FabSwingers.com forum: Self conscious

By *edwayman94 OP Man
over a year ago

Gillingham

Hi, I’m fairly self conscious about my looks and sometimes this site doesn’t help as I don’t have much luck on replies or anything.

Anyone that would like to drop me a Dm and I will send a pic too you. Just want some honest opinions even if it’s negative please.

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s brutal here for men, I really wouldn’t take it personal Xx

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By *edwayman94 OP Man
over a year ago

Gillingham

"It’s brutal here for men, I really wouldn’t take it personal Xx "

Thanks bro!

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

Perhaps you could take some photos that are flattering and make you feel better about yourself.

It won’t fix how you see yourself but it’s a start

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford

It can be a vicious downward spiral. Hang on in there, and remember that confidence comes from within first.

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By *iker and Mare!Couple
over a year ago

Torbay

Mate. You're 27....

You're in your prime. In 20 years you will look back and say.. "Jesus Christ what was I worried about!"

If it's something permanent, disability, dick size etc... that you can't do anything about. Then you just have to come to terms with it,

but if its stuff like hair loss or weight... Embrace the challenge and change it.

Shave the head, hit the gym, cut out shit food.

You're only here once, don't worry about stuff you can't change, change the stuff you can.

Own it bru.

Ohhhh and don't worry about this place. It ain't real world, it won't make you feel happy.

Same with all online crap, Only the real world can do that.

Take care.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

The only opinions that matter are yours and those of the people you love.

If you had five positive comments on your looks and one negative which would you be more likely to believe?

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By *edwayman94 OP Man
over a year ago

Gillingham

Thank you everyone for some lovely advice and kind words. Much appreciated!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mate. You're 27....

You're in your prime. In 20 years you will look back and say.. "Jesus Christ what was I worried about!"

If it's something permanent, disability, dick size etc... that you can't do anything about. Then you just have to come to terms with it,

but if its stuff like hair loss or weight... Embrace the challenge and change it.

Shave the head, hit the gym, cut out shit food.

You're only here once, don't worry about stuff you can't change, change the stuff you can.

Own it bru.

Ohhhh and don't worry about this place. It ain't real world, it won't make you feel happy.

Same with all online crap, Only the real world can do that.

Take care. "

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