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Is Saturday night the new Saturday night yet?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Does anyone still go out on a weekend anymore? I’m finding myself in a strange place where nobody seems to want to go out of a weekend.

If you do go out, is it a quite pub? Club? Casino?

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I only tend to go out to the pub when ma mate texts me, which could be anytime

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Occasionally to a club or out with friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fridays always seems to be busier than Saturdays, unless you go out-out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try to go out as much as I can. That said I work all day Sundays so if I am travelling a good distance it needs to be a Friday. Saturday nights I have to remain local due to the early start the next day.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Fridays always seems to be busier than Saturdays, unless you go out-out!"

This is what I’m talking about. Going out-out.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Fridays always seems to be busier than Saturdays, unless you go out-out!

This is what I’m talking about. Going out-out. "

With Micky Flanagan

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By *JB1954Man
over a year ago

Reading

Not a chance where I live. All the local pubs are now closed. Flats , shops now. Only place is go into town centre. I am not one for trying to find a decent place to drink and if people around my age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Saturday nights are crap up here now full of under age drinkers

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not a chance where I live. All the local pubs are now closed. Flats , shops now. Only place is go into town centre. I am not one for trying to find a decent place to drink and if people around my age "

Do you feel old when you go out. I did once, it was funny. I felt someone was going to ask if I was a manager or something.

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By *red333Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Does anyone still go out on a weekend anymore? I’m finding myself in a strange place where nobody seems to want to go out of a weekend.

If you do go out, is it a quite pub? Club? Casino? "
I go out every night

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath


"Does anyone still go out on a weekend anymore? I’m finding myself in a strange place where nobody seems to want to go out of a weekend.

If you do go out, is it a quite pub? Club? Casino? "

In that case I just go out alone. lol! I make my own fun, trust me.

I went to the Hellfire Swingers club. and had a lot of fun in the cage on the stage last saturday.

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By *KG12Couple
over a year ago

Burnley

We go to the local if and whe we go out on a Saturday. Unless its a a night out with work, then venture into town

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath


"Not a chance where I live. All the local pubs are now closed. Flats , shops now. Only place is go into town centre. I am not one for trying to find a decent place to drink and if people around my age

Do you feel old when you go out. I did once, it was funny. I felt someone was going to ask if I was a manager or something. "

I didn't feel too old at the swingers' clubs. Lol! there's always someone who looks older than me. Lol!

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By *red333Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Not a chance where I live. All the local pubs are now closed. Flats , shops now. Only place is go into town centre. I am not one for trying to find a decent place to drink and if people around my age

Do you feel old when you go out. I did once, it was funny. I felt someone was going to ask if I was a manager or something.

I didn't feel too old at the swingers' clubs. Lol! there's always someone who looks older than me. Lol!"
you don't look old!!

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

I work in a “going out venue” , the demography of our clientele has drastically changed in the last year. Still busy but a much younger customer base.

I have a few opinions on the matter

- cost of living , the youngsters have less bills more disposable income.

- During Covid , it’s lockdowns and it’s farcical semi-lockdowns, grownups have got used to entertain at home .

- For the best part of 18 months , the coming of age kids didn’t get the opportunity to experience the all “going out” thing and they’re still making up for it.

- Taxis … there’s a shortage, the mature population generally prefers to know that they’ll get home within a reasonable time scale rather than queue for 2 hours .

Many over 30 who pre Covid went out weekly are now out about once a month, amongst other things most resent the 18/20 years old invasion .

There’s also the loss of the Europeans who opted to go home for good, whether because of the pandemic or Brexit.

All in all the “going out” landscape, I feel , has drastically changed and for me an evening out is now mostly dinner out with the very occasional clubbing night thrown in

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath


"Not a chance where I live. All the local pubs are now closed. Flats , shops now. Only place is go into town centre. I am not one for trying to find a decent place to drink and if people around my age

Do you feel old when you go out. I did once, it was funny. I felt someone was going to ask if I was a manager or something.

