FabSwingers.com forum: Conversation killers

By *righton big OP Man
over a year ago

Brighton

So the first reply always seems simple.... but what return message kills the chat for you ? Or do you ladies just struggle to keep up with the messages

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

If they use a word I don't like, they're crass, come across entitled... Could be so many things.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes you can just tell it's not going to work can't you?

I tend to be quite... rubbish at replying. Unless I really like someone. And little things give me the ick, perhaps unfairly but often very justified.

Anyway, I'm going to focus on positives. Do you know what's very likely to make me want to reply to a person? If they use one of these.

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^ pure sex that.

And if there seems to be genuine interest in me as a person and not just the owner of a delightfully tight and multiorgasmic vagina.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Being called babe or darling. Instant turn off for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometimes you can just tell it's not going to work can't you?

I tend to be quite... rubbish at replying. Unless I really like someone. And little things give me the ick, perhaps unfairly but often very justified.

Anyway, I'm going to focus on positives. Do you know what's very likely to make me want to reply to a person? If they use one of these.

;

^ pure sex that.

And if there seems to be genuine interest in me as a person and not just the owner of a delightfully tight and multiorgasmic vagina.

You’re indeed a woman after my own heart Meli

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By *enriette and SamCouple
over a year ago

The Magic whip

If they mention how tight their vagina is.

Some women are just obsessed with their genitalia

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By *ena AmourTV/TS
over a year ago

Chard

Ladies, is it ok in a

way; or just in a sentence?

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By * lolita xWoman
over a year ago

North

Sex talk right away

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

"Sometimes you can just tell it's not going to work can't you?

I tend to be quite... rubbish at replying. Unless I really like someone. And little things give me the ick, perhaps unfairly but often very justified.

Anyway, I'm going to focus on positives. Do you know what's very likely to make me want to reply to a person? If they use one of these.

;

^ pure sex that.

And if there seems to be genuine interest in me as a person and not just the owner of a delightfully tight and multiorgasmic vagina.

I'm not even sure what a semicolon is for; pure sex seems reason enough to learn though.

Did I do it right?

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"Sometimes you can just tell it's not going to work can't you?

I tend to be quite... rubbish at replying. Unless I really like someone. And little things give me the ick, perhaps unfairly but often very justified.

Anyway, I'm going to focus on positives. Do you know what's very likely to make me want to reply to a person? If they use one of these.

;

^ pure sex that.

And if there seems to be genuine interest in me as a person and not just the owner of a delightfully tight and multiorgasmic vagina.

Meli! Spot on. I even have a ; tattoo now. Pure sex indeed

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Totnes

"Sometimes you can just tell it's not going to work can't you?

I tend to be quite... rubbish at replying. Unless I really like someone. And little things give me the ick, perhaps unfairly but often very justified.

Anyway, I'm going to focus on positives. Do you know what's very likely to make me want to reply to a person? If they use one of these.

;

^ pure sex that.

And if there seems to be genuine interest in me as a person and not just the owner of a delightfully tight and multiorgasmic vagina.

I'm not even sure what a semicolon is for; pure sex seems reason enough to learn though.

Did I do it right? "

That's very good

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By *ack688Man
over a year ago

abruzzo Italy (and UK)

One word answers. Ive come to accept that these come from people who aren’t interested in continuing the conversation, which is fine, but their experience of fab has taught them to not ignore and not say they aren’t interested because of the steaming pile of vile biliousness that pours out of too many mens keyboards, so they give one word replies until the other person just stops messaging. I don’t blame anyone for having that reaction, so it’s easier to just stop messaging at that point

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"If they mention how tight their vagina is.

Some women are just obsessed with their genitalia

Have you got that airbed all sorted now? I could give you a demo. Show you how easy it is to be obsessed with it.

(I'm so sorry, I think I'm going to be ovulating soon)

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

If they start going into some unlikely sexual fantasy. These usually turn out to be dreamers.

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By *enriette and SamCouple
over a year ago

The Magic whip

"If they mention how tight their vagina is.

Some women are just obsessed with their genitalia

Have you got that airbed all sorted now? I could give you a demo. Show you how easy it is to be obsessed with it.

