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Distance increases Want.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is this true? Is convenience and being local to someone makes them less desirable?

I find myself attracted to almost everyone that’s long distance, and I’m thinking there’s a mathematical formula that increases someone’s sexual appeal the further away from me they are. Sa = D^ or something like that.

(*don’t tell my ex. )

The majority of those that were ever in my hot list were not in the north west. Odd.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Is that the old want what you cannot easily have...

In answer...No. I desire my far away partners as much as my localish ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer localish if I'm honest just because logistically it's a nightmare otherwise.

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By *istyPeaksCouple
over a year ago

braintree

My hot list is scattered far and wide

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Maybe it's because you're free to lust after the what ifs and the potential because you know it will never happen. There's no chance of them rejecting you or it not being what you wanked over the thought of so you can keep them up on that pedestal built of five finger shuffles and chubbys when you see a photo uploaded.

I do find if I see someone too often I lose interest quickly. Also, I don't want convenience fucks. It can get messy or addictive or both and I'd rather people lived at least 40 minutes away. :D

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"My hot list is scattered far and wide "
you ripped it up and threw it into the wind..... Nooooo

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Our two (regular) FWB’s live far away so maybe there’s some truth in that

K

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Distance lends enchantment or out if sight out if mind. You choose

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

*of

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No distance is torture,because when I want him I want him NOW grrrrr

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By *istyPeaksCouple
over a year ago

braintree


"My hot list is scattered far and wide you ripped it up and threw it into the wind..... Nooooo "

Sounds like me

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I love the distance....the excitement building with each mile that passes, the butterflies fluttering wildly the closer I get x

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"My hot list is scattered far and wide you ripped it up and threw it into the wind..... Nooooo

Sounds like me "
lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mean there’s someone I’ve wanted a loooooong time in the bloody north east. Couldn’t get much farther than that

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

I’m definitely not attracted to everyone far away, but if there are 100 women within 30 miles and I’m attracted to 1% of them, there will be 2000 women outside that distance and that 1% is a bigger number.

Damn you, awesome people!

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

My hotlist has some long distance hotties

There are an awful lot of hotties in the north west though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It just so happened that my favourite people were a million miles away, and I didnt really mind as obviously that means less attachment and silly business. But, surprisingly it doesnt, it just makes it a logistical nightmare when you want to see each other right now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think being unavailable definitely increases someone's sex appeal for some reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So many people that I'd love to meet live so far away. I don't think the distance makes them more appealing though. It's just how it is, logistical nightmares.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Distance is a bit like absence.

And absence makes the heart grow fonder apparently.

Whereas absinthe makes the heart go bang if you consume too much.

Never get the two confused.

A

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

Although I'm domiciled in London the world is not my oyster. The majority of people that I 'meet' and communicate with are, sadly, hundreds of miles away. Those persistent geographical disparities leave me nonplussed, but - for me - it has little bearing on sex appeal or desirability.

I rarely send the first message and those who reach out to me are often so far away.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Distance is a bit like absence.

And absence makes the heart grow fonder apparently.

Whereas absinthe makes the heart go bang if you consume too much.

Never get the two confused.

A"

I’m more of a espresso martini type of guy. Like, a pint of martini espresso… *true story.

I mean I’ve just called it the set of way round. So you know how this night has gone.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think being unavailable definitely increases someone's sex appeal for some reason"

I’m unavailable right now.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I mean there’s someone I’ve wanted a loooooong time in the bloody north east. Couldn’t get much farther than that "

Scotland?

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