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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I don`t often have down moments, but I`m at work with tears streaming down my face for no reason, thankfully the house owner isn`t here or I`d feel like a right muppet.......thats all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hugs xxxxxxxx

I feel better after a good cry. Hope you do too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have to have a downer to know when your good times are

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By *arnaclebillMan
over a year ago

Robin Hood County


"I don`t often have down moments, but I`m at work with tears streaming down my face for no reason, thankfully the house owner isn`t here or I`d feel like a right muppet.......thats all"

Having seen your smiling face in the chat room I find that hard to believe. You always seem to be cheery

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its good to have a cry sometimes! Hope you are feeling up soon x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You have to have a downer to know when your good times are "

If you have more good moments than dowm moments, you are truly blessed...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I`m ok it just suddenly hit me and here I was blubbing like a baby fgs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I`m ok it just suddenly hit me and here I was blubbing like a baby fgs"

Keep your head to the sky.

I've had a tough year too personally and Xmas is always gonna be a pain!

Xxx

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Sometimes it's good to have a cry and get it all out x X X

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Don't worry I cried when I checked my bank balance this morning and I have just been paid... yikes..

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I hope you feel better soon. Sometimes tears come for a reason that isn't immediately apparent.

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By *nfieldishCouple
over a year ago

Enfield

It will pass......xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Down moments serve a purpose - to remind us that good times are only around the corner and to treasure them.

Merry Christmas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me too i think its the time of the year Xmas and winter .. Xmas makes me think of alot of things .. xx((BIG HUGS))

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I`m ok it just suddenly hit me and here I was blubbing like a baby fgs"

Probably a delayed reaction from the weekend (I would blame the vodka jellies if I were ).

I find that I'm at my lowest when I'm tired, and taking a break and realising how silly I an works for me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm ok now, I just had a "moment" I feel a little foolish now tbh, it's most unlike me to be silly for no reason....I can blub for England if I have a reason to lol.

Sorry for being daft

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Christmas has a negitive impact on my emotional well being, It is not a pleasant time of year for me if I am honest with you... I brings out all my negitive emotions such as loniness.. and other emotions..Its just how I feel in the new year I will be brighter I just hope that 2013 is going to be a better for me than this pants year I have had...

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By *ady4ladyWoman
over a year ago

liverpool

We all do it, but what warms me is that you have so many support messages on here, just shows how much you are thought of x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm ok now, I just had a "moment" I feel a little foolish now tbh, it's most unlike me to be silly for no reason....I can blub for England if I have a reason to lol.

Sorry for being daft"
Better out then in xx you blub away .. xxx

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

glad you are feeling better and can appreciate what it was that triggered off those feeling that brought tears.

understanding it is half the battle, then dealing with it with support and help.

posting on a swingers site forum whilst you are in tears will get support and that is good, we can't answer what the issue is that caused it, only you.

good luck

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

feelings*

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We all do it, but what warms me is that you have so many support messages on here, just shows how much you are thought of x"

Bugger, that just started me off again, I think being locked in a room with some sexy people to take my mind off is the only answer

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By *he Original TTMan
over a year ago

Brackley, Northants


"We all do it, but what warms me is that you have so many support messages on here, just shows how much you are thought of x

Bugger, that just started me off again, I think being locked in a room with some sexy people to take my mind off is the only answer"

Hello! (Waving!)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We all do it, but what warms me is that you have so many support messages on here, just shows how much you are thought of x

Bugger, that just started me off again, I think being locked in a room with some sexy people to take my mind off is the only answer

Hello! (Waving!)

"

Lmfaoooooo Hello (waving back)

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Glad your feeling better now, we all do it. I had a massive melt down on the forums a few months ago. But everyone was so lovely.

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By *he Original TTMan
over a year ago

Brackley, Northants


"We all do it, but what warms me is that you have so many support messages on here, just shows how much you are thought of x

Bugger, that just started me off again, I think being locked in a room with some sexy people to take my mind off is the only answer

Hello! (Waving!)

Lmfaoooooo Hello (waving back)"

Glad I raised a smile at least! Mwah!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Glad your feeling better now, we all do it. I had a massive melt down on the forums a few months ago. But everyone was so lovely."

Most people on here are really lovely and give you a lift when you need it, not quite sure what happened to me, I wasn't thinking of anything in particular, but that said, it's the anniversary of losing my dad this week, so maybe somewhere in the back of my head the thought was there. Thank you everyone, I'm sure over the next couple of days I'll have a few more "moments" it's nice to know people have kinds words for you tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate this time of year, I'm usually a very up beat kinda person, but I get down around this time, been like it for years....... Roll on the spring

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For some reason this time of year uncovers a whole load of emotions,

We were out shopping yesterday and we walked past the Salvation Army band, now for some reason this brought a lump to my throat and a tear to my eye.

Hope your feeling better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We all get down from time to time. From my own experiences I have learnt to give in to it once in a while, as you can't always put a brave face on things.

What can I say that hasn't already been said. Was a pleasure to meet you the other day, and I'm sure your lovely smile will be back soon.

But until then have some HUGS from me. X "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We all get down from time to time. From my own experiences I have learnt to give in to it once in a while, as you can't always put a brave face on things.

What can I say that hasn't already been said. Was a pleasure to meet you the other day, and I'm sure your lovely smile will be back soon.

But until then have some HUGS from me. X "

Thank you, was lovely meeting you too, in fact was lovely to meet all of you x

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Maybe I will have to invite people over more often....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear you are feeling down if you ever need someone to chat too got a good listening ear big hugs from me to u. Turn that frown upside down xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe I will have to invite people over more often.... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate this time of year, I'm usually a very up beat kinda person, but I get down around this time, been like it for years....... Roll on the spring "

Me to

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