FabSwingers.com forum: Friends wife

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just come across a good friends wife on here, profile had a fair few pictures and also made out that she was single and not married..

Say nothing? Or somehow bring it to my friends attention??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s a hard one

As your stuck with being a “good friend” and letting him know

But also could case a riff and put you in the middle off something you don’t want to be

Personaly I would block and say nothing none off my business don’t need the hassle

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By *umslut jannineTV/TS
over a year ago

nottingham

In my experience it’s always best to say nothing

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By *oejoe12400Man
over a year ago

Belfast

Id block an say nothing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell him cheater’s ruin other’s life .& it’s not fair. If you’re a true friend you have to tell him

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By *heRazorsEdgeMan
over a year ago

Wales/ All over UK

"Just come across a good friends wife on here, profile had a fair few pictures and also made out that she was single and not married..

Say nothing? Or somehow bring it to my friends attention?? "

It’s a difficult one.

She could be cheating, or conversely she could be on here with his knowledge and encouragement.

I’d tend to keep quiet about it, but if you do feel compelled to say something then maybe just have a private and respectful conversation with HER about it.

That way, if she’s cheating she gets a chance to reconsider, if he knows then it’s no problem… either way as long as you discuss it without judgement (even if you don’t agree) then you stand less risk of making things worse

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

"Just come across a good friends wife on here, profile had a fair few pictures and also made out that she was single and not married..

Say nothing? Or somehow bring it to my friends attention?? "
if he loves his wife he could blame you for telling him but if she's cheating on him, which you don't know she may have permission, maybe you're best to stay out of it if she is cheating she may leave him eventually anyway, maybe have a quiet word on the side with her away from here and say you know, difficult because your mate loses in every scenario unless he's given her permission

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

I would say not get involve. Its a tricky one but at the same time, you don't quite know the full story of it all. I get he's your friend but that's between them though. Last thing you want is to be in the middle of it if everything begins to unravel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is the profile verified by meets? Might be him behind the profile wanking about it.

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By *instonandLadyAstorCouple
over a year ago

Not where we seem to be...

"Just come across a good friends wife on here, profile had a fair few pictures and also made out that she was single and not married..

Say nothing? Or somehow bring it to my friends attention?? "

Not your monkey, not your circus.

For all you know, he's aware and happy for her to be here.

Noses are best kept out of other people's business.

Winston

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By *ustin500Man
over a year ago

woodbridge

I would stay out of it even as a good friend you will probably never know what couples do in there private lives , he may enjoy the pleasure she receives from other guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you know it's her? Does she have face pics up, or do you know her well enough to recognise her from body pics?

I'd say nothing to him, but maybe consider contacting her and use her real name (if she doenst use it here) and see what response you get.

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

Block and forget

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How do you know it's her? Does she have face pics up, or do you know her well enough to recognise her from body pics?

I'd say nothing to him, but maybe consider contacting her and use her real name (if she doenst use it here) and see what response you get."

Bad idea, if it's her that would freak her out.

It could be a fake profile and she has no idea her pics are being used.

I'd message her and try to figure out if she is real and exists and is happily on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How do you know it's her? Does she have face pics up, or do you know her well enough to recognise her from body pics?

I'd say nothing to him, but maybe consider contacting her and use her real name (if she doenst use it here) and see what response you get."

Do you know how creepy that is? It's awful when it happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How do you know it's her? Does she have face pics up, or do you know her well enough to recognise her from body pics?

I'd say nothing to him, but maybe consider contacting her and use her real name (if she doenst use it here) and see what response you get.

Do you know how creepy that is? It's awful when it happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, in your profile you say you'd prefer not to be contacted by people who know you, maybe extend the same courtesy to the lady in question and maybe mind your own business. By outing her you are outing yourself

And she could be playing with permission

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Taking the advice of the majority it's a block and wipe from the memory, thanks all.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"OP, in your profile you say you'd prefer not to be contacted by people who know you, maybe extend the same courtesy to the lady in question and maybe mind your own business. By outing her you are outing yourself

And she could be playing with

permission"

Own business is minded, was just asking for a little advice is all as was rather unexpected.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

If you're concerned speak to her, why would you speak to him?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you know it’s not the Mr pretending to be Mrs?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Taking the advice of the majority it's a block and wipe from the memory, thanks all. "

I think that's a good call

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you're concerned speak to her, why would you speak to him?

They're married. Wives can only meet other men if their husband lets them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would you want to be told ? That’s the real question if you would then he should know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Say nothing. It won't end well, her choices have nothing to do with you

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Would you want to be told ? That’s the real question if you would then he should know

I personally think it's best to approach the actual person whose behaviour you have a problem with. Why would you talk to someone's partner about their behaviour rather than them?

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Carlisle

You could contact her and she may delete her profile if she thinks she’s been caught red handed - but just as likely to create a new one - block you and you’ll never know.

Part of me says stay out and part says to broach it with your mate especially if he finds out and then finds out you knew and didn’t say anything … minefield - don’t envy you!!

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By *instonandLadyAstorCouple
over a year ago

Not where we seem to be...

"Just come across a good friends wife on here, profile had a fair few pictures and also made out that she was single and not married..

Say nothing? Or somehow bring it to my friends attention?? "

Do you want to fuck her?

Just a feeling I get........

Winston

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

"How do you know it's her? Does she have face pics up, or do you know her well enough to recognise her from body pics?

I'd say nothing to him, but maybe consider contacting her and use her real name (if she doenst use it here) and see what response you get.

Bad idea, if it's her that would freak her out.

It could be a fake profile and she has no idea her pics are being used.

I'd message her and try to figure out if she is real and exists and is happily on here."

This ,can you be totally sure it's her otherwise ?.It makes sense to try and speak to her first and see if you can suss it out .

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall

If it was your wife, would you want your friend to tell you?

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall

"Would you want to be told ? That’s the real question if you would then he should know

I personally think it's best to approach the actual person whose behaviour you have a problem with. Why would you talk to someone's partner about their behaviour rather than them? "

Cos that’s what mates would do for each other.

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By *am450Man
over a year ago

North Kent/Greater London

There may be other reasons she's on here (could he have been unfaithful in the past?) The downside could easily outweigh the up??

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By *JstarsoloWoman
over a year ago

Wombwell, Barnsley

I'd stay out of it if I were you. You don't really know what's going on behind closed doors.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Would you want to be told ? That’s the real question if you would then he should know

I personally think it's best to approach the actual person whose behaviour you have a problem with. Why would you talk to someone's partner about their behaviour rather than them?

Cos that’s what mates would do for each other."

Interfere in their relationship without knowing the full story?

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