FabSwingers.com forum: how to earn a blocking

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just looking through our blocked list and we have noticed that all have earned a block for being either..

abusive

entitled

creepy

What's other peoples criteria for a blocking?

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Just looking through our blocked list and we have noticed that all have earned a block for being either..

abusive

entitled

creepy

What's other peoples criteria for a blocking?"

Just not interested in ever meeting or chatting to them.

We proactively block either when browsing or going through messages.

Saves getting another message or them cropping up in a search a second time.

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By *mma1973Woman
over a year ago

just out of reach

"Just looking through our blocked list and we have noticed that all have earned a block for being either..

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entitled

creepy

What's other peoples criteria for a blocking?"

Know them IRL

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

I used to block if they blocked us but nit any more.

Now its just if they are intentionally rude to us.

Although I may end up blocking someone soon just to prove a point

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Evidence of incompatibility. I wouldn't want to go into further detail

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we say no thanks and they come back with why not or get arsey.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

"Evidence of incompatibility. I wouldn't want to go into further detail"

This. When you see some of the posts, mostly in the virus or politics forums, blocking is an easy decision.

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By *agerMorganMan
over a year ago

Canvey Island

Lack of profile information

Poor spelling

“Demands”

“Shopping list”

Yeah they’re all going on the block list, if you can’t take 5 minutes to type a profile out, 2 minutes to spell something correctly or your profile comes across as rude and full of demands or contains a shopping list of “I wants”, then they’re not worth 2 minutes of my time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes its the same more or less for us, we have blocked more and more recently due to abuse and nastiness? Also, if we're not interested in meeting whoever, we say so with a polite 'no thanks' but that doesn't sit well with many on here, so they end up blocked, it comes with the territory unfortunately )-:

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they send me a cock pic its an instant block. Other things to cause a block are if they ask if im free to meet tonight, just say "hi" or the worse one is "I know you are into women but I thought I would try my luck"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not taking no for an answer.

Abusive.

Describing “what they would do to me”

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By *agerMorganMan
over a year ago

Canvey Island

Lack of profile information

Poor spelling

“Demands”

“Shopping list”

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By *reat me rightWoman
over a year ago

Rotherham

Abusive

Clearly not read my profile (wanna meet now babe?)

Nowt on their profile

No face pic

Too far away

Previously met and it was meh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mainly block people who message that don’t meet my criteria or people who play the short game and stop talking after like 3 messages.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Too local

Don't like their face

Don't like their profile

Shitty messages

Cock pics

People we know

People we don't want to know.

Think that about covers it

Mrs

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

All of the above as well as those who struggle on facepic Friday because they are two-faced and aren't sure which one to send.

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By *ansexualPandaMan
over a year ago

Beds - all sorts of beds ;-)

Usually, it's from profiles with no public photos who enter my inbox with basic messages and then get the arse when I don't reply.

I've also blocked two people who regularly troll the forum with divisive and attention-baiting posts.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Abusive or counter blocking x

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By *outhwalesbbwWoman
over a year ago

Bridgend,sometimes hampshire

Sending a message,proving they havnt read my profile.

Sending abusive messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My block list is a mixture of abusive, weird (last guy I blocked told me he wishes I was his daughter), stalkerish, someone who is too hot to handle and gives me all the feelings. And I block every white man too, just a preference

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By *tarburst babydollMan
over a year ago

Dingwall

Abusive

Pushy

Clearly haven't read our profile

Being an arse on the forums

Folk that were meeting during lockdown

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Anything x rated in their intro message though I guess this could come under creepy. Especially if they go into detail!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block me please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fun

No real reason

Location

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Pests when I've said no thanks

Sending graphic messages or dick pics in a message.

Nasty rants on status about others or asking for balls emptying /BJ's constantly on them.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

"Block me please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Block me please

Pretty please?

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By *anilla-sinCouple
over a year ago

lancs

"Pests when I've said no thanks

Sending graphic messages or dick pics in a message.

Nasty rants on status about others or asking for balls emptying /BJ's constantly on them."

Ranting statuses for sure.. Or guys who always have ones like 'Balls are full, need a pussy, arse, or mouth to fill' [urgh]

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Abuse or nastiness mainly. Yeah, I'm bald and old, thanks

Otherwise, if something just feels wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only blocked lemonbutter because I'm diabetic

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Cock pics

We've never had an abusive or nasty message - perhaps they come exclusively from cock pic profiles . . . . ?

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By *ackandtheunicornCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

Hardly block anyone. Surprised people have the time tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Area whare they live

I don’t fab on my door step

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just looking through our blocked list and we have noticed that all have earned a block for being either..

abusive

entitled

creepy

What's other peoples criteria for a blocking?"

#Sending a friend request without even messaging first.

#People who don't make any effort to keep a conversation flowing.

# "couples" when only the male half sends messages and likes to meet alone!

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

Rarely block...but use the notes section on profiles extensively

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My block list is a mixture of abusive, weird (last guy I blocked told me he wishes I was his daughter), stalkerish, someone who is too hot to handle and gives me all the feelings. And I block every white man too, just a preference"

Thank you on behalf of the white men.

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By *izandpaulCouple
over a year ago

merseyside

Don't read profile.

One liners.

Forum posters, wouldn't want to meet.

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

The most harmless ones are, being too local, looking like an ex/family member or something like that and a fear or them knowing you in the real world.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Great responses everyone and you can see similar themes across the board

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven’t had to use the block button yet, Am I missing out?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Atm just those who pester

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just looking through our blocked list and we have noticed that all have earned a block for being either..

abusive

entitled

creepy

What's other peoples criteria for a blocking?"

If a person isn't interested for whatever reason , they can block .

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Disagree with a forumite and they block you. That’ll show em

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By *eautifully-TwistedWoman
over a year ago

Telford

I block if they are abusive, don't take no for an answer, send me a dick pic and tell what they want to do to me within their first message. I hate being made to feel like I'm just random genitals for someone to play with haha. Yes I'm here to meet like minded people for no strings fun; I'm a person not just a walking vagina

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*mass spans posters cock pics to get blocked *

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mass cock pics, calling me a fat slag because I refuse to meet and bad manners in general.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I block for all kinds of weird and wonderful reasons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be someone I know in the real world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mass cock pics, calling me a fat slag because I refuse to meet and bad manners in general.

I love the fat slag one, just tickles me bemusing, it used to take my breath away genuinely but thikus skinnus we acquire.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I message someone , they read and delete I block ..out of sight , out of mind . Move on :0)

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton

Not blocked anybody but I get blocked from saying hi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block for all kinds of different reasons. The main one is if somebody messages me and I'm just not interested in meeting them I will block. Everybody uses the block button differently, For some like me I just see it as another filter whereas for others people really have to go some for them to be blocked.

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By *ouple8889Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

Messaging again when original message is deleted unread

Abusive

Weird

What I'd do to your wife

Let me know when your free

How are you today

No photos/not verified

All of the above will result in a block. Despite our profile saying we will block if you message without reading the profile some escape this by sending a nice original message or making L laugh!

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