(I'm so sorry, I think I'm going to be ovulating soon)"

See… obsessed.

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

"Sometimes you can just tell it's not going to work can't you?

I tend to be quite... rubbish at replying. Unless I really like someone. And little things give me the ick, perhaps unfairly but often very justified.

Anyway, I'm going to focus on positives. Do you know what's very likely to make me want to reply to a person? If they use one of these.

;

^ pure sex that.

And if there seems to be genuine interest in me as a person and not just the owner of a delightfully tight and multiorgasmic vagina.

I'm not even sure what a semicolon is for; pure sex seems reason enough to learn though.

Did I do it right?

That's very good

Nice

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

" Anyway, I'm going to focus on positives. Do you know what's very likely to make me want to reply to a person? If they use one of these.

;

^ pure sex that.

And if there seems to be genuine interest in me as a person and not just the owner of a delightfully tight and multiorgasmic vagina.

Meli! Spot on. I even have a ; tattoo now. Pure sex indeed

Oh you do? Gosh! That's so brilliant. Slight envy now.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"If they mention how tight their vagina is.

Some women are just obsessed with their genitalia

Have you got that airbed all sorted now? I could give you a demo. Show you how easy it is to be obsessed with it.

(I'm so sorry, I think I'm going to be ovulating soon)

See… obsessed.

Love you.

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

When it feels uneven; I write a few lines and get a few words back.

Happens to all of us sometimes of course but if it’s two or three times then that’s a sign of drying up or a mismatch if we can’t get into each other’s groove

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By *ewboyblueMan
over a year ago

Bournemouth

Don't know if this is the right forum, but I'd like my wife to play & suck off a guy with a really big cock. Is this wrong?

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Totnes

" Anyway, I'm going to focus on positives. Do you know what's very likely to make me want to reply to a person? If they use one of these.

;

^ pure sex that.

And if there seems to be genuine interest in me as a person and not just the owner of a delightfully tight and multiorgasmic vagina.

Meli! Spot on. I even have a ; tattoo now. Pure sex indeed

Oh you do? Gosh! That's so brilliant. Slight envy now.

How did you add the pulsating heart to your post ?

I appreciate it's off piste.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m soo petty I admit it, the simplest thing can give me the instant ick. What a Cunt I am

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

When it takes 3 months between messages

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By *enriette and SamCouple
over a year ago

The Magic whip

"If they mention how tight their vagina is.

Some women are just obsessed with their genitalia

Have you got that airbed all sorted now? I could give you a demo. Show you how easy it is to be obsessed with it.

(I'm so sorry, I think I'm going to be ovulating soon)

See… obsessed.

Love you."

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"When it takes 3 months between messages

I’m still waiting for some replies from 2 years ago

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By *enriette and SamCouple
over a year ago

The Magic whip

" Anyway, I'm going to focus on positives. Do you know what's very likely to make me want to reply to a person? If they use one of these.

;

^ pure sex that.

And if there seems to be genuine interest in me as a person and not just the owner of a delightfully tight and multiorgasmic vagina.

Meli! Spot on. I even have a ; tattoo now. Pure sex indeed

Oh you do? Gosh! That's so brilliant. Slight envy now.

How did you add the pulsating heart to your post ?

I appreciate it's off piste.

When you reply and quote you’ll see ( love ) but without the spaces.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A conversation killer for me is if l get monosyllabic answers ..one word answers ..to me it's just pure lazy and there and then it kills the conversation,but regardless of anything you know if the conversation is going to continue because it just flows .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometimes you can just tell it's not going to work can't you?

I tend to be quite... rubbish at replying. Unless I really like someone. And little things give me the ick, perhaps unfairly but often very justified.

Anyway, I'm going to focus on positives. Do you know what's very likely to make me want to reply to a person? If they use one of these.

;

^ pure sex that.

And if there seems to be genuine interest in me as a person and not just the owner of a delightfully tight and multiorgasmic vagina.

Wow..you own one ?.. jeez ..that sounds so beautiful

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

A perceived lack of effort and interest on the part of the person i’m talking to will kill a convo instantly. One word responses being the biggest driver of this.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"And if there seems to be genuine interest in me as a person and not just the owner of a delightfully tight and multiorgasmic vagina.

