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By *lder A Wiser Passion OP   Woman
over a year ago

morecambe

Why on here are some folk doing it

Young people saying they are older

Older ones saying they are younger

its not on

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall


"Why on here are some folk doing it

Young people saying they are older

Older ones saying they are younger

its not on"

We all know you are only 49 really….

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By *lder A Wiser Passion OP   Woman
over a year ago

morecambe

im 51

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get it all the time from guys the last one states he’s 37 on he’s profile them admits he’s only 30

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People lie to get a fuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think it matters hugely, unless they are lying by about 20/30 years!

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By *red333Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"I don't think it matters hugely, unless they are lying by about 20/30 years! "
exactly age is a number some are ageless some age disgracefully and some are old

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dammit I've been sussed. Because I can is the answer.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

To get past peoples filters mainly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because I'm only 7!

Jokes I am very much not lying and don't understand it either

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

I'd never get a shag if people knew I was actually fifty-seven!

LvM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Might change my age to 27 tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't get what the issue is about age. Dishonest pics I get, but if I say I'm 30 and I'm really 50 but look exactly like my pics, what is the issue? Everyone says it's all about connection and personality blah fucking blah... that's a lie then because if that were the case, age shouldn't matter.

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

if its a year here or there then i understand but there are 1,000s on here lying by 10 or 20 yesrs easy some even more we know of one persone whos in his early 80s yet his profile states hes 51 but thankfully they are easy to spot and those that try to fool you with old pics that turn up looking nothing like well thats easy we aint playing bye bye thats the main problem they lie about age and then send old pics

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World

To bypass filters which in itself is out of order

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By *ustamanMan
over a year ago

weymouth

I'm 25

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Same reason people use filters; use pics taken from Twitter accounts; or lie about their job or past jobs.

To make themselves seem more attractive than they are.

Some do it for anonymity and to get through age filters too.

Some people think they look years younger than their actual age.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"Don't get what the issue is about age. Dishonest pics I get, but if I say I'm 30 and I'm really 50 but look exactly like my pics, what is the issue? Everyone says it's all about connection and personality blah fucking blah... that's a lie then because if that were the case, age shouldn't matter. "

In my experience 30 year olds are much different to 50 year olds; no matter how much they kid themselves they aren't.

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By *an4funMan
over a year ago

london


"if its a year here or there then i understand but there are 1,000s on here lying by 10 or 20 yesrs easy some even more we know of one persone whos in his early 80s yet his profile states hes 51 but thankfully they are easy to spot and those that try to fool you with old pics that turn up looking nothing like well thats easy we aint playing bye bye thats the main problem they lie about age and then send old pics"

The 1980s haircut and clothes are usually an indicator

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its the age you feel!

and if verified well done- got away with it!

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By *anae21Woman
over a year ago

Nearer than you think

It makes me a bit cross. I don't believe its necessary and I'll end conversation if I find out their age is wildly inaccurate.

A "bit cross" is all though. I won't lose sleep over a bloke's insecurities

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It makes me a bit cross. I don't believe its necessary and I'll end conversation if I find out their age is wildly inaccurate.

A "bit cross" is all though. I won't lose sleep over a bloke's insecurities "

what about a woman's?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't get what the issue is about age. Dishonest pics I get, but if I say I'm 30 and I'm really 50 but look exactly like my pics, what is the issue? Everyone says it's all about connection and personality blah fucking blah... that's a lie then because if that were the case, age shouldn't matter.

In my experience 30 year olds are much different to 50 year olds; no matter how much they kid themselves they aren't.

"

Some are. But on here surely you chat to people before deciding if you want to meet so you'd be put off by that if that were the case?

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By *arkcrystalMan
over a year ago

Bristol

I'm really 69

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

well said,,

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By *exy4youxxWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract

This is why I only meet in clubs if I find a spark really don't care the age x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is why I only meet in clubs if I find a spark really don't care the age x "

exactly

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

it depends couple of years here and there ok,, but 10,, 20 thats a bit naughty

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World

Some of us won't meet people a lot older than ourselves as it's too close to our own parents ages as well.

Prime example being messaged previously by a guy who said he was 52 when he was actually 65, my parents aren't even 65 yet!

To me it puts me right off.....

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By *anae21Woman
over a year ago

Nearer than you think


"It makes me a bit cross. I don't believe its necessary and I'll end conversation if I find out their age is wildly inaccurate.

A "bit cross" is all though. I won't lose sleep over a bloke's insecurities

what about a woman's?"

I don't have conversations like that with women on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lying*

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

There's really not that many folk who can get away with stretching the truth by a year or two

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People don’t just lie about age, some say they are single when they’re not, non-smokers who clearly smoke blah blah

All they want is a fuck basically!

I FaceTime everyone before I’d even consider meeting them, if they refuse or make excuses - it’s a ‘No’ from me!

I agree with the others, clubs are better, age really isn’t an issue if the attraction is there!

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"To get past peoples filters mainly "

This

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

People who don't use accurate ages fall into three camps generally.

Those that knock 5-10 (or more) years off because they think people aren't interested in folk their age and they want to appeal to a younger market.

Those who do it just to get around filters, whether a year or two or more.

Those that make minor adjustments for discretion purposes to distance themselves from the real them.

Two of those are doing it to be deliberately disingenuous. One isn't really doing any harm.

Line up any 10 people in each age bracket - 20's, 30's, 40's, 50's, 60's and 70's - and then try to accurately put them in exact age order.

I'd put a sizeable sum against anyone guessing the correct ages of all.

And as has been said. I've never known anyone ask anyone their age in a club or group social environment. It would be an interesting experiment to take ages off all profiles on here and just let people decide if they're attracted to someone or not......

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually get told a lot I look younger (which I love) but I am actually 39 and willing to prove it if asked

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By *unfriendly 123Man
over a year ago

boston

Your ad old as you feel

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