FabSwingers.com forum: Judgemental

By *bc_welsh OP Man
over a year ago

Nottingham

I think its fair to say there as so many people on this app trying to look down on people talking about their pasthe experiencea and trying to paint narratives.

The amount of things I've seen were people think the have the morale high ground and I know what they do behind closed doors

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cool

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By *eatrice BadinageWoman
over a year ago

In a Sparkly Dress

It's a public forum...opinions are asked for so opinions are given.

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By *bc_welsh OP Man
over a year ago

Nottingham

"It's a public forum...opinions are asked for so opinions are given.

I agree but I've seen people talk about some different things and people judge yet they do worst behind closed door

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By *iss mischief 666Woman
over a year ago

the middle of nowhere!

The amount of things I've seen were people think the have the morale high ground and I know what they do behind closed doors

Shite..... did I forget to close it properly again last night??

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

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By * lolita xWoman
over a year ago

North

"It's a public forum...opinions are asked for so opinions are given.

I agree but I've seen people talk about some different things and people judge yet they do worst behind closed door"

And how do you know this lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The amount of things I've seen were people think the have the morale high ground and I know what they do behind closed doors

Shite..... did I forget to close it properly again last night??

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By *bc_welsh OP Man
over a year ago

Nottingham

"It's a public forum...opinions are asked for so opinions are given.

I agree but I've seen people talk about some different things and people judge yet they do worst behind closed door

And how do you know this lol"

Because I know some the people posting

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Human nature. Often people hold others to higher standards than they maintain themselves

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

"I think its fair to say there as so many people on this app trying to look down on people talking about their pasthe experiencea and trying to paint narratives.

The amount of things I've seen were people think the have the morale high ground and I know what they do behind closed doors

That’s why I have blackout blinds…

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By *queakyclean69erCouple
over a year ago

Torquay / Fleet

Nearly as bad as people listing themselves as “ Professional “

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's a public forum...opinions are asked for so opinions are given.

I agree but I've seen people talk about some different things and people judge yet they do worst behind closed door

And how do you know this lol

Because I know some the people posting "

But, aren’t you judging them for their judging?

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By *bc_welsh OP Man
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Human nature. Often people hold others to higher standards than they maintain themselves "

Precisely

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By *bc_welsh OP Man
over a year ago

Nottingham

"It's a public forum...opinions are asked for so opinions are given.

I agree but I've seen people talk about some different things and people judge yet they do worst behind closed door

And how do you know this lol

Because I know some the people posting

But, aren’t you judging them for their judging?"

I dont judge people. I just find it hipper critical

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By * lolita xWoman
over a year ago

North

Id mind your own business op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's a public forum...opinions are asked for so opinions are given.

I agree but I've seen people talk about some different things and people judge yet they do worst behind closed door

And how do you know this lol

Because I know some the people posting "

So your judging theor hypocrisy.

See we all like a good judging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's a public forum...opinions are asked for so opinions are given.

I agree but I've seen people talk about some different things and people judge yet they do worst behind closed door

And how do you know this lol

Because I know some the people posting

But, aren’t you judging them for their judging?

I dont judge people. I just find it hipper critical "

My new favourite word...

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By *red333Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"It's a public forum...opinions are asked for so opinions are given.

I agree but I've seen people talk about some different things and people judge yet they do worst behind closed door

And how do you know this lol

Because I know some the people posting

But, aren’t you judging them for their judging?

I dont judge people. I just find it hipper critical

My new favourite word..."
find?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Judging is something we all do. I doubt there's one person who hasn't been judgemental in a bad or good way towards other people.

I do it, I'm happy to admit that I do. If a guy in dark clothing with a scarf pulled up round his face follows me in an unlit street I'm judging him to be a risk and getting the hell out

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By *red333Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"It's a public forum...opinions are asked for so opinions are given.

I agree but I've seen people talk about some different things and people judge yet they do worst behind closed door

And how do you know this lol

Because I know some the people posting

But, aren’t you judging them for their judging?

I dont judge people. I just find it hipper critical "
were you trying to say hyper critical

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

"It's a public forum...opinions are asked for so opinions are given.

I agree but I've seen people talk about some different things and people judge yet they do worst behind closed door

And how do you know this lol

Because I know some the people posting

But, aren’t you judging them for their judging?"