Wow..you own one ?.. jeez ..that sounds so beautiful

Thank you. You're fuelling my ego and obsession with myself.

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By *oeBeansMan
over a year ago

Derby

A two word reply. No chance am I carrying a conversation in the slight hope you're interested like a little lovesick puppy

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

You mean to say people have conversations on here

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

"When it takes 3 months between messages

I’m still waiting for some replies from 2 years ago

Keep at it, they are just playing hard to get. Play the long game son!

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"Sometimes you can just tell it's not going to work can't you?

I tend to be quite... rubbish at replying. Unless I really like someone. And little things give me the ick, perhaps unfairly but often very justified.

Anyway, I'm going to focus on positives. Do you know what's very likely to make me want to reply to a person? If they use one of these.

;

^ pure sex that.

And if there seems to be genuine interest in me as a person and not just the owner of a delightfully tight and multiorgasmic vagina.

You’re indeed a woman after my own heart Meli

You meant to say "You're indeed a woman; after my own heart, Meli."

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

One worded answers

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I don't have many conversations on here now. I'll lose interest if someone asks if I ever accommodate, or says they could pop over while my son is at work.

That's because I make it clear I don't accommodate.

Anything regarding people waking up or New World Order talk will make me hit block.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"One worded answers

Why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometimes you can just tell it's not going to work can't you?

I tend to be quite... rubbish at replying. Unless I really like someone. And little things give me the ick, perhaps unfairly but often very justified.

Anyway, I'm going to focus on positives. Do you know what's very likely to make me want to reply to a person? If they use one of these.

;

^ pure sex that.

And if there seems to be genuine interest in me as a person and not just the owner of a delightfully tight and multiorgasmic vagina.

You’re indeed a woman after my own heart Meli

You meant to say "You're indeed a woman; after my own heart, Meli."

Oh no, I meant: You are, indeed, a woman after my own heart, Meli.

Semi colon has no place in that sentence

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

One sided messages but expecting a social (would they even be able to hold a conversation??)

Only addressing one of us (this has happened both ways)

Asking for other forms of communication right away

Biggest one of all.....throwing toys out of the pram!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Calling me pet names, assumptions and demands, sex talk or asking for pics.

I also get the ick really easily.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Calling me by pet names , asking for more pictures when there’s already enough on our profile, no sense of humour and the “what are you into” question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sex talk right away"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a woman reply to me 'yeah when you free'

And that was when I realised it wasn't a woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Calling me by pet names , asking for more pictures when there’s already enough on our profile, no sense of humour and the “what are you into” question. "

Surely I broke all of those didn't I? I must have improved...

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Assuming we will meet because we've chatted

Any graphic descriptions of what they'd like to do or trying to turn the chat into sex talk .

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

I actually hate sex talk. It makes me cringe. When they're pushy or arrogant and just see woman as a sex toy, not as an equal

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By *red333Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"So the first reply always seems simple.... but what return message kills the chat for you ? Or do you ladies just struggle to keep up with the messages "
I'm feeling ill I have a headache a back ache and I can't stop coughing that usually does it for me

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By *osie xWoman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

Mmm

Instant conversation stopper for me. Especially if first few messages

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By *eatrice BadinageWoman
over a year ago

In a Sparkly Dress

When the chat turns to sexy after I've explicitly explained I don't want to do that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When the chat turns to sexy after I've explicitly explained I don't want to do that"

I was just going to say exactly this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had a woman reply to me 'yeah when you free'

And that was when I realised it wasn't a woman."

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By *idnight RamblerMan
over a year ago

Pershore

"I might have a free afternoon on 21st October" (it's now May).

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By *rtyIanMan
over a year ago

Gateway to the Beacons

What are these conversations you all talk of?

Have a great Friday all you lovely people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you're having a nice conversation and they say 'always wanted to fuck an older woman'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bookmarking this thread looking for answers.

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Totnes

"When you're having a nice conversation and they say 'always wanted to fuck an older woman'

Ditto but older man

I get that a lot .in my dreams

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

Chichester

When trey don’t even bother messaging with any meaning / point to you. I just stop replying immediately once you get a strained pointless message

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