I didn't feel too old at the swingers' clubs. Lol! there's always someone who looks older than me. Lol!you don't look old!! "

tell that to my body when i'm trying to outrun the 20 year olds at work and at 5 a side.

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By *eatrice BadinageWoman
over a year ago

In a Sparkly Dress

Yep I'm out most weekends visiting friends around the country

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath


"Yep I'm out most weekends visiting friends around the country "

Great...like a uni student again. Lol!

majority of my friends are still having a middle-aged crisis.

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By *ady23Woman
over a year ago

Coventry


"Does anyone still go out on a weekend anymore? I’m finding myself in a strange place where nobody seems to want to go out of a weekend.

If you do go out, is it a quite pub? Club? Casino? "
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Sometimes we go out but a lot of Saturday's we stay in in. If we go out we tend to go to clubs or out for a curry if we stayed in in it's movie night and nibbles or just really naughty night

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath


"I work in a “going out venue” , the demography of our clientele has drastically changed in the last year. Still busy but a much younger customer base.

I have a few opinions on the matter

- cost of living , the youngsters have less bills more disposable income.

- During Covid , it’s lockdowns and it’s farcical semi-lockdowns, grownups have got used to entertain at home .

- For the best part of 18 months , the coming of age kids didn’t get the opportunity to experience the all “going out” thing and they’re still making up for it.

- Taxis … there’s a shortage, the mature population generally prefers to know that they’ll get home within a reasonable time scale rather than queue for 2 hours .

Many over 30 who pre Covid went out weekly are now out about once a month, amongst other things most resent the 18/20 years old invasion .

There’s also the loss of the Europeans who opted to go home for good, whether because of the pandemic or Brexit.

All in all the “going out” landscape, I feel , has drastically changed and for me an evening out is now mostly dinner out with the very occasional clubbing night thrown in "

All systems are still a go in London. More expensive maybe but not stopping Londoners and those who come to London to visit or to stay.

London is still open for business, pleasure, free events, indoors, outdoors locals and tourists

We had some restaunrants close in my 5 mile radius but then we had some more re-open to take their place so....not much change in venues at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love going to bars on a Saturday night

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yep I'm out most weekends visiting friends around the country

Great...like a uni student again. Lol!

majority of my friends are still having a middle-aged crisis."

This is my midlife crisis. *cries.

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath


"Yep I'm out most weekends visiting friends around the country

Great...like a uni student again. Lol!

majority of my friends are still having a middle-aged crisis.

This is my midlife crisis. *cries. "

Aww hugs. If it's any consolation I had a terrible crisis before my 32nd birthday, ended up in HDU and the psych hospital....

So as long as it isn't as bad as that, you are good and if it is as bad as that, I got help and I'm still here standing/fucking/hiding under my weighted blanket.

My friends' midlife crisis comes from children ( the little buggers), ok no more accurately parenting, relationship breakdowns, f-ing cost of living, generally feeling like they have no control over their lives (or their children's futures) and they have no joy, fun or relaxation.

I'm not a parent, I live like a cheap skate, I've been out of a relationship for 9 years, I no longer GAF about shit I can't control and I force myself to have joy, fun and relaxation ( otherwise it will be another ambulance call out and I don't fancy being sectioned again/ever).

I know it's a bit different when you live in London....there's always something going on for entertainment/leisure/fun/relaxation -wise and some of it is free so no worries about shelling out loads of money.

I think last year I rocked up to a random church ( yes I'm a swinging churchgoer) on Regent street, just to hear the carol service and got give free non-alcoholic mulled wine and mince pies. All I was expecting was to sing a few carols from my childhood in an empty church. It was 100 times better than I thought it would be.

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By *ose and her beastCouple
over a year ago

Watford

Wtf is a weekend?

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath


"Wtf is a weekend?"

that thing in the week, where I'm usually at work but once a month or so I get to wild out and then go back to my vanilla, anally retentive "normal " life. Lol!

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