Look, it's perfectly clear. It's no judgement, except where there's judgement on others passing judgement, and that's the final judgement.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's a public forum...opinions are asked for so opinions are given.

I agree but I've seen people talk about some different things and people judge yet they do worst behind closed door

And how do you know this lol

Because I know some the people posting

But, aren’t you judging them for their judging?

Look, it's perfectly clear. It's no judgement, except where there's judgement on others passing judgement, and that's the final judgement."
hey! Don’t judge me

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By *iss FuegoWoman
over a year ago

Wherever I lay my hat - Albania

"It's a public forum...opinions are asked for so opinions are given.

I agree but I've seen people talk about some different things and people judge yet they do worst behind closed door

And how do you know this lol

Because I know some the people posting

But, aren’t you judging them for their judging?

I dont judge people. I just find it hipper critical

My new favourite word..."

Hipper critical.... What like critical but trendier?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Let's not criticise people's spelling. It was obvious what the op meant and not everyone finds spelling easy.

Especially ironic on a thread about judging

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

If it doesn’t affect you personally, then leave it alone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think its fair to say there as so many people on this app trying to look down on people talking about their pasthe experiencea and trying to paint narratives.

The amount of things I've seen were people think the have the morale high ground and I know what they do behind closed doors

It happens on every social network tbh , the main thing is do not let it bother you one bit ,if you feel people are judgmental let them off do not feel you are in any competition with them , life is way too short to get involved with anything like that , even as regards Music you have those that think they are the best fans in the World ..what do l do ?..l let them off and let them think whatever way they think,don't ever get caught up in their way of thinking.

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By *bc_welsh OP Man
over a year ago

Nottingham

"I think its fair to say there as so many people on this app trying to look down on people talking about their pasthe experiencea and trying to paint narratives.

The amount of things I've seen were people think the have the morale high ground and I know what they do behind closed doors

Appreciate the words

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By *ansexualPandaMan
over a year ago

Beds - all sorts of beds ;-)

As Esther Rantzen often said That's life!

It's the times we live in OP. People probably thought like this and even gossiped in private about such things before the explosion of social media. These days in an open forum where people can choose varying degrees of anonymity, such things will happen.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"I think its fair to say there as so many people on this app trying to look down on people talking about their pasthe experiencea and trying to paint narratives.

The amount of things I've seen were people think the have the morale high ground and I know what they do behind closed doors

What is it you know, come on spill the beans..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A wise man once said if you don't want to know the answer, don't ask the question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do what I say not what I do man!!

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Yes I am!

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Agree! I might b shocked by some stuff but hope I don't come across judgemental x

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By *bc_welsh OP Man
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Agree! I might b shocked by some stuff but hope I don't come across judgemental x"

No you don't hun x

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

"Agree! I might b shocked by some stuff but hope I don't come across judgemental x

No you don't hun x"

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

"I think its fair to say there as so many people on this app trying to look down on people talking about their pasthe experiencea and trying to paint narratives.

The amount of things I've seen were people think the have the morale high ground and I know what they do behind closed doors

Why are you bothered what others do. Jeez

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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago

Not all that North of North London

We all like to be judged positively.

We all judge people.

It's human nature.

How you react to negative judgement is sonething only you can control

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

"It's a public forum...opinions are asked for so opinions are given.

I agree but I've seen people talk about some different things and people judge yet they do worst behind closed door"

But, you're passing judgement on them - did you not realise?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this you judging judgy people i ask hmmm

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

It’s human nature to judge isn’t it? I judge and quite comfortable with that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look, so what people still like to grab a hairbrush and mime along to Justin Bieber behind closed doors. It doesn't mean they can't have opinions too.

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By *tooveMan
over a year ago

belfast

"It's a public forum...opinions are asked for so opinions are given.

I agree but I've seen people talk about some different things and people judge yet they do worst behind closed door

And how do you know this lol

Because I know some the people posting

But, aren’t you judging them for their judging?

I dont judge people. I just find it hipper critical were you trying to say hyper critical

More likely hypocritical.

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By *ose and her beastCouple
over a year ago

Watford

"It's a public forum...opinions are asked for so opinions are given.

I agree but I've seen people talk about some different things and people judge yet they do worst behind closed door

And how do you know this lol

Because I know some the people posting

But, aren’t you judging them for their judging?

I dont judge people. I just find it hipper critical "

That's judgement chief

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