point of view. Swim through the gaps and you'll be fine. X" This is good advice | |||
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"Have regularly pondered this myself. Would love to know if 'hey'/'wanna fuck' etc as an opener has ever resulted in a meet for anyone" I’ve considered trying from a female perspective to test. | |||
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"Have regularly pondered this myself. Would love to know if 'hey'/'wanna fuck' etc as an opener has ever resulted in a meet for anyone" This has made me realise it's not just me so thank you for that I get the whole cast the net wide thing but why waste messages on canvassing those who clearly state that doesn't work for them?, it just comes across as desperate and seeing others as people just as things not people with feelings | |||
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"Have regularly pondered this myself. Would love to know if 'hey'/'wanna fuck' etc as an opener has ever resulted in a meet for anyone I’ve considered trying from a female perspective to test." Being someone who has a couples profile too it's much worse as a single fem than as couple even with most of the message filters in place so if you choose to try this just be prepared | |||
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"Have regularly pondered this myself. Would love to know if 'hey'/'wanna fuck' etc as an opener has ever resulted in a meet for anyone This has made me realise it's not just me so thank you for that I get the whole cast the net wide thing but why waste messages on canvassing those who clearly state that doesn't work for them?, it just comes across as desperate and seeing others as people just as things not people with feelings " There are desperate people on here, not quite "Here's Johnny!" but not far off by some of the things I have read. If it is bothering you, go to your mail filters and block people by category/age/sex etc. Then you can concentrate on those who fit your preferences.  | |||
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"Have regularly pondered this myself. Would love to know if 'hey'/'wanna fuck' etc as an opener has ever resulted in a meet for anyone This has made me realise it's not just me so thank you for that I get the whole cast the net wide thing but why waste messages on canvassing those who clearly state that doesn't work for them?, it just comes across as desperate and seeing others as people just as things not people with feelings There are desperate people on here, not quite "Here's Johnny!" but not far off by some of the things I have read. If it is bothering you, go to your mail filters and block people by category/age/sex etc. Then you can concentrate on those who fit your preferences. "Thanks but I use basically all the filters going it doesn't actually stop this happening that's why I asked the question | |||
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"Ultimately I think a lot of people mainly men but not exclusively Join this site thinking it's sex on tap and they don't have to put in any effort. " Yeah they are the people I call the instafuckers and you are right it's not exclusively men | |||
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"Have regularly pondered this myself. Would love to know if 'hey'/'wanna fuck' etc as an opener has ever resulted in a meet for anyone This has made me realise it's not just me so thank you for that I get the whole cast the net wide thing but why waste messages on canvassing those who clearly state that doesn't work for them?, it just comes across as desperate and seeing others as people just as things not people with feelings There are desperate people on here, not quite "Here's Johnny!" but not far off by some of the things I have read. If it is bothering you, go to your mail filters and block people by category/age/sex etc. Then you can concentrate on those who fit your preferences.
Thanks but I use basically all the filters going it doesn't actually stop this happening that's why I asked the question "There's a filter on here for lazy, entitled dicksplashes? Where can I find this??!! | |||
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"Ultimately I think a lot of people mainly men but not exclusively Join this site thinking it's sex on tap and they don't have to put in any effort. Yeah they are the people I call the instafuckers and you are right it's not exclusively men " I've seen women that put very little effort in their profile and couples that do the same scatter gun messaging approach. Sometimes the lack of effort is deliberate because they are not looking to meet but those who are actively sending messages probably are. | |||
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"Have regularly pondered this myself. Would love to know if 'hey'/'wanna fuck' etc as an opener has ever resulted in a meet for anyone This has made me realise it's not just me so thank you for that I get the whole cast the net wide thing but why waste messages on canvassing those who clearly state that doesn't work for them?, it just comes across as desperate and seeing others as people just as things not people with feelings There are desperate people on here, not quite "Here's Johnny!" but not far off by some of the things I have read. If it is bothering you, go to your mail filters and block people by category/age/sex etc. Then you can concentrate on those who fit your preferences.
Thanks but I use basically all the filters going it doesn't actually stop this happening that's why I asked the question
There's a filter on here for lazy, entitled dicksplashes? Where can I find this??!! "If only that was the case I'd be on it like a shot | |||
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"I thought this was easy-peasy-pussy-on-tap? Have I logged on to the wrong site again? My mistake… (Just quoting the hundreds of messages…) "Yeah it's funny how people react when you say the clue is in the name it's fab swingers on instafuck You only have to go by the amount of status' of guys complaining that they've got nothing for a blank profile after only a couple of days | |||
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"I thought this was easy-peasy-pussy-on-tap? Have I logged on to the wrong site again? My mistake… (Just quoting the hundreds of messages…) "We’re all here for the same reason, you’ve been here before so you should know how it works | |||
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"I thought this was easy-peasy-pussy-on-tap? Have I logged on to the wrong site again? My mistake… (Just quoting the hundreds of messages…)
Yeah it's funny how people react when you say the clue is in the name it's fab swingers on instafuck
You only have to go by the amount of status' of guys complaining that they've got nothing for a blank profile after only a couple of days "I just love to laugh at them… it is good to have a thick skin here but more importantly a sense of humour. Oh and a big sense of how to use the block button  | |||
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"I thought this was easy-peasy-pussy-on-tap? Have I logged on to the wrong site again? My mistake… (Just quoting the hundreds of messages…)
Yeah it's funny how people react when you say the clue is in the name it's fab swingers on instafuck
You only have to go by the amount of status' of guys complaining that they've got nothing for a blank profile after only a couple of days
I just love to laugh at them… it is good to have a thick skin here but more importantly a sense of humour. Oh and a big sense of how to use the block button "I'm surprised I've not worn the block button out if I'm honest with how much I use it | |||
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"Why, if messages are limited for none site supporters, do people waste their messages asking stupid questions to someone that states they are not into what is being asked or only sending pointless message that don't actually require a response as it's not phrased as a question? Is it just me or is this just a complete waste of limited messages? Ok I don't know that the limit is as never managed to reach it myself and I may well regret posting this as I've had a drink but still I do wonder " All I'm going to say it's difficult through the mile stone but use your gut instinct don't be quick reminder also everyone is entitled to see the forums which I don't agree should be only site supporter to protect genuine users | |||
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"I thought this was easy-peasy-pussy-on-tap? Have I logged on to the wrong site again? My mistake… (Just quoting the hundreds of messages…)
We’re all here for the same reason, you’ve been here before so you should know how it works "Ha ha ha. Sweet Cherry I have! And I really do! It does still make me laugh though at some of the rather desperate measures | |||
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"I thought this was easy-peasy-pussy-on-tap? Have I logged on to the wrong site again? My mistake… (Just quoting the hundreds of messages…)
We’re all here for the same reason, you’ve been here before so you should know how it works
Ha ha ha. Sweet Cherry I have! And I really do! It does still make me laugh though at some of the rather desperate measures "I totally understand that I'm not responding to your original comment but I totally agree with you if it means anything | |||
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"I thought this was easy-peasy-pussy-on-tap? Have I logged on to the wrong site again? My mistake… (Just quoting the hundreds of messages…)
Yeah it's funny how people react when you say the clue is in the name it's fab swingers on instafuck
You only have to go by the amount of status' of guys complaining that they've got nothing for a blank profile after only a couple of days
I just love to laugh at them… it is good to have a thick skin here but more importantly a sense of humour. Oh and a big sense of how to use the block button "How did you miss blocking us | |||
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"Why, if messages are limited for none site supporters, do people waste their messages asking stupid questions to someone that states they are not into what is being asked or only sending pointless message that don't actually require a response as it's not phrased as a question? Is it just me or is this just a complete waste of limited messages? Ok I don't know that the limit is as never managed to reach it myself and I may well regret posting this as I've had a drink but still I do wonder All I'm going to say it's difficult through the mile stone but use your gut instinct don't be quick reminder also everyone is entitled to see the forums which I don't agree should be only site supporter to protect genuine users " I'm not saying that none site supporters are not genuine I'm just saying if there's a message limited why waste messages when people clearly state they are not into something why ask them for that something | |||
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" Ok I don't know that the limit is as never managed to reach it myself and I may well regret posting this as I've had a drink but still I do wonder " I’m still not a site supporter right now, and I still don’t know what the limit is. But I have hit it in a thread where you send lots of people stuff, (pics/good vibes etc). It’s around a half dozen. Maybe they don’t think it’s a waste, maybe they think it’s good effort trying to connect with someone, even if it may turn to be futile. Don’t worry op. | |||
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"I thought this was easy-peasy-pussy-on-tap? Have I logged on to the wrong site again? My mistake… (Just quoting the hundreds of messages…)
We’re all here for the same reason, you’ve been here before so you should know how it works
Ha ha ha. Sweet Cherry I have! And I really do! It does still make me laugh though at some of the rather desperate measures "It is rather off putting. I tend to block people that states in their statuses they’ve run out of messages as it shows this behaviour. But then, I have a very low blocking threshold | |||
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"Why, if messages are limited for none site supporters, do people waste their messages asking stupid questions to someone that states they are not into what is being asked or only sending pointless message that don't actually require a response as it's not phrased as a question? Is it just me or is this just a complete waste of limited messages? Ok I don't know that the limit is as never managed to reach it myself and I may well regret posting this as I've had a drink but still I do wonder " If they have a cock profile pic they can have a wank about lots of women seeing it even though they didn't reply or open the message. They may just be fed up of no replies and start sending out any old crap just to get a response and feel 'seen' and human. | |||
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"Why, if messages are limited for none site supporters, do people waste their messages asking stupid questions to someone that states they are not into what is being asked or only sending pointless message that don't actually require a response as it's not phrased as a question? Is it just me or is this just a complete waste of limited messages? Ok I don't know that the limit is as never managed to reach it myself and I may well regret posting this as I've had a drink but still I do wonder " they haven't read your profile, they have a limited use of words, they are just chancing it, they are horny many different reasons I'm afraid..... I always read profiles and try to respond in an unexpected way but you can't win here unfortunately  | |